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MrCAPiTUL



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 4:57 pm    Post subject: Living Conditions/Supporting a Family - Question. .. . . Reply with quote

Do you think it is possible to earn enough yen, on a student VISA, to support my family (I have a 4 year old girl) at a level that is somewhat comparable to the levels we currently enjoy here in the States (I teach Geography, 7th grade)?

Thanks for all your help.
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 5:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say the answer is probably no. But then we don't really know much about your situation. Why would you be coming on a student visa? As a 7th grade teacher you're best bet for full-time employment would be with one of the International Schools. But unless you have a spouse who can be looking after your 4 year old, it's going to be very VERY hard.
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MrCAPiTUL



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 6:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you for your honesty.

Originally, I wanted to get a job there. But then my friends mother, who lives in Nagoya, said I'd be better served coming on a student VISA to learn the language, rather than be thrown into the middle of the ocean. She keeps assuring me that I'll make enough money, but honestly - something just isn't gelling right. I make a fairly decent salary as a teacher now and have declared to her, on numerous counts, that I must make something comparable or else it isn't worth it. As much as I'd love to go to JP, I need to provide for my family first and foremost. So money has been a HUGE concern.

Unfortunately, I haven't been able to get any straight answers. The only thing I've been told is that the school I would be attending will also send me to various places to tutor. I haven't anything concrete on the subject - no guarantee of how much money I'd be making, where exactly I'd be working, etc. My friend keeps telling me to trust his mother, because she doesn't want to lose face. But that's pretty hard to do when I have to think about my little one.

Hence - my questions to try and receive some straight forward answer. . . much like the one you have given. Thank you Abu.

PS - if anybody has any information they could forward about Intl schools, I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm sure this additional bit of information will yield a number of replies. First of all, though, I'd like to add a word of warning about this potential "student" situation of yours. Be aware that there are some unscrupulous people using such set-ups to get cheap gaijin labor. Unless you can really afford to take a year off to study the language I don't imagine that these sorts of arrangements would work for you.

I think you are right to doubt your friend's mom. Making a decent living teaching in Japan is damn hard work. With a small child (and spouse?) it's REALLY damn hard work. Even if you are eventually able to build up a lot of private lessons that will take anywhere from 6 months to a year and depend greatly on where you live. And of course who would be taking care of your 4 year old while you're off teaching private lessons (almost certainly in the evening).

Others can point you to information on teaching at an international school. But even there making appropriate arrangements for your child will be a major challenge.
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 8:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are only permitted to work part-time (20 hours / week?) on a student visa. Even a single person with no kids would find that hard to live on. You are being misinformed by your friend's mother, whether intentionally or not.

If you have a teaching license for your home country, get into an international school. It will pay more than most other teaching jobs, and you can work FT. Here is a good link to international schools.
http://www.tokyowithkids.com/fyi/international_schools.html
Do a search for international schools here, and you'll find lots of good info. Here's a fairly recent thread with some particularly good tidbits.
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/job/viewtopic.php?t=34811&highlight=international+school

abufletcher is right in saying that it's hard to support a family here on a teacher's wages. I have a child, so I can speak from experience. Most of my coworkers have kids, too. You're going to have to consider the high price of daycare if nothing else. Also, if you are enrolled as a student yourself, your available hours to teach are going to be limited, not just by the time you spend in the classroom, but by the hours after school that you spend studying. Mere tutoring on the side will not pay your bills.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Both Glenski and I are raising children in Japan (I have 2) and I sent one of mine to international school for four years.

I cant speak for Glenski, but on one income I see little loose change out of 400,000 yen a month (thats for 4 people, wife doesnt work).

International schools are not cheap, and the one in Nagoya you are looking at least 100,000 yen a month in school fees. I would say on a student visa, working part time it would be impossible to cover school fees, your tuition fees, rent, food and living costs.

Anyway on a student visa you need to show immigration you have enough money in tuition fees for yourself and to support yourself before they issue a visa.. You are looking at upfront costs of 500-600,000 yen if you want to study Japanese, as well as key money etc.

I think bringing a child on a student visa and paying international school fees verges on the impossible.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

MrCAPiTUL wrote:
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Unfortunately, I haven't been able to get any straight answers. The only thing I've been told is that the school I would be attending will also send me to various places to tutor. I haven't anything concrete on the subject - no guarantee of how much money I'd be making, where exactly I'd be working, etc. My friend keeps telling me to trust his mother, because she doesn't want to lose face. But that's pretty hard to do when I have to think about my little one.



I have never in all my time in Japan heard of a place where you are a fee paying student studying Japanese and then they turn around and employ you as a teacher to teach English.

Dispatch companies are quite common here where English language schools send teachers out to work in elementary schools as ALT and dispatch teachers. Some of these schools are real sharks. Is it possible your school offers both Japanese AND English lessons? Would they employ you to work on a student visa (probably in contravention of your visa status, as technically a student visa is a non-work visa but you can work PT on it to support your studies.

Something doesnt sound right here.


Here is the link to Nagoya International School.
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shuize



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 1:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Doglover wrote:
I have never in all my time in Japan heard of a place where you are a fee paying student studying Japanese and then they turn around and employ you as a teacher to teach English.

Dispatch companies are quite common here where English language schools send teachers out to work in elementary schools as ALT and dispatch teachers. Some of these schools are real sharks. Is it possible your school offers both Japanese AND English lessons? Would they employ you to work on a student visa (probably in contravention of your visa status, as technically a student visa is a non-work visa but you can work PT on it to support your studies.

Something doesnt sound right here.

The whole thing sounds pretty dodgy to me.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 2:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

MrCAPiTUL wrote:
My friend keeps telling me to trust his mother, because she doesn't want to lose face. But that's pretty hard to do when I have to think about my little one.
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On a cultural issue, I would have to wonder about someone expecting you to uproot your life in the US, take your daughter out of school fly across an ocean and set up a life, all on the premise of avoiding making someone look stupid.

Its possible this woman has said something to someone that her son has a friend in the US who would make a perfect teacher and is now somehow expecting you to live up to your part of the bargain.

She would lose face if you made a promise to come to Japan and then suddenly pulled out, or you got here and got arrested for DUI leavingher with egg on her face.

Be careful about people such as the mother putting a guilt trip on you or making you do things out of a sense of duty or obligation to make them save face. You dont even know these people and its more like manipulation than anything else.
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MrCAPiTUL



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 2:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So, it would appear as if I am not alone in my "not getting a good vibe" hunch. I do believe I will have to reconsider this, or at least inform them I can not come until I've received a solid job offer. I definitely welcome any additional comments. Thanks everybody!!!!
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 2:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

MrCAPiTUL wrote:
So, it would appear as if I am not alone in my "not getting a good vibe" hunch. I do believe I will have to reconsider this, or at least inform them I can not come until I've received a solid job offer. I definitely welcome any additional comments. Thanks everybody!!!!


Not just a job offer, but a written contract and an offer to sponsor your work visa. We can then tell you what red flags to watch out for in the contract and whether the idea will fly or not, especially when children are involved.
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angrysoba



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have to agree with the above posters that your child's welfare takes priority over your friend's mother's face.
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shuize



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 3:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

angrysoba wrote:
I have to agree with the above posters that your child's welfare takes priority over your friend's mother's face.

What does the term "face" mean in Japan, anyway? This isn't China. If someone is making you a dodgy offer, you're under no obligation to accept it. There are certainly other kinds of obligations at work in Japan, but unless I'm missing something, "face" isn't one of them. Not in the context it's being discussed here anyway.

In short, "trust me or I'll lose face" doesn't sound very Japanese to me.
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Doglover



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 5:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

shuize wrote:

What does the term "face" mean in Japan, anyway? This isn't China. If someone is making you a dodgy offer, you're under no obligation to accept it. There are certainly other kinds of obligations at work in Japan, but unless I'm missing something, "face" isn't one of them. Not in the context it's being discussed here anyway.

In short, "trust me or I'll lose face" doesn't sound very Japanese to me.


I don't want to pile on the manure here, but you have a grown man in Japan telling you to trust his mother she doesnt lose face. It sounds more the man doesnt want to lose face with his mother by not delivering the goods or somehow causing her to be embarassed.

My feeling is you are either dealing with a mummy's boy with an Oedipus complex or a man who is not 100% levelling with you and wiggling off the hook by putting his mother in front as a shield, so she can take the fall.

This is definitely not about her losing face, which is pretty hard to do by email and you have never met the mother nor made any contractual arrangements.
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abufletcher



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 6:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Definitely, don't make any moves of any kind unless you have a written contract and a proper visa in your passport. In fact, just forget entirely about this dodgy idea and look into the International School option if you're really interesting in teaching in Japan for a couple of years.
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