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gaijinalways



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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 9:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I guess I meant "diversity" as a synonym of "variety." And with that definition, it exists in everything. Given the context of the thread, I was thinking of cultural diversity, including diversity of languages, religion, values, attitudes, manners, and social behaviour. And inarguably, these diversities are part of the world that we all have to deal with.

I mentioned "tolerance" as a value, or a point of view. Like many values, it is a good one as long as it doesn't get too absolute; all of us tolerate differences we find insignificant. Likewise, we all have some things we won't or perhaps can't tolerate.


I agree, and what differences we can tolerate will stretch us as people. Just because it's accepted by some people to kill people in one culture for marrying the 'wrong' person Confused , I don't want to do that or tolerate that with people in countries that I plan to live in.

We often get cultural differences in countries with multi-ethnic populations and when we travel to other places. Sometimes cultural values will divide us from other people, but often we will find they won't. We just may have different ways of looking at the same thing, and we have to leave it at that.

One thing though Justin, do vegetables and fruit feel pain when you eat them Shocked Cool ? Believe it or not, plants do feel pain, so then I'm wondering, what can we eat guilt free?!
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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:09 pm    Post subject: Kosovo bagels Muslim world and anything else I can think of Reply with quote

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Glad to hear it, Thelmadatter-
I think that most of what I've been trying to express (clumsilly, verbosely, perhaps preposterously) on this thread can be summed up with that- The whole Muslim world isn't just one place! (Nor the "Christian World" nor anything else.


Yes, there are always pockets of hope in any dark place. I just hope the rest of the Muslim world (esp. the Wahabiists (sp?)) dont declare jihad on these "apostates". There was an attack on a mosque in Pakistan not too long ago of a Muslim sect as simply because they believe the Mohamed is not the last prophet. They were declared hereterical and illegal by the govt and the mobs descended on them.

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Dear aroich36,

"Only a fanatic could keep from becoming evil in a place like that."

I'm afraid I disagree. I think that an honorable person who has integrity could "keep from becoming evil in a place like that."

Regards,
John


Honorable people like that are called saints... afraid not too many in the human race qualify for that status.

Stephen Jones.... what is your problem??? I find something good in the world and you have to trash me. What is your obsession of painting me as the devil himself --- herself?

No place on earth is going to be paradise... but there are places where danger exists to the extent that it can or does overwhelm the good. My only statement earlier is that I prefer to avoid places where the danger or even evil is so strong that I would not be able to defend or stand for myself. I dont see me as dangerous for thinking that. Heck, I wont teach in US public schools because my experience with them is that they are completely out of control. I know there are some good ones, but what I have seen and read makes me very pessimistic about them. I would not work in a school that would try to force me to change students' grades for any reason except that I made a mistake... and those exist here in Mexico (maybe in the States too ... I dunno). These places have beliefs and values that run completely contrary to my own and compromise is not possible. Im no saint nor martyr.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear themadhatter,

"I just hope the rest of the Muslim world (esp. the Wahabiists (sp?)) dont declare jihad on these "apostates".

The "extremists" have been waging war on Muslims who don't agree with their view of Islam for quite a while now.


"Honorable people like that are called saints... afraid not too many in the human race qualify for that status."

I'd say that "saints" may be too strong a term. While perhaps far too many are subject to the "I was only following orders" syndrome, my view of humanity is more optimistic than yours, I'd say.

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John
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arioch36



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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 2:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Dear aroich36,

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Only a fanatic could keep from becoming evil in a place like that."


I'm afraid I disagree. I think that an honorable person who has integrity could "keep from becoming evil in a place like that."

Regards,
John


I was being a little tongue in cheek, a little. But if someone who is willing to die for what he believes in is a fanatic.... people who in such situations who still hold to their integrity ... knowing they risk job security and promotion, knowing that by standing for what they believe is right will earn them ridicule, may even earn their children persecution and ridicule, this comes close to being a fanatic ... maybe not risking life ( though in some places this has happened to "whistleblowers" and those who refuse to go along with the crowd, but definitely risking home, friendship, reputation and job security.

I think research and historical evidence suggests that the vast majority of us would not stand up for what is right in such cirumstances.
I think of the movie "Serpico" based on a real life cop who refused to partake in the corruption that was happening among his fellow police officers. He came close to losing his physical life, and I think he may have entered the witness relocation program. Your definition would classify him as a fanatic.
I prefer the saint designation, or hero.

Though perhaps the difference between hero and fanatic is razor-thin ... and sometimes based on cultural or personal bias.


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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear arioch36,
Surely you don't mean this definition:

"A fanatic is someone willing to deliberately kill non-combatant individuals in order to advance whatever cause (usually religion or politics) it is that he/she espouses."

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John
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arioch36



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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 2:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Dear arioch36,
Surely you don't mean this definition:

"A fanatic is someone willing to deliberately kill non-combatant individuals in order to advance whatever cause (usually religion or politics) it is that he/she espouses."


I personally totally agree that such a person is guilty of evil to the highest degree.. It is just the part "willing to die" that trouble me. to me "willing to die" can be an ideal (if it comes with unwilling to take civilian life

But I wonder. You are older then me. Old enough to remember when Martin Luther King first hit the scene? Did many consider him to be a fanatic?

I am not a good Christian. But I do believe 100% in the bible. What Jesus teaches is showing respect to authority even when being persecuted to death for saying the truth. Saying the truth is of no value unless it is done with the motive of helping others, and dying is of no value unless done with the motive of helping others. Then, one is a saint in my book, and a better man than I
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arioch36



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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Actually, we should say , "someone who is willing to kill civilians/non combatants to advance their cause is a fanatic" because their are other kinds of fanatics out their.
I would go even further, perhaps ... anyone willing to kill or bring serious harm to others (civilian or military) to further their political or religious cause is a fanatic.
To me, the Hezbollah who captured two Jewish soldiers just to promote strife and war, they are fanatics. Not a terrorist act by definition perhaps, but a fanatical act. Their was no immediate thought of ..., "we must do this to help Palestinan people have enough food to eat, or have the right to work. In fact this set back Palestinians having these things.
Not to stray to this argument, and some may have various sides, I am simply trying to give an example of an action of military or quasi military which is also fanatical.

Then you must enter a grey zone (brought up when remembering Dresden, Hiroshima, or Pearl Harbor), Fanatical leaders of legitamite organizations, armies ... and what the duty of the army member should be. A military can not function if members always wuestion orders. A military loses its soul if no one questions the orders.

Bush, Iraq 1, kicking Iraq out of Kuwait ... no one considered this fanatical. I totally agree we should not have conquered Iraq. It's not our business who the leader of Iraq or Bosnia or Nigeria is. (others disagree)
Bush 2 Iraq 2, some valid arguements of fanaticism, especially on Rumsfield... to me. Are they fanatics? Being in New York City on 911, and out of the country afterwards, I think for a while America as a whole was fanatical for a while. This is not Rumsey's war. The majority of the COngress agreed. I personally would apply the term fanatical, but could respect disagreement here.
Peace Corps and religiousnon-religious people willing to risk their lives to go to Iraq to try to help .. I wouldn't want to apply the term fanatical.

I am sorry for rambling, and enough posing on this tangent. I am in the state of musing and pondering at the same time I am writing this, which makes for unconcise writing.
My apologies

I am currently in China. The Chinese approach to the Olympics is literally fanatical Razz
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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 3:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear arioch36,
I never heard anyone label King as a "fanatic." But that doesn't mean no one ever did. As I wrote in an earlier post, one person's "freedom fighter" may well be another's "terrorist."
That's exactly why we're trying to pin down the meaning of "fanatic." But no matter what we might agree upon, there will always be others who will use the term "fanatic" in ways that we could consider inappropriate.
Who is an "extremist?" What is "normal" or, for that matter "insane?"
Heck, there are even arguments - and mighty big ones - over when life begins and what constitutes "legal" death.
Which is why I paraphrased Justice Potter's statement about pornography (yet another issue with many subjective interpretations) in an earlier post.

Regards,
John
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arioch36



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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 3:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't mean to pry, John, how old?

I am curous, I can only stereotype some redneck fanatics from the deep south (the kind who went around wearing white sheets), back in the 50's and 60's calling King the fanatic.

It is important for us as a collective world society to reject fanaticism and terrorism even while not agreeing that not all agree which terms apply to which people.

heard that back in the states they arrested another "messiah" who also slept with underage girls. Fanaticism tends to repest itself in recognizable patterns.

Burke .. for evil to prevail all that is neccessary is for good men to do nothing
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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 1:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Burke .. for evil to prevail all that is neccessary is for good men to do nothing



And women, of course! (Men on their own seem less useful somehow...)

Wink

Justin
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PostPosted: Fri May 09, 2008 2:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear arioch36,
I'm 65 (plus a bit). But those "rednecks" didn't call King a "fanatic" (the word wasn't as popular in common parlance as it is now), and those "fanatics from the deep south" - and, I might add, other sections of the USA - weren't considered "fanatics", either; they were "white supremacists ", often members of the KKK or, pejoratively, simply "rednecks."
Their most popular term for King back then would have been "uppity n*****."
I'm not so sure I'd call Wayne Bent (how eponymous) aka Michael Travesser a fanatic. A whacko, for sure, but for me, anyway, he seems to be lacking what I see as the necessary homicidal ingredient - the willingness, even eagerness, to spread his "truth" by any means necessary, including murder.
I could be wrong about him; he might indeed be a "fanatic", but although he's one very sick puppy who has likely ruined the lives of many, I suspect he may not be sick enough to engage in murder and mayhem to spread his version of ultimate truth.
What may save him from being a fanatic is that, from what I've seen, anyway, he's a sex-crazed wus.
Now Charles Manson - that's a different story.

The quote - similar to what has happened to Victor Hugo's quote

On r�siste � l'invasion des arm�es; on ne r�siste pas � l'invasion des id�es.

which has become "Nothing can stop an idea whose time has come"

or, for that matter, "Play it again, Sam" (in "Casablanca", it's "Play it, Sam")


- comes from Burke's: �When bad men combine, the good must associate; else they will fall one by one, an unpitied sacrifice in a contemptible struggle.

but has been changed over time.

Regards,
John
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