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I'M GOING CRAZY WITH THESE CONVERSATIONS!

 
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hujiaoman



Joined: 20 Jan 2005
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Location: Philadelphia, then Quangzhou

PostPosted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 8:21 pm    Post subject: I'M GOING CRAZY WITH THESE CONVERSATIONS! Reply with quote

I live on the East Coast in US. I've quit my job and am looking for a change (though I'm a former teacher with some ESL experience). I have a job offer (no contract...many e-mails...2 phone conversations) in Guangzhou that I take to be legitimate, and that I am excited about. But, I am on the fence about it, mostly because of the horror stories I have read here. Please, could any of you paint an optimistic picture for me? Or, do I just bite the bullet and throw caution to the wind (can't wait to teach cliches in China!), as I assume most of you did. Help me, people!
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randyj



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 20, 2005 10:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you communicate with foreign teachers there, past and/or present, then go with your gut feelings. Keep in mind that the horror stories do not represent a majority of cases. I daresay some horror stories amount to self-inflicted wounds.
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Norman Bethune



Joined: 19 Apr 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 12:39 am    Post subject: Re: I'M GOING CRAZY WITH THESE CONVERSATIONS! Reply with quote

hujiaoman wrote:
I live on the East Coast in US. I've quit my job and am looking for a change (though I'm a former teacher with some ESL experience). I have a job offer (no contract...many e-mails...2 phone conversations) in Guangzhou that I take to be legitimate, and that I am excited about. But, I am on the fence about it, mostly because of the horror stories I have read here. Please, could any of you paint an optimistic picture for me? Or, do I just bite the bullet and throw caution to the wind (can't wait to teach cliches in China!), as I assume most of you did. Help me, people!



China is a challenging environment...that's for sure. But despite cultural differences, alien business practices, language difficulties, and all that, the experience of teaching and living in the PRC is well worth all the hassles.

I say teaching and lving in the PRC since Taiwan, Macau, and Hong Kong just don't have the same flavour of the mainland. The conditions are different as is the pay scale.

You will learn so much here. Your life will change in so many ways. It is the experience of a lifetime.

But there are difficulties. If you enjoy comfort, western ideas and business practices, don't come to the PRC. Go to those other Chinas (Taiwan etc).


Randyj wrote:


If you communicate with foreign teachers there, past and/or present, then go with your gut feelings. Keep in mind that the horror stories do not represent a majority of cases. I daresay some horror stories amount to self-inflicted wounds.


This comment is just too ludicrous to be ignored. The horrors are rarely self-inflicted.

You don't indicate if you have ever worked in the PRC RandyJ. First hand experience has taught me that most of the problems encountered by foreign teachers here are the result of autocratic bureaucratic thinking on the part of our Chinese hosts. FTs here have to deal with paperwork nightmares just to stay legal, threats and intimidation from employers (usually private school owners), and slimy overall management practices.

You gotta be here (or have been here) to understand.
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lumberjackej



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Location: Chicago (formerly Henan)

PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 2:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What's up, Hujiaoman, here's my advice:

I've been in China now for a little over a month now, I think I was in a similiar situation as yours (just graduated college, living at home sucked, I wanted to try something cool). Sometimes it's been tough adapting, but overall I'm really happy I came.

I recommend that you get the email of another foreign teacher at your prospective University, maybe another American or someone your age that you can relate to....ask them a lot of questions about the school, whether they like it, the teaching conditions, etc....this will set you straight and make you feel more comfortable about coming.

The University I'm at, I emailed a teacher there and asked her lots of questions...she's my age, from Kenosha, Wisconsin (I'm from Chicago), and she really made me feel confident about taking the plunge.

If the University has no other foreign teachers or is reluctant to put you in touch with one....then I'd look somewhere else.

Hope that helps,

--EJ
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Norman Bethune



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 6:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lumberjackej wrote:
What's up, Hujiaoman, here's my advice:

I recommend that you get the email of another foreign teacher at your prospective University, maybe another American or someone your age that you can relate to....ask them a lot of questions about the school, whether they like it, the teaching conditions, etc....this will set you straight and make you feel more comfortable about coming.

If the University has no other foreign teachers or is reluctant to put you in touch with one....then I'd look somewhere else.



Interesting advice.

MMMM..... Confused If a University doesn't have any other foreign teachers look somewhere else.

MMMM..... Confused If a University is reluctant to put a potential new teacher in touch with a current Ft, then look elsewhere.


I have found the opposite of that advice is the best approach to take.

Before I came to China, the school I worked for gave me the email of three of their foriegn teachers. When I contacted them, one gave glowing accounts of the school, it's students, FAO, working conditions and the city the school was located in.

SHe made it sound great.

The second teacher emailed me how bad the place was. How there was conflict between the Chinese FAO and all the foreign teachers but one. He told me about the poor management and the way the teachers were often treated as mere window dressing (foreigners in monkey suits).

The third teacher never replied.

I wanted to come to China, so I was predisposed to the positive report from the first teacher and wrote off the second teachers negativity. Had the third teacher responded the same way as the seccond teacher did to my queries, I would not have gone to that school.

It was only after I got here that I realized that the first teacher was a new-born pollyanna who had left a crappy job, abusive husband, and overall dismal life back in America. WHen she came to China everything got so much better for her. Her willingness to please her chinese masters stood her well with the Foreign affairs office, but not the other teachers. She wanted to be Head foreign teacher and came across as the boss of the rest of us.
SHe had blatantly lied to me (or saw only rose through her glasses).

Working with 5 other English teachers at that school was a nightmare. Competing egos flaired. At least three weren't qualified to teach english as they could barely speak it well enough or use the grammar correctly.

Since I left that first job, I have only worked at Colleges or Universities with out any other foreign teacher accept me (except during the past term when a new young kid came on board). During the summer vacations I worked at a training school where there were other foreign teachers just over here for the summer classes. Many times problems arose because of the competing egos.

Maybe I prefer to work only with Chinese people. As the only FT at a school, the problems seem less than where there are more Whiteys.

IF a guy needs pale faces to feel like part of a team, then your advice about going where other foreigners are is good. If he hates internal office and personal politics getting in the way of doing a good job and enjoying his time in CHina, then he should go to the schools without other Laowais.

Got to weigh those concerns...ask questions about yourself before you come to CHina is what I say. Don't trust what anyone else here tells you (chinese or foreign0. Trust yourself.
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Roger



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 7:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If they advertise "conversation classes", then what they mean is totally unclear to themselves. They probably don't know that a genuine conversation is a discussion among people who understand each other in the language used. This ain't ever going to happen in a Chinese classroom or English Salon.
I know very few exceptions...
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Madmaxola



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 21, 2005 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

1. JUST DO IT

2. WATCH YOUR ASS

Aren't those the two best rules for everything in life?
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Songbird



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Location: State of Chaos, Panic & Disorder...

PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2005 9:22 am    Post subject: Fellow Foreign Teachers Reply with quote

Norman-

I have been here in Gansu province for only 2 months, though it feels like 2 years (!), but I did not get in touch with the other FT's here. It's a shame about the fellow FT's you had- my fellow teachers are wonderful, so supportive and really went out of their way to make me feel welcomed when I arrived a scared little girl! We try and get together at least a couple of times a week for meals and end up sitting there for hours, driving the poor restaurant managers crazy chatting away and also have get togethers with the other FT and her boyfriend (who especially came out from England to be with here for a year, talk about committment!) occassionally. Two of the teachers will be finishing here in July and I miss them already!!

I've been to Xian on an 8 hour bus journey with one and we survived and I've planned to meet up with another who has already left for a holiday in Bejing in about a week's time. Yet another one has been really happy to give me advice on how to get to Tibet and Mt Everest. The conversations are great, as least I have people to speak at normal pace with! And I've had my fair share of hiccups with the FAO since I arrived, they've all been supportive and helped if they could. Not that I asked them to!

Anyone else have happy positive stories about their fellow teachers they want to share?
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Talkdoc



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2005 12:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do share Norman's sentiment about this topic completely.

Hujiaoman, you didn't mention what type of school you are considering; the horror stories you refer to are over-represented at private English language schools. As a rule, public universities are your safest bet. That is not to say you won't find a private school that treats their teachers well - it's just a lot more difficult to do so.

As you are a degreed, experienced teacher, you will automatically find yourself at odds with most of your "colleagues" upon arrival. The degree of back-biting and pettiness among foreign teachers is tremendous and, as you are also an American, expect it to be far worse.

If you can find one other foreign teacher with whom you can establish rapport, you will be lucky indeed. At least that has been my personal experience at both schools I have taught at.

Doc
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Roger



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2005 3:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The huge amount of bad feelings about this type of classes stems from a misconception on the Chinese side of what is best for them to become fluent.
FIrst of all, Chinese, brought up in their communitarian schooling lack personal initiative and come across as extwemely passive;
offering them oral English classes is a convenient cop-out to prove our political correctness and to enable us to pity them. Yes, you need 'total immersion' and you will become as good at English as we are...
But the Chinese students will seldom do their part, and you will soon be scrambling to find new avenues to be busy and to keep your charges happy.
Unfortunately, too much depends on their goodwill, or call it: charity!

For instance:
they seldom respect the FT as a teacher; they only think of their Chinese teacher as "teacher". You are an emcee, and too well paid at that.

Second: you will need to give individual learners some vital feedback; how can you do that since they hardly ever volunteer to speak up?
You are expected by them to
- "find interesting topics"; what is, scientifically speaking, "interesting"?
- give "us a chance to speak" - as though they were prevented from
speaking in English to each other by forces majeurs!
- You will need to give them some grammar brush-up but they won't
take THAT from someone like YOU! Besides, they don't understand
English terms like "infinitive", "past tense", "article", "plural" etc.
- To talk toomuch - THEY should do the talking, your problem is you
can't force them to do that...
- if you do speak, do so S - LLL - O -W - LLL - Y,
and repeat yourself as often as ten times.
- you should translate into Chinese.

In other words: your students often give you contradictory suggestions, and over time you get confused, frustrated and disllusioned.
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Ariadne



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 28, 2005 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I like the other FTs at my university. We get together often for meals and drinks. We don't have anything to compete for so there isn't any backbiting. As you all know it can be hard to get information in China, so we all try to share and combine the bits that we do get. My experience in China has been enhanced by the presence of the other FTs.
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Norman Bethune



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 6:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ariadne wrote:
I like the other FTs at my university. We get together often for meals and drinks. We don't have anything to compete for so there isn't any backbiting. As you all know it can be hard to get information in China, so we all try to share and combine the bits that we do get. My experience in China has been enhanced by the presence of the other FTs.
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Yes, socialising with othe FT's can be pleasant. You can choose which foreign teachers to get together with outside work.

However, working with foreign sociopaths, neurotics, psychopaths, and just plain nasty people is no fun. Especially when you have to share an office with other foreign teachers; one a confessed compulsive liar, another a mother hen who wants to run everybody's life except her own, a naive cutsie pollyanna, a never-sober lager lout, and a womanising border-line peophile who chases after 18 year old students and brags about where his hand got to.
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tofuman



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 29, 2005 8:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Regarding the borderline pedophile:
Report the guy. It's fairly simple. Make an enemy because if you do not, you are his accomplice.

I once, reluctantly, told a friend that I thought the guy she was seeing was primarily interested in her daughters. She said that her sister-in-law had recently told her the same thing. Her x got wind of it, and discovered that the guy was a registered sex offender. She ultimately lost custody of her children. Her poor judgment, in this instance, was a factor.

I live in a large, provincial, city where the sexual mores are indistinct and fraught with hypocricy.

But a FT who uses his position to exploit Chinese virgins would be benefitted by a caning or deportation.
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