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dmb · Joined: 12 Feb 2003 Posts: 8397

My mate went to Bahrain, got a little sozzled, found a prostitute and then when he was sleeping she stole all his money and disappeared into the night. Who was the victim?

grahamb · Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Posts: 1945

Getting "a little sozzled" and then looking for a prostitute is asking for trouble. Your friend could have been physically assaulted... or worse.

Capergirl · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2003 12:11 pm Post subject:

guest of Japan · Joined: 28 Feb 2003 Posts: 1601 Location: Japan

Caper Girl I don't know what Nova Scotia is like but the idea of blaming the woman for her rape is no longer socially or legally acceptable in the northeast of the US. Therefore I don't think your turn the tables justification is advisable.

grahamb · Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Posts: 1945

Capergirl didn't justify what happened; she simply criticised the robbery victim's judgment. I'm the one who said he was "asking for it."
If you prefer, I'll re-phrase it. He made himself vulnerable. He took an unnecessary risk.

guest of Japan · Joined: 28 Feb 2003 Posts: 1601 Location: Japan

I do seem to have made a slight reading error. I apologize.

double agent · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2003 2:11 pm Post subject: dont pay for it

*The only righteous sex is that within the bonds of marriage * <A quote from one of the posters here...��

All of it is RIGHTEOUS. And sometimes it can be GREAT. Cool

Capergirl · Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2003 3:01 pm Post subject:

Stephen Jones · Joined: 21 Feb 2003 Posts: 4124

Stephen Jones · Joined: 21 Feb 2003 Posts: 4124

Then it's not meaningful sex it's emotional sex.

And what about a guy/gal with high self-esteem jerking off?

And how is sex and emotional attachment at the same time any different from fish and chips on the same plate?

Your voice might be sweet, but I doubt if it's reasonable.

Two much pretention in this thread.

baby predator · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2003 10:33 am Post subject:

Maybe a better distinction would be fulfilling sex and unfulfilling sex. I think fulfillment comes when there is a corresponding physical and mental (I won't use the word emotional because its too easily misinterpreted) satisfaction. This is perfectly achievable with casual sex, but I tend to think its more often achieved in a steady relationship. That's not a value judgement, just an opinion.

Capergirl · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2003 11:26 am Post subject:

Wow...it's virtually impossible to post something on this board without someone dissecting the hell out of it. "What did you mean when you said......?" Rolling Eyes

*sigh*

I'm sure that sex with a prostitute is very meaningful. My apologies to whatshisname's friend who went to Bahrain. Twisted Evil

Not that sex has to be "meaningful" to be good. Get a grip, okay...a prude I am not. I just happen to think that prostitution is degrading and dehumanizing for the prostitute and that anyone who thinks it is "victimless" is kidding him/herself. C'est tout.

*Capergirl flogs herself with a wet noodle for getting on this God-forsaken go-nowhere thread*

guest of Japan · Joined: 28 Feb 2003 Posts: 1601 Location: Japan

What do you mean by a wet noodle? Twisted Evil

Capergirl · Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2003 11:31 am Post subject:

ROTFLMAO!

aaronschwartz · Joined: 17 Jul 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Beijing

"flogs herself" never heard it called that before. Care to give any details?

What did you mean by that?

Laughing