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memorabilis
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 3:38 pm Post subject: |
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| India gave me the strength to see beauty in everyone from the poorest to the richest. |
Even those who don't proofread? |
What on earth are you talking about? |
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ntropy

Joined: 11 Oct 2003 Posts: 671 Location: ghurba
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 9:18 pm Post subject: |
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| I have learned a brain tumour is not the end of the world. |
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Stephen Jones
Joined: 21 Feb 2003 Posts: 4124
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Posted: Sat Feb 18, 2006 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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| What on earth are you talking about? |
Look at Decon's post just above yours. |
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gaijinalways
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 2279
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 4:12 pm Post subject: what have you learned |
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That I am still learning ! |
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 8:06 pm Post subject: |
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| One who chooses to teach must never cease to learn. |
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hapygirl
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 10
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 2:45 am Post subject: my priorities have changed |
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Wow! Where to begin?
The biggest change has been in how much I value my family. They have always been very important but I can't wait to see my daughter and Mom.
Knowing that I am capable of adapting to a completely foreign way of live has given me confidence I never had.
My family has always said what a great teacher I'd be. Never believed them. They were right! I have learned, thru many mistakes, that I have the ability and the desire to to teach these little kiddies.
I've realized how small of a space I really need to live in. Before coming to Korea I had a 2 bedroom apt with a big living area and kitchen. Now I have a small (read that as closet) 2 room apt.
I have really learned how to minimize my spending and maximize my saving.
Used to think I had to work WAY to many hours. Now I know for sure that was the truth. The thought of going back to a 50 hr work week is disgusting.
The other changes have been those most of us experience. |
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konyoku
Joined: 09 Sep 2005 Posts: 54 Location: neither here nor there
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 6:01 am Post subject: |
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| I've gotten older. |
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expatben
Joined: 05 Apr 2005 Posts: 214 Location: UK...soon Canada though
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 8:23 am Post subject: |
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| I've learned I can survive in tough situations-tougher than I would have ever thought. |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 10:44 am Post subject: |
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| Self reliance |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 12:58 pm Post subject: |
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Thought of another one--
I've stopped thinking about the "perfect" place and wondering where it might be. I've learned that the perfect place for me is a combination of all of the things that I have loved about the placess I've been, minus the things that may have annoyed me. Basically, I now see the potential for happiness and good times anywhere. It all depends on the job you get, the friends you make, the hobbies you develop, and your attitude.
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Sweetsee

Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 2302 Location: ) is everything
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Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 11:45 pm Post subject: |
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| In Japan I have learned how to tie my tennis shoes with enough slack in them so that I can more easily get in and out of them. Also, in public I have assumed a more Japanese demeanor in terms of how I stand, walk and act in general. I try not to occupy any more space than is absolutely necessary. |
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JZer
Joined: 16 Jan 2005 Posts: 3898 Location: Pittsburgh
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:51 am Post subject: |
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| One positive thing about the US, and something that has meant a lot to me recently, is that you can have whatever political/social/etc. beliefs that you want. |
I would be very careful in making this assumption. I would like to see an openly gay person move to small town U.S.A and not be talked about behind his or her back.
In some areas people are accepting of other believes and then sometimes we just think they are because their believes are in reality similar to ours. |
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mlomker

Joined: 24 Mar 2005 Posts: 378
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 3:25 pm Post subject: |
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| I would like to see an openly gay person move to small town U.S.A and not be talked about behind his or her back. |
Gay people that choose to live in small-town America are probably rather closeted, anyway.
In the big scheme of things, I wouldn't care. If people aren't keeping you from finding a place to live, work, or physically threatening you then that's good enough. There are places in the world where that isn't true...and others where they execute people with differing beliefs. |
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Ariadne
Joined: 16 Jul 2004 Posts: 960
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 5:46 pm Post subject: |
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Re being talked about in small town America...
Everybody gets talked about in small towns. Some more, some less, but getting talked about is pretty normal.
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 10:59 pm Post subject: |
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Re being talked about in small town America...
Everybody gets talked about in small towns. Some more, some less, but getting talked about is pretty normal.
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There is only one good thing about small town
There is only one good use for a small town
There is only one good thing about small town
You know that you want to get out
When you�re growing up in a small town
You know you�ll grow down in a small town
There is only one good use for a small town
You hate it and you�ll know you have to leave
-----Lou Reed "Small Town"
Yeah, if you have green eyes, but the majority of the people in town have brown, they will talk about you...
If you are vegetarian, they will talk about you...
If you're over 30 and unmarried, they will talk about you...
If you've been married more than once, they will talk about you...
If you're been married more than two years and you don't have children...
In a way, its extremely similar to living abroad! Everyone is curious about you.  |
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