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markle
Joined: 17 Jan 2003 Posts: 1316 Location: Out of Japan
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:23 am Post subject: Number 1 reason for leaving. |
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What the main reason that you would (or will, or did) leave? I mean regardless if all other reasons were removed what would still make you leave, sooner or later.
For me it is the fact that ESL is a dead-end career in Japan for me. That is not Japan's fault or even ESL's. I haven't, and no longer want to, capitalise on the opportunites in ESL here, and I'm ill-equipped for any other career. If it wasn't for this I think I could overcome anything else. |
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king kakipi
Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 353 Location: Australia
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:57 pm Post subject: |
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I left Japan for:-
vastly increased salary (A$68000 pa) with the only future change being upwards
job security
vastly reduced hours (22 hrs on site per week)
paid holidays (12 weeks per year + extra 13 weeks every 7th year (Long Service Leave)
paid sick leave (currently sitting on 150+ days on full pay)
cheaper cost of living (in Australia compared to Tokyo)
space !
to no longer feel like an 'outsider'
more outgoing students
laid back lifestyle
better, much better, weather
safer ( no earthquakes)
licorice
cheaper beer
bigger iced doughnuts
Having said all that, I'd still consider living in Japan in the future because:-
more to see and do
'novelty' of being an outsider
more compliant students
more rigourous (maybe.....) education system for my son
safer (less crime)
you can ride a bicycle without a helmet
cheaper sushi
Izakaya (vs Aussie Pubs)
Asahi Super Dry
New Year
K1
The smell of tatami
Hot baths that stay hot
Family ( great in-laws; I have none of my family here in Oz)
Good transport and therefore not having to drive everywhere
Great Parks
and of course KAKIPI |
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king kakipi
Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 353 Location: Australia
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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woops, sorry not "number 1" but top 15.....but well-tempered with reasons to return of which I forgot another very important one for me:-
10 professional symphony orchestras in Tokyo alone |
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gonzarelli

Joined: 20 Jun 2007 Posts: 151 Location: trouble in the henhouse
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 3:54 pm Post subject: |
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For me, it's because ESL is a dead-end job with no prospects for improvement.
More importantly though, I would never be able to put any of my future kids through the education system here. It's too stifling.
Nothing to do with culture or discrimination or anything like that. |
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User N. Ame
Joined: 11 Dec 2006 Posts: 222 Location: Kanto
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 5:46 pm Post subject: Re: Number 1 reason for leaving. |
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| markle wrote: |
| ESL is a dead-end career in Japan for me. |
I'm sure some will view this as controversial, but this is what it really boiled down to for me, too. However every person's circumstances are very different. I had a well established career prior, and came to Japan in my mid-30's as a much-needed mid-career holiday. The problem was, I really enjoyed aspects of Japan and although I never intended on making ESL a career, I found it really hard to leave. Even after leaving Japan my first time, I felt I compelled to come back for two short stints in the following year. I'm now back in home country doing the work I was doing before, which includes all the fringe benefits, pay and job security that ESL could never offer me in Japan. When you are beyond 35 years old, these issues become much more important.
I do think that unless you have an MA and/or deep experience (speaking the language fluently wouldn't hurt either), you do face a very limited future in Japan's ESL ghetto. But then again, if your thing is working a series of 1-year contracts at 250,000/month with no state pension or room for career advancement to look forward to, the world is your oyster! |
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Sherri
Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Posts: 749 Location: The Big Island, Hawaii
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with the reasons the other posters have stated. I especially agree with the deadend job side of things. I really could not go much further in my career there. I am a career ESL/ EFL person. Even at the admin level, you are limited as a non-Japanese person with how much responsibility you can have. You just end up teaching the same students and the same classes year after year. There is a big, wide world of TEFL and international education out there. Also even the university gigs are not that great, and you can end up on your ear after 3 years and on a constant job search.
Also, there is no way I would put my kids through the education system in Japan.
Sherri |
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king kakipi
Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 353 Location: Australia
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Can you tell me why you wouldn't put your kids through the J education system? There are problems here (in Oz) with education and I thought my son (only 14 months just now) might be better of in Japan.......... |
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Vince
Joined: 05 May 2003 Posts: 559 Location: U.S.
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Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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| The number one reason was that my wife got pregnant, and I didn't want to support a child on EFL income. If I can get a job with better pay and more security, I'll go back. |
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Sherri
Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Posts: 749 Location: The Big Island, Hawaii
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 1:09 am Post subject: |
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| king kakipi wrote: |
| Can you tell me why you wouldn't put your kids through the J education system? There are problems here (in Oz) with education and I thought my son (only 14 months just now) might be better of in Japan.......... |
I'll have to preface this by saying that I do not think that the American education system is perfect. Also I know of many non-Japanese, or international couples who have chosen to have their kids go to Japanese schools and so far are happy with them.
1. OK, I am basically not that impressed by the results of the school system in Japan. Think about the adult students you have taught. How impressed are you with them?
2. I also prefer the devil I know. If my kids are having trouble in school, I want to have a handle on the educational culture and know how to talk to the other parents, teachers and administrators.
3. I want to be able to help my kids with their homework. I could see a time when they would be able to read and write better than I could, certainly they will be able to speak Japanese better than I ever could.
4. I want them to experience school life the way I remember it. My kids' school is all open-air, with lots of grassy fields. They learn about things that are familiar to me. They have school projects that I can relate to, sing songs that I already know.
5. No bento stress or stress conforming to a school life I know nothing about. I think it is easier for non- Japanese guys married to Japanese women, because it is usually the mom who takes care of school-related things--reads the notes from school, prepares the lunches, goes to the PTA meetings etc.
No school system is perfect, but I know that in the US system, my kids will learn to think for themselves, to ask questions, be active learners and that as a parent I will be able to support them better in a culture that I have a better grip on!
Sherri |
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bornslippy1981
Joined: 02 Aug 2004 Posts: 271
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 4:31 am Post subject: |
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I left because I had accomplished the goals I set before coming/within the first few weeks I was there.
Also, Japan wasn't the only other country I'd want to live in. I'm positioning myself now to move again in about 18 months, and when returning to the US, I'll be able to open up a business. It's possible I could have my business in a year, but I'd still like to travel because it'll be difficult as a small business owner. |
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Angelfish
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 131
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:09 am Post subject: |
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Because I miss Europe and European culture.
Also the noise.
And the extortionate airfares. |
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king kakipi
Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 353 Location: Australia
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 9:36 am Post subject: |
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Thanks Sherri.
I can empathise with a few of your points!
KK |
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Wasabi Bomb

Joined: 03 Jul 2007 Posts: 33 Location: Osaka, Japan
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Posted: Wed Jul 25, 2007 4:29 pm Post subject: |
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| The only real reason is the lack of career prospects in EFL. I'm a teacher trainer now but my company doesn't reward that with a significant increase of pay. I applied for the position mainly because the extreme lack of responsibility was harming my self-confidence. Really that's it. If there were foreigners in my company earning double what I make with benefits and bonuses, I would be much more likely to stick around long term. |
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J.
Joined: 03 May 2003 Posts: 327
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 12:10 am Post subject: |
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Boredom. If you don't speak Japanese very well, and maybe even if you do but don't want to go the "inch up by seniority and bum-licking" route that most companies still seem to favour, you get stuck in a dead end that you can never get out of. Probably if you have qualifications or talent they are not recognized, nor rewarded. They don't know what to do with you beyond sticking you in translation, teaching or another resident English speaker niche. You don't fit the mold, so there's no position for you.
Parents don't understand what you are doing. They still feel it's fine to memorize and repeat everything but not be able to generate a word of authentic communication, a state of affairs that is discouraging to a teacher over the long haul. Most don't try to speak English at home or support your lessons, so it's hard to make headway in only 1 class a week.
With adult students you are teaching many of the same ones for years but because of limited class time and the fact that English is an amusing hobby for most, mistakes become ossified so they are still speaking haltingly in the present tense, in Japanese word order, after 5 or even 10 years of studying. Of course I hope I am teaching more than English, as we consider things meaningful to our lives and learn new things, but it's hard not to look at this as a failure, at least in teaching how to speak English. I think they do learn how to say what they are thinking in my classes, even if in mostly bad English.
Lack of people of depth to talk to about more than the latest fad.
Loneliness. Missing family over time. Getting homesick for the ocean and forests and space to breathe. Finally just getting tired of the daily struggle it takes to live and thoroughly sick of the staring and rudeness.
Sick of being a "guest" in the place I live. Feeling utterly helpless with all these clowns in government making rules about my life here and not even a vote.
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GambateBingBangBOOM
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 2021 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 12:23 am Post subject: |
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Great post J.!
I think that in fairness, not a whole lot of Canadian kids west of Ottawa (unless they are in the northern Ontario or a tiny enclave) try to speak much French with their parents, either- or vice versa, though. |
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