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'Buey' gesture....
Not rude?
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A little rude?
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Very rude?
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I don't know.
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ls650



Joined: 10 May 2003
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Location: British Columbia

PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 3:00 pm    Post subject: Hey, ox! Reply with quote

I usually head off to my school at about 7 AM, and if I have a bag of garbage I drop it off in a small bin near the front gate. This morning as I was dropping off my trash, the security guy started whistling at me and making a weird gesture. He was making a fist, with his pinky finger and his thumb extended in a kind of "devil's horns" style. He kept wiggling his fist in my direction and pointing at a new sign that said "Por favor no tirar basura".

I walked over to him and he made the 'horns' gesture again and told me in Spanish that I had to put my trash in the garbage truck that comes at around 12 noon. I told him that I can never be here then because I am at my job (true), and asked him where to put my garbage. He just kept repeating that I had to wait for the truck at 12, so I kept asking "�Donde?"

He kept doing this devil's horn thing, so finally I did the same with my left fist, pointed at my gesture with my right hand, and said "No se esta". At that point he stopped making the gesture and kind of gave up, gesturing to go ahead and point the trash in the barrel.

Well, when I got to the school I asked our admin assistant about the gesture. She said "Oh my, that's very rude!" She told me that it means oxen, and when someone makes the gesture he's essentially calling you a dumb ox....

True, or no?
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Ms. Atondo



Joined: 14 Apr 2005
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Location: Back in Canada for now...snackin' on a Pizza Pop

PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 3:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess it is rude but very common so it kind of looses its effect after a while as it seems to be one of the most common words I hear. A lot less rude than "guey" (with the two dots over the u that I can't seem to do on my compu) for some reasons.
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vocholoco



Joined: 31 May 2005
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Location: Mexico DF

PostPosted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 10:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say that's medium to mild in the hand-gestures scale. It's never happened to me (something to do with being a woman maybe?) but I have seen it. Why didn't you ask the guy what he meant by it? I usually do that if i think someone is being rude and it's a good way of taking the offensive without being offensive, if you see what i mean. Laughing
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ls650



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 2:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I asked a few people around the office because I wanted to know whether I'd been insulted or not! I think the meaning seems to vary from region to region; the admin assistant (from DF) seemed to think it's quite rude, but another (from Oaxaca) said no, it justs means 'negative', akin to shaking one's head.

I dunno myself; I'm just an ignorant gringo when it comes to such matters.
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Gregor



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ms. Atondo wrote:
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(with the two dots over the u that I can't seem to do on my compu)


This is parenthetical to the thread, but...
If you load Spanish onto your computer (so that you can switch between the two languages), then all you have to do (in Spanish mode) is hit "shift" and {[ . Nothing will happen, but the next letter you type will have the dots.
By the way, also if you do that, without the shift, you get an accent.
It also gives you an "enya" When you press the ;: key.
Espa�ol G�erro Caf�
You can also get the upside'down question mark (�) and exclamation (�) when you hit the =+ key. Question mark is no shift, exclamation is shift.
Also by the way, I don't know if this makes any difference, but I used Mexican Spanish.
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Ms. Atondo



Joined: 14 Apr 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 3:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Gregor,

I could always get the accent and tilde to work but never the "double dots" Now I can!
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MELEE



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 5:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LS

Last week I was thinking that I didn't know anything about this, but now my memory has been jogged and I agree with the Oaxacan who told you it just mean no. I have seen people, use this like we would use wagging an index finger. This is usually done from a distance, or when other verbal communication is otherwise hindered. For example the taxi drivers on the collectivo routes, will signal to another collectivo they are passing whether there are a lot of people waiting for a collectivo (palm up, fingers and thumb together) or no one, palm down, pinky and thumb sticking out and hand shaking, (similar to a Hawaiian hand sign I seem to remember meaning everything's okay).
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delacosta



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 1:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeh, it's not rude at all, just means no. Actually, I don't know of any rude hand signals that are used in Oaxaca. The locals and students definitely do have a way of communicating without a word being said. I've seen students carry on animated 'conversations' with someone outside of the classroom, all via gestures, not a word being said.
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