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artemisia

Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 875 Location: the world
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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This thread has branched off into two areas: runner stories and whether or not they should be posted and a debate about the ethics of taking that action. Looks to me like the two have got a bit mixed up.
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| Someone has come to this forum with an idea for an interesting thread only to be struck down with loser comments. |
If wanting to know what the plan is on the part of the OP for such 'runner' stories means being a 'loser', well okay.
I'm not much interested in those kinds of ideas anyway. Ideas of 'success' are subjective - your notion of this may not be the same as mine. For some posters the very act of (still) being an EFL teacher is, by definition, being a loser!
If others want to post stories (and they already have) no-one's stopping them. I personally would be a bit cautious about details as that may not only end up identifying the runner but also you yourself. As NCTBA* posted earlier, the TEFL world isn't actually that big, especially in a given country or area. If someone had to leave because of some pretty dire circumstances then I'd not want to present that beyond the basic facts. That is; not in full technicolour glory for others to feast on.
No-one on this thread has done that and presumably any detailed stories could be PMed. I'd still wonder about that being published though.
But then that's just my opinion and my thoughts.
(*Try#2: still can't get the letters in the right order!)
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fladude
Joined: 02 Feb 2009 Posts: 432
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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As for the debate of runners being losers... all I can say is that in my opinion some are and some aren't. But that's just my opinion, and opinions are like butt holes, everybody has one. Some people are simply in a bad place and are subject to discrimination or sexual harassment and have to run. Some people have simply been lied to and discover that they really can't live off of the salary which they are being paid. And some people are well just losers who fly the coup at the drop of a hat.
Now to tell my own runner story.....
I actually have a really bizarre runner story about such an incredible loser that it would be hard to top......
Our school principal pulled a runner. Yes I said principal, in a public high school. Now I have to admit that the conditions are pretty unnerving up here at times. We teach on a Native American reservation in the arctic. It is above the arctic circle, above the ice pack on a small spit of land in the middle of nowhere. Its dark here now and the sun won't rise again this year.
While the housing and pay are fine, the act of adjusting to living in a native village in the arctic can be traumatic. Its the loneliness and isolation which get to you. Couple this with the hostility, alcoholism and general xenophobia of the native population and you have a recipe for a difficult teaching experience.
I even have to admit that I almost broke my own contract my first year here. If you aren't used to being totally alone and living in a place where you can't get out at all, then its difficult (and I certainly wasn't). Still though I managed to stick it out and even signed up for a second year (although you won't catch me up here for a 3d year... once I get my 2 years experience then I am GONE).
So anyway the principal, who was new to Alaska this year, announced one day after school that he was going to fly home for the weekend to see his family. He had not given anyone any notice nor had he scheduled any time off, and you can't really fly home for a weekend since it takes 2 days just to get anywhere from here. So even if he had just been flying home for the weekend, he should have scheduled one or two days off in advance. Before he left, he sold his tv and his larger belongings. When he left for the "weekend" he took 5 suitcases. These were all clues to me of course, and I knew right away that the guy had pulled a runner.
Sadly, some of the teachers and staff actually went almost 10 whole days (which is more than a week obviously.....) before they really believed that the guy was not returning. And you all know how some teachers are loyal to the principal. It was almost funny listening to his followers talk about how he would be back any day now (funny or sad, take your pick). Some people were even hostile towards me because I had told them that the guy wasn't coming back. Admittedly the principal added to the illusion. He even called in once or twice to tell people that he was sick, when in fact he had no intention of returning. I am not sure why he bothered doing that, unless he was just trying to get paid for an extra week of "work" by using sick leave.
I thought that his behavior was pathetic. If he had quit with notice then I would have forgiven him but the way he lied about it and went without notice was pathetic. Its hard for me to imagine a principal who was making over 100k pulling something like that, but he did it. And I'm sure it affected his teaching license.
Still though it is a hard job and the school district certainly doesn't do a good job of preparing people for it. I was told, for example, that I would have high speed internet when in fact my connection is slower than 56kb. And no one told me that beer was illegal until I got here. Still though I didn't pull a runner, and even if I had left I certainly would have given notice and let everyone know that I was going to be leaving in advance. I wouldn't have lied about it like our loser principal did. |
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naturegirl321

Joined: 04 May 2003 Posts: 9041 Location: home sweet home
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 12:27 am Post subject: |
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| fladude wrote: |
| I even have to admit that I almost broke my own contract my first year here. If you aren't used to being totally alone and living in a place where you can't get out at all, then its difficult (and I certainly wasn't). Still though I managed to stick it out and even signed up for a second year (although you won't catch me up here for a 3d year... once I get my 2 years experience then I am GONE).. |
Why do you need two years? So you can teach in an international school? |
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fladude
Joined: 02 Feb 2009 Posts: 432
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:07 am Post subject: |
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Why do you need two years? So you can teach in an international school? |
Yes, I would like to at least have the option of working at an international school. So I decided to obtain two years of experience at a public high school. I may have been better off picking one a little less remote. But its all about adventure right?  |
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DosEquisX
Joined: 09 Dec 2010 Posts: 361
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 3:34 am Post subject: |
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If an employer is being abusive towards you, blatantly breaching the contract to your disadvantage (pretty common in SK) and firing people for no reason, I would not begrudge somebody for running.
Many people will run if there's a death in the family or something like that. My father died during my SK contract and I came back because I signed a deal and my school did nothing to justifying leaving them high and dry. To me, that's not really a good excuse. |
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Hod
Joined: 28 Apr 2003 Posts: 1613 Location: Home
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Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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Never Ceased, not sure I understand the cherry picking comment, but your opinion is as valid as mine or anyone else�s.
When you take a conversation class, and one or two students offer an opinion which is different from yours, do you step in and tell them so and stamp your authority? Or would you stand back and offer a comment to make others think and prolong the debate? I know what a better teacher would do. |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 12:12 am Post subject: |
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naturegirl321

Joined: 04 May 2003 Posts: 9041 Location: home sweet home
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 12:36 am Post subject: |
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| NCTBA recanted his previous statement. Being a man, he doesn't have to worry about the stuff us females have to worry about. Ironically the only reason I know about that stuff is because it happened to me. At the time, I wasn't working for the guy who tried stuff, but we ended up going to the police station and incidentally he got fired from his job: because of me. had I been working for them, I probably would have pulled a runner. |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 2:10 am Post subject: |
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I've corrected my previous "123" mistakes, naturegirl321... ...sorry!
NCTBA |
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Justin Trullinger

Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: Seoul, South Korea and Myanmar for a bit
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 4:15 am Post subject: |
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It's really hard to generalize- I can't say all runners are losers, cause I don't know all runners. And yeah, there are runner stories that make you think, when you hear them: "I would have done the same thing."
But I've only had one first had experience with runners. Dude was, in fact, a total loser.
The response on this thread reinforces my view that, in EFL in general, runners are rare. In specific circumstances (some countries, some school types, north of the arctic circle) they probably get more common.
A thought, though:
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When the OP asked for runner stories, he got none, at first. When he commented on not getting any stories, I shared my view as to why. (Runners are rare in most EFL situations.)
That seems, to me, to be a way of contributing to the thread. But it's not like the thread was getting a lot of traffic beforehand. IF there had been lots of folks dying to share runner stories, my comments, and similar views, would never have come up.
Another thought, though- the OP didn't just start an interesting thread. He or she is "working on a compilation" of stories, with comments that implied an intent to publish. A lot of folks are hesitant to help a stranger get material to publish without knowing the details.
I don't have any runner stories worth publishing. If I did, I wouldn't hand them out free. If I have anything worth publishing, I'd, you know, publish it.
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Perilla

Joined: 09 Jul 2010 Posts: 792 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 4:32 am Post subject: |
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In the world of TEFL there plenty of TEFLers being taken advantage of - plenty of "fly by night" operations - so it's hardly surprising that some TEFLers sometimes do a midnight flit themselves.
Having said that, the only time I knew of a few "runners" was during the Asian crash of 1997-8. Suddely we were earning half as much money, and yes, a good few jumped ship. (I was in Korea then.)
I knew some of them. The thing is, the stories aren't very exciting. They just went home. Gone. |
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