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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:46 pm Post subject: |
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| for the general populace, it would be far easier to direct and vent their rage at white western non Muslim targets than Saudi ones wouldn't it? |
In the first place, I think the 'general populace' quite understands that just because one is 'white' and 'western', does not mean that one approves of the slaughter of 1,300 Palestinians in 3 weeks. Certainly there are people - including some posters on this board - who do just that, but anyone with a TV will have seen the huge protests in cities such as Stockholm, London and Paris, to name but three. I don't recall any such protest in Jeddah or Riyadh. Even on the official level, many "Western" governments were far more critical of Israel than most of the US client Arab regimes.
Secondly, it would be a mistake to assume that people have that much rage to vent, to be honest. There was more public action against Scandinavian animations than against the killing of hundreds of people in Gaza. It's not that the Saudi people don't care - they do - but for the most part they do not have the will/ability to translate their concern into action, for good or for ill. |
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redeyes
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 254
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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Cleo, I just PM'd you offboard -- hope that's ok.
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 2:59 pm Post subject: |
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One has to take it on a case by case basis, but my general advice to teachers is to 'let the students do the talking'. If you are asked your opinion on a 'sensitive' matter, feel free to deflect the question or change the subject.. Indeed, don't be embarrassed to refuse to answer the question outright. Saudi students are used to studying and living in a 'censored' environment and will perfectly understand why you may not want to be drawn on 'controversial' matters. Bear in mind also that some students are quite good at 'winding teachers up'. It's not unknown for students to provoke teachers into revealing personal opinions or information, and then using it against them.
Best to play it safe - there really should be no need to discuss politics or religion in the ESL classroom anyway. |
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redeyes
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 254
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Best to play it safe - there really should be no need to discuss politics or religion in the ESL classroom anyway. |
Agreed, unreseredly, and I never do discuss those topics -- I remember having worked at schools in the past where some teachers deliberately taught "controversial topics", and I always considered the prospect with utter horror -- imagine sitting down with a group of students , even in "liberal free thinking" countries, and discussing close to the bone, emotive,touchy topics. No thanks. As you say, talking is for the students, not the teacher.
Thanks for the info/caveat Cleo regards Saudi -- appreciated and taken seriously. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:08 pm Post subject: |
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During my nineteen years in the Kingdom (in which period there were many, many "incidents" that one might think would provoke the local citizens to vent their rage against a handy "symbol of Western imperialism"), at only one time was any action directed against me.
That happened when President George W. Bush and Co. invaded Iraq. On three separate occasions, while I was on my ten-minute walk to work, what appeared to be Saudi male drivers (all of whom were in Toyota pick-ups, but were different individuals) aimed their vehicles at me as I was crossing a street. Had they wanted to actually hit me, they could have, without any difficulty, but they seemed satisfied just to give me a scare.
After the third time, I started taking a taxi to work.
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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| I am no naive twit, and I know Saudi is no easy option by any means -- but the tone of the board seems more stressed/fearful than usual. I couldn't help but think perhaps Israeli carpet bombings had something to do with it, and anxiety that perhaps Muslims may just look for ways to vent anger at injustice. |
I don't really see any difference in the stress/negativity level. Only Mia is obviously reaching that point in most Saudi teacher's time when it seems that it is time to move on. And I don't mean to speak for her, but I would wager that it has little to do with either US politics or I/P issues, but just the point where the bucket of bull is getting fuller than the bucket of cash.
The other rise in negativity is coming from NCTBA who has been posting more based on his past there... Other than those two differences, it seems pretty consistent to me as an outsider to Saudi.
The danger of attacks have spread worldwide... NYC, London, Madrid, Khobar, Bali, Dahab...
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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I think that it was the term "statistics" that set me off. Statistically speaking, I knew seven of the dead on the compound attacks.
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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Dear NCTBA,
I can see how that could affect one's viewpoint. I'm reminded of this quote:
"One death (when you know the person) is a tragedy; a million is a statistic."
Very sorry,
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Mia, thanks for your reply -- if you don't mind me being candid, you sound less optimistic about Saudi now than you have been in the past, when you typically had a stoic, but consistently balanced optimism about the place -- |
My recent change of attitude has nothing to do with events in Gaza or how they have played out in Saudi Arabia. It even has nothing to do with KSA. I still like it here, but the powers that be at my place of employment seem to be doing everything they can to change my opinion. All of my negativity is strictly work-related. VS has it right ---only one of my buckets is filling up, and it's not the money bucket.
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| Can I ask you and others, ( Cleo, 007, Scot, Stephen,Trapezius et al ) has Israel's savage,brutal attack on Gaza left Westerners in Saudi feeling fear about reprisal attacks on Saudi soil against those who are perceived to be "on Israel's side"? |
No, I don't feel fear about reprisal attacks. Things are tense when you are out in the souk, but I doubt that the average foreigner who is not tuned in would even notice it. The students bring it up, but they know my point of view on the subject so they certainly don't hold it against me. It really feels safer here now than it did in the UAE during the second intifada. |
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Sheikh N Bake

Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Posts: 1307 Location: Dis ting of ours
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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| For what it's worth, when I worked for IPA Jeddah in 1994-96, the Khobar towers were bombed, and the next morning a student in class said to me, "Some of your compatriots were killed." or something very similar. I responded that while I didn't wish to see anyone killed, and was sad for the soldiers, who probably didn't ask to be sent to the KSA and were just sitting around in their housing, I wasn't angry. I said that if a bunch of Arab soldiers had been stationed in Detroit or somewhere to help make the world safe for Islam, they would probably have been bombed by the likes of Timothy McVeigh or somebody like that. Students appreciated my ability to examine issues from different perspectives and every day after that I found a flower on my lectern (not that all I did was lecture!) |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Students appreciated my ability to examine issues from different perspectives and every day after that I found a flower on my lectern (not that all I did was lecture!) |
You see, Sheikh Nano, every day Saudi students put flowers on your lectern! This show that they are civilized and welcoming, and not as you described in your previous post where you wrote this:
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| I didn't feel safe in Jeddah because I was always harassed, sometimes viciously, though never physically, by people in the street when I went jogging in the residential streets where I lived. Thank God I am back in a civilized place where people mind their own business and are courteous to strangers. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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Dear 007,
Strange as it may sound, and hard though it may be to believe, it is indeed possible to have both civilized and welcoming as well as vicious and inhospitable people in the same country, the same city, even in the same classroom.
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MyTrunkshow

Joined: 21 Apr 2007 Posts: 234 Location: One map inch from Iraq
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Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 8:48 am Post subject: |
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| my general advice to teachers is to 'let the students do the talking'. If you are asked your opinion on a 'sensitive' matter, feel free to deflect the question or change the subject.. Indeed, don't be embarrassed to refuse to answer the question outright |
Stuff like the above should be required reading for newbies.
When a topic arises that is inappropriate for my male Saudi classes (sex, female family members names, politics, low price of oil and negativity to Saudi sensibilities) deflecting the topic with a joke not only allows the teacher to pull out with face but the students learn the limits of the teacher's in-class topic expectations. So far, no topic has been revisited that has been previously deflected.
In my experience, Saudis enjoy talking about a wide range of controversial haram or open-secret topics on an individual basis, not as a group. A teacher also might consider the depth of and distancing oneself from discussing things such as alcohol within Saudi, disdain for sub-continentals, proxies, clandestine relationships, etc..
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Sheikh N Bake

Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Posts: 1307 Location: Dis ting of ours
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Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes. It's all very sanitized. |
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sheikh radlinrol
Joined: 30 Jan 2007 Posts: 1222 Location: Spain
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Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 10:00 pm Post subject: |
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When a topic arises that is inappropriate for my male Saudi classes (sex, female family members names, politics, low price of oil and negativity to Saudi sensibilities) deflecting the topic with a joke not only allows the teacher to pull out with face but the students learn the limits of the teacher's in-class topic expectations. So far, no topic has been revisited that has been previously deflected.
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This post surprised me more than a little. I found that s** was one of my students' favourite topics of conversation. Probably because they spent more time talking and thinking about it than actually doing it. Some of the comments made by my young charges are not appropriate for this board.  |
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