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Jetgirly

Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 741
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:52 am Post subject: Should I pretend I'm Catholic? |
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So my Canadian university sent me to a prepa in Guadalajara that is apparently Catholic. I am a die-hard atheist but didn't think it would be a big deal because I didn't think it would be too significant in my twelve hours of teaching weekly. However, several of my students have asked me if I'm Catholic. I have no idea how to answer. Do you think I could be removed from my teaching job if it is discovered I am not Catholic? Nobody told me that I HAD to be Catholic before I arrived, but I'm worried that the students might tell their parents that their new teacher isn't Catholic and it could get back to administration, who might ask me to either say I'm Catholic or leave. Could it come to that point? Honestly, I don't care if I stay or go, but I have signed a lease on an apartment that relies on the income I am supposed to be generating and I wouldn't want to leave my housemate in a lurch.
EDIT: My re-reading suggests that I have been too delicate in my words. Basically, I am not willing to lie and say I'm Catholic. I would never discuss religion in class, but if a student comes up to me after class and asks me about my beliefs, I'm kind of on the spot. IF it becomes an issue, my options are essentially stay despite my atheism or leave the school because of it. Lieing isn't really an option. |
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dixie

Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 644 Location: D.F
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:36 am Post subject: Re: Should I pretend I'm Catholic? |
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Jetgirly wrote: |
So my Canadian university sent me to a prepa in Guadalajara that is apparently Catholic. I am a die-hard atheist but didn't think it would be a big deal because I didn't think it would be too significant in my twelve hours of teaching weekly. However, several of my students have asked me if I'm Catholic. I have no idea how to answer. Do you think I could be removed from my teaching job if it is discovered I am not Catholic? Nobody told me that I HAD to be Catholic before I arrived, but I'm worried that the students might tell their parents that their new teacher isn't Catholic and it could get back to administration, who might ask me to either say I'm Catholic or leave. Could it come to that point? Honestly, I don't care if I stay or go, but I have signed a lease on an apartment that relies on the income I am supposed to be generating and I wouldn't want to leave my housemate in a lurch.
EDIT: My re-reading suggests that I have been too delicate in my words. Basically, I am not willing to lie and say I'm Catholic. I would never discuss religion in class, but if a student comes up to me after class and asks me about my beliefs, I'm kind of on the spot. IF it becomes an issue, my options are essentially stay despite my atheism or leave the school because of it. Lieing isn't really an option. |
In my opinion, you have two options:
First: when asked tell the student(s) that that is personal, and you are not willing to share. You are their teacher, not their buddy. However, although this is the "rule of thumb" back home, it can come across as harsh here.
Two: be honest. I once was teaching at a school (not Catholic, but being Meixcan just about everyone is) and when it was Ash Wednesday a priest came in to do the ash crosses. I left the room, and didn�t participate. No questions were asked, there was no backlash.
Honestly, I wouldn�t lie. They are not likely going to do anything to you. Just tell them that you are not, and when (not if, because they will follow up) they ask you what religion you are, tell them you don�t practice any religion. Again, you are the teacher, you are under no obligation to explain yourself to your students when it comes to personal matters. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:24 am Post subject: |
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The issue has come up for me frequently lately...here's my experience.
There's a Catholic all-boys school in DF run by Opus Dei (hard core Catholic if you're unfamiliar). One of my concerns in connecting teachers to this school was the issue of religious belief. Turns out it was no concern at all. The school works from Roman Catholic doctrine, but doesn't care so much at all about a teacher's beliefs, according to the HR director and the teachers working there. The only thing they do care about is what you bring up in class or around the students. Don't talk about divorce, don't talk about abortion, don't brand a 666 tatoo on your head. Pretty straight forward actually, considering you wouldn't really discuss this stuff around public school kids of the same age (elementary).
Now, your school may have a different view, but my thoughts are that if Opus Dei doesn't care - and these are the hardest hardcore of cores in the Catholic church, why should yours? |
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Samantha

Joined: 25 Oct 2003 Posts: 2038 Location: Mexican Riviera
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 5:23 am Post subject: |
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In my area it's important to most Catholic schools that the teachers be Catholic. Stands to reason, maybe because I am Catholic. |
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ls650

Joined: 10 May 2003 Posts: 3484 Location: British Columbia
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:29 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't lie. I agree with the advice to tell the students that that's private and you prefer not to discuss it in class. |
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GueroPaz
Joined: 07 Sep 2007 Posts: 216 Location: Thailand or Mexico
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 12:36 pm Post subject: |
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You were recruited/sponsored through a university, and you are only doing this for a fairly short time. It may never come up, and as stated, you can say it is private and personal in your country, and we don't ask or answer those questions, even in countries where it is customarily discussed.
If a problem arises where an important administrator presents it, pass the buck. ask them to call Canada and speak to your university dean, chancellor, department head, personell dept., cultural exchange coordinator. Then excuse yourself and go back to work.
Don't ask, don't tell. If they keep asking personal questions, ask them 98 public and personal questions. |
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thelmadatter
Joined: 31 Mar 2003 Posts: 1212 Location: in el Distrito Federal x fin!
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 1:03 pm Post subject: religion |
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I am Wiccan, so this has been something of an issue with me even though I work at a secular institution.
I have two default comments. If I feel secure enough with someone (be they students or not) I say that I am Wiccan. Of course I get a blank stare. But if they push me to explain, esp. students, I simply tell them to look it up in Wikipedia. (I doubt any of them have). As my beliefs forbid prostelitizing (sp?), this works out well.
If I think my being Wiccan could have negative effects, I simply say that I was raised Lutheran and I do not attend church anymore. If they ask why, I shrug my shoulders.
In both cases, I am not lying, but I weave out of harm's way too. |
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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For me it depends on the person I'm talking too. I never say I'm Catholic, but some people assume I am. I attend mass frequently because there is always someone being baptised, confirmed, presented, married, communioned and what not. During mass I sit and stand with the rest of the people, but never kneel, never cross myself, and pretend I don't know the words to any of the songs (though it's been 10 years, I'd have to be a brick not to know them). Nobody has ever questioned it. The only time I'm really uncomfortable is at Christmas Eve because at the end of mass everyone goes up to kiss the baby--they actually close the doors of the church and the only way out is in the front on the side and there's a huge crush of people so you have to go through the line to get out.
When people I barely know ask my religion, I say I'm Methodist. This is my parent's religion, and I'm safe because there's no Methodist church in my town. They often go on to ask what that is, I tell them it's protestant, basically the same, but without the saints, and that it's mild--not like those pushy protestants here (there is a largish Jehova's Witnesses population, and some Mormons). That usually sends people away happily.
People I'm close to know that I'm really Unitarian Universalist--but for me that's way too complicated to explain to market vendors and people I will never really know.
I would talk to students here about religion, but not in class, we have precious little class time and that's for their ENGLISH learning. If they wanted to come see me in my office--I have 5 office hours a day after all, I'd happily talk to them about anything. But my students are in university, not prepa, and part of the university experience is to learn about differences. |
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Gary Denness Guest
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 12:43 pm Post subject: |
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Personally, if I were in a position where a school head was bigoted enough to discriminate, I would just lie through my teeth and be satisfied with the knowledge they have a heathen in their midst. I have heard of one scholl in DF where it would be a problem for the elderly school owner, but I can't imagine it's something that comes up often.
If you ask me Mexicans are by and large more tolerant than religiously inclined people back home in the UK.
Long live the Flying Spaghetti Monster! May he touch you all with his noodly appendage. |
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guangho

Joined: 16 Oct 2004 Posts: 476 Location: in transit
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:42 pm Post subject: |
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I once worked in a Catholic Uni in rural Poland. Pretty much everyone had me pegged within a week or so. It's no big deal- besides, you should always be true to yourself. |
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hlamb
Joined: 09 Dec 2003 Posts: 431 Location: Canada
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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I work at a language school and this does come up. I tell students that I don't really have any religious leanings but respect everyone for their beliefs and am interested in learning about all religions. All of this is true and it leads to interesting discussions. However, most of my students are adults and they are also interested in other beliefs. |
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dixie

Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 644 Location: D.F
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 12:44 am Post subject: |
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hlamb wrote: |
I work at a language school and this does come up. I tell students that I don't really have any religious leanings but respect everyone for their beliefs and am interested in learning about all religions. All of this is true and it leads to interesting discussions. However, most of my students are adults and they are also interested in other beliefs. |
I think this is an important fact....talking with adults about religion is different than talking to children...only because PARENTS (every teachers favourite group) can find offense and try to create issues.
Also, from jetgirly�s other post, about her current prepa classes (and the admin), I don�t think creating a discussion about the topic would be in her best interest.
Although I do like the idea of teachers and students being open enough to intelligently discuss religious differences. Religion causes so many stupid issues, that it�s nice to always hear that it can be talked about, debated, and no wars need to break out.  |
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hlamb
Joined: 09 Dec 2003 Posts: 431 Location: Canada
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 12:30 am Post subject: |
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dixie wrote: |
I think this is an important fact....talking with adults about religion is different than talking to children...only because PARENTS (every teachers favourite group) can find offense and try to create issues.
Also, from jetgirly�s other post, about her current prepa classes (and the admin), I don�t think creating a discussion about the topic would be in her best interest.
Although I do like the idea of teachers and students being open enough to intelligently discuss religious differences. Religion causes so many stupid issues, that it�s nice to always hear that it can be talked about, debated, and no wars need to break out.  |
My school tends to be pretty open about controversial topics. Occassionally there's a complaint, but generally from teenagers who are put into adult classes and don't like the topics of discussion. The kids classes are much different, but I don't often teach them. It's important to know your students and what is acceptable with them. My students are usually university students or professionals, many of whom travel to other countries. They tend to be very open to anything, but a prepa would be a lot different! |
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Prof.Gringo

Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 2236 Location: Dang Cong San Viet Nam Quang Vinh Muon Nam!
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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Guy Courchesne wrote: |
The issue has come up for me frequently lately...here's my experience.
There's a Catholic all-boys school in DF run by Opus Dei (hard core Catholic if you're unfamiliar). One of my concerns in connecting teachers to this school was the issue of religious belief. Turns out it was no concern at all. The school works from Roman Catholic doctrine, but doesn't care so much at all about a teacher's beliefs, according to the HR director and the teachers working there. The only thing they do care about is what you bring up in class or around the students. Don't talk about divorce, don't talk about abortion, don't brand a 666 tatoo on your head. Pretty straight forward actually, considering you wouldn't really discuss this stuff around public school kids of the same age (elementary).
Now, your school may have a different view, but my thoughts are that if Opus Dei doesn't care - and these are the hardest hardcore of cores in the Catholic church, why should yours? |
Well, I had an interview in an Opus Dei run school and the religion question was a big one. They asked about my religion about three different times on just the first page of the application alone. Then they asked me about it in the interview with the shrink and then with the HR guy. Needless to say I didn't say all the right answers (The Pope is always right and condoms are very, very bad). I don't see the reason to lie to get a job. Of course nobody told me that the school I was going to interview at was hard-core Catholic till I went there. To the OP, in your case I am not sure what to say except to just go with the flow unless it becomes an issue. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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Which school, is this?
As far as I know, the only Opus Dei run school in this city is the one I'm referring to. In that case, you must have have interviewed with Peter...an atheist, and I sincerely doubt you talked religion with him. I've been party to three interviews and none involved either a shrink or a priest. The guy talks numbers and quarts... I was interviewed myself by a non-Opus Dei Catholic group for a teaching job in 2003 and when religion came up, I told them I was a 'lapsed Catholic' (atheist in other words). Job was mine anyway until I turned it down and recommended a Baptist, who got the job.
Unless...there's another Opus Dei school here? If so, I'd be interested in knowing who they are... |
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