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flyingscotsman

Joined: 24 Mar 2010 Posts: 339 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 1:13 am Post subject: |
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*Must be a beautiful place to live
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umm are you sure China is the right country for you Bubba?
Beauty and China maybe don't go together in all ways. |
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Mister Al

Joined: 28 Jun 2004 Posts: 840 Location: In there
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 6:49 am Post subject: |
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You also need to look at the visa issue. What kind of visa will she have? If it is a tourist visa then she's going to need to exit and reneter frequently so it will be a serious issue. Are they going to give her a resident permit ?
if not then she cant stay a long time.
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If he has a legal job with an RP his wife will get an RP as well...........as his dependent. |
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Humbug
Joined: 05 Jan 2009 Posts: 18 Location: Australia
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 11:13 am Post subject: |
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| I agree with CarlD26, Yangshuo would be an ideal place for someone in your situation. My husband and I have just returned from 6 months teaching there and had a great time. We lived on the edge of town (only 10 mins ride to the centre of town) and went riding in the countryside every weekend. There are a number of language schools there and although the pay is fairly low we found that it was plenty to live on. If you wife can't find a paying job there are opportunities to do voluntary teaching in the village schools which would at least keep her from being bored and also give her some experience in teaching. Don't believe all the things you read on forums about ESL teaching in Yangshuo. Life is what you make it and we had a great experience there. Go for it! |
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CarlD26
Joined: 03 Feb 2011 Posts: 27
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| flyingscotsman wrote: |
| wjreaves wrote: |
*Must be a beautiful place to live
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umm are you sure China is the right country for you Bubba?
Beauty and China maybe don't go together in all ways. |
You're kidding me, right? China has some of the most beautiful natural scenery in the world! Do I even need to make a list? But I guess I am different because I actually moved around and saw a lot of it... |
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wjreaves
Joined: 21 Jan 2011 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 4:24 pm Post subject: |
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You guys are great!
To answer some of the questions asked me , we do in fact ride bikes and Yangshuo (might have spelled that wrong) looks like a good spot to have a foot in both worlds if you will.
I am getting excited about my trip and will be back for more questions shortly... |
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CarlD26
Joined: 03 Feb 2011 Posts: 27
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Awesome! Keep us updated and good luck! China has some beautiful places, just go out and start exploring! |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 6:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Wasn't the OP about finding jobs? |
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CarlD26
Joined: 03 Feb 2011 Posts: 27
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Posted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes, about finding jobs..in a Beautiful place. One must explore to find their desired region/area, no? Especially when aesthetics are involved. |
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mrwslee003
Joined: 14 Nov 2009 Posts: 190
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 2:16 am Post subject: small town |
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When you say small town; in Canada it means 70,000 or less, in China it means 1 million or less, but if you drive for half an hour you may find villages that is 20,000 or less. So it is not hard to find the setting you are looking for. So don't go to the big cities to look for little villages, but go to little towns to look for little villages, with natural settings and no McDonalds.
As for your wife, I feel she is just right for working in a kindergarten or a day care centre. They would love to have her teach the little tykes some nursery rhymes. Or she could teach elementary School English. They have the books ready and she would just do fine with confident personality and a maternal attitude.
Don't sell her short-she could surprise you with a better job than you do.
China is a world of possibilities.....
I brought my wife with me and she did fine without working but she did have other expat wives to socialize with.
Good luck and be adventurous, but if you are newly weds you must be mature about your relationship and don't jump into instant conclusions.
For you both to do well in a small town, the trick is to meet someone local who speaks or wants to speak English and he/she then is you local guide to the world of possibilities. So go the parks and maybe find an English Corner and join in or try to start up with some high school looking young person and create your own social network. Be sincere and honest about what you want to do.
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Ray |
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White249
Joined: 25 Dec 2008 Posts: 24 Location: United States
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2011 2:12 pm Post subject: |
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I don�t think it will be hard for your wife to get a gig in a larger city , even if it�s under the table work . I worked with an older teacher that had a very young wife with a high school degree that was able to teach at a local school in shanghai . I don�t agree with the negative postings about being married and in China , it�s hard for any westerner , but I think a lot of schools prefer married couples , at least hiring married men . Hiring young �handsome� single western men is not always a positive experience for schools in China, I find more and more that schools are looking for married couples, even if it�s just to get a two for one deal . Maybe she could take an ESL class at a community college before you moved over?
Forget the overly picturesque China that you have envisioned, you still have a lot of great options though if money is not a priority. Look at teaching in smaller cities, my picks would be Quind�o and Wuxi , both have small town feels but are not hours away from the basic niceties . |
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nickpellatt
Joined: 08 Dec 2006 Posts: 1522
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2011 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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Im going to agree with the people who suggest Yangshuo as it certainly fits the 'small and scenic' requirements. You can walk from North to South and from East to West in a fairly short time. Its also well served by English speaking restaurants and workers so even with minimal language skills its an easy place to live and everything is accessible, even to a China newbie.
Someone mentioned teaching hours are likely to be evenings and weekends, but whilst this may be true of some places, it isnt true of Yangshuo in my experience. Teaching work is plentiful, although private work less so. There are also so many tourist places that I think bar work/hotel work might also be possible as many places are geared up for tourists. Wages would be poor tho!
Your wife could easily find some volunteer work to do, and the babysitting gig might even be possible! When I was there I did meet couples from the West with young children...I dont know but they may have wanted help from time to time! |
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