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Linda467
Joined: 01 Sep 2009 Posts: 138 Location: A Secret
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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VS
I like you so, I�ll clarify........... I withdraw the first offer I had because I couldn�t wait any longer and I�m not paranoid neither afraid re: transport, I�m just very cautious because even if I am the shy type I attract a lot of attention because of my looks that have to do a lot with an extremely healthy way of living (non-smoker, non drinker, regular exercise, healthy diet, a happy go lucky, etc.,) a total bore ...........
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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| re: transport, I�m just very cautious because even if I am the shy type I attract a lot of attention because of my looks |
Just a point: all women attract a lot of attention in KSA, especially if they go out alone. It's not usually threatening, but it can be tiresome. Also, it makes precious little difference if you're a Plain Jane or if you're Charlize Theron's twin sister. Seriously. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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I suppose that I could describe myself the same (though likely much older than you ) but... I'm not terribly shy. I drew obscene amounts of attention in the Gulf because with my Scandinavian/German/English heredity, I am very light skinned with what they call "blond" hair (I would call it light brown) and blue eyes. It is just a fact of life in this part of the world and has little to do with your health or personal habits or weight or age. It is all a matter of being different.
That said, it is merely a bore and almost never dangerous... if you are referring to taxis from the other thread, it isn't that big a deal... use them whenever you need them. Don't let yourself be a prisoner!!
VS
(Hi Cleo... we're synchronized posting again) |
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Kalima Shahada

Joined: 11 Sep 2009 Posts: 198 Location: I live in a house, but my home is in the stable.
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 5:49 pm Post subject: |
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The key is to do what NCTBA did... get out of Saudi. If you have an MA or PhD, you have many more countries to choose from...
VS |
VS, correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't you say you've never worked in Saudi? Have you ever even been there? Are you just going by what people say, especially on these forums? If so, I think that's really unfair.
Some people happen to love Saudi. Personally speaking, the Saudi people (as well as the perm. Arab expats. there) have been some of the most hospitable, gracious and welcoming people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting in my lifetime. I miss them tremendously! PhD or no PhD, I would return. Insh'Allah, I will! If not with ISM/EDEX, perhaps with another employer. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:00 pm Post subject: |
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I've never claimed to have been in Saudi and have been very clear as to why not. Yes, I have a few friends, like Cleo and John and Scot, who like(d) it there, but for each of them I have had a dozen more friends who were there and would never go back under any circumstances. I have enough experience in the Middle East (1985-2001) and the Gulf, not to mention the maturity to know what I like and dislike. I don't like being told what to wear in public and that I can't drive a car.
The problem is that most of the newbies that post on here need information... and most definitely not just from the people who liked it. That would be most unfair.
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:01 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Kalima Shahada,
"Some people happen to love Saudi."
I spent nineteen years in the Kingdom. During that time I believe I had one colleague who likely "loved Saudi." He was an Iraqi Ph.D who, given the conditions in his native land, was VERY happy to be in the Kingdom.
Don't get me wrong; I actually (mostly) enjoyed my time there; I made some very good Saudi friends (we're still in contact though I left in 2003), and I was happy with my job.
But even I wouldn't say that I LOVED the country.
What VS is saying is that, if someone wants to work in the Middle East and earn a very good salary, then there are other places that almost all "westerners" would consider to be more congenial: the UAE, Qatar, even Oman (although the salaries there are usually not as good, the environment is very congenial)
And while it's true that VS has never been to the Kingdom, she has lived and worked extensively in the Middle East. And I, for one, have never found any comment she has made about Saudi Arabia to be "off the mark."
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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| if someone wants to work in the Middle East and earn a very good salary, then there are other places that almost all "westerners" would consider to be more congenial: the UAE, Qatar, even Oman |
While that may or may not be so, how relevant is it to this particular discussion? I don't think anyone on this thread asked for general opinions as to the subjective desirability of, say, KSA vs. the UAE. These questions are asked from time to time - but they haven't been asked on this thread. If someone has already accepted a job in KSA and is involved in the visa application process, it's not particularly helpful to tell them that, in your opinion, they might be better off in Qatar.
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| But even I wouldn't say that I LOVED the country. |
I wouldn't say I do either, and I don't know many people who would. But we don't go to KSA for a holiday, we go there to work and to save money. KSA has to be seen in that context, and when viewed this way, I can say that I know very many people who would say that, all things considered, it's not at all a bad deal. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Cleopatra,
Don't know if you've read all the thread, but I was replying to a quote on this thread from VS:
"The key is to do what NCTBA did... get out of Saudi. If you have an MA or PhD, you have many more countries to choose from..."
made on this thread by Kalina Shahada, who added this comment:
"VS, correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't you say you've never worked in Saudi? Have you ever even been there? Are you just going by what people say, especially on these forums? If so, I think that's really unfair.
Some people happen to love Saudi. Personally speaking, the Saudi people (as well as the perm. Arab expats. there) have been some of the most hospitable, gracious and welcoming people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting in my lifetime. I miss them tremendously! PhD or no PhD, I would return. Insh'Allah, I will! If not with ISM/EDEX, perhaps with another employer."
Sorry - but that's why I thought it was relevant to this particular discussion
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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NCTBA,
Correct me if I'm wrong, but after reading your posts, it seems that you did indeed 'update' your 'cred' and yet you were still abused. You aren't even in Saudi anymore and you say you are being treated much better.
Look, I've known people with PhDs who've been 'abused' in Saudi. I mean how much more can a person update past their doctorate?! Fact of the matter is, unless your surname is Al Saud, you will be abused sooner or later. Even being a member of the Al Saud family is not in and of itself a get-out-of-abuse free card. So if you think that just updating your credentials will save you, you are either in denial or delusional. Either that or you need to step down from off your high horse and get a grip. |
Could you tell me the name of what you've been smoking so I can order it the next time I'm in A'Dam? Another poster got into it a while ago when a false reality about me being kicked out or banned from the kingdom (I forget which) was under construction. This is the kind of post that I will immediately fly into.
When did I ever claim that I was abused in saudi by saudis? Except for my first year I ALWAYS worked for blue-chip companies that kept me, thankfully, insulated from saudi abuse. I saw and heard of the abuse of the less fortunate. The truth be known, my main antagonizer was a Scotsman who poorly represented his country and Scots alike. (Hi, Dave S.! It's me!)
As VS said later, that the key to me was getting out of saudi and working for a system which treats employees in a fair manner (IMHO...by the way, did I ever mention that I love my boss? Love ya, J!).
Get off my high horse? Where did that come from? How am I on a "high horse" or are you like that loser that I worked with in Jeddah who graduated from UCLA with his initial degree and resented us others who got real with their careers and improved ourselves?
Well, sir (possibly)? I am looking for your evidence of my complaining of being abused! I await your convincing reply!
NCTBA! |
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Linda467
Joined: 01 Sep 2009 Posts: 138 Location: A Secret
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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Hi there,
I�m most likely flying out Thursday and I just cannot believe what people write, so highly uncivilized, unfair, picky, unrespectful, totally out of line and just plain awful with other "colleagues" that I honestly think I will stick to my books and needle work - I am on a totally different league
Nothing to do with you NCTBA or the rest of the vets, thanks again for your help and information.
Trap, my pals already got the message about the ice cream
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:30 pm Post subject: |
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Glad to hear that you're "back on line", Linda. My hope for your success in saudi is boundless...
NCTBA |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Linda467,
Actually, my colleagues in Saudi (with one exception - but he was a whacko very right-wing Republican who, at home, liked to ride around as a police "auxiliary" in patrol cars, which might explain a lot) were the best bunch of professional educators I've ever had the pleasure of working with.
May you be as blessed.
Regards,
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dareva
Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 74 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 3:12 pm Post subject: IMS update |
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Back to the original topic of this thread - IMS update.
I received the group email that everyone else has plus I received one that wanted to double check some information because, they said, my visa was being processed. From the tone of the emial, IMS seemed apologetic and stressed over this delay, no doubt they're losing out just as we are on this, and I get the impression that they're working their butts off to get us all there asap. No doubt, the fact that some people had to withdraw (probably more out of necessity than impatience), has put them in a difficult position. I'm lucky, because I'm staying rent free with some relatives and that helped me to hang in there. If it turns out that IMS does not have enough teachers and we are asked to do extra work - I'll deal with that when and if I have to. I'm still looking forward to going because, although money is the primary drawcard, living in a vastly different culture and experiencing it first hand comes a close second. For those of you who were able to hang in there (esp those going to KAU), I look forward to seeing you in KSA - soon...
And another update is that we got another email saying that King Abdulla has postponed university commencement dates until October 31 - although there seems to little clarity on the reason. In the last two days I've received 4 emails from IMS - so they're definately on the case.  |
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jackandrose
Joined: 19 Aug 2009 Posts: 16 Location: The world....
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Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 3:27 pm Post subject: |
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dareva..thnk you for the positive input, I believe all will work out on the end.
Did they say anything about the flight tickets ( date )? I assume we will all leave more or less the same time to be there on the same day??
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dareva
Joined: 25 Aug 2009 Posts: 74 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2009 4:14 pm Post subject: ism update |
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They didn't say anything about the flight dates other than what was said in the group email - which is, that they expect us to leave for KSA 7-10 days after we receive the MOFA letter (to give us time to get the visa issued). I doubt, going by that, that everyone will be leaving at the same time. Visas seem to be coming in batches and people are leaving from different places. For instance, I'm leaving from Croatia and I don't think they'll be any other teachers going with me. When I get the MOFA letter I'll be putting the same question to IMS. If I find out anything concrete, I'll post it (or if you do, hope you'll do the same ) |
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