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crankyjiji



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:12 am    Post subject: Should I/do you pity them? Reply with quote

The longer I`m here, the more I`m reminded of the American philosopher Henry David Thoreau`s aphorism that "the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation".

My students are company workers who need to use English with their overseas customers. It`s a 120 hour course over 3 months in the early evenings.

They look and are exhausted. I do my best to make the classes enjoyable, but sometimes I`d rather send them home to sleep. But of course, if they weren`t in English class they would be back at their desks. Sometimes they stay until midnight or later. One guy comes in on Saturdays too. We joke about "karoshi" (death from overwork).

It`s one of those myths of Japan. "Japanese people are hardworking." Not really. These guys just spend lots of time at work at less than 100 percent efficiency because they are distracted by sleepiness and hunger.
They ought to go home are a reasonable hour, get a good night`s sleep, and come back to work refreshed and ready to concentrate.

Sadly, none of them would ever cast off their cultural/company albatrosses and tell everyone in the office "I have put in a hard day`s work today and now it is time for me to go home to my family and recharge myself for tomorrow. Goodnight!"
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Quibby84



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know exactly what you mean....it is super sad but I have no clue what to do about it. I always tell them to go home or to work less but they dont listen to me....sad...
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GambateBingBangBOOM



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's NOTHING a foreigner can do about it. Cram-free education was a failure because it's goal was to instil a 'zest for living/ life' in the students and Japanese teachers don't know what that means.

And so they will cram cram cram...have grammar test after grammar test after grammar test and then when they discover that Japanese kids are lagging behind other countries including -GASP!- Korea, then they will just increase the number of tests and grammar drills. There MUST be a way to learn English without using English, there MUST be! How do others do it? Oh, they USE English and get better? Ano, Ano thinking of our culture we Japanese cannot do that.

So we DRILL!!!! We DRILL!!! WE DRILL!!!!!

They have an education system built upon never having student think, but nstead passively memorize whatever the teacher says. Then they get out into the workforce, having not been taught to think, and so they can't. So then the head of the company does what the last guy did, and everybody else does what everybody else did and does and that means nobody recognizes that there is a problem somewhere, or if they do, there is nothing they can do about it, becuase if they speak up they'll get canned.

So parents are too exhausted to actually parent, and so they have kids busy not thinking but doing someting almost every second of the day. And whatever time the kids do spend at home will almost invarably be filled with video games or manga books, ensuring that the situation gets worse and worse.

After all "stay on target...stay on target..." worked great for Porkins. Oh WAIT!!!! Shocked
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cornishmuppet



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I explained to a co-worker the other day that the reason I go home at bang on 4pm everyday (as well as arriving at bang on 8.15pm) is because I'm British and that's part of my culture. She was equally impressed when I said I'd adopted a little bit of Japanese culture in that if I actually have something important to do (rarely) I'm prepared to stay late and finish it rather than leave it to the following morning, but otherwise, its clock chimes 4, out the door.

I also had a student who used to come to an evening class at seven straight from work, then go back there straight after, every time. I was impressed by his dedication, but couldn't help wondering what he did with his time. Probably nothing except push paper about until his boss left.

Personally, I can't help feeling a little sad for all the office workers who live a work-only lifestyle. But, really, its a cultural thing and its each to his/her own. If it makes them happy to work stupid hours for no extra pay, than fair play to them. Unfortunately, I doubt it does, its just they're caught up in this cultural net so to speak and have no way of getting out.
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southofreality



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who am I to pity them?

I'm sure they don't pity me or others from my home country for some of the things they find to be dissatisfying about our culture and/or society.
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Mothy



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

GambateBingBangBOOM wrote:
After all "stay on target...stay on target..." worked great for Porkins. Oh WAIT!!!! Shocked


Amazing Star Wars reference. I'm truly impressed.

I used to pity them, but then I realized they're doing it to themselves. I have Japanese friends who work like this and complain about it constantly. If my wife and I say to them "just go home! If they're not paying you to be there any later, GO HOME!" They then say, "Yeah, I should," but don't. I have other friends who don't work like this, just go home when it's time to go home, and they still keep their jobs. The world doesn't stop spinning. Everything is fine. So they can not do it. They just need to choose not to do it. But if they don't choose not to, oh well, they can't be helped unless they want help.
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TK4Lakers



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

cornishmuppet wrote:
I explained to a co-worker the other day that the reason I go home at bang on 4pm everyday (as well as arriving at bang on 8.15pm) is because I'm British and that's part of my culture. She was equally impressed when I said I'd adopted a little bit of Japanese culture in that if I actually have something important to do (rarely) I'm prepared to stay late and finish it rather than leave it to the following morning, but otherwise, its clock chimes 4, out the door.

I also had a student who used to come to an evening class at seven straight from work, then go back there straight after, every time. I was impressed by his dedication, but couldn't help wondering what he did with his time. Probably nothing except push paper about until his boss left.

Personally, I can't help feeling a little sad for all the office workers who live a work-only lifestyle. But, really, its a cultural thing and its each to his/her own. If it makes them happy to work stupid hours for no extra pay, than fair play to them. Unfortunately, I doubt it does, its just they're caught up in this cultural net so to speak and have no way of getting out.


That's fine to do what you want in your own country, but remember this is Japan. Like the saying goes, "when in Rome..."
I find it tough to swallow when I see foreigners questioning a lot of the things the Japanese do here...and then try to implement their own way.
A lot of people don't understand that culture isn't something you can change, nor is it right to question. The way the Japanese do work, has been done for decades. It's instilled in their brains.
I'm guilty of questioning too...but rather than pitying them, I try to learn from them, learn why they do this and how they think.
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alexcase



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm still hoping there's something you can do a bit more constructive than pitying students like that, but can't claim to have cracked the secret yet. Here are a few ideas I am working on for the knackered salaryman student classes:

- As well as the fun stuff mentioned, try to keep the mental load low for at least some of the activities. Stuff like testing each other on their verb tables can go down a treat, and while it isn't a huge step towards teaching them to really speak English, it can't hurt
- Loads and loads of revision, not just from previous lessons but also recycling the homework you just marked or testing something from the beginning of the lesson one more time
- Topics which are a complete escape from their lives, e.g. fantasy homes, celebrity gossip, travel, any cultural stuff about whatever they would consider an exotic country to be
- Even more than normal ESP classes, you need to show them that the English lessons are making their working life easier in some way in the near future. This usually means telephoning and emailing, but again with lots of games

I recently had a class who rebelled when the manager tried to make them come to their English classes at the beginning rather than whenever they had finished the work. The class is no more (and will be sadly missed, by me- I hope by them too!), but I say good on em for showing a bit of spunk. Half of them had had their gains in TOEIC score wiped out by getting a promotion and so being too busy to not need to do overtime the day before the exam.
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ohahakehte



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 3:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

alexcase wrote:
Topics which are a complete escape from their lives, e.g. fantasy homes, celebrity gossip, travel, any cultural stuff about whatever they would consider an exotic country to be.


so THATS why adult classes often degenerate into asking me piles of stupid questions about canada that only spring from stereotypes!
"i want to go to canada and eat canadian food! like maple syrup on steak!"....uhhh, yeah..
it makes sense though. if you dont have the energy to think anything constructive you might as well play up fantasy-like stereotypes. it sure aint fun for the teacher though...i dont imagine if it was the other way around that a japanese teacher would enjoy being asked things like, "so, do you sharpen your samurai sword yourself? or do you go to a blacksmith for that?", "how much is tuition at ninja college?" bla bla bla
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alexcase



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 9:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It could be worse, Japan's Turkish residents recently had to put up with a rose tinted NHK special on the PKK freedom fighters missing their girls back home. Once you do click that it is an escapism thing, though, you can have some sympathy for your students not wanting too much truth. Can you imagine if the teacher of an adult education Thai language class back home spent the whole time talking about police corruption, dirty beaches and how many Thais secretly hate foreigners what their reaction would be?
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cornishmuppet



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 12:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ohahakehte wrote:
alexcase wrote:
Topics which are a complete escape from their lives, e.g. fantasy homes, celebrity gossip, travel, any cultural stuff about whatever they would consider an exotic country to be.


so THATS why adult classes often degenerate into asking me piles of stupid questions about canada that only spring from stereotypes!
"i want to go to canada and eat canadian food! like maple syrup on steak!"....uhhh, yeah..
it makes sense though. if you dont have the energy to think anything constructive you might as well play up fantasy-like stereotypes. it sure aint fun for the teacher though...i dont imagine if it was the other way around that a japanese teacher would enjoy being asked things like, "so, do you sharpen your samurai sword yourself? or do you go to a blacksmith for that?", "how much is tuition at ninja college?" bla bla bla


I have a Japanese friend who is trying to start up a ninja school. He usually charges by the hour but if you like I can ask for a semester rate. The swords are blunt (to avoid injury) but he buys the wooden poles we fight with from Watahan.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 12:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

GambateBingBangBOOM wrote:
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they have an education system built upon never having student think, but nstead passively memorize whatever the teacher says. Then they get out into the workforce, having not been taught to think, and so they can't. So then the head of the company does what the last guy did, and everybody else does what everybody else did and does and that means nobody recognizes that there is a problem somewhere, or if they do, there is nothing they can do about it, becuase if they speak up they'll get canned.

Laughing quite funny but true

alexcase wrote:
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- As well as the fun stuff mentioned, try to keep the mental load low for at least some of the activities
Topics which are a complete escape from their lives, e.g. fantasy homes, celebrity gossip, travel, any cultural stuff about whatever they would consider an exotic country to be


Interesting but not always true. Some pople like to study about what they actually do everyday in English. Especially if they like what they do. Even if they don't like what they do.
Also I have had success with "heavier material" such as the environment, analysing charts and graphs, the hospital/medical system in japan etc and they webt on and on with the discussion. However there will be students who prefer the Imaginative fairy tale peter pan world, and Most if not all students like talking about travel etc but the heavy stuff is good as long as it is presented in an interesting informative way.

ohahakehte wrote:
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so THATS why adult classes often degenerate into asking me piles of stupid questions about canada that only spring from stereotypes!
"i want to go to canada and eat canadian food! like maple syrup on steak!"....uhhh, yeah..
it makes sense though. if you dont have the energy to think anything constructive you might as well play up fantasy-like stereotypes. it sure aint fun for the teacher though...i dont imagine if it was the other way around that a japanese teacher would enjoy being asked things like, "so, do you sharpen your samurai sword yourself? or do you go to a blacksmith for that?", "how much is tuition at ninja college?" bla bla bla

Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

cornishmuppet wrote:
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If it makes them happy to work stupid hours for no extra pay, than fair play to them



I don't think they are happy about that. (maybe that was said tongue in cheek). They do it out of a sense of responsibility.
It is a part of the Japanese work ethic. It is something that I am grappling with.
I saw it firsthand with the failure of a company and the dedication of the staff down to the very last and a frind of mine ( some friends rather) who explained.

Mothy wrote:
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If my wife and I say to them "just go home! If they're not paying you to be there any later, GO HOME!" They then say, "Yeah, I should," but don't
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as I stated above there are reasons why they don't.
They stay for the total good of the entire group not for themselves and not because they want to stay.
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SeasonedVet



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 12:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Personally I agree with the OP here
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It`s one of those myths of Japan. "Japanese people are hardworking." Not really. These guys just spend lots of time at work at less than 100 percent efficiency because they are distracted by sleepiness and hunger.

There are long long meetings and work goes on long into the night but business starts the next day on time as usual even if you stayed late the night before. There is only so much concentration a human being can do in 24 hours and still be very productive.

Now don't gtet me wrong, I have learned alot from the dedication of the Japanese and have applied it to my daily life. back home I would have been late for work any number of times in a year. here I have been late about 3 times in my first five years and then it was under 10 minutes each time.
I have also learned that there is nothing wrong with cleaning up and tidying up the place or even doing a little vacuuming. It won't hurt.

What I have gleaned about the work ethic and why people work long hours here is because of the group mentality. It is for the greater good and for the group and for the company NOT FOr YOURSELF.
If you go home early wheile others are working late guess how you will be seen? As a weak Link in the Chain. Remember a chain is as strong as it's weakest link.
When I decided to stay on and work at a company that was going down the drain and without salary, guess what my Japanese friends said?
-You are erai
- you did a good thing
- you are sugoi
- You have made people happy

Before I did it I was actually advised to DO It and to Do It for the students. Seto no tame ni. The person advising me to do this said that they could understand the students's feelings.

So when people in this country engage in this work ethic that some of Us Non-japanese cannot understand, it doesn't necessarily mean that they are enjoying it and wouldn't rather be at home or somewhere else. It is carved into the framework of working life and the culture of Japan.

having said that, there are numbers of Younger people ( and some older) who DO NOT subscribe to it and refuse to do so. They refuse to work in any office with that kind of mindset. They just can't hack it and it would make them feel like caged birds probably. I don't have the statistics but there are people who Don't buy into it.
They prefer freelance jobs and less stressful jobs etc etc
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 1:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry for another post but I forgot to add:
You ask school teachers in japan this question "How are you today" the answer will var but alot of the time you might hear "I am so tired today" and then they go into the explanation as to why. How long they had to stay at work. But the thing is they say it as if it is a Trophy. They don't seem really bothered about it. They sound proud.

As a salaryman the same thing. he might give the same answer, but there is a hint of PRIDE in his voice.

Being tired and being seen as a hard worker contributing to the greater good and to the group is seen as a GOOD tTHING and something to be proud of.

Leaving work on the bell or exactly on the hour is NOT.

I have actually seen High School teachers during the Summer Holidays leaving work just a little after half day like 3:00 or 4:00 pm and ALTHOUGH they have the permission of the Vice Principal ( cause nothing is happening anyway and other teachers have been leaving one by one) and ALTHOUGH they know it's ok to go and that they CAN go,they STILL Kinda Slink out or Steal Away with head bowed or body in a bowed position and try their best not to let anybody know they are leaving when everybody ALREADY knows they are leaving. Rolling Eyes . That mindset and work ethic is Deep. Alot of us from cultures with quite different work ethics would take a while to either understand it or get accustomed to it.
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southofreality



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SeasonedVet wrote:
What I have gleaned about the work ethic and why people work long hours here is because of the group mentality. It is for the greater good and for the group and for the company NOT FOr YOURSELF.


For the greater good of the company, sure. It's not for the greater good of the workers' families, not the lonely wives and certainly not the children who have little time to be with both parents.
Oh, wait... the kids have to go to juku and be kept busy with stuff all day anyway so maybe I'm off base here.

It's been said that things are changing, though.

Either way, if it's to be changed, it'll be changed from within. I guess if I had to pity anybody here, it'd be the kids.
But, then again, kids have it pretty rough where I come from too. Just in a different way.


By the way, Vet. I'm not arguing here. I just used your point to make a different one. Wink


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