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NorbertRadd
Joined: 03 Mar 2005 Posts: 148 Location: Shenzhen, Guangdong
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 3:47 am Post subject: Should I stay or should I go [find new work]? |
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Now, I have a uni. job in Nowhere, PRC, 12 hour train rides from everywhere.
Accomodations OK, but freezing in winter because I can only keep one room warm--16 C--with the heaters. Water smells. There's nothing in town though I have made friends and especially with one bar owner who's always happy to see me.
Work's OK. I read the Chinese scare stories. It could be better but it's been worst. This is my first job in the PRC. I've been looking at jobs in Guangdong which is where I want to go. I'd like to bring my son here but that's not a priority at present. The weather would be better for him down south because kids catch cold. My wife's new career is improving by the day.
My Chinese needs improvement but I have 4 more months to practice on this contract.
Brief auto-bio: 10 years of ESL, author,
1 book pending publication, also have an unpublished novel and unpublished ESL business dialog book
BA, unfinished MBA
2nd career: engineer
1st career: electrician, factory hand |
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Norman Bethune
Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Posts: 731
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 5:22 am Post subject: |
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You didn't say how old you were in your post.
If you are under 40, I'd say with your qualifications, leave China for greener ($) pastures.
If you are over 40, stay.
Just make friends with more people, other than just bar owners.
Seek out new opportunities here. It can be worth it if money is not your main motivation. |
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NorbertRadd
Joined: 03 Mar 2005 Posts: 148 Location: Shenzhen, Guangdong
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 5:35 am Post subject: clarification |
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I'm 43. I was born in '61. |
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Norman Bethune
Joined: 19 Apr 2004 Posts: 731
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 4:24 pm Post subject: Re: clarification |
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NorbertRadd wrote: |
I'm 43. I was born in '61. |
One thing which I would worry about is being considered "too old" by employers back in the West when you return to your home country.
Statistically, it takes older unemployed workers, even with the kind of experience you have, on average 3 months longer than someone under 40 to find a new Job in North America. It is probably similar in Europe and Australia.
When you go back, you'll really be starting all over again, since most employers won't give a fig about what you did in China, unless it can clearly benefit them. They'll look at your resume and consider what you did here as nothing but a long holiday.
Not everyone is lucky or well connected. Jobs don't just fall from the sky where I come from. Ageism is rife.
ANd you have to think of the future. We're not getting any younger..
Staying in China can be very worthwhile in many different ways. But if you stay too long, when you return home things will be very tough. |
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lumberjackej

Joined: 09 Jan 2005 Posts: 461 Location: Chicago (formerly Henan)
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Posted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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Stay.......in China or at your Uni?
Forgive me if you mentioned this somewhere and I'm dumb. |
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Spiderman Too
Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 732 Location: Caught in my own web
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 1:29 am Post subject: |
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Every China 'first-timer' is vulnerable to landing a crappy first job; me, Philolinguist, Talkdoc, kev7161 to name but 4 (actually, I think Roger is in this category as well). No blame, no shame.
However, if you choose to remain at the job, or land a crappy alternative job then perhaps you are either lazy, slow to learn or particularly gullible.
For my second job (excluding part-time and 'summer' positions) I firstly decided that I would work at universities only. I then choose the city in which I wanted to reside. Next, I made a short-list of 3 schools from my successful employment applications. I visited, and thoroughly toured, each of the schools. I spoke with F.A.O.s and other administration staff. I asked many questions. I looked at the teachers' accommodation, the classrooms, the transportation links, the nearby shops & services. At one of the schools I was able to speak with a serving F.T., which turned out to be quite revealing.
So, I chose a school and I'm as happy as a pig in mud (winter here is a little cold but I have basically acclimatized). When I read the many horror stories on this forum I don't figure that I 'lucked out'; I pat myself on the back for putting the time and effort into finding a decent job.
Based on the information you have provided, that you need to ask others "Should I stay or should I go [find new work]?" may indicate that 'you are either lazy, slow to learn or particularly gullible'. |
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NorbertRadd
Joined: 03 Mar 2005 Posts: 148 Location: Shenzhen, Guangdong
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Posted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 10:40 am Post subject: stay at this uni or try another |
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I'll go to Shenzhen and Zhuhai and Guangzhou this week and try to find a new uni. job for the fall. There would be some benefits to staying here, viz., a known "bad" vis-a-vis an unknown worse but my old hand coworker tells me I can find better universities to teach at |
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