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Do You Think I Should "Help Out" My School?
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Should I Take the Job?
Yes, do your school this little favor
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 29%  [ 5 ]
No, 60 RMB is pathetic
47%
 47%  [ 8 ]
No, I hate children too
5%
 5%  [ 1 ]
Maybe, after all what the hell else are you doing?
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 17%  [ 3 ]
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anthyp



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 10:12 am    Post subject: Do You Think I Should "Help Out" My School? Reply with quote

OK, so my school asked me to do a little favor for them and I asked them to give me some time to make up my mind ... or let the trusty Davesaholics make it up for me.

You see, my school has an affiliation with an English training center that has recently opened here, and this training center promised its students it would have a foreign teacher by the time classes begin on the 6th. Problem is, he's having "visa troubles" and can't get down here in time! So they turn to me!

I would have to teach only six days, but 3 hours a day and get this -- 60 RMB per class! I will have to negotiate that up but I don't want to seem like an *beep* for asking for too much since my school has generally been very good to me. Anyway it's children and I hate children but there'd only be 20 of them in each class, so I think I can handle that. Well, I don't hate them but I don't really know how to teach them.

I asked them to give me a day to think about it: overall I am inclined to accept since it's only for a week, but their offer has to go up a bit, don't you think?
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tw



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 10:40 am    Post subject: Re: Do You Think I Should "Help Out" My School? Reply with quote

anthyp wrote:
I would have to teach only six days, but 3 hours a day and get this -- 60 RMB per class! I will have to negotiate that up but I don't want to seem like an *beep* for asking for too much since my school has generally been very good to me. Anyway it's children and I hate children but there'd only be 20 of them in each class, so I think I can handle that. Well, I don't hate them but I don't really know how to teach them.


I would accept it. As you said, the school has been very good to you so I think doing them this favour will help you down the road if you should ever require any favours. Chinese are good at returning favours. The pay is a tad low. Ask them for 100 RMB. If they won't consider it then you can turn down the job. But you should first use a diplomatic tactic like telling them that you are quite busy and tired from your other teaching duties. But you would do it if it's worth your while. Don't bring up the issue regarding money up front. Sometimes you have to be phoney with Chinese people. Otherwise you will be perceived as yet another stereotypical money-hungry laowai who would only do things for money. However, if you are really swamped with loads of teaching hours, or find having to commute between that school and the training center a big hassle, then you may want to politely (with a nice big smile on your face) say you can't help them.
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KateCee



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 11:00 am    Post subject: I say "Yay" Reply with quote

anthyp wrote:

Anyway it's children and I hate children but there'd only be 20 of them in each class, so I think I can handle that. Well, I don't hate them but I don't really know how to teach them.


I felt the same way as I am more comfortable with the older age group. I'd say, go for it. For the sake of experience. You might even discover that you are great with children.

The things I disliked about teaching children is that they run instead of walk & scream instead of talk. Sad But their shining eyes, hugs & little drawings made up for that.

anthyp wrote:

I asked them to give me a day to think about it: overall I am inclined to accept since it's only for a week, but their offer has to go up a bit, don't you think?


Good idea not to give in so easily. As tw suggested, tell them how busy & tired you are. Let them realise that it is a big favour you are doing them.

It's only for 6 days & you'll get to try something you've never done before. Yup, 60 RMB is a bit low. The average I know of is 80-100 for a 40 minute class.

Let us know of your experience.

Kate
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Zero Hero



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 12:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you stoop down to the level of working as a 'teacher' for the pittance that is 60 RMB (remembering that there are FTs in Shenzhen earning 20,000 and 30,000 RMB a month for 20-hour weeks) then all of a sudden that is all you will ever be offered.

I do not believe that this could be a serious offer and so must assume it is some form of test of character and professionalism. No teacher with any level of professionalism would accept that meagre wage and neither would anyone with character. If they really have been so good to you and you have been so good for them then you should be rewarded, not punished.

And people wonder why salaries are taking a nosedive in China!
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Roger



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 12:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

First thing: a TEACHER who says he HATES CHILDREN simply isN'T a teacher! Well, you have sort of retracted that statement, but still...

Why do they offer you a mere 60 kuai? HOw much does that other guy stand to earn? Come on, if they ask you to do them a favour you have every right to ask them these questions!

It probably isn't t h a t guy that's having troubles getting his visa; it is the employer! Or he is unable to lure anyone else there. NOt at such a low hourly wage!

My guess is that your school, while being "nice" to you will eventually turn this into a permanent state of provisional employment. If you accede to their wish they will most likely stop trying their best to find a full-time person. You will probably be their guinea pig of a white face in that training centre that's supposed to make money for the school.
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Volodiya



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 1:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't blame you for hesitating. That's no small favor they're asking and not accepting the offer is not the only way your relationship with your employer could be spoiled. This extra 18 hour a week commitment could drag on for far longer than six days: then, where would you be....

My advice, nice as you are, is to very politely tell them it's just impossible for you. (Any chance of raking up somebody who needs the hours? and likes kids? 60 RMB is better than nothing...? sort of at loose ends at the moment?)
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First thing: a TEACHER who says he HATES CHILDREN simply isN'T a teacher!

Roger, where do you come up with these outrageous, sweeping generalizations. Lots of good teachers would say they don't like teaching kids- even if they like kids, otherwise. I'd never do it. It takes a different mindset to enjoy doing it.
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Chris_Crossley



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 3:00 pm    Post subject: Play hard and you'll get a raise - it works! Reply with quote

Last summer, a private language school which teaches children exclusively asked me to teach in what they called a summer school. However, this "summer school" was simply an intensive programme of study based on what they were already doing at the weekends.

I was asked to teach for six hours a day for seven days in a row at an agreed rate of 125 RMB per hour. I took the job and managed to get through it all with no major problems (goodness knows how I did it, though!), thus earning 5,250 RMB in a very short time. If each class was 1 hour long, then I would insist on nothing less than 125 RMB and would automatically reject any offer less than that. Do not sell yourself short. There are always people who want you "on the cheap".

In fact, I got a call from another private school, only this one deals exclusively with over-18s in their student body. They wanted me to teach for 20 working days (i.e., Monday to Friday over four weeks) for five real hours per day for a salary of 5,000 RMB. I said no.

The school called back the next day and raised the offer to 6,000 RMB for the same working conditions. I still said no, and insisted both on a maximum of four teaching hours per day, not five, and more money.

Today, they called me and said their final offer was 7,000 RMB and they promised to guarantee me no more than four teaching hours a day. I have yet to make up my mind, but I told them I would let them know by Monday.

If schools want people to teach during what is technically teachers' holidays, then one needs to play hard in order to get something remotely reasonable. Since I had totally refused their first two offers and since I have a Chinese wife who can act on my behalf, the school (reluctantly) has agreed to raise its original salary offer by 40% and reduce the maximum hours by 20%.

It truly does pay to negotiate in China. Never believe for a moment that a first offer is a last offer, especially if the work is going to be part-time or else temporary full-time (as in this case). You have nothing to lose by trying. If it does not work, just forget them. You're likely to get other offers from rival schools if they want expats to teach there.
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Zero Hero



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some good points are made above. Also, there is the distinct possibility that this teacher with "visa troubles" may not even exist, or it may be that you will be played off against each other in order to see who will be willing to work for the least.

As well intentioned as you doubtless are, the problem with doing people favours in China is that they are simply never repaid. Also, what on Monday is a favour you have done them can often become a normal part of your job description by Tuesday.

Either way, 60 RMB is pathetic and has most likely only been put on the table to see how you value yourself.

Also, I am worried about your "only 20" kids in a class comment. Twenty kids is quite different to an equal number of adults, and teaching children can often result in more work than is needed for adults; it can be quite deceptive.
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The Voice Of Reason



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 5:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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wigan4



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 01, 2005 9:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok, I've never worked in China (I don't think a week counts!) but here's what I'd do. First, the money is peanuts and obviously superfluous to you since you were never planning on it--I wouldn't even consider it.

I think you have two choices--first, you can try to simply politely refuse to do it for whatever reason you can make up. That appears to me to be your preferred solution.

If that's not a viable option, and only you in your judgment of them and the situation can make the tradeoffs to determine that, then I think you enthusiastically accept the offer to help out in the spirit of 'team play' and tell them not to worry about the money--that if the school needs help in a crisis then you're happy to help them this time.

In other words, if in your judgment there's no way to get out of it, you can either work for a snarly 87 cents, or work make them indebted to you for the next time you need a favor, or at least the next time a bad deal rolls around. I'd have to think having them in debt to you, or at least to increase your status in their eyes, will be worth more to you in the long run than 87 cents extracted from them with bad grace and resentment. Maybe, for example, you can bargain your way into the new teacher picking up class for you on a Friday when you need to get away--again, you'll be a better judge of what's worthwhile.

In no way would I plump for more money because then for sure you're encouraging them to take the attitude that you've mutually negotiated an acceptable business arrangement and they'll simply default into it in the future. If in your opinion you must do it, then refuse the money and 'barter' your service into something non-monetary the school can offer you, even if its only goodwill to be expended later on someting worthwhile. At least, that's my (admittedly almost totally ignorant) opinion.
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Roger



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 1:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Volodiya wrote:
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Roger, where do you come up with these outrageous, sweeping generalizations. Lots of good teachers would say they don't like teaching kids- even if they like kids, otherwise. I'd never do it. It takes a different mindset to enjoy doing it.


Volodya,
you shouldn't question my right to make such a statement. Your opinion shows you do not understand what teaching is all about.
Teaching is a priori the passing down of necessary education to people younger than the teacher.
If you only like to teach people whose minds have been shaped and deformed until they were released into the world of "adults" then you are of limited employability. That doesn't necessarily make you a "bad" teacher - but your ambition should be to be able to teach as a professional, i.e. teaching kids.

I appreciate some people in their twenties aren't too comfortable with teenagers; in life you cannot pick cherries all the time. Imagine a gynecologist gets a hospital job; should he be allowed to say "I only want to treat young patients, I hate probing old women's uteruses!"
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anthyp



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 1:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, thanks for all the responses thus far -- very helpful.

Just to clarify, first of all, as I've already said, the school I am currently working for has asked me to do this "favor" because of their close relationship with the training center, which is actually located on - campus! They know exactly how many hours I have this week (2) and that I am not terribly busy ... so I don't think I could use the old "too busy / don't like the commute" excuse.

There isn't any danger of this becoming more than a one - time thing, since I will go home sometime after my birthday on the 15th and everybody knows this. The issue is, Do I help them out or don't I? And it isn't so much about the money, I am just tired of doing them favors that yes, they haven't really repaid (does taking me out to dinner count?). They would pay this time and I am sure I could get them to agree to a more reasonable number, but ... I don't really want to, cripes. But if I don't, the training center will not be in good shape.

I don't care much about the training center, but the lady who acts as my FAO and the head of our department (both of whom have been especially helpful) dropped by to ask me, and I am afraid they will take a "No thanks" personally.
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

anthyp wrote:
I don't care much about the training center, but the lady who acts as my FAO and the head of our department (both of whom have been especially helpful) dropped by to ask me, and I am afraid they will take a "No thanks" personally.


Then just politely use the excuse of wanting to chill for a couple weeks before going home. Then there will be no ill feelings.
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Volodiya



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 2:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Roger wrote:
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First thing: a TEACHER who says he HATES CHILDREN simply isN'T a teacher!

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Your opinion shows you do not understand what teaching is all about.

Roger, I'm not sure if you recognize how categorical and unsupportable these kind of statements may seem to others (well, to me, at least). Also, they could be taken as gratuitously insulting.

You know I appreciate you. I understand you're a passionate person, and I like that in people. My alarm about what you've written is based more on a desire to see you put things in a way that will help them go down better with your intended audience.

If this advice is unwelcome, I hope you'll forgive....
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Zero Hero



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 02, 2005 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Roger wrote:
Teaching is a priori the passing down of necessary education to people younger than the teacher.

Teaching has nothing to do with the age of the teacher or students.


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