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Norman Bethune



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 11:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mandu wrote:
Iam nuts
Iam crazy

everyone is crazy in there own special way


I am not crazy. I am not paranoid...really...no one is out to get me...you're not talking about me....right...but are you implying something?
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merlin



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 13, 2005 1:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Does EFL attract loonies or do those who stay with it become bonkers?

Since I've already gone bonkers myself and now seem to be coming out the other end of the tunnel so to speak I can authoritatively say that the nuts do get nuttier but not nearly as nutty as those who believe themselves to be more sane to start with.

Like the Vegetarian CIA applicant listed above. Holy multiple personalities batman. One side of her brain applies for a position with surely the evilest organization on the planet while the other side of her brain munches on a tofu burger that almost tastes like one from McDonals but not quite. How ugly do you think that train wreck is going to be when it happens?

I always wonder about those from the hippie-gen who still see communism as a lost opportunity.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think it's at all a matter of chance that this - very interesting - thread was started by a fellow "Gulfie". Certainly this particular part of the world attracts more than its fair share of "characters", to put it politely. Such people can be found in all spheres of work here, not just EFL. The reasons for this have been mentioned by other posters - the boredom, "difficult" culture, segregation - but there's more.

Many "Westerners" come here with what Norman referred to as a "colonial mentality": they expect the "rag heads" to be eternally grateful that the White Man has deigned to come and live among them. Trouble is, they get here and find that it isn't like that at all: these are rich countries and although the "locals" need foreign expertise and labour, they are very well aware of their position in the hierarach, which is to say, top of the scale, certainly well above even "white" expats. It is the "ragheads" for whom such ex-pats (not all expats of course) have so much contempt, who call the shots, who have the power to decide if and when your wife gets a visa, and who can have you deported on a whim. Obviously, expats of this ilk resent this, but because the money and living conditions are good - certainly much better than they'd ever have in their home countries - they grudgingly stay on, taking their resentment out in all sorts of weird ways. As I've said, this sort of behaviour is common to Gulf expats in all "professions", not just EFL.


[/quote]I think some enter the field because we have issues at home that we feel we can escape by going overseas. We won't admit the problem is within and we bring it with us; that we can't run away
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Very true, and not just in the Gulf. I remember reading a little slogan somewhere that struck a cord with me: "Whereever you go, there you are!". I think it's something we TEFLers should bear in mind!

I think another factor in the high incidence of eccentricity (OK, plain weirdness) in the TEFL world is the transience of it all. Perhaps when people are in their own countries, surrounded by people who they are going to have to live and work with for an indefinate amount of time, they are less likely to risk offending others or isolating themselves by indulging their personal idiosyncracies. However, when people are working abroad and figure they're only going to be with their colleagues and whatever friends they have for a few years at most, they may be less likely to exercise self-restraint. After all, if you do succeed in alienating everyone (a distinct possibility) you can always just hit the road, can't you? And many such teachers end up doing just that. Again and again.
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doltex



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PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 4:52 pm    Post subject: good god Reply with quote

i have been working at the same university in oaxaca mexico for 8 years and the entire situation here has been like a kafa novel, but not even a very good one because the same thing happens over and over again. i have seen every type of character come through here. some have even been head of dept. i was for a while too but i resigned and now i am a regular teacher.

there was young eric who chewed on his hand when he became angry. after becoming angry, he' start kicking things around in the classroom. he was my first boss. once he dropped his bank card into the slot where you put your deposit envelopes in the cash machine. he pulled out the longest screwdriver from who knows where, maybe his bung, and started clubbing the machine with it. i bolted out the door when the guard pulled his gun.

there was mr. G from canada who disappeared completely one day and hasn't been seen since. in his room we fond several letters from his psychotherapist saying that he was not stable enough to work. he left me a personal note though, saying that i could have his rusted piece of poo bicylce.

there was mr. R who would wear the same clothes day in day out, sleep in the streets, show up half drunk, say nasty things to the students in English because they couldn't understand.

there was R.S. who smelled like old underwear. he'd bark at the students, hung a 'beware of dog' sign on his office door. he'd get in arguments with everyone in town. he lived in 8 places in six months. i helped him move each time. helpless little feller too. couldn't hook up his gas tank by himself or even tie a knot to hang his hammock. didn't know how to make a sandwich.

there was ms. G, bosslady. she thought that the students could do all sorts of superhero things, like pass the TOEFL in two years from absolute nothing. she created a program with the most rediculous requirements such as, if you fail one semester, you can't graduate from the University.

my oh my, i could go on and on. but why bother. silly silly, this carrer. . .

and yet i have an incredible vested interest in staying put where i am. like i said, i have been here for 8 years. i have a house here, a wife, a child, lots of friends, but i have pretty much decided to abandon ship for my own well-being. at times i do babble to myself. my once-eloquent english and prowess as a conversationalist has withered to nothingness. i can't form a complete thought half the time. and i come up with odd schemes and theories too. i drink a lot. this entire situation here has caused me serious depression and i think it would be best to figure a way out of this.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Agree with you completely doltex.

Be prepared for all the replies from the ''efl is great'' merchants.
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mskana



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 6:30 pm    Post subject: empathy Reply with quote

I think we should show a little more understanding and empathy.Mental illness is serious and should be treated as such .Calling people "bonkers" or referring to mental institutions as "loony bins" shows some level of prejudice. If the person had any knowledge or understanding about mental illness they would know that it is rife all over the world , in any profession, race, colour sex. So they happened to see it whilst pursuing a career in tef?l:newsflash its everywhere!Hang out with a few doctors or lawyers you are bound to see people with mental health problems, or in any social class for that matter. These peolel need support.When are we ever going to stop with all this discrimination?Against ethnic minorites,cultures,people with mental health problems etc? I suppose some things will never change.
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slaqdog



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 1:00 am    Post subject: grear thread Reply with quote

Well done Mr Biff a great thread you started.
Yes TEFL does attract the off-beats, the party animals, the back-packers, the deranged, the mentally unstable,the lazy and the ****wits Laughing
It also attracts some searching inquisitive souls with a thirst for knowledge, and that rare and wonderous beast the people who, inspired by a character from their youth, believe teaching to be a noble and enlightening profession.
BUT Tefl by its irregularity; the shoddy treatment received, the lack of professional respect dished out by so many schools and the laughably low wages grinds people down. Alienation turns to self hate, and this leads to extreme and bizarre behaviour. Post traumatic stress disorder does not only affect people involved in an accident it can also be brought on by the long term abuse inflicted upon teachers. (oops got a bit too dramatic there)
Myself--I stopped--but it was maybe to late
Peace be with you all Shocked and may your gods go with you
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Boy Wonder



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Slaqdog..you stopped!
So what are you doing now?
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guty



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 5:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cleopatra wrote:

It is the "ragheads" for whom such ex-pats (not all expats of course) have so much contempt, who call the shots, who have the power to decide if and when your wife gets a visa, and who can have you deported on a whim. Obviously, expats of this ilk resent this,

I think resenting that your family has to be separated, possibly for a long time, or if you have to leave your job and the life you have built around it "on somebody's whim" is a perfectly sane and understandable reaction.
I feel exactly that way, and would in any part of the world. But the ME is the only place I have worked where it happens.
Cleo, there are many things this "ilk" of expats are dislikable for, but this is one where I think it is a dislike of a system, not of the people.
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merlin



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 6:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Calling people "bonkers" or referring to mental institutions as "loony bins" shows some level of prejudice.

Keep that up and you'll have an appointment right after me for electroshock therapy Exclamation
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Ben Round de Bloc



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 11:45 am    Post subject: Re: good god Reply with quote

doltex wrote:
i have been working at the same university in oaxaca mexico for 8 years and the entire situation here has been like a kafa novel, but not even a very good one because the same thing happens over and over again. i have seen every type of character come through here.

Wow! I wonder what kind of hiring standards they have at that university in Oaxaca to attract such characters. Teacher turn-over is low in the university EFL department where I teach. The department has maintained between 15 and 20 full- and part-time teachers during the 10 years that I've been there. Only 2 foreign teachers (very part-time and quite normal) were hired and then left during that time plus a third foreign teacher who's still there.
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delacosta



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hiring standards?
We don't need no pinche hiring standards...
Benround, you live in the Republic of Yucutan, right? Well this is the Republic of Oaxaca, and let me tell you it's another world...
The turnover here is massive, and not just in the English department, across the board. This despite some of the highest salaries being offered at the university level in all of Mexico, and full 'definitividad' (tenure) being offered after one year of employment.
Obviously something isn't right in the hen-house, wouldn't you say?
Despite this there are , I believe, around 10 more universities being opened across the state that all follow the same system that both doltex and I work in. There are also quite a few other posters on the Mexico board who work or have worked in said system. I wouldn't feel comfortble posting a crytical analysis of this system on this public forum, but if you would like to compare systems just pm me for details.
It's a difficult gig down here on the savage coast of Oaxaca and not just for foreigners.
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moonraven



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 11:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Speaking from the standpoint of an "escapee" from that Oaxacan system, I can say that one of the reasons the campuses are revolving doors for professors reminds me of the cardinal rule in retail: LOCATION.

I spent just under a year at the same campus as doltex and delacosta. I am definitely not a beach person--I lived right above one of the main bays and I never once put even my toe in the water. Now the raw sewage running down the street into the bay in the rainy season may have had a little bit to do with that....

The campus itself was okay. The job was fine. Only one of the nuts that doltex mentioned was there when I was--I hired him and fired him. Professors in other departments regularly disappeared from night to morning--many because they were living in crummy rooms with ticks crawling up the walls....

For me the problem was being so far away from any "culture" that we didn't create. And the librer�a gandhi's absolutely worthless website. I thought I would be bailed out by being able to order and receive books. They sent the wrong books, mixed up the orders, took a month to get the books to me--you name it, they screwed it up.

When I went back to my home base in Morelos for one of the vacations a friend came by whom I hadn't seen for awhile and asked where I was teaching. When I told him, his response was: "That place seems like paradise for 2 or 3 days. After that it seems like a life sentence." I thought that was to the point. He ended up in the hospital in Pochutla while he was there. And he died shortly after our conversation. I can't really prove a connection, though.

I can't say that I lost my marbles there, but I did learn how to sing like the thousand and one Ravens that visited my garden.

I also spent five months at one of the other universities in the same system. Again, the university was okay and the job was fine--except for a hostile skeletal blithering basket case who briefly shared my office. But the location was even worse than where doltex and delacosta still are. It was a weather-inversion bowl of intense heat and intense humidity. Eighteen year old students had problems with high BP and kidney disease. It was 7 hours to Mexico City by bus--less time than going from the coast, but still inconvenient. When I told my landlady I was leaving, she said: "You're smart; a lot of people just die from this place".

Almost of the other campuses in the same system are located in "challenging" spots with few or no services and completely inadequate housing. The two that aren't are still just as isolated from anything resembling culture--and are expensive tourist traps.

Does that mean you will eventually go nuts in places like that? Can't say--didn't really want to stay long enough to find out....
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Norman Bethune



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 12:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe teachers are just crazy everywhere.

The Independent wrote:
http://education.independent.co.uk/news/story.jsp?story=622766

Nearly half of teachers have suffered from mental illness
By Richard Garner, Education Editor

23 March 2005

Nearly half of the country's secondary school teachers have suffered mental health problems due to worsening pupil behaviour, a survey has revealed.

The research, by the Association of Teachers and Lecturers, on 300 secondary school teachers, showed that abuse at the hands of pupils had left 46 per cent taking antidepressants or facing long lay-offs from school through stress.

One teacher told researchers he had been assaulted 10 times during 18 years in the profession and had suffered two breakdowns. He said he had been on antidepressants for more than three years as a result.

The survey also revealed that 72 per cent of teachers had considered quitting their jobs because they were worn out by some pupils' persistent disruptive behaviour, such as threats, swearing, locking teachers out of classrooms, vandalising school property, letting down car tyres, stealing keys, throwing eggs at staff and spitting at them. One in seven (14 per cent) said they had suffered actually bodily harm from pupils.

However, in many of the cases, the school had turned a blind eye to abuse and failed to exclude the pupils involved.

Mary Bousted, general secretary of the 160,000-strong union, will raise teachers' alarm over discipline with Ruth Kelly, the Education Secretary, when she addresses the ATL annual conference in Torquay today.

She said it was not enough to talk about "zero tolerance" for disruptive behaviour as Ms Kelly had done. "There needs to be a reflection about what zero tolerance means," she added.

"It should mean much better support for teachers and more pupil referral units - 'sin-bins'. These youngsters have to go somewhere. What we can't do as a society is leave them to roam the streets."

Yesterday the conference demanded a code of conduct to outline acceptable pupil behaviour and called for risk assessments to be prepared on all pupils with a history of aggression.

Doctor Bousted said: "Teaching is a highly intensive, highly stressful job. Teachers need to understand there are forms of help available to them and when they are feeling stressed they need to know this is not something that's shameful and they should seek help."


We are all crazy. It's the job that does it.
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Veritas_Aequitas



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 20, 2005 3:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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have been working at the same university in oaxaca mexico for 8 years and the entire situation here has been like a kafa novel, but not even a very good one because the same thing happens over and over again. i have seen every type of character come through here. some have even been head of dept. i was for a while too but i resigned and now i am a regular teacher.

there was young eric who chewed on his hand when he became angry. after becoming angry, he' start kicking things around in the classroom. he was my first boss. once he dropped his bank card into the slot where you put your deposit envelopes in the cash machine. he pulled out the longest screwdriver from who knows where, maybe his bung, and started clubbing the machine with it. i bolted out the door when the guard pulled his gun.

there was mr. G from canada who disappeared completely one day and hasn't been seen since. in his room we fond several letters from his psychotherapist saying that he was not stable enough to work. he left me a personal note though, saying that i could have his rusted piece of poo bicylce.

there was mr. R who would wear the same clothes day in day out, sleep in the streets, show up half drunk, say nasty things to the students in English because they couldn't understand.

there was R.S. who smelled like old underwear. he'd bark at the students, hung a 'beware of dog' sign on his office door. he'd get in arguments with everyone in town. he lived in 8 places in six months. i helped him move each time. helpless little feller too. couldn't hook up his gas tank by himself or even tie a knot to hang his hammock. didn't know how to make a sandwich.

there was ms. G, bosslady. she thought that the students could do all sorts of superhero things, like pass the TOEFL in two years from absolute nothing. she created a program with the most rediculous requirements such as, if you fail one semester, you can't graduate from the University.

my oh my, i could go on and on. but why bother. silly silly, this carrer. . .

and yet i have an incredible vested interest in staying put where i am. like i said, i have been here for 8 years. i have a house here, a wife, a child, lots of friends, but i have pretty much decided to abandon ship for my own well-being. at times i do babble to myself. my once-eloquent english and prowess as a conversationalist has withered to nothingness. i can't form a complete thought half the time. and i come up with odd schemes and theories too. i drink a lot. this entire situation here has caused me serious depression and i think it would be best to figure a way out of this.




I personally never knew such outlandish characters teaching in Brazil. However we were all hand-picked from the States to start a NGO in a favela, and wouldn't have been picked if it was assumed that we could not handle the stress. In Costa Rica I met all sorts of wacko ex-pats, none of them in the efl business however.
I wonder does this type of behavior unfold over a long period of time, i.e. many years? Because after 8 months of Brazil I never longed to return back to my home country. When the winters come around here in Wisconsin I always suffer from seasonal depression and such was not the case in Brazil.
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