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spiral78

Joined: 05 Apr 2004 Posts: 11534 Location: On a Short Leash
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2014 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks for the promotion, John (salutes smartly).  |
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hamergirl
Joined: 17 Sep 2007 Posts: 32
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 7:30 am Post subject: |
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"Same as one covers classes when any teacher is sick without extra pay - as stated in all the contracts, none of the 3 government universities and one private paid… " Yes, covering a class for one day is not paid (and in return you don't get your pay docked when you miss a day) however long term overtime (if a teacher is out more than 2 days) including maternity leave are paid overtime.
Yes, I am extremely grateful to my colleagues who have covered for me in the past. Yes, I've expressed it to them. Also, I'm eternally grateful to those who say, "Don't worry about it - I'll take it for you. It's no problem." Honestly, that little bit of kindness has brought tears to my eyes on more than one occasion.
I worked for many years here without children, and I honestly didn't mind that I didn't have my first choice of schedules, or had to proctor at undesirable times - because it didn't really matter to me and I knew it did matter A LOT to working parents.
Helping someone out when they need it is just being a decent human being. I couldn't survive here without the help and kindness of very good friends and strangers alike. The West seems to have completely abandoned the notion that it "takes a village" to raise a child. Our youth is our most prized priority - it is to them we will leave this incredibly f*** up world to fix, ALL of our futures will literally be completely in their hands. Even those of us who chose not to have children. You really can't spare a bit of your time to help someone out? |
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spiral78

Joined: 05 Apr 2004 Posts: 11534 Location: On a Short Leash
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 10:23 am Post subject: |
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Sorry. I've know parents who simply 'can't ever' work Mondays, Fridays, or after 2.00 pm. That's asking far too much of one's colleagues. Teaching parents aren't really asking for 'a bit' of time in many cases; they're asking for long-term consistent favoritism in scheduling. Not to mention what happens to the rest of us when children fall ill. |
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The Fifth Column

Joined: 11 Jun 2014 Posts: 331 Location: His habitude with lexical items protrudes not unlike a damaged pollex!!!
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 11:01 am Post subject: |
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Stay-at-home moms duz wonders to the other consistently hitting their marks... |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2014 2:14 pm Post subject: |
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hamergirl.
Yes, there were teachers with kids who showed their appreciation, but sadly too many never even said "thank you" and threw tantrums in the faculty room because they didn't get exactly what they wanted. It didn't take me long to suss out the last group and make sure that I never covered their classes by arranging my covers with those who didn't demand it.
And if they are now paying... good... it is about damned time. I wonder if I can put in for the thousands of dollars of lost overtime pay that I have coming.
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dustdevil
Joined: 27 Mar 2014 Posts: 38 Location: Retired in U.S.
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 10:29 am Post subject: |
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hamergirl wrote: |
Wow VS, bitter much? Those of us with children greatly appreciate the "family first/child friendly" mentality here. Of course teaching/proctoring schedules should be made to accommodate families - it's how things work here. I have never heard of maternity leave having to be covered without pay at any of the three main universities here. Also, maternity leave is only 8 weeks, and when you were working here it was only 6.
Birth rates in the west are plummeting - largely due to the disdain with which families and children are treated there. This region's love of children and respect for the family is something they do very very right. It's a lovely place to raise a family. |
Give us a break. Do you go to the UAE just to raise your kids, or to work? If raising your kids is your prime concern, don't tell me you can't be a soccer mom in some nice, safe, leafy suburb in the West. No, you want to go to the Middle East for a better quality of life?? In other words where single drones can fill in at work for you while you do your noble procreating and getting paid too. VS is right all the way on this issue. She and I are hardly bitter. At least during my 5 years at Dubai Women's, I never had to fill in for some mom whenever her kids got the sniffles. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 4:14 pm Post subject: |
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Never mind dustdevil... hamergirl seemed to have realized that there was two sides to this story. Certainly in the past, the Gulf was a good place to raise kids and I even recommended it to a few friends over the years, just because it is so child-friendly and employers did give support unlike happens in the US.
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dustdevil
Joined: 27 Mar 2014 Posts: 38 Location: Retired in U.S.
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Posted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 5:56 pm Post subject: |
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Hey, I like children--well-done. I wonder if ISIS does. I work about 200 miles from their current territory.
It was at a US university campus in Japan where I often had to fill in for moms with sniffle-nosed carpet crawlers, but not at DWC. |
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