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fluffyhamster



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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 4:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The student who posed the original question is overthinking (or rather, underthinking) things in trying to force "gender unknown their" onto and into a "gender immaterial or will be known in a wider context" example. The next question might then just as well be 'Whose, which people's, bath?', and/or if the 'its bath' refers to the literal container object or the water sloshing around in it. Rolling Eyes TBH I find it a rather pathological questioning of the language.

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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 4:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

johntpartee wrote:
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"the babies enjoyed their bath" is fine


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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That was a sarcastic rolling of the eyes, Perilla; of course it's fine. Another way to put it would be "Duh-uh".
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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 8:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Fluffy. I was wondering when you'd contribute to the thread. I'm a little disappointed in your take, though. I thought the student's question was quite perceptive. I, for one, had never noticed this issue before. I'm not sure that many of the other posters here had either. I am still unhappy with my answer's reasoning, though nobody else seems to have anything better to offer, so far. Hardly something pathological in any case.
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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 8:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe I haven't paid enough attention to the question and the discussion that follows, but 'the baby' seems to me to quite clearly be not some unknown somebody or (the) person (who...they/their noun... ). Chucking a 'their' in with the bathwater has the effect of seeming to make the baby plural rather than indefinite - a sure indication of a semantic clash. Or, the listener or reader has no choice but to assign the literal container object meaning to any 'their bath', which makes this a baby appreciative beyond its years of bathroom fittings.
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PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 2:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sparks wrote:
You never use "their" following a single person. You may alternate the use of his and her to avoid clunkiness and gender preference. My two scents, soap and Old Spice.


And yet it gets used all the time. In an entirely unrepresentative sample I had a look through the papers on my desk to see what other people are doing (this thread has piqued my interest). Of the 7 papers, 3 use 'their', 2 use his or her, 1 alternates between his and her and 1 avoids it with some overly complicated and even clumsier language.

Maybe it depends how and where English is being used, but in EAP 'their' is pretty common. I rarely see alternating his/her and his or her is one of the first things to go when you are up against a word limit, so people fall back on 'their'. Especially when many journals will reject a paper outright if the language isn't gender neutral.

What I have never understood is why we didn't just switch to using 'its' when the whole gender neutral thing kicked off. Why all the messing around fudging his/her instead of just using the gender neutral pronoun we already have.


On a side note, where else could you find a discussion on whether a baby ought to be indefinite or plural. Smile
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 2:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fluffyhamster wrote:
Maybe I haven't paid enough attention to the question and the discussion that follows, but 'the baby' seems to me to quite clearly be not some unknown somebody or (the) person (who...they/their noun... ). Chucking a 'their' in with the bathwater has the effect of seeming to make the baby plural rather than indefinite - a sure indication of a semantic clash. Or, the listener or reader has no choice but to assign the literal container object meaning to any 'their bath', which makes this a baby appreciative beyond its years of bathroom fittings.


Fair enough. But part of the question is why we use its for any old random baby, and also a baby whose gender is actually known. We wouldn't do this for other situations at all. Hence my suspicion that it is more to do like lexical patterning than anything else.
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 3:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Fair enough. But part of the question is why we use its for any old random baby, and also a baby whose gender is actually known. We wouldn't do this for other situations at all. Hence my suspicion that it is more to do like lexical patterning than anything else.

I would really question that 'we' (and obviously 'the baby~its'). You say the example is drawn from vocabulary exercises. Who, and which publisher, compiled or wrote those exercises? The example could well be an invented sentence, potentially quite unrepresentative of how English speakers actually talk about their children. (Johnslat and perhaps others have already pointed this out). Which rather compounds the "wasting of time", IMHO. I am sure that if students investigated actual real-world usage i.e. went beyond the confines of the odd textbook, a lot of these "example-induced" problems would soon melt away. Calvin really enjoyed his bath! - Yes, I could hear all the splashing. Which reminds me, I must re-seal those floor tiles. (An invented exchange, but a lot more convincing re. how people, well, family members and known relations at least, actually talk).
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 5:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fluffy, are you say that 'the baby enjoyed its bath' is not representative of real English? Or ever, Johnslat's 'It's a boy'?

I do not think this is time-wasting, and I am surprised that you would term it so, given your interest in lexicogrammar. What gives, exactly?
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@Sasha: It's English alright, but it (the original example) is more written (detached story-like narrative), or if a spoken utterance then apparently from somebody who doesn't know the baby's name or even its gender. Of course It's a boy! is fine (assuming the gender wouldn't've been established by ultrasound etc beforehand nowadays).

It would thus help if the students were made absolutely aware of these metafunctions~registers and modes, but if they'd prefer to deal with decontextualized exercise sentences and think up alternative hazy grammars for them, that is of course their prerogative.

The main point however is that the 'the baby' (definite, and singular) doesn't then sit well with the "indefinite" (well, it would be indefinite if there were an indefinite pronoun to refer back to) and here plural 'their bath'. Note also that the clash is within the same short sentence - perhaps stretches of more than a single sentence would allow more "errant" grammar (see next paragraph)?

Establishing the gender of infants is of course a pressing and important matter (as others have pointed out - nobody likes to go around using 'it' or 'its' for longer than is otherwise necessary for a poor tyke), but introducing the 'their' usage (borrowed from indefinite-anaphor, gender-ambiguous-tolerant [IAGAT LOL] usages) does nothing to help in this regard, and in fact makes the sentence ungrammatical (in terms of disagreement between two assumedly definite pronouns - the reader or listener doesn't assign an IAGAT reading to the second, given that the first was definite and singular, but assigns to the second the only available definite and plural reference, in this case the owners of the bath LOL), mean something other than what the "their-introducing" student wants it to mean. Kudos to ??/*them (him or her) for knowing the IAGAT usage, but it's overreaching to misapply it. Or am I missing something?

Short version: in trying to overapply a function, there is a clash of forms.


HLJHLJ wrote:
What I have never understood is why we didn't just switch to using 'its' when the whole gender neutral thing kicked off. Why all the messing around fudging his/her instead of just using the gender neutral pronoun we already have.


To take but two examples introduced in this thread:

'Oh look! Someone is climbing that tall tree. Oh no they have fallen!' > Oh look! Someone is climbing that tall tree. Oh no it has fallen!

�She kept her head and kicked her shoes off, as everybody ought to do who falls into deep water in their clothes.� > She kept her head and kicked her shoes off, as everybody ought to do who falls into deep water in its clothes.

Actually, those might make good examples for Sash's student to study - a look at a "logic" that is sort of the flip side of theirs.

The language itself has assigned and divvied up the forms and functions pretty well. All we have to do is take careful note of the contexts and go from there.


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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fluffyhamster wrote:
@Sasha: It's English alright, but it (the original example) is more written (detached story-like narrative), or if a spoken utterance then apparently from somebody who doesn't know the baby's name or even its gender.



Actually, if you read the thread a little more carefully, you'd see that other posters have commented that many people do continue to use its long after they know the gender of the baby. Are their grammars too hazy also?
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe you should do a study of exactly how many, and which gender, "continue" to speak like that, Sash. It would quite likely be a lot more productive than pondering how many use 'their' following definite/"known" singular references - or do we have to take every student's passing linguistic fancy so very seriously?

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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fluffy, I am not sure what exactly your angle is here. If you do not think this is a worthy enough topic for contemplation, why do you contribute?
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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've simply been trying to work out and offer an explanation~correction for your student. If there's anything wrong with what I've concluded so far, it'd be good to know.

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PostPosted: Sat May 25, 2013 9:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just the implication that it is not worth answering the student's question. Not sure why anyone would want to say that. That both the asking and the attempt at answering are misguided. Seems unnecessarily negative to me.
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