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Do EFL teachers tend to share some personality traits?
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bulgogiboy



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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LOL You are so hooked into this that you willingly admit to being a a loser of some sort. Indeed you celebrate and promulgate this veiled insult.


How did my statement equate to an admission of being a loser? I don't necessarily think ESL teachers are losers, not at all, I just find it amusing how certain ESL teachers like to blow their own trumpets all the time. Do you think it's normal to refer to yourself as a 'very fine' person?? Rather immodest, wouldn't you say, old bean? Very Happy
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mimi_intheworld



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think all TEFLers are rootless drifters and wastrels, with either too much training or not enough, just in it for a laugh and a way to spend a few years somewhere "exotic" before they go home to spend the rest of their productive years shuffling paper in a cubicle farm.

There. Is that the generalisation everyone's tiptoeing around?

Don't get all up in arms, guys. We're all in the same boat. We needn't prove the value or propriety of our chosen profession here - we're all doing the same (on some level) job. Some of us for a year or two or five, some of us For-Eh-Ver. (Off and on, anyway.) Your parents, your family, your friends who wonder "when are you ever going to settle down?" aren't here. We've nothing to prove.

That said, I fall into the traveller/drifter/professional teacher category. I kind of like to spend a few years in each place before I move on to new and exciting challenges. Not sure if I'll ever settle down, so I'm glad to have identified TEFLing as a still-viable career choice!

I think the majority of TEFLers have at least a sense of adventure. Or, more than that, a sense that "adventure" is and should be a normal part of life. The better teachers also like to teach.
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artemisia



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I think all TEFLers are rootless drifters and wastrels, with either too much training or not enough

I think that definition could apply to many humans. I can�t be bothered too much with existentialist angst or raison d��tre. You do what you do and if you don�t like it, you try something else. People who are driven by the need to gain money and status are not usually particularly passionate about what they do. Being a doctor is a way and means to attain a certain lifestyle for some, after a long training, and this often has very little to do with the desire to be involved in holistic healing.

Quite often people choose jobs that relate to what their parents do or did. That�s what they are exposed to and influenced by as well as feeling the need to meet family expectations. Just as there are some people who should not be teachers, there are some who should not be doctors (this probably applies to other areas, too) but I doubt many of them expend the same energy on the whys and wherefores of getting into their field.
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Guerciotti



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 6:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do the "here for an easy job so I can drink and ho 2 to 4 nights a week not to mention I probably have a criminal record at home" teachers qualify as "rootless drifters and wastrels?"

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Trifaro



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 6:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How can I join the party? Sign me up.

I'm from HHI,SC.
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Guerciotti



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Trifaro wrote:
How can I join the party? Sign me up.

I'm from HHI,SC.

Laughing
Personally, I'd stay in Hilton Head. I'm in China. I'm not cool enough to be in this group, but I can give you a contact number.
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VietCanada



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd be less inclined to comment on these categorisation threads over the years if the OP would include judgemental as one of the types who do this job.

I love this job and feel very lucky to have discovered my niche in this life. Some people haven't and may never. That's the only classification you need for any job on this earth. Found their niche or still looking. And judgemental.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 2:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VietCanada wrote:
I'd be less inclined to comment on these categorisation threads over the years if the OP would include judgemental as one of the types who do this job.

I love this job and feel very lucky to have discovered my niche in this life. Some people haven't and may never. That's the only classification you need for any job on this earth. Found their niche or still looking. And judgemental.


That reminds me. I forgot something.
Do the "here for an easy job so I can spend all my money on drinks and hos 2 to 4 nights a week not to mention I probably have a criminal record at home and I can't go back because after I screw up my visa I wont have 10 kwai left for a plane ticket" teachers qualify as "rootless drifters and wastrels?"
I think a wastrel falls under the "not looking for a 'niche'" category. However, I may need to review the categories.


I just call it like I see it.
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mimi_intheworld



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Goodness. I hope it was clear that the rootless drifter & wastrel comment was, you know, satirical. (Or else self-condemning. Perhaps both? Well, whatever.)
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear VisitCanada,

As the OP, if I am to judge, I wouldn't include judgmental. EFLers who travel to work and live in distant lands where the culture is often very different from their own would, I'd say, be less judgmental than the norm.

But then, I don't see spiral78's post as being at all judgmental, just descriptive, an attempt at classification. Is it complete? Probably not - but spiral78 was, it seems to me, simply attempting to answer the question posed.

I was an EFLer for over twenty years (and an ESLer for ten, so far,) and I certainly took no umbrage at what spiral78 posted.

But maybe the categories "thick-skinned" and "thin-skinned" should be included, as well. My belief would be that most EFLers are likely more thick-skinned than average - but clearly there are exceptions.

Regards,
John
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spiral78



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

For heaven's sake, I've been in EFL myself for 12+ years, beginning at a newbie level and moving up the scale to higher quals. Why would I be derogatory about my own profession?

I won't pretend that all the teachers I've known and worked with over the years were great or even good teachers. They've been all over the scale, (even including a few rootless wasters and drifters Laughing ) But of course there are many good teachers at every level from newbie to pro - as I said in an earlier post.
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artemisia



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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But maybe the categories "thick-skinned" and "thin-skinned" should be included, as well...


And maybe "argumentative"? Or perhaps should that be "seasoned debater".

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Goodness. I hope it was clear that the rootless drifter & wastrel comment was, you know, satirical

Yeah. Smile. I just thought I'd take a wider perspective and generously include most of humanity in that assessment.
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VietCanada



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

johnslat wrote:
Dear VisitCanada,

As the OP, if I am to judge, I wouldn't include judgmental. EFLers who travel to work and live in distant lands where the culture is often very different from their own would, I'd say, be less judgmental than the norm.

But then, I don't see spiral78's post as being at all judgmental, just descriptive, an attempt at classification. Is it complete? Probably not - but spiral78 was, it seems to me, simply attempting to answer the question posed.

I was an EFLer for over twenty years (and an ESLer for ten, so far,) and I certainly took no umbrage at what spiral78 posted.

But maybe the categories "thick-skinned" and "thin-skinned" should be included, as well. My belief would be that most EFLers are likely more thick-skinned than average - but clearly there are exceptions.

Regards,
John


Except you did judge. As many others have over the years on this board.

Why people feel it necessary to judge people who teach overseas as different than those who choose work at home is difficult to understand.

Why do we do what we do? I seriously doubt we all have the same reason.
I seriously doubt that criminality or irresponsibility are the commonalities that link us.

In the first place nobody is teaching in every possible country now so it is impossible to categorise those in the profession at this moment at any time.

Secondly every thread of this type inevitably implies or outright states mimi_intheworld's generalisation.

Travelling the world and teaching children more likely falls under a category suggesting enlightenment than the seven deadly sins.

The simple response is speak for yourself and your limited experience but don't assume the other 50,000 or so in maybe 100 odd countries share your experience or welcome your wildly simplistic, cynical viewpoint of their life.

You don't know me. You don't know my friends and co-workers. Speak for yourself.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear VisitCanada,

As you are judging many of us. If you don't think there are any differences between teachers who remain in ESL and never leave home and those who stay in EFL and travel about the world, well, that's fine.

As I mentioned, I was an EFLer for over twenty years, and I haven't taken any of the more negative descriptions personally. I have to wonder why you seem to be doing so.

Why not just ignore this thread if it bothers you so much? No, I don't know you, and to tell you the truth, I doubt I'd want to. I'm sure you feel the same about me. And that's OK.

"Speak for yourself"

And that's what everyone is doing, speaking for him/herself, based on his/her experience.
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VietCanada



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 30, 2010 10:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

johnslat wrote:
Dear VisitCanada,

As you are judging many of us. If you don't think there are any differences between teachers who remain in ESL and never leave home and those who stay in EFL and travel about the world, well, that's fine.

As I mentioned, I was an EFLer for over twenty years, and I haven't taken any of the more negative descriptions personally. I have to wonder why you seem to be doing so.

Why not just ignore this thread if it bothers you so much? No, I don't know you, and to tell you the truth, I doubt I'd want to. I'm sure you feel the same about me. And that's OK.

"Speak for yourself"

And that's what everyone is doing, speaking for him/herself, based on his/her experience.


Round and round we go.

I judge you, you judge me.

I speak for myself, you speak for yourself.

You don't seem to like me, you presume I feel the same away about you.

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