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LarssonCrew
Joined: 06 Jun 2009 Posts: 1308
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2016 10:34 am Post subject: |
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Vietnam seems to be like China in that if you're white, you're +4 on the dating scale already, if you're not an old man, add a few more points, and they also know your salary is probably going to be above average, so add another few points. |
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Spelunker
Joined: 03 Nov 2013 Posts: 392
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2016 11:00 am Post subject: re: viet and dating... |
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Good points there larssoncrew. I'd rather take my chances dating in Viet, than in the UK or the EU where a vicar gets his throat slit, and churches in the UK have to be on high alert. But each to their own.....I also told people that Hanoi airport was better than any I had seen in the UK, they laughed at me....until I showed them some basic photos on my smartphone. The UK is the third world place and unsafe nowadays!!! |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2016 11:03 am Post subject: |
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ExpatLuke wrote: |
You can see from this post, that mileage will vary depending on how you go about things. Some people adapt, are flexible, and find they fit quite well with the culture. Others are incapable of adapting and are constantly comparing things to how they think they should be done, and are never happy. Others seem to pick and choose their battles. |
Ditto that. Which is why superficial questions about X country generally aren't particularly useful since no one personally knows the OP --- how he adjusts to other cultures, his priorities (i.e., needs vs wants), his ability to discern the difference between realistic and unrealistic expectations, etc. Anyway, he has enough basic info to decide whether to head abroad to VN. However, overanalyzing the small, mundane things is never good. |
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D. Amokachi
Joined: 15 Oct 2014 Posts: 60
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Posted: Sat Jul 30, 2016 6:14 pm Post subject: |
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I've never lived in Vietnam but my advice, FWIW, is go for it. If you're sick of living a humdrum life in the wet and windy UK then a stint in Asia might be just the tonic. You never know, you could end up really enjoying it and stay out there for good. Or move somewhere else and carry on teaching. If you don't go for it soon then you probably never will and then spend a lifetime wondering 'what if?' |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 6:00 am Post subject: Re: re: bravo! |
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Spelunker wrote: |
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Many employers expect leather shoes, long-sleeve shirts and a tie. Try dressing like that in Vietnamese weather while teaching 40 kids under a fan. It's not fun. |
In Oman, the wall mounted A/C unit was not working in one classroom....the HOD simply said class is cancelled, he realised in 40 deg C + desert heat, it would not be good for me, or the students who would just whinge for 50 minutes, if the A/C was working of course, the class could have gone ahead and the spoiled bunch could have whinged at me about something else for 50 mins |
I've also worked in Oman and, in case anyone is curious, the above is 100% true.
In regards to dress standards, I have always just worn long-sleeve business shirts, business trousers and leather shoes. In my last career, I had to wear a tie, sometimes a jacket, everyday for years and, personally, if I can avoid doing so again, then I will. Especially when I'm living this close to the Equator. Suits and ties, IMHO, are not practical dress for the tropics, but, if others want to wear them then that's up to them. I knew a teacher, who I worked with in Saigon, who used to rock up to work most days in a three-piece suit . |
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RustyShackleford

Joined: 13 May 2013 Posts: 449
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 7:40 am Post subject: |
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Do lower priced places not have clean drinking water then? How does one circumvent this in Vietnam? Stock up on bottled water? |
Simply put, the tap water is not drinkable anywhere you go in Vietnam and even the ice has warnings. You will need to either buy bottled or have someone deliver a proper cooler to you. You'll need to figure it out yourself.
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How bad is the air there? How does it practically affect your quality of life? As for the roads, could you elaborate? The footage I've seen does make the traffic look chaotic and probably stressful. |
If you're worried about this then I wouldn't bother going. People go jogging every day in the parks but you do notice the gunk that forms on your hands after even a little time outside - washing my hands always made me wind up with a bunch of dark grey water. The footage is about as good an indicator of what to expect as anything. Rush hours are packed and you'll be choking, guaranteed. Learn the back roads quick to get around this problem.
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What is it about expats in Vietnam that appears to be so repellent? Is everybody jaded or are they really that abhorrent? |
Yes. There are some good people, but, by and large, the best of the west don't go there. That includes you and I, probably.
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You've largely affirmed my preconceptions; if they're approximate then why would moving to Vietnam be a bad idea? |
Because you're asking too many questions that reflect a lack of research, uncertainty and naivety. Trust me, I went to Vietnam with lots of questions myself but I had visited twice before to form some quick contacts and create a small but intimate network of people so I had a support system before I even decided to move, one of whom managed to hook me up with an offer that lucked out into a very nice position.
In all honesty, you seem like a nice enough fellow and will probably scrape by just fine but your questions show someone who I, as an uninvolved third party, don't really want to see in Vietnam. Simple as that.
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It's my understanding that Japan's cost of living is too high for a tefl first year rook and that Korea is decent pay but the supply of English teachers there is very high while the government has withdrawn a state program for employing them en masse. |
Plenty of people do TEFL as a rookie and get by on the 250,000 or so. Not recommended but I went on JET and came out fine. No idea about EPIK but yeah.
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Also heard that antipathy towards white English teachers there has grown and that it's a quite insular nation anyway. Conversely, it appears that Vietnam's citizens are friendly and welcoming to foreigners and the cost of living is famously low. |
The cost of living is creeping up gradually but surely and the Vietnamese citizens are starting to catch on to being wary of Westerners, although engagement certainly higher than the unofficial apartheid that goes on in Japan/Korea. Simply put - too many schmucky westerners float in and ruin it. Wouldn't be surprised if in 5 or 10 years, Viets get tourist fatigue like the rest of their more prosperous neighbors.
I remember going on a date with a Hanoian and were getting on famously. She was working a decent middle-class job and when she asked what I did, laughed at the eye-roll she did when I admitted I was a teacher. That's not going to be every girl and, yes, being a westerner with an above-average income is going to appeal. Just be warned that's also not all it's cracked up to be.
Again, you seem set on coming here and will probably have a grand time of it. Good for you. That's about all I have to say on the matter.
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Spelunker
Joined: 03 Nov 2013 Posts: 392
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 8:11 am Post subject: re: was he normal? |
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I knew a teacher, who I worked with in Saigon, who used to rock up to work most days in a three-piece suit Confused.
Gave up on the quote thing, was he normal?  |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 8:34 am Post subject: Re: re: was he normal? |
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Spelunker wrote: |
I knew a teacher, who I worked with in Saigon, who used to rock up to work most days in a three-piece suit Confused.
Gave up on the quote thing, was he normal?  |
I got on OK with him and, I guess, he just liked dressing formally. Just his thing, I suppose. Besides, from everything I saw and heard, he was actually an excellent teacher and, when I was there, the students and management at the school loved him. |
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Spelunker
Joined: 03 Nov 2013 Posts: 392
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 9:22 am Post subject: re: thats good |
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It often is the case that those without degrees can make excellent teachers and stay in Asia forever. The problem with the overqualified ones is they can be a wee bit too picky and choosy and like to gripe about things, the degreeless older blokes just get on with it, and enjoy a few beers from the proceeds. Not always good, but I do think those qualified types should stay at home and teach or work in whatever area their MA is in, TEFL should be left to just those with a B.A. or no degree at all.....just my ten cents. |
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danshengou
Joined: 17 Feb 2016 Posts: 434 Location: A bizarre overcrowded hole
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 9:24 am Post subject: Re: re: was he normal? |
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I knew a teacher, who I worked with in Saigon, who used to rock up to work most days in a three-piece suit Confused.
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Rocking up to teach Anglais in a 3-piece suit in Saigon He may as well have been dressed as Superman... |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 10:37 am Post subject: |
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Spelunker wrote: |
It often is the case that those without degrees can make excellent teachers and stay in Asia forever. The problem with the overqualified ones is they can be a wee bit too picky and choosy and like to gripe about things, the degreeless older blokes just get on with it, and enjoy a few beers from the proceeds. Not always good, but I do think those qualified types should stay at home and teach or work in whatever area their MA is in, TEFL should be left to just those with a B.A. or no degree at all.....just my ten cents. |
Your gripe seems to be more about the challenge of competing for jobs (as a non-degree or BA-holder) rather than your perception about the quality of teaching or others' pickiness.  |
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TRH
Joined: 27 Oct 2011 Posts: 340 Location: Hawaii
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 1:47 pm Post subject: |
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It seems that people have meandered from the original topic but sometimes that is a good thing. It shows people are engaging with each other.
Since we are on to discussing degrees/no degrees/MA/BA etc, I would like to put in my two cents. The best teachers that I knew and observed were holders of regular teaching jobs who had retired early from both the US and AU. Many school pension systems disincentivize staying past 50 so the fact that they have left their jobs is not necessarily a negative. Both of these gentlemen could manage both the well off kids in the centers on weekends and the classes of 50 in public high and middle schools. They had classroom management down pat and were also able to adapt sometimes irrelevant and insufficient materials to classroom use. I did not know any former elementary school teachers but I expect they would have been similarly skilled in Viet Elementary schools or with the small ones at the center.
I put myself at a level below them because I have a BEd, which is the entry requirement to become a certified teacher in the US, but did not remain in the business long due to financial limitations of the profession and the needs of my then growing family. Even my limited experience, one year plus a full semester student teaching, gave me tools that I know those with a BA and a TEFL cert just do not initially posses. The limited experience that I had, and the full experience that the others had, may be why we were able to take the public school assignments in stride and even find them fulfilling, where others reject such work in dismay.
For my money (again only 2 cents) were I a hiring manager, I would be delighted to find retired teachers even if they were past 50. |
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Spelunker
Joined: 03 Nov 2013 Posts: 392
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 2:54 pm Post subject: re: hmmmm..... |
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The best teachers that I knew and observed were holders of regular teaching jobs who had retired early from both the US and AU |
Respectfully, I partly agree and partly do not. I do agree that elderly retired western FT's may well make the best teachers. As for the younger ones, not always. I've known and met highly qualified and furnished with the qualifications to teach in the UK....who were hopeless in front of a class of Chinese uni students in Guangdong. The problem with having bits of paper that prove you are intelligent is that you begin to overthink things and think yourself better than others. Come on guys and girls, it's teaching Chinese students, who for the most part, are not that bad. If you think they can be a handful, how will you handle a class of mostly black young male students in a rough school in Moss Side or somewhere in a deprived district of London, it sticks out like a blind cobblers thumb if you can't teach at a public job in China, doesn't it? End of!! |
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TRH
Joined: 27 Oct 2011 Posts: 340 Location: Hawaii
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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Spelunker: I think you may have missed my point. I was referring to teachers with 10-20 years of real classroom time under their belts. There's a big difference compared to someone right out of school, yet let's ask ourselves who would get hired first in Vietnam.
Even my limited experience may have better equipped me to deal with 50+ classes. I taught not in an inner city school but in an area that could be considered rural poverty stricken with almost all the students being children of immigrants. I can see how someone really fresh out of college with teaching credentials might struggle depending on where they were trained. |
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Spelunker
Joined: 03 Nov 2013 Posts: 392
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2016 7:16 pm Post subject: re: ok |
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OK, no harm, nor foul. |
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