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dmb



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:00 pm    Post subject: Would you advise your children... Reply with quote

... to have a career in EFL/ESL?


(posted on behalf of Basil(I was lurking on the Spanish forum Wink ))
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ntropy



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

depends on his/her life goal.

Money/stability....no
cultural exploration...yes
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basiltherat



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes. Goals are key. I think the major problem with tefl is a lack of social security/welfare (health, hospitalization and pension security etc). These factors have been well documented on both Dave's and other sites, i think. If those particular things are important to your offspring then I wouldnt advise.
Mine think they are.

As both our children are keen to remain or at least be based in the 'western world' for their lives (at least, thats what they tell me), tefl would not seem to be financially suitable for them anyhow. There are frequently threads on how poorly paid tefl teachers are in such places as Italy, Spain etc. I wouldnt want to see my children have to penny-pinch all their lives.

In addition, perhaps others cud confirm whether or not the cost of tertiary qualifications in tefl have one of the worst returns. I mean, i still see many of those with Master Degrees earning little more than those without. Is this a supply and demand problem; i.e. well-paid jobs in tefl are few and far between when compared with the numbers of MA qualified teachers who are out there seeking these high-paying jobs ?

If things such as travel, cultural learning experiences are more important then, yes, i think tefl cud be a good way to achieve these things.
I wudnt advise my particular children to join tefl because i think their talents lie elsewhere but what i would suggest is entering a career that they think they are confident with and enjoy (whether that is tefl or not). Hopefully, their career wud also allow them to travel and experience other cultures at least once in a while..
basil


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expatben



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 2:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

being 21 and with no kids I have no idea but I find the question intresting and therefor will have a go.
Short anwer no long answer yes. I would reccomend a stint in ESL and maybe a carer BUT I would want them to do something else first, with stability so they can see what they would be giving up. I would also warn them about the pit falls as I would do in any life choice. If they wanted to give it a go however I would be supportive and help them, picking out a good course, evaluating countries ect.
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ls650



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 11:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd tell 'em to make sure they put aside a percentage for investment every month. I work with teachers in their late 50s with no savings; they live from pay cheque to pay cheque. That's okay when you're 25, not 55.

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jr1965



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 8:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My daughter is a citizen of both the US and Spain. Choosing a career is still a ways off yet for her, but if she wanted to get into ESL/EFL, I'd advise her to get certified (that is, to get a multiple-subject teaching credential: ESL + another subject(s)) so that she could teach in the elementary or high-school school system in the US or Spain. I think that she'd have more options and chances are, better job security.

Come to think of it, I wish someone had given me this advice all those years ago when I started out in this field...
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anthyp



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 9:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey dmb, you know I hate it when somebody throws a question out to the forum, but doesn't bother answering it him/herself first.

Anyway, I wouldn't encourage my students to get into TEFL, I have bigger plans for them that include global domination or at least a weekly special on Comedy Central. If they came to me with an interest in it, however, I would try to hide my infinite disappointment, all the while steering them in the right direction (i.e., away from the hell - hole that is EFL in Western Europe).

I would rather my students were TEFLers than accountants or "artists," though ... come on, you have to have some ambition in life.
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donfan



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 10:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

For a year or two to see the world and save a bit of money yes. Long term no.
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dmb



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 10:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry anthyp. I agree actually. as I don't have kids it is difficult to answer. But I would want them to be happy and also want them to be well educated. EFL has been good to me so I would have no objections.
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Sweetsee



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 11:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Definitely maybe.
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Gordon



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 18, 2005 11:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good question. I think it would depend on the child. Mine are still young, but I think they are gaining something that other kids "back home" aren't getting, more a worldwide perspective of things.
I would advise them to get the proper TEFL qualifications and a degree before embarking on this career.
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denise



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 2:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don`t plan on having kids, so I will substitute "nephew/niece/friends/random strangers." If they aren�t debt-ridden and think they will enjoy the teaching aspect (yes, this is a job, not just a trip around the world!), then yes. I love my job, and I�m always happy to anwer questions about it.

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Guy Courchesne



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't have children yet, but will agree with Gordon. I'd certainly like my children to see the world, and at an early age. By seeing the world, I don't mean spring break in Cancun. I would love for my kids to be global citizens and not stuck in one small space. TEFLing is a good way to do it while young...possible springboard into other areas.

At the very least, I'd send them abroad just to appreciate Canada and home more. Of course, I'd still kick them out at 18. Laughing
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QatarChic



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 4:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd want them to travel to meet other people, find out about different customs, how other people live etc....as for recommending TEFL- well it is adventurous and exciting but as other people have mentioned a tad unpredictable, but you can make a living from it....at the end of the day if my kids were happy than I'm happy....
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Deconstructor



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 23, 2005 7:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Guy Courchesne wrote:
I don't have children yet, but will agree with Gordon. I'd certainly like my children to see the world, and at an early age. By seeing the world, I don't mean spring break in Cancun. I would love for my kids to be global citizens and not stuck in one small space. TEFLing is a good way to do it while young...possible springboard into other areas.

At the very least, I'd send them abroad just to appreciate Canada and home more. Of course, I'd still kick them out at 18. Laughing


I totally agree. Living in other cultures is not only kickass fun, it is absolutely fundamental to spiritual growth. TEFL is a great way to see the world. I want my kids to be world citizens and discover themselves. In the process if they also discover that they love teaching, so much the better, if not... And yes, this way or that way, I want them out by 16 or I'm buying the plane tickets myself.
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