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ladonnaoscurata

Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 25 Location: Vancouver, BC
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 2:25 am Post subject: newbie teacher anxiety!! |
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I'm heading for Istanbul in a week and am becoming more and more nervous/anxious by the day! I was wondering if any of you veterans have tips for a brand new teacher with no experience? I originally wanted to teach children but I've been warned against Turkish kids , so I'm a bit anxious about teaching adults, especially since I'm relatively young (I'm not too sure what the average age is at this school). How long did it take everyone to feel really comfortable speaking at the front of a class (something I dreaded during high school, but who wouldn't, right?!)
Anyway, I really don't want to feel (and look!) like this: on my first day, or any other day, so please, help! |
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Rimbaud
Joined: 01 Mar 2006 Posts: 12
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 8:16 am Post subject: |
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My first day as a teacher is one of my most memorable experiences.
I had just been hired on as a substitute teacher and it all started when I got the call for my first gig around 5:30 am. I was to be at the school by 7:30 and ready to teach by 8:00 am.
The job description was for a "special day" at middle school. I thought this would be the perfect first job. Being a naive noobie, I thought a special day must mean there is some type of change to the normal routine... perhaps an assembly or early dissmissal. Come to find out, I was wrong... very very wrong.
Special day means you are working with students who have special needs... special needs beyond your average pubescent 12 and 13 year-old student.
So, to make a long story short my day reached its chaotic climax around 1:50 pm. Using their water bottles 4 adhd students were having a water fight. 3 autistic boys were wildly waiving their arms and making loud noises. One girl with muscular dystrophy and some anger issues was continuously yelling out c?nt and m+therf*ckin b%tches while flippin everyone the bird. 2 other students had figured out a way to modify their plastic drinking bottles into deadly weapons and were actually cutting (yes there was blood) each other. While trying to separate the two boys who were cutting each other and simultaneously attempting to quiet the cursing girl, another autistic boy had crawled over toward me on the floor wrapped both his arms around my legs screamed out "daddy!" and pulled me to the ground. Meanwhile, the other eight students were either laughing, crying, or had panicked and fled the room. It all came to an abrupt halt when the speech therapist entered the room to remove a few students for more individualized instruction. The therapist was shocked to say the least. At the time, I was too relieved to be embarrassed.
School was out at 2:10 so the rest of time I spent listening to the speech therapist rail into these kids and then I helped them get ready to go home.
Despite what happened, I actually returned to that school quite often and became one of the favorite subs of both the staff and the students. I even made it back into the special day class and was able to actually manage the classroom (although, come to find out, I was supposed to have four aides who failed to show up on that fateful day!) and teach successful lessons.
So my advice is this...
No matter how bad the first day might be, stick with it.
Ask other teachers/administrators for assistance and/or advice.
Know what you want to accomplish for the day and have a plan on how you want to achieve it. For a first day, I'd recommend some sort of introduction game. So you can get to know the students and they can get to know you.
And, to steal from your sign. quote:
The secret to confidence is knowing how to hide your insecurities.
So do what you feel most comfortable with first, and then build on from there.
Good Luck! |
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tedkarma

Joined: 17 May 2004 Posts: 1598 Location: The World is my Oyster
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 9:00 am Post subject: |
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The best way to deal with being nervous about "speaking at the front of a class" is to have the students speak as much as possible. It's good for them - and part of why they are there. Not so much "in front" of the class, perhaps, as in groups and pairs.
Get a little training, that might help you too, as you will know what to do!
A little secret here - I've been teaching since 1992 - and still get a little nervous in front of a new class. Don't tell anyone! But . . . you only need to meet with them a couple times and everything will settle down and you will feel fine. |
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PAULH
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 4672 Location: Western Japan
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 2:02 pm Post subject: |
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Ask other teachers/administrators for assistance and/or advice. |
I dont know about Turkey but i work in Japan and all foriegn teachers however new they are work with a native speaker of the host country (team-teach) who deals with discipline problems, translations, helping kids etc. think of the team-teacher as a third arm who can reach where you cant.
its probably a good idea to get together with someone before hand to lay out any ground rules over discipline etc. In Japan foreign ALTs can not discipline children.
keep things light and breezy, lots of games and activities, keep them busy and talking. Your role is not to stand up the front and be a talking head, but more of a conductor of an orchestra.
get feedback where ever you can on how to improve your lessons and find out what works for individual classes as you will find no two classes are the same. |
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stillnosheep

Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 2068 Location: eslcafe
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 4:43 am Post subject: |
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Have as much as possible prepared the day before (games, activities, anything), get a good night's sleep (if possible), take a deep breath )or three), relax .... and smile.
And as tedkarma says, a little training always comes in handy.
A little anxiety can be a good thing if it reminds us to prepare properly and keeps us on our toes. Then again I was taught by my ninjutsu sensei that pain is just nature's way of reminding us that we are still alive.
Enjoy! |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 5:24 am Post subject: |
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stillnosheep wrote: |
A little anxiety can be a good thing if it reminds us to prepare properly and keeps us on our toes. Then again I was taught by my ninjutsu sensei that pain is just nature's way of reminding us that we are still alive.
Enjoy! |
Sounds much like my ex-military football coach. |
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grwit

Joined: 20 Apr 2006 Posts: 329 Location: Dagobah
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 8:27 am Post subject: |
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I spent my first classes discussing my life and why I wanted to come to China. I had also bought some tourist books full of pictures of my home City, photos of my family, and some australian money. If you have time after that ask some students to explain to you about their home city and families.
By the end of the second class I had gathered enough confidence and evaluated my students english abilities for future lesson planning.
Or you could jump straight in and begin discussing English language. Its roots and development over time then add in some common idioms (sayings) that your students may hear foreigners use. E.g. I'm on top of the world = I feel great. etc. |
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Gregor

Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 842 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 9:09 am Post subject: |
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Two things might help you keep things in perspective:
One, those people in front of you aren't students; they're people. For the first meeting, the pressure is off. Just get to know them and connect to them. Keep it in English, but beyond that (and having some sort of lesson to use if things don't just flow naturally), you aren't generally expected to do too much. Get THEM to talk, of course. Be careful not to hold forth and give a lecture on your travels and fascinating life, but other than that, relax and forget, for the time being, the student/teacher thing. Just for the first lesson. After that, it gets a LOT easier.
Two, if you are fairly conscientious, you will be a better teacher than you think you are.
Good luck, and let us know how things go. |
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tedkarma

Joined: 17 May 2004 Posts: 1598 Location: The World is my Oyster
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 10:52 am Post subject: |
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I agree with Gregor - "Get them to talk" - the class is about and for them - not about and for you. |
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ladonnaoscurata

Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 25 Location: Vancouver, BC
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 1:37 am Post subject: |
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Wow, thank you Rimbaud for your amazingly horrifying story! It actually makes me feel a lot more confident that my first day won't be as scary as I think And thanks to everyone else for the useful tips, I'm a very good planner so that'll work to my advantage it seems! And yes, I'll remember that the classes are about my students, not me!  |
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wildchild

Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 519 Location: Puebla 2009 - 2010
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 2:40 am Post subject: |
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military football? like army versus navy?  |
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Ariadne
Joined: 16 Jul 2004 Posts: 960
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 3:46 am Post subject: |
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I'm pretty sure he meant a guy who found a job as a football coach after he left the military. (He said ex-military.) On the other hand, there are certainly military sports teams which, no doubt, have coaches who at some point stop coaching. This is kinda fun but I'd better stop before I can't.
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fadedgirl
Joined: 20 Apr 2006 Posts: 44
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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ok, sort of off topic, but fits under the same title.
I just finished my first year as a TEFL teacher, and I'm not returning to the school that I worked for. In fact, I'm not returning to the country. I've applied to about 22 schools...have only heard back from one...which was not really a job that I was after anyways. It's nearly June....should I be worried that I don't have a job prospect for August? Or (for all you MORE experienced teachers) is this normal?
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cam
Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 124 Location: Maine, USA
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 6:25 am Post subject: |
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If you dont have something by July you should consider Korea where there is always a need for teachers. Anyone can get a job in Korea. |
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Ariadne
Joined: 16 Jul 2004 Posts: 960
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 11:36 am Post subject: |
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Hi Fadedgirl... I'm having a rough time finding the job of my dreams too!
Last time I looked for work I applied at 2 schools and got offers from both of them. This time my applications are being mostly ignored. Achhh!!! My age is probably a factor since I'm 56 now. Oh well. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you if you'll do the same for me!
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