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Stephen Jones
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 1:36 am Post subject: |
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| Others--in more "desperate" circumstances than yours--have done it. |
But that was precisely because the circumstances were desperate. The problem comes when you are comfortable enough not to be desperate, but still uncomfortable enough to be miserable.
Thrifty is different; being miserable is part of his comfort zone. |
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Henry_Cowell

Joined: 27 May 2005 Posts: 3352 Location: Berkeley
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:13 am Post subject: |
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| Stephen Jones wrote: |
| Thrifty is different; being miserable is part of his comfort zone. |
And persistently telling others how miserable he is always seems to give him that warm, fuzzy feeling.  |
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thrifty
Joined: 25 Apr 2006 Posts: 1665 Location: chip van
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:40 am Post subject: |
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that warm, fuzzy feeling.  |
No it is drink that gives me that. |
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Pollux
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 224 Location: PL
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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You guys are insensitive.
While you would probably feel sorry for someone who is uneducated, burdened with debt, ill, with a large family to support, , and stuck in a no way out situation, you can't bring yourselves to pity an educated, mobile individual who is bored with his lot. Shame on you. You guys would critisize a housewife, who tracks weather religiously as if her livelihood depended on it, without understanding tha pathology behind it.
Unless our friend Thrifty is 70 years old, would you say that it's time to retrain and get on with it? There are so many interesting professions out there. |
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SueH
Joined: 01 Feb 2003 Posts: 1022 Location: Northern Italy
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 6:12 pm Post subject: |
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But that was precisely because the circumstances were desperate. The problem comes when you are comfortable enough not to be desperate, but still uncomfortable enough to be miserable.
Thrifty is different; being miserable is part of his comfort zone. |
Reminds me of a phrase in Jeanette Winterson's 'Written on the Body': ... just found it "Poor me.There's nothing so sweet as wallowing in it is there? Wallowing is sex for depressives." |
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Henry_Cowell

Joined: 27 May 2005 Posts: 3352 Location: Berkeley
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Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Unless our friend Thrifty is 70 years old, would you say that it's time to retrain and get on with it? There are so many interesting professions out there. |
Been there; done that.
His response: No money to leave Turkey to pursue another job or even career. He's stuck. Period. Full stop.
Leave him to his drink. |
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thrifty
Joined: 25 Apr 2006 Posts: 1665 Location: chip van
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 10:10 am Post subject: |
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There are so many interesting professions out there. |
So why aren't you in one? |
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Henry_Cowell

Joined: 27 May 2005 Posts: 3352 Location: Berkeley
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Posted: Sun Oct 22, 2006 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Pollux wrote: |
There are so many interesting professions out there. |
So why aren't you in one? |
We are. You're not.  |
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Stephen Jones
Joined: 21 Feb 2003 Posts: 4124
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Posted: Mon Oct 23, 2006 9:41 am Post subject: |
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| His response: No money to leave Turkey to pursue another job or even career. |
Out of date info. He's working for BAe in Saudi. |
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