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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 9:42 am Post subject: Violence in the classroom |
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Hi everyone,
I know I probably should post this in the Japan section since i'm in Japan but I wanted to get as much feedback as possible. Here's my question: In a team teaching situation, have you ever experienced violence in the classroom? Have you seen a teacher hit a student or vice versa? If so, how did you handle it? Did you tell the principles? |
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guty

Joined: 10 Apr 2003 Posts: 365 Location: on holiday
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 9:50 am Post subject: |
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I should imagine the principles are that violence never pays, couldnt you tell? |
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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 9:56 am Post subject: |
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Sorry Guty, I made a typo there...I meant to ask if you told the Principals...not the the principles. |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 10:39 am Post subject: |
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When I was young and teaching in Korea, I had a young Korean teacher (20 yr old) there who used to hit kids in the arm with a wooden stick if they did something wrong. I used to tell her to stop to no avail. Then one day I had enough, grabbed the stick from her hand and threatened to hit her with it if she did it again. I wouldn't do that now, I'm a little more diplomatic. But it was effective, the teacher-girl never hit the kids again. |
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dduck

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 422 Location: In the middle
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 4:26 pm Post subject: |
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I think phsycologists would have a field day with that one. I assume you, Gordon, threatend your young teacher in front of all the students. I might seem that you've solved the problem but you also reinforced the idea that violence solves problems. On the other hand, if we are hierarchical animals then you taught the students that you're the alpha-male and they'd better not mess with you.
I know you said you wouldn't do it again, what exactly would you do if it happened again?
To answer the question, I teach adults - mainly women, so I have absolutely no need for violence in the classroom. I have trouble getting them to stop laughing sometimes.
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october
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 49 Location: Israel
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 5:39 pm Post subject: |
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sometimes kids who use violence in the class, see this kind of behavior at home situations first, so under no circumstances do you want to report violent behavior to his parents (not at first anyway), not until you know for sure that it's not from home. I hardly have any violence in my classes, it's just not acceptibale to me, and the kids know it, but since i know the nervous types already, i know when they are about to explode and try to stop the "explosion" before it happens.
BUT a teacher hitting a student???? first of all she would be out flat on her face that same day (fired) and second she would defenetly have a criminal record.
Telling the principal? it depends on the principal. If she has a backbone and the students know this so it will help to tell her about a situation that can be dangerous to teacher and other students.
violence is a tricky business. I would never raise a hand on a student, i hardly ever raise my voice either. |
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The Darn
Joined: 15 Sep 2003 Posts: 9
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 6:14 pm Post subject: |
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I saw a news story this morning on cnn.com about a teacher in Morroco that had thrown 2 students out the first floor window. They were talking and she told them to be quiet or she would throw them out, they didn't shut up, so she threw them out. One of the students was injured. They didn't say whether the teacher would be discaplined or not. |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2003 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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dduck asked me
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I know you said you wouldn't do it again, what exactly would you do if it happened again?
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In that situation, I was the teacher and she was to assist me in translating. If this happened now, I would talk to her first (like I did in the past) and then talk to the principal about it. If she continued to do that, I would tell her to leave and would refuse to teach with her in the class. This young teacher would hit the students quite badly and they'd be black and blue the next day. I know she enjoyed hitting the students and found it amusing. |
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J-Pop
Joined: 07 Oct 2003 Posts: 215 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2003 1:21 am Post subject: Re: Violence in the classroom |
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cheryl wrote: |
Hi everyone,
I know I probably should post this in the Japan section since i'm in Japan but I wanted to get as much feedback as possible. Here's my question: In a team teaching situation, have you ever experienced violence in the classroom? Have you seen a teacher hit a student or vice versa? If so, how did you handle it? Did you tell the principles? |
cheryl,
1. Good idea to also post this in the Japan section.
2. When teaching English in Japan, at a junior high school, I personally:
2a. SAW one instance of violence used (quite effectively!) by a teacher on a student -- in the teacher's room There were two or three other teacher's providing "back-up" if necessary. Later the student returned & apologized . . .
2b. EXPERIENCED an instance of a student (one of a trio of buddies, "bad boys"), during a team-teaching situation, walk to the front of the room (where I was standing) & suddenly reach for my face (trying to fondle my mustache?). I grabbed the student's hand & we had a brief struggle, till I bent his arm so far back, afterwards I thought I'd (unintentionally) hurt him. His hand was pretty red from getting squeezed so hard. It all happened super fast, no time for thinking . . . or talking . . . .
2c. HEARD from reliable sources, i.e., other teachers) of a teacher who regularly hit his students. Supposedly, his class was one of the best behaved in that school
2d. WITNESSED an incident so wild & out-of-control that I'm guessing few people (non-Japanese anyway) would believe me if I really explained what happened. It was like something right out of the movies! I really wish I'd been able to film it . . .
I reported incident 2b to our ALT supervisor (for both JETs and non-JETs) the woman at the City Board of Education. I told her I was afraid the situation could get out of control if not addressed.
The student who disrupted class & his compatriots were made to apologize to me at my desk in the teacher's room & all was pretty much OK after that with one added touch. That is, I figured out they were (perhaps) genuinely curious about my stache (as in mustache) & thus tried to make a joke out of it by inviting the 3 wannabe hooligans to come up to the front of the class. I then, in front of the class, invited them to touch my stache! The one whose arm got bent was the only one who took me up on the offer. That "teaching moment" seemed to settle everything down quite satisfactorily for the rest of the term.
My opinion, USE your own judgement about whether to say anything or not. Are you there with some kind of a program? Like do you have a supervisor from the city (-shi) or province (-ken)? If you have a good relationship with your "boss" (supervisor) I would mention it to him/her first. Then let your super decide how to handle it or, as is more likely -- avoid it.
Unless you have a good rapport with the principal (or vice principal) I would not mention it to him. Just my opinion. |
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cheryl
Joined: 01 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2003 11:55 am Post subject: |
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Thanks J-Pop, your email has made me feel better in knowing that i'm not alone. I'm on the JET program and it was my supervisor that displayed the act of violence. She hit a student (i mean really hard across the face)mulitple times in class and probably wouldn't have stopped had i not stopped her. It was only when i got hit too that i realized just how hard she was slapping this boy. This apparently was not her first time hitting a student and she has a reputation for being volitile (i found this out after talking to some other teachers in a different school). On the outside she seemed like such a kind, happy and relaxed person.
I agree with you about not telling my kyoto or kocho sensei. I hardly talk to them and they probably won't see it as something as serious as i see it. When i told my another teacher, she just nodded and said, "oh, sometimes there's nothing else you can do." I really trust and respect this teacher so i was blown away by her response. I don't think this will happen again while i'm in the room with her. She knows my stand on violence, but who knows what has happened or what will happen when i'm not in the room with her. |
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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2003 1:01 pm Post subject: |
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Personally, I could never support acts of violence or physical aggression by teachers no matter what the situation.
I did my time, 20 years of it in some rough U.S. high schools, where violence in the schools and classrooms was the norm. Knives, guns, students beating the hell out of each other, students attacking teachers, the whole 9 yards. In all of those situations, a teacher would be fired for laying a hand on a student other than to defend him/herself or protect one student from another.
In my current job situation (Mexican university,) in my wildest dreams I couldn't imagine any act of violence happening in my classroom. Talk about feeling like I've died and gone to heaven . . . |
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october
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 49 Location: Israel
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2003 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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Am i naive??? I am in shock of how much violence some of you witness in the classroom! Are these "bad" or "less fortunate" populations you are talking about or is this the norm in Japan or in the US?? Please tell me that this is not the norm.
Actually I thought that where i work is violent but now that i've read your experiences i'm sure i work in La-la land...
Somebody save the day and say something good! |
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J-Pop
Joined: 07 Oct 2003 Posts: 215 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Oct 08, 2003 9:33 pm Post subject: you're welcome! |
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cheryl wrote: |
Thanks J-Pop, your email has made me feel better in knowing that i'm not alone. . . . |
"Doo itashimash(i)te." ("you're welcome", I inserted some parentheses to see if I could write the Japanese word for "welcome," otherwise, the system here inserts-- *beep*. Funny!)
It is a nice feeling to know you're not the only one.
Wow, the situation sounds . . . well, (unfortunately) rather unpleasant. You may very well be right. After clearly letting it be known how you feel, it might not happen anymore -- at least not while you're there, that's what sad . . . it could very well happen when you are not there. But all you can do, is what you can do . . . As long as you know in your heart you did (are doing) your best, considering the situation, then you are doing great . . . IMHO.
october wrote: |
Are these "bad" or "less fortunate" populations you are talking about or is this the norm in Japan or in the US?? |
Well, first of all, the situation with cheryl is primarily about the actions of a teacher, that is what is bad.
Secondly, as far as students, in the US public school system, as I have never taught in the public schools here (only university) I can't speak about that. I'll defer to Ben (& others) for comments on that issue.
Thirdly, yeah one of the schools I was in--of three schools, one per term-- had a (well-earned?) reputation as a "bad" school. I think most of the immediate surrounding area was not one of the best (so I was told).
OTOH, the very last school I taught in was one of the top two in the whole city, supposedly. Mainly due, I was told, because most of the households were of higher than average income, with many parents of the students being college educated. |
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october
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 49 Location: Israel
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2003 12:56 pm Post subject: |
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well, I stand corrected. A day after I announced that i probably am naive and live in la la land i was attacked by a 6 grader while trying to seperate him from "killing" a girl that borrowed a pencil from him without asking!
I immidiatly called for the principal and when she told the boy to come with her he smuggly and red faced said to her "i dont feel like it, and you can't touch me anyway"... What are we to do? we have no power what so ever??? i went home with a sore arm from the kick and still cant believe that this happened and how on earth did i keep myself from slapping the monster?
So, nobody escapes the violence after all? |
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dduck

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 422 Location: In the middle
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2003 5:07 pm Post subject: |
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I don't understand: why doesn't the Principal have no power? Surely she could expel the pupil if she wanted?
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