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Deicide

Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 1005 Location: Caput Imperii Americani
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 10:48 am Post subject: What are the negatives of living and/or being in Japan? |
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I have never been to Japan and yet one day after a Masters degree it is an idea that I toy with....
What are the negatives of living in Japan? Are there things that irk you or you dislike? Or is Japan overall very positive? Your input would be appreciated!  |
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Gypsy Rose Kim
Joined: 08 Dec 2006 Posts: 151
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:29 am Post subject: |
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1. Small apartments is number one for me. Thin walls. Ugly concrete buildings with wires hanging all over them. General architectural ugliness, actually. Ugly neighborhoods and ugly views. (Don't get me wrong. I know there are beautiful details all around, but such a rich country really out to work a bit harder on making pretty buildings.)
2. I hope to never live in a place with tamami again. It's nice to visit someone with tatami, but I hated the dampness and maintenance and such. I always felt like there were little bugs crawling around in there. Plus, I have cats, nuff said.
3. Many will go bananas over this one, but I think it's bloody preposterous that I can't smoke walking down the street when there is nobody around (save for nosy obachans peering over their balconies or people who give dirty looks from their CARS). I'll just leave it at that, though I could fill a thousand pages with all the reasons why I think it is bullsh.
4. Freezing cold apartments in the winter. Funny that when I lived in Korea, where the temperatures are lower and the people have considerably less money, I was warm and comfortable inside.
I could live without the above nuisances, but I've said it before: I think Japan is far and away the best place in the world to live. |
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Quibby84

Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 643 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:31 am Post subject: |
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I hate the fact that I work so much....I also wish I had a bigger kitchen and more access to cheap food that I could cook. My kitchen and my job are about the only things that make me angry though.
I love the people and atmosphere and the fact that it is so safe. I also love to save lots of money...hehe... |
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Deicide

Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 1005 Location: Caput Imperii Americani
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:45 am Post subject: |
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Gypsy Rose Kim wrote: |
1. Small apartments is number one for me. Thin walls. Ugly concrete buildings with wires hanging all over them. General architectural ugliness, actually. Ugly neighborhoods and ugly views. (Don't get me wrong. I know there are beautiful details all around, but such a rich country really out to work a bit harder on making pretty buildings.)
2. I hope to never live in a place with tamami again. It's nice to visit someone with tatami, but I hated the dampness and maintenance and such. I always felt like there were little bugs crawling around in there. Plus, I have cats, nuff said.
3. Many will go bananas over this one, but I think it's bloody preposterous that I can't smoke walking down the street when there is nobody around (save for nosy obachans peering over their balconies or people who give dirty looks from their CARS). I'll just leave it at that, though I could fill a thousand pages with all the reasons why I think it is bullsh.
4. Freezing cold apartments in the winter. Funny that when I lived in Korea, where the temperatures are lower and the people have considerably less money, I was warm and comfortable inside.
I could live without the above nuisances, but I've said it before: I think Japan is far and away the best place in the world to live. |
Japan vs. Korea? Come on, do tell... |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 12:52 pm Post subject: |
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Plenty of positives.
Plenty of negatives. (People b-itch all the time. Haven't you seen the threads here and elsewhere?)
Focus on the positives; see if they pertain to you.
Plan on the negatives, and before you make the leap, really consider how much of an "inconvenience" they would be for you, compared to the people who posted them.
Do not address either of these with rose-colored glasses. You have to be as objective as possible. |
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Deicide

Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 1005 Location: Caput Imperii Americani
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 12:58 pm Post subject: |
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Glenski wrote: |
Plenty of positives.
Plenty of negatives. (People b-itch all the time. Haven't you seen the threads here and elsewhere?)
Focus on the positives; see if they pertain to you.
Plan on the negatives, and before you make the leap, really consider how much of an "inconvenience" they would be for you, compared to the people who posted them.
Do not address either of these with rose-colored glasses. You have to be as objective as possible. |
Hehe, can't be worse than Korea... |
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AndyH
Joined: 30 Sep 2004 Posts: 417
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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Kanto summers: hot and humid, with cockroaches.
Tiny kitchens.
Lack of jobs outside ESL.
But, the positives by far outweigh these minor things. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 9:49 pm Post subject: |
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AndyH wrote:
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Lack of jobs outside ESL. |
Depends on what one is qualified for, Andy. Same applies if a foreigner were to try working in your/our home country. |
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Sherri
Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Posts: 749 Location: The Big Island, Hawaii
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Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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Gypsy Rose Kim wrote: |
1. Small apartments is number one for me. Ugly concrete buildings with wires hanging all over them. General architectural ugliness, actually. Ugly neighborhoods and ugly views.
2. I hope to never live in a place with tamami again.
3. Many will go bananas over this one, but I think it's bloody preposterous that I can't smoke walking down the street when there is nobody around
4. Freezing cold apartments in the winter. |
I agree with all except #3. I especially hated the ugliness of Tokyo, it really got me down.
Sorry, can't agree with #3, no matter how sure you are that there is no one around, there probably is someone who can smell that nasty smoke. I am saying this of course as a non smoker and as someone who HATED being stuck walking along the street being forced to breath in someone else's cigarette fumes--maybe they saw me, maybe they didn't. A big difference about being out of Japan is not having to smell cigarette smoke where ever I go. |
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J.
Joined: 03 May 2003 Posts: 327
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 3:28 am Post subject: Let me count the ways. |
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Minuses:
Prejudice -- either pro or con. I also hate the phoney "cute foreigner" thing.
Needing a guarantor for an apartment IF somebody will rent to you and then paying key money for the PRIVILEGE of renting their apartment.
Bugs (c-ckroaches and slugs) inside.
Noise with nowhere to escape it, not even in my flat.
Pollution -- the air is terrible even in the "country" from so many cars and so many people wandering aimlessly from shopping centre to store to restaurant constantly. There seem to be very few "laid-back" people where I live. And they don't like to walk.
Lack of appropriate partners, at least in the countryside. Ditto friends although there are many acquaintances.
Difficulty of changing your driver's license.
Challenging language, especially to learn to read.
Terribly long wait to be able to APPLY for permanent resident status if you aren't married to a Japanese (10 years).
Not able to vote so no one in government pays you a jot of heed. Except to use "foreigners" as a convenient scapegoat whenever things get too hot for them during the latest scandal or before an election.
Not able to start a company without a Japanese partner.
Freezing cold winters and sweaty hot summers, as well as a rainy season where you better not stop moving too long or mold will grow on you. Literally. I had one student who had a mold "infection" growing in her nose.
Pluses:
An interesting culture with a long history.
Enough work in my chosen field -- teaching, with varied and challenging contracts and the freedom to make my own curriculum.
Some lovely students.
A living wage.
A living wage
A living wage. |
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Gypsy Rose Kim
Joined: 08 Dec 2006 Posts: 151
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 9:47 am Post subject: |
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Deicide wrote: |
Hehe, can't be worse than Korea... |
I'd head home, then, if that's your attitude.
It would be easy to make a list of the ways that Korea beats Japan. It would be easy to make a list of the ways Japan beats Korea.
My Korean students would run absolute rings around my Japanese students in terms of desire to learn, natural talent for the language, getting along with fellow students, not copping attitude in the classroom, etc.
My apartment in Seoul, 5 minutes from Ehwa and 10 minutes from Shinchon, was $400 a month and three rooms. I walked to work every day. When I put down $5,000 for key money, I nearly went into shock when I found out I would GET IT ALL BACK at the end of my lease! In Tokyo, I pay a grand a month plus kiss the key money goodbye, plus will probably have to pay key money again in two years, plus it is 30 minutes away from anywhere I want to go...
Ondol heating systems raised my quality of life immeasurably.
The curriculum at my company in Korea was well-rounded and interesting. My students read novels, wrote reports, and there was no list of topics we were not allowed to mention (such as in Japan, where history is off the table, not that I want to discuss history with any Asian students, but goes to show). In Japan, conversation is the norm. I teach privates for variety, and because I miss writing and reading classes.
I'm a chick, so I loved shopping in Korea. Korean clothes are way sexier. I could wear open-toed shoes and not worry about stockings in the summer. For a guy, I'd reckon Korean chicks are way more beautiful and a lot sexier. Of course, that's highly subjective.
On the other hand...
Japanese bathrooms are much cleaner! I can't count how many times I gagged in Korea. And then afterwards, I had to use some dodgy, dirty bar of soap and a communal towel. Eww, eww, eww.
I found Korea intensely boring. It is far, far too homogeneous for my liking. In Japan, everyone is completely out of their minds. Japanese people have huge dreams and weird hobbies and interests. Koreans like drinking soju and studying to live overseas, where they will spend all their time with other Koreans.
Koreans carry fake designer goods and Japanese spend money on the real deal. Perhaps because in Korea, it's all about doing just enough to look cool, whereas Japanese have a personal sense of wanting to be their best.
There is far too much social pressure in Korea. I'm a single chick in my 30's. I like to have privacy and spend some of my time alone. I don't want someone guilt-tripping me cuz I'm not in the mood to go see Pirates of the Caribbean or sit around all night drinking yet more soju and talking about shopping. Japanese people leave you alone and respect the fact that everyone has their own lives. This is a big one for me.
I had trouble dating Korean guys. There are some great guys, but the women who are successful there are those who want to settle down and be in a 100% committed relationship where the couple does everything together. I'm not into that. To be honest, I like living in Japan where I can have a few guys on the go, and they don't expect to be the center of my universe. I understand that this is, perhaps, a personal problem, but I like the freedom of dating in Japan A LOT. I assume it's somewhat the same for men, but I'm not positive. And besides, you might be looking to settle down, anyway.
Okay, this is all off the top of my head. You can see how subjective things are. I would strongly caution you against thinking that Japan is gonna be some perfect place. I could also make a list of stuff that bothers me in BOTH places (for example, have had Korean AND Japanese boyfriends CRY over small stuff, which has never happened anywhere else because I promise I am a very laid-back and reasonable person), but I'm already clogging up this board a bit. |
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ReedNZ
Joined: 30 May 2007 Posts: 19 Location: New Zealand
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 10:17 am Post subject: Great Post |
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Great post there Gypsy Rose Kim. I think that shows a very unbiased view of both countries. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 12:03 pm Post subject: |
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J.
A lot of the things you wrote are either wrong or slightly misinformed.
You don't have to wait 10 years for PR if you are single. Case by case.
Pollution in all parts of the countryside? Not in Hokkaido, and I'm sure other places are relatively clean.
You don't always need a guarantor for an apartment.
Prejudice. Well, show me a country withOUT it.
What do you mean by "lack of appropriate partners"?
Difficulty of changing your driver's license. Take the test. Many pass on the first try.
Challenging language. But you knew that coming in.
Voting. Well, even back home, don't you have to be a citizen?
As for freezing winters and hot summers, not in all of Japan. |
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J.
Joined: 03 May 2003 Posts: 327
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:16 pm Post subject: Glenski, it's my list.... |
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your opinion.
But frankly, I think out of place to "correct me" on something that is clearly opinion-oriented. And "case by case", what the hell does that mean except "we let in our friends faster".
And why in heck would I be talking about other countries in a thread about negatives of Japan? I shouldn't have to explain that I KNOW it's not only in Japan that we have prejudice. It's, unfortunately, a human condition. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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Your opinion, too, I guess, but many of those things I "corrected" were facts, not opinion.
Case by case in terms of PR... it means that everyone's situation is different, and that many have gotten PR in less than 10 years. Be sarcastic if you will, but the facts are there. Immigration is a gray area.
As far as prejudice goes, if you want to call it an inconvenience in Japan, that's all right by me, and I would probably agree with you on some details, but you didn't give any. That's why I wrote what I did about prejudice being in all countries. Got a specific beef? Spill it. |
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