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arioch36
Joined: 21 Jan 2003
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 Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 2:39 pm Post subject: Seducing students in China |
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For those of you who haven't, check out
Why are there so many old white dudes marrying young chinese
on the China off topic forum. It kind of got off theme when some posted whitjohn's blog site
[/quote]Dear John,
I didn't pose the original question. But I think we should all take a look at this link, which I found in the "Off - topic" section of the China forum, before commenting further on this issue:
http://www.mblog.com/china_dolls/2004_03.html
Sickening, isn't it?
Oh some one can confirm it, I was told he edited some of it, but the time I looked, as you scroll down, he openly admits to having sex with as many students as possible.
I guess we would know his position on dating students, if what he does can even for a second be called dating. |
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Irish Blood English Heart
Joined: 22 Mar 2004
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Location: Gosforth, The United Kingdom
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 3:29 pm Post subject: |
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It seems that thread has been deleted now, What was said on it the last few days that led to it being deleted? I must admit that blog is in very very poor taste  |
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khmerhit
Joined: 31 May 2003
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Location: Reverse Culture Shock Unit
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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| Where did he go? where did he go? Curiouser and curiouser.... |
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greentea
Joined: 28 Jun 2003
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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Curious indeed ...
Did Arioch's overly-perceptive analysis of the situation blow it from the waters ?
(Please re-post your analysis. You said *everything* I'd been thinking .)
And I do think "whitjohn" is beginning to ask for help. There was a warning in the "Images of China" thread. Having trouble recalling that, too...
Mister JW, be brave and find change. |
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Capergirl
Joined: 02 Feb 2003
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Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
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I am concerned about the fact that some posters see no problem with Whitjohn's weblog. Even if some of these women were willing bed partners (hard as that is for me to believe), I'm sure that they are oblivious to the way in which they are being exploited on the internet.
The man is clearly a few bricks short of a load. Help is what he needs and plenty of it. He does not care about these women. He sees them as objects. As the mother of a little girl, it frightens me to know that there are men in the world who would exploit, defile, and degrade young women in this manner.  |
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Stephen Jones
Joined: 21 Feb 2003
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Could be worse. There was a guy in a village in Sri Lanka near Ratnapura that used to take clandestine photographs of all the schoolgirls in the village. He then uses his skills with Adobe Photoshop to paste their faces on to the bodies of other girls in pornographic photos he'd downloaded from the Internet and sell them to a German porn site. He did this for years until a migrant from his village who was living in Germany accessed the porn site and was rather upset to find most of the young virgins from his village revealing more than he though posssible.
The police were moaning they didn't have a charge serious enough to throw at him, but I rather suspect he's glad to be in jail until the fuss dies down. |
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johnslat
Joined: 21 Jan 2003
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Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 9:52 pm Post subject: Off again, on again? |
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Dear Irish Blood English Heart,
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| It seems that thread has been deleted now |
Hmm, not on my computer. Was it off for a while and then put back on?
I haven't seen it off the forum since it was begun:
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/job/viewtopic.php?t=10118&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=105
Regards,
John
P.S. And, from the looks of it, it may go on forever - 8 pages and counting. |
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Clancy
Joined: 23 Apr 2004
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 11:28 pm Post subject: |
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| The thread lives, unfortunately. |
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NateM
Joined: 19 Apr 2004
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| Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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| I think we should stop this one as it is. No sense in having two threads simultaneously discussing the same thing. |
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Horizontal Hero
Joined: 26 Mar 2004
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Location: The civilised little bit of China.
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| What is the point of opening up this topic here.? Does it make you feel better to poor scorn on others (regardless of how deserving that may be)? As M Scott Peck observed in "People of the Lie", those who spend their time fighting the darkness usually get consumed by it. What good is this thread going to do anyone, except maybe allow a few souls to feel less bad about themselves because they can reassure themselves that there are worse people in the world than them? If you want to engage in sacrifice, go and kill a sheep or two. |
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Clancy
Joined: 23 Apr 2004
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| Killing a sheep or two may be a step up for those who may have been having sex with a sheep or three. |
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Teacher Lindsay
Joined: 31 Mar 2004
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Location: Luxian, Sichuan
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Clancy wrote:-
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| Killing a sheep or two may be a step up for those who may have been having sex with a sheep or three. |
I resent that remark! I would NEVER kill a sheep; they're so soft, cuddly, affectionate, compliant,
never complain, ......
Cheers |
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sidjameson
Joined: 11 Jan 2004
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Location: osaka
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The most shocking thing is that these girls seem to be smiling. Is China really like this? A place in this world where the ideal man is a fat, old ugly looking Australian. And the bit where he has his hand on 2 girls thighs and claims to have had a 3some......... and yet the girls do look like they are happy to be with him.
Does China do a retirement visa?  |
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struelle
Joined: 16 May 2003
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Location: Shanghai
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| The most shocking thing is that these girls seem to be smiling. Is China really like this? |
With over 1.3 billion people, you name it and you can find it happening somewhere in the country - it's hard to say China on a whole is like this or that.
However, there do exist people who are desperate to leave the country and will do whatever it takes. It's hard to understand this, after all, I wonder why more people don't come into this country! But the attraction for me and other foreigners is that we are rich and enjoy freedom here, while many of the people who are desperate to leave do so out of poverty and/or lack of freedom.
On the flip side, you have a traditional male-dominated culture that regards women as submissive and in some ways, treated like sex objects. Although complex, both of these factors (poverty and perceptions of women) contribute to a high rate of prostitution in many Asian countries including China.
So there's like an ad-hoc form of prostitution when women get involved with older foreign men just to leave the country. Some of the relationships may be genuine, but when you consider the factors at play, I tend to be quite wary of these sorts of relationships.
Steve |
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Newfoundland
Joined: 14 May 2003
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Location: Shanghai
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| Posted: Tue May 11, 2004 1:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Why is everyone assuming this is true? After reading it my assumption is... YEAH RIGHT. I DONT THINK SO. |
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