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Loss of Face for speaking Chinese?
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m o n k



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good points, martinphipps. But I didn't get (and really hope I didn't give) the impression that anyone here was generalizing. I started the thread by asking for opinions of the theory that *some* Taiwanese consider it a loss of face to be seen speaking Chinese to a foreigner. Looking at the context of the entire thread, I think it could be argued that we haven't made generalizations. Of course this phenomenon isn't displayed by all Taiwanese. However, it does seem to be something that a number of us have encountered. The context of non-generalization was set at the beginning, and I think we took that as a given throughout.

Also, although I can only say for sure about myself, I'm pretty sure that the people who have shared their experiences in this thread have lived/lived in Taiwan more than a few months. They'll have to speak for themselves.

You are right, though, that some Taiwanese may get flustered/react the way they do because they don't understand our Chinese. In fact, I often assume this is the case (and TaoyuanSteve stated this as well). However, it does not account for all of our experiences. And *those* unaccountable experiences are the ones I am interested in disecting.

As usual, no offense meant, and none taken. If you feel offended, it's probably unintentional. I rarely read over carefully before posting, so just know that I probably meat it softer Laughing .
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes. Let's keep this thread on topic. We've all lived here "more than a few months" I'm sure. Let's none of us take a tone of superiority or assumption re: others' Mandarin ability. We are also all aware of such facts as Taiwanese is a separate language, Mandarin is a second language for some people here and so on. I didn't get here yesterday and it's safe to assume most of us didn't as well. We are all aware (or should be) that alot of lockup situations result from our accents or pronunciation errors. We all know that as non-native speakers. Please don't bring that up again. We all know Taiwanese, generally, are very friendly folk as well. Don't need to mention that again. I like this thread the way Monk started it: discussing a very specific nuance of foreigner to local verbal interaction. In this situation, comprehension has been achieved on the part of the local. Our language ability is not the issue. Manners are not the issue either. If you've experienced something like it, please share. If you haven't read and enjoy.
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crespo



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I liked the story about CKS airport. I remember being pretty surprised, on one of my trips through the airport, that so many people there couldn't speak any English at all. Taiwan has such high aspirations of becoming a world class country and of boosting international tourism and yet the very place you would expect some English spoken lets you down.
At any rate, it's an interesting idea that the some people feel they are losing face when not speaking English to a white foreigner. Most of your reactions seem to be so understanding. I must admit that when a situation arises when people can not get it through their heads that maybe a foreigner is speaking Chinese, my blood really starts to boil.
I'm curious if it is this same fear of losing face by not speaking English which is why, for example, on the bus the seat beside me will invariably be the last one to fill (all jokes aside..no i don't smell, etc. Smile ). ARe they afraid that I might ask them an English question and they wouldn't understand? I suppose this is better than a person sitting down and saying "Can I practise my English with you?" That's a bit of a pet peeve of mine.

Slightly off topic....I've been in China for the past 3 months and i must say that it is far easier here to learn Chinese as the majority of people only know 'hello'.
I would also fully agree the the hat metaphor. I feel quite certain that my own fear was my biggest fault in speaking Chinese when I was in TAiwan (again, being in China has helped that considerably).
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m o n k



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 23, 2004 1:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

crespo wrote:
Most of your reactions seem to be so understanding. I must admit that when a situation arises when people can not get it through their heads that maybe a foreigner is speaking Chinese, my blood really starts to boil.


While I've never seen red or had my blood boil, I have been extremely annoyed, and at times I'm bitter about it. Most often, though, it gets me down. I periodically make a list of the things I love and hate about Taiwan, and this is very often the only thing I can list as hating. There are things that annoy me, for sure, but they are mostly pet peeves. This one affects me.

crespo wrote:

I'm curious if it is this same fear of losing face by not speaking English which is why, for example, on the bus the seat beside me will invariably be the last one to fill (all jokes aside..no i don't smell, etc. Smile ).


Great question. I don't know. I have had people in shops scurry away from me as they see me approaching. Does that count? To be fair, though, I have encountered an equal number of very outgoing and helpful people in shops and other places.

crespo wrote:

Slightly off topic....I've been in China for the past 3 months and i must say that it is far easier here to learn Chinese as the majority of people only know 'hello'.


I've wondered about this. Where is the better place to practice/learn Chinese? Taiwan or China? Not in terms of quality of Chinese schools, but in terms of opportunity to use the language on a day-today basis with the native speakers around you.
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m o n k



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's been a while, so here's a bump. Rolling Eyes
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A'Moo



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 3:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is regarded as a loss of face. When a westerner speaks Chinese, you take away the last bastion of supposed superiority that these people have...You are already regarded as being more worldly, more successful, better looking, the list grows....
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dangerousapple



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 4:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A'Moo, that doesn't sound like Taiwan to me. Is that how it is in Mainland China?
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

China, HK, Taiwan. In fact, I think it is at it's worst in HK, followed by Taiwan...
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Double Clutcher



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 3:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Even though many people where I am at in Hunan are xenophibic, people as a whole are happily surprised when they find out I can speak Chinese and are often delighted to talk with me.
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Agreed. People in places like Hunan definitely seem more upbeat about the prospect of a foreigner speaking Chinese. They lack that chip on their shoulder that many in the bigger cities in China/territories seem to posess.
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ive only been here a short time, but ive found that many locals like to help foreigners out with their mandarin. they seem to appreciate the fact that im trying to learn.

of course, there are others that will ignore you completely.
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m o n k



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bump!
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 1:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Here's a theory I'd like to get some feedback on: Some Taiwanese consider it a loss of face to speak Chinese to a westerner because it gives others the impression that they are unable to speak English to the westerner.


Taiwanese are nothing compared to Germans. At least most Taiwanese are polite about speaking Mandarin with them. As opposed to a German I saw that refused to speak German to an American student who wanted to practice his German at a party. She said, "this is America, we must speak English".

Actually most Germans shy away from my in the US if I speak German to them.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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While I've never seen red or had my blood boil, I have been extremely annoyed, and at times I'm bitter about it. Most often, though, it gets me down. I periodically make a list of the things I love and hate about Taiwan, and this is very often the only thing I can list as hating. There are things that annoy me, for sure, but they are mostly pet peeves. This one affects me.


I will add one example and I am not sure that it is the same. When I told my language partner (she is an English teacher) that one Taiwanese girl I was dating who did not speak English decided she was not sure she wanted to date a foreigner. The woman proceed to say that maybe it was because of my Mandarin ability. She had previously made that comment when I was pursuing the girl. While if I dated a Taiwanese girl that spoke English it would be all right. Needless to say I met another girl who I went out with and her friends. Every date so far we have spoken Mandarin. She has no problems with it. It is interesting to wonder why this woman thinks I can only date Taiwanese girls that speak English.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I understand what you mean, Taylor, but the point I was trying to make was that although it was obvious to the waitress that I spoke and understood Chinese, she chose to ignore me because she could not speak English (or could not speak it well). And although she knew English was not necessary, she totally ignored me until finally she had worked out something she could say to me in English. And this was a little insulting because 1) she just repeated what she had said to my friend in Chinese, as if I wouldn't have understood w/out her translation Rolling Eyes (an insult to my pride, mostly); and 2) she had been ignoring me all night, and to suddenly address me for that...? It was depressing for me.


Well even better is the fact that my Korean language partner rooms with two white Americans that are fluent in Mandarin. When the three of them go out they always speak to her first because she has an Asian face. Even though she will be the first to admit that her roommates Mandarin is far better. They both are study for M.A.'s here in a Chinese program. Not an English M.A. program.
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