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Bradtheexpat
Joined: 25 Jun 2007 Posts: 3
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 3:05 am Post subject: Maybe moving to Saudi, Need advice |
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Hi,
I am thinking about moving to saudi arabia (and will be teaching english if i do so)in the next few years and I am looking for information.
1) What is the average pay for English teachers with 10 years experience and a degree in App. Ling?
2) How are the work conditions(also hours, vaction, etc...), and are there any employers to avoid?
3) Last, and most important, I will be with my wife (korean) and i am concerned about bringing her to a country that is rather notorious for it's poor treatment of women. Will she be able to go out in public wihout me and how are things like shopping, entertainment and all that stuff that she can enjoy while i am at work? Could she get a job as an english teacher (she has degrees in english) or is that not possible?
We want to move somewhere where we are both foriegn before we settle in Canada and we would like to make decent money where we go, right now we are looking at the middle east or maybe singapore.
thanks in advance for your advice
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 5:53 am Post subject: |
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i am concerned about bringing her to a country that is rather notorious for it's poor treatment of women. |
Most Saudi women do not consider their treatment to be 'poor', believe me!
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Will she be able to go out in public wihout me |
Yes.
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how are things like shopping, entertainment |
There is plenty of the former but very little of the latter, if by 'entertainment' you mean public venues like cinemas, bars or clubs.
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all that stuff that she can enjoy while i am at work? |
I have no idea what sort of 'stuff' your wife enjoys, but the people who are happiest in KSA are those who can make their own fun - which can mean anything from taking up a sport (lots of facilities) to doing an online degree, to going shopping to catching up on all those books you've always meant to read. Despite what the merchants of gloom (here and elsewhere) would have you believe, so long as you can take the initiative and live without nightclubs and bars, KSA does not have to be a boring place to live.
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Could she get a job as an english teacher |
The fact that your wife is not a native speaker and has no background in ESL would obviously work against her. On the other hand, the fact that, as your dependent, she would not be eligible for many benefits and would not require employers to go through an expensive and potentially troublesome visa process, would make her attractive to some employers. However, this is something you will have to find out after you arrive, and you should be aware that opportunities for female teachers are still far fewer than for male teachers. |
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canadashirleyblue
Joined: 06 May 2007 Posts: 162
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Posted: Tue Jul 03, 2007 7:49 pm Post subject: |
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It would depend on how low your wife would go in terms of salary and her command of English. Saudis pay by nationality. They like to hire people who have no right to work in Saudi so they can pay cash and fire them when they feel like it.
There are no cinemas in Saudi.
As for going out - most of the year it is far to hot for anyone to go outside walking. There are rarely any sidewalks, either. Women can and do go out by themselves. If she is wrapped up in her abaya (which she will HAVE to wear) and her face is covered it would be difficult to know where she was from. The principal's wife and daughter were stopped on the street and taken to the police station as suspected prostitutes when the principal dropped them off to go shopping. I suspect this was because they were black.
Women can not go into an internet cafe. Men and women are segreted for most things. If you want to send a fax or pay your phone bill there is the men's entrance and the woman's. If you go to McD's there is the men's entrance and the "family" entrance. Restaurants do not generally permit women on their own to eat because it is assumed they are prostitutes. Women may not go to a restaurant with a man who is not their husband, son, brother or father.
There is lots and lots of shopping. There are lots of western shops. There are lots of health clubs which are for women only. She would need to socialize in women only groups unless it was a private event in a private home.
Everything shuts 5 times a day for prayer. Men who look Muslim can and are picked up by the matawa (religious police) if they are not in the mosque praying at prayer time. Of course, they let you off later - after you have spent 5 or 6 hours in the police station. Christian (or any other) worship is illegal.
There are loads more thrilling details I could tell you! I actually liked it there! But then there are those who question my sanity.  |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 5:51 am Post subject: |
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Restaurants do not generally permit women on their own to eat because it is assumed they are prostitutes. |
This is not true. In my experience as a single woman in Riyadh, the only restaurants that routinely refuse entry to single women are the down-market places that cater to workers from the Indian subcontinent, as well as a few male-only felafel places. However, almost all of the international chain restaurants are happy to admit women, whether alone or with their 'family'.
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Men who look Muslim can and are picked up by the matawa (religious police) if they are not in the mosque praying at prayer time |
This may have been common some years ago, but it is very rare now, though it may occasionally still happen.
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I actually liked it there! But then there are those who question my sanity. |
I like it here too. Personally, I question the sanity of those who constantly remind us of how much they hate it here, and yet somehow when spring comes around are always the first to renew their contracts 'just for one more year'. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 9:24 am Post subject: |
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canadashirleyblue wrote: |
They like to hire people who have no right to work in Saudi so they can pay cash and fire them when they feel like it. |
Also, I know some people who have the right to work and were fired by the Saudi when they like it.
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Men who look Muslim can and are picked up by the matawa (religious police) if they are not in the mosque praying at prayer time. |
Men who look like Muslim!?
I think the above statement is exaggerated.
I wonder how the muttawa can differentiate between a Muslim and non-Muslim if they look the same from outside!!!
Take for example an Indian Muslim and an Indian Christian, they look the same, so how can the muttawa decide which one is which?
I have never seen a Muttawa pick up any Muslim who does not go to the Mosque, in addition, the only people who are picked up, regardless if they are Muslim or not, are the shop workers or owners, in case they did not close their shop during prayer calls (Athan).
I have been in Jeddah many times, and have seen many Muslim men and women outside the mosque and in streets during the prayer time, and they were not harassed or picked up by the muttawas.
I know for sure that the Sikh people look like Muslim (from their traditional way of clothing), and were harassed and attacked in the land of uncle Sam and uncle Tony after the event of 9/11, because they look like Muslims!!!!!! |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 9:41 am Post subject: |
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I have been in Jeddah many times, and have seen many Muslim men and women outside the mosque and in streets during the prayer time, and they were not harassed or picked up by the muttawas. |
Good for you.
While I'm not sure what is meant by being 'picked up', here in Riyadh it used to be quite common for the mutaween to ask "Muslim looking" men why they were not praying. I myself have seen them stand near the male sections of restaurants and urge men to go to the mosque. I have also heard stories about such behaviour from male colleagues, and once saw a mutawwa approach a Syrian man in a shopping centre, asking him why he was not at prayer. When he replied that he was in fact Christian, he was left alone. However, as I've said, such stories are rarer now, as are most mutawwa-related incidents.
They must be running out of 'conversation' topics at the compound parties... |
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furiousmilksheikali

Joined: 31 Jul 2006 Posts: 1660 Location: In a coffee shop, splitting a 30,000 yen tab with Sekiguchi.
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 10:01 am Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
While I'm not sure what is meant by being 'picked up', here in Riyadh it used to be quite common for the mutaween to ask "Muslim looking" men why they were not praying. I myself have seen them stand near the male sections of restaurants and urge men to go to the mosque. I have also heard stories about such behaviour from male colleagues, and once saw a mutawwa approach a Syrian man in a shopping centre, asking him why he was not at prayer. When he replied that he was in fact Christian, he was left alone. However, as I've said, such stories are rarer now, as are most mutawwa-related incidents.
They must be running out of 'conversation' topics at the compound parties... |
I take it that the duties of the muttaween are more important than praying. |
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Robski

Joined: 18 Feb 2007 Posts: 50 Location: Middle Europe
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 10:48 am Post subject: |
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Dear Brad the expat.
Don't - your wife may never forgive you for it.
Unless the company you intend to work for will provide all the creature comforts your family needs, such as quality housing in a western compound, car, sat TV etc. or so much money that you can go out and buy it all for yourself without making it an economic nonesense being Saudi Arabia because you are spending so much money, then just don't. She will probably not be toooo happy about being there. The thing is, if you decide you don't like it, and your company have your passport in a safe while they get your documents done, you won't easily be able to change your mind.
I would never have taken my partner to SA. So much that you take for granted outside the Magic Kingdom, such as driving a car, going for a swim in the sea with you wife, making friends (other that just the blokes you work with), having a BBQ at the weekend etc. just cannot happen.
I would also suspect that as a Korean she would not be treated with the same level of respect as other nationalities. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 12:19 pm Post subject: |
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So much that you take for granted outside the Magic Kingdom, such as driving a car, going for a swim in the sea with you wife, making friends (other that just the blokes you work with), having a BBQ at the weekend etc. just cannot happen. |
Given that this sentence is clearly addressed to the male OP, it's obviously not true that he can't drive. And I don't know what you are talking about when you say that making non-work friends and having BBQs (assuming that others take such pastimes 'for granted') 'just cannot happen'. Because that is simply not true. Admittedly, gaining a wide circle of friends is more difficult here than in many other places, but with a bit of effort on your part, it most certainly can 'happen'. Similarly, I know plenty of people who do indeed have "BBQs" - whether in their homes or in the desert - on a regular basis.
On a side note, it always makes me laugh when men talk about 'bringing' their wives, or even of 'sending them home'. One wonders if they pay excess baggage for them at check-in, or are they included in the start of contract baggage allowance, to be shipped out at a later date? |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 4:35 pm Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
On a side note, it always makes me laugh when men talk about 'bringing' their wives, or even of 'sending them home'. One wonders if they pay excess baggage for them at check-in, or are they included in the start of contract baggage allowance, to be shipped out at a later date? |
I know for sure, in some cases, where women �bring� their husbands with them to SA as Murafeek, and later on �send them� back home for a break. And the funny thing is that the husband ends up paying fines for the excess baggage of his wife!!! (of course the husband was not included in the excess baggage, nor in the start of contract).
I wonder why always in the airport it is the women who end up having excess baggage, and always the husband pays the fines. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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I wonder why always in the airport it is the women who end up having excess baggage, and always the husband pays the fines. |
I wonder why always Abba fails to understand a post, and always goes on to compound his initial error with a s**ist "joke". |
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canadashirleyblue
Joined: 06 May 2007 Posts: 162
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Posted: Wed Jul 04, 2007 9:32 pm Post subject: |
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It's true they have trouble telling who looks Muslim. That's why they sometimes make mistakes. My taxi driver, who was a Phillipino and Christian, was picked up with a group of men who were not at the mosque at prayer time. Presumably the rules don't apply to the matawa. They are too busy saving the nation. There seem to be lots of men wandering around outside at prayer time. I suppose they can't catch everyone. Hell, I can't explain it but I believe the driver was telling the truth.
I was happy there. I had friends and no one bothered me. I was (still am) a woman and I don't feel I was badly treated. They have a lot of strange rules but if you follow them I don't think you are likely to run into trouble. Unless, of course, you are black, Asian or Phillipino.
Forgot - I was told to leave McDonalds because I was a woman on my own! |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 8:54 am Post subject: |
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canadashirleyblue wrote: |
I was (still am) a woman and I don't feel I was badly treated. |
I have never heard that a woman with blue/green eyes have been badly treated in SA, unless she changes her 'natural gender'.
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They have a lot of strange rules but if you follow them I don't think you are likely to run into trouble. Unless, of course, you are black, Asian or Phillipino. |
Does it mean that black, Asian or Philipino if they follow the SA strange rules, still they may run into troubles.
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Forgot - I was told to leave McDonalds because I was a woman on my own! |
I think because you have used the wrong McDonald section. You should have used the women/family section not the men section. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 9:23 am Post subject: |
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I have never heard that a woman with blue/green eyes have been badly treated in SA, |
To paraphrase Bart Simpson: no offence, ABBA, but what you've never heard could fill a barn. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 12:10 pm Post subject: |
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Cleopatra wrote: |
To paraphrase Bart Simpson: no offence, ABBA, but what you've never heard could fill a barn. |
To paraphrase Bart Simpson:
Oh Cleo! You and your stories! 007 is a vampire! Beer kills brain-cells! Now lets go back to that...OP...thingy... where the original question ....is.
Another quote from Simpson:
If the Bible has taught us nothing else, and it hasn't, its that girls should stick to girl's sports, such as hot oil wrestling foxy boxy and such and such...
Bye ..Bye ....Simpson
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