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		| ckhl 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 4:56 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| It is one of those platitudes that has enough validity, that we tend to nod our heads. But, if we think at all, it is not terribly accurate. I have always found that first part to be highly insulting to all professionals in education. 
 "Those who can't do, teach."
 
 C'mon, dear.  It's in jest.  Lighten up.  You miss the point.
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		| veiledsentiments 
 
  
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				|  Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 10:17 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| Nope... didn't miss the point at all.  It is something that I have heard all my life and you may or may not have been joking - which is not at all obvious... and further posters picked up the ball and ran with it. 
 But the fact remains that the majority of people who say it are serious.
 
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		| ckhl 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:34 am    Post subject: |   |  
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				| Nope... didn't miss the point at all. It is something that I have heard all my life and you may or may not have been joking - which is not at all obvious 
 Thank you for the feedback.  I must be more mindful of my rhetorical style
  , especially if my intended humor is not evident.  You did state that teaching writing was one of your fortes.  |  | 
	
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		| uaeobserver 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:51 am    Post subject: Re: a penny for your ....pubs,  flats and computer facility |   |  
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	  | ArtyCycle wrote: |  
	  | ...Have been wondering whether Abu Dhabi  will have bars or pubs around to take the edge off things. |  
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	  | Would sure like to have a nice flat to relax in.  Do teachers live together in buildings or are they sprinkled around everywhere? |  
 No compounds --- but housing is often grouped.  After your first year, you may opt for a cash allowance, and pick an accomodation of your own (i.e. - yes --- you can share --- provided the landlord agrees, and you're not sharing with an unrelated person of the opposite gender)
 
 
 
 
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	  | Any hints about computer connections in these places? Would there be something up and running already? |  
 Some individuals living in the "suburbs" have expressed frustration at the lack of quality connections.  Still others in the dense parts of the city are starting to see bottlenecks and log jams.   Bear in mind that having a connection to the internet is different than having access to the site of your choice.  The UAE does filter for various moral and economic reasons --- but that has not been a problem for me.
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		| moralleader1 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 8:43 am    Post subject: |   |  
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	  | ckhl wrote: |  
	  | [i] especially if my intended humor is not evident.  You did state that teaching writing was one of your fortes.  |  
 CKHL/ Your joke was very clear to me
  and there is no need for reading skills to get it, thus for those who did not, should open a dictionary and find the definition of: humor   
 Keep posting since you make sense all the time!
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		| veiledsentiments 
 
  
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:17 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| Why do I not find that the least bit surprising...  |  | 
	
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		| ckhl 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:31 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| Why do I not find that the least bit surprising... 
 Now you're getting positively cryptic dear.
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		| al bidarnd 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:32 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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	  | moralleader1 wrote: |  
	  | CKHL/ Your joke was very clear to me and there is no need for reading skills to get it, thus for those who did not, should open a dictionary and find the definition of: humor
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 Yo moral leader. i did a test on your buddy's "humor"
 
 I got several of my colleagues to read the "Those who can't do, teach" post. Tried it with Brits - their famous humor let them down, tried it with North Americans - those from the States and Canada didn't crack a smile even though I tried it with all the punchline intonation I could muster to make it Dave Barry funny, tried it with Aussies and a Kiwi - straight faces all round. Even tested it on a non-teacher - she stared at me.
 
 I guess it ain't really that funny.
 
 I'd PM your buddy - seems a better place for your version of hilarity
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		| ckhl 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:34 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| I guess it ain't really that funny. 
 
 Perhaps the real question is why this is so important to you, why it's such an issue.  It's as if you had something at stake here.
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		| al bidarnd 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:46 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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	  | ckhl wrote: |  
	  | Perhaps the real question is why this is so important to you, why it's such an issue.  It's as if you had something at stake here.
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 ermmmm... not at all important for me, pretty much a zero issue as far as I'm concerned. Just a little light-heartedness in a stormy sea of way off-topic posts.
 
 I was actually following up on your humor-buddy's invitation to: "thus for those who did not [get it] , should open a dictionary and find the definition of: humor" - took it a little further to see if i was the only one who thought it was really non-funny.
 
 C'mon, dear. It's in jest. Lighten up. Where's yer sense of humor?
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		| ckhl 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 5:13 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| C'mon, dear. It's in jest. Lighten up. Where's yer sense of humor? 
 My, you have been tracking this closely.  ...Let's take a look at this....
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		| eha 
 
 
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				|  Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 6:20 pm    Post subject: |   |  
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				| Greenfingers wrote: 
 "Member's value diversity and take pride in each other's contributions;
 it seems strange to me that the same individual did not take any pride nor give credit to the contributions of others within the team; this gave rise to feelings of low self esteem to some of those within the group and silence withing meetings for fear of workplace bullying and or criticisms later. Many of those within the group have experienced workplace bullying from the faction led by the individual described above. I myself have experienced it, but not within the past year. When I experienced it, I informed my supervisor and it was stopped. The supervisor told me that others had complained about similar practices, but the bullying remains years later. It manifests itself in subtle and unpleasant ways, such as ignoring, whispering in the tearoom, rambunctious behaviour such as kissing and hugging, grooming and touching within the faction when alone with the person they sought to intimidate; shouting down of good ideas at meetings by one or more of the faction. Emails sent by the faction in support of one another's ideas or in criticism of someone's ideas from outside of the faction. Recently a colleague called an important meeting at 8:00 am and the individual arrived late and then asked why the meeting was at this time; the individual seems to relish disruption of the good ideas of others. "
 
 
 Excellent description of workplace abuses.  So why is this acceptable here, while an equally valid thread elsewhere in this  forum was shut down six months ago, because a few out-of-it individuals didn't like to be 'lectured' on workplace bullying?   Judging by the responses on here, at least one of them seems to have caught up with current thinking, because the above description was received and answered with respect,  while the responses in the thread I'm referring to was itself a pretty disgraceful example of 'forum bullying.'   The MODs shut it down, giving the last word to the bullies.  You must admit it's a bit irritating to see the same stuff being treated seriously six months later, when the invalidators have caught up a little with current thinking in workplace courtesy.
 
 The case I'm referring to was worse, too, because the supervisors in that situation simply didn't have the background to take the concept of 'workplace bullying' seriously.   So the 'forum bullies' shut off what was probably the only place for the poster at that time, to discuss what was happening to him/her.
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