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Single With One Mom- Even crazier?????
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harlandarlin



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:21 pm    Post subject: Single With One Mom- Even crazier????? Reply with quote

Someone suggested that i could bring my mom to Japan as "visitor" and that she could take a "trip" every 90 days and return to japan. But that sounds a little shady. I'd hate for my Mom to be held over by immigration or refuse entry into Japan, cause she'd have no where to go. A move to japan would likely mean a complete move there for the time I was there.
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If this originated on another forum, I was the likely person to give you advice.

Your mother is too old for a working holiday visa (plus I think you and she are Americans, so that means a WHV is unavailable to either of you), and she has no degree or teaching experience, right? That pretty much disqualifies her for any type of visa which will allow her to work. So, if this is the same person that I think it is, your mom has no other option than to arrive on a tourist status, which permits her to stay only 90 days at a time. It's not "shady". It's the law.

As I see it, you and your mom have no other choice.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2005 11:39 pm    Post subject: Re: Single With One Mom- Even crazier????? Reply with quote

harlandarlin wrote:
Someone suggested that i could bring my mom to Japan as "visitor" and that she could take a "trip" every 90 days and return to japan. But that sounds a little shady. I'd hate for my Mom to be held over by immigration or refuse entry into Japan, cause she'd have no where to go. A move to japan would likely mean a complete move there for the time I was there.


Immigration laws are not there for your convenience, they are there for the convenience of the government of that country to stop illegal immigrants and visa violators. Your mother may be a sweet old lady but she has to obey immigration laws like everyone else, including being fingerprinted or searched. Even little old ladies get deported for not obeying what ever laws that are in place.

I have had the experience of being escorted off a plane by an armed security guard in the US when I came in with no transit visa, and immigration laws apply in every country. Immigration has the right to arrest, detain, strip search if they have to, if they have reason to believe a person is breaking the law or overstaying their visa. Being a 60 year old woman living with her only son doesnt give her any special work or visa privileges when living in a foreign country.

If your mother can not get a work visa to work in a foreign country she has to leave every 90 days when her tourist visa runs out. Simple as that. Same if I go to live and work in the US.
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harlandarlin



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I realize immigration laws exist for a reason. But all situations aren't black and white. If I work in Japan , then it's sort of become my temporary home. I've be come an extended guest, if you will. Unfortunately I don't have anyone to watch over my mom except for myself. So if she comes to japan and leaves every 90 days, where would she go? That seems rather expensive and tiresome. And I would imagine in a worst case scenario , the government might say "hey old lady , you sure visit japan a lot , how about taking a break for the next 90 days and then we will let you back in". I guess my best bet is if she can apply for a cultural visa or if I can somehow get her tourist visa for longer than 90 days. I'd ideally like to stay in japan 2-5 years, but maybe thats not going to happen.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

harlandarlin wrote:
I realize immigration laws exist for a reason. But all situations aren't black and white. If I work in Japan , then it's sort of become my temporary home. I've be come an extended guest, if you will. Unfortunately I don't have anyone to watch over my mom except for myself. So if she comes to japan and leaves every 90 days, where would she go? That seems rather expensive and tiresome. And I would imagine in a worst case scenario , the government might say "hey old lady , you sure visit japan a lot , how about taking a break for the next 90 days and then we will let you back in". I guess my best bet is if she can apply for a cultural visa or if I can somehow get her tourist visa for longer than 90 days. I'd ideally like to stay in japan 2-5 years, but maybe thats not going to happen.



Most people who renew a tourist visa will go to Hong Kong Taiwan or Korea for a couple of days, get a new visa and come back in. As long as she can show she is not working, has a means of supporting herself there is no reason why she couldnt live here or be allowed in to the country. MY only concern is what she will do with herself while you are at work all day. She cant work and doesnt speak the language and has no income. You could probably support the two of you (just) but the law of the land is she has to leave every 90 days. there is no tourist visa for longer than that.

If she wants to get a student visa to study Japanese or a cultural visa (study ikebana or tea ceremony etc) she can do that but she needs to do it full time and have a sponsor for her visa. It will also cost money if she wants to take classes. Maybe she can afford it, but that is your best option. Culture visa is a non-working visa at a minimum of a year and is renewed on a yearly basis, usually up to a maximum of 3 years.

Its pretty black and white to me. You qualify for a visa, she doesn't ( a work visa at least). She can qualify for others but she has to meet the requirements for each visa in order to be allowed into the country. Have you asked her what she wants? Does she actually want to live in Japan for 2-5 years? It seems like you are doing all the deciding for her.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 12:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PS I dont know how he does it, but one of my acquaintances from Australia has been coming in and out fo Japan for the last four years on nothing more than a tourist visa and he supports himself by teaching privates at his home. For some reason he is still able to get back into the country each time, and recently just got a spouse visa (married a Japanese woman) to make him legit.

Technically coming in and out is possible on a tourist visa, but its up to immigration to decide, and they have the right to refuse entry and send her home if they think she is working here.
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harlandarlin



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 1:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I'm sure in japan my mother would learn japanese and entertain herself by learning more about the culture first hand. But the problem will be figuring out this whole visa situation as it relates to my mom and then finding a job for myself
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Gordon



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 1:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

She could always marry a nice, rich Japanese man. Maybe a retired doctor with no heirs and then you're both set. Wink

Seriously, Japanese immigration is not going to bend the rules for someone in their later years, even if they are nice.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 2:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

harlandarlin wrote:
Well, I'm sure in japan my mother would learn japanese and entertain herself by learning more about the culture first hand. But the problem will be figuring out this whole visa situation as it relates to my mom and then finding a job for myself




You have to treat them as two separate issues as she is not your spouse or dependent. Its like you are coming as two separate people but living together. I dont know what you have in mind, but someone in your situation would probably have to get a job at one of the big schools in the US, fly out arrange accomodation for both of you (probably means paying key money as you will not get school-provided accomodation. Your employer may agree to be your apartment guarantor though).


Once you have got your apartment set up and furnished then your mother comes over having arranged a cultural or student visa throught the embassy. Coming to Japan with a 60 year old woman and living in a hotel, neither of you with jobs will burn a huge hole in your pocket in the first two months and will slow down the job hunt as you dont know where the jobs are or where she can do whatever it is she wants to do here. Plenty of schools to study Japanese etc but she has to find a sponsor for her student/cultural visa once she gets her (probably come on a tourist visa and then change it over)

At any rate with two of you you will probably have to come by yourself and get set up with apartment, phone, job etc and she comes later.
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canuck



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 6:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it's a crazy idea.

How financially stable is your mother? You do realize that housing prices and the size of the living quarters can vary quite a bit than what you're used to. Unless she is self sufficient, you're going to have a tough time. Even then.....to each their own.
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osakajojo



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 8:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Does your mom have a B.A.?
If so, maybe she'll enjoy teaching.
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harlandarlin



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 7:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, unfortunately she doesn't have a bachelors degree. She's had a little college, but I don't think that would qualify her to teach. I wonder if she could come as a long term resident or on a cultural visa. Perhaps she could attend a language school that teaches japanese or something.
If anyone knows the requirements for becoming a long term resident feel free to let me know.

Otherwise, I don't mind sharing a place with her. We live under the same roof now and it's not that big, although I would imagine in japan the largest bedroom might equal my smallest here. I figure if I stay in japan over a year I could hopefully earn more money teaching or possibly in another field and then I could get a bigger place. I'd actually rather live in a rural area than the city which seems much more expensive.
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Long term resident visa is for refugees.
Permanent resident visa is for people who have been in Japan five or ten years already.

So, again, your mom does not qualify for either of these.

Have you read this site?
http://www.mofa.go.jp/j_info/visit/visa/index.html
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chi-chi-



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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2005 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Your best bet is for her to get a cultural visa (good for six months and may be renewable, I'm not sure, but six months is better than 3 esp. since leaving the country can get expensive.)
She should get it before she comes.
I am not sure if she would actually have to have a sponsor per se, but a reason. Studying ikabana, or whatever. Studying Japanese tea ceremonies.
She could go to the Japanese consulate in your area (look online for the closest one and ALSO to apply online for a sponsor-Japanese language school, etc-in case she DOES need a sponsor for the cultural visa.)
She should definitely get the cultural visa before arrival. Actually studying the language would be a safe bet...you can look online for Japanese language schools that she can apply to if she needs a sponsor.
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harlandarlin



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2005 1:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah I've been looking at the site Glenski, it's a bit confusing at times with it's many pages and definitions. Thanks for the tip Chi Chi. Seems like a cultural visa or student visa may be the best way to go . Other than that perhaps I could look at the options for a religious worker or artist. Since I am an artist perhaps she could some how qualify as my assistant.
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