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KMT22



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 2:03 am    Post subject: respectful students...or not... Reply with quote

I just started my CELTA class this week. I'm looking for some advice, or perhaps a different take on what I'm experiencing.
We're teaching 12 pre-intermediate students, 11 of them are from China, South Korea, or Taiwan.
I am having a hard time getting them to listen to my instructions, or to even just stop talking. It's only our second day of teaching, so all of us are having this problem to some degree. Our CELTA tutor tells us to stand at the front of the classroom and wait until everyone stops talking. This might work if it was one or two students, but it's normally more than half the class. I'll go ahead and add that I am not a quiet speaker, or an uncertain one. I know how to give short, clear instructions, and the tutor said that I model activities well. But I seem to have WAY more trouble getting the class to settle down than the other trainees. Now I should add that I'm 23, with very blonde hair, petite, and pretty. (I say pretty because I have had two of the students tell me that I am "beautiful"). Flattery is always nice, but I am worried that they are not taking me seriously. My attitude is quickly moving from slightly annoyed to severely frustrated. I worry that my confidence will soon be undermined, and this will make the problem worse. I know how I would address disrespect in my workplace, but the same tactics cannot be used on students.
So what does everyone think? Is this a cultural issue, an issue with my teaching style, or is it all in my head? Has anyone else had issues like this during training or teaching, and if so what did you do to correct it. Any help before my next teaching class (Friday) would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give a quiz in the first 5 minutes of class. EVERY class.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sit them next to people who they can't stand.

Embarrass one student and make an example of him /her by pulling them in front of the class and asking them if they realise that they're talking and being disruptive.

If they're young, threaten to talk to their parents, and follow through with it.

Punish them for talking while you are. Sit them in a different section of the room. Have them write an apology.

Talking while the teacher talking, unfortuantely is a common problem.

Try positive reinforcement. Make an example of the good kids by calling everyone's attention to them.

Bribery works wonders. Give out candies to the good students, or stickers
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Dragonlady



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 4:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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laconic



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 4:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

naturegirl321 wrote:


Embarrass one student and make an example of him /her by pulling them in front of the class and asking them if they realise that they're talking and being disruptive.



Wow!

I can't think of a quicker way to alienate an entire class.

Utilizing such an approach will only make your job that much harder.

Thanks, but no thanks. Rolling Eyes
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spiral78



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 8:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Also would be a good way to fail your CELTA course.

No, I think you need to seek serious advice from your course providers. You need to know exactly what kinds of classroom management techniques they recommend in such a case. They are there to help you with exactly these issues.

I would ask for a meeting specifically to discuss this issue.

Regarding your appearance, you may want to try to offset your youth and beauty by dressing seriously and conservatively. Not overdone, of course, but leave off any extra ornamentation and try to give the impression that you are taking the thing seriously.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 12:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

And about that whole you are beautiful thing, that's just the way that Asians are. And you should deny, rather than accept the compliment. If you can say one word in Chinese, they will go on and on about how good your Chinese is.

Or if you go to eat at their house, they will tell you how terrible their food is.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 12:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

laconic wrote:
naturegirl321 wrote:


Embarrass one student and make an example of him /her by pulling them in front of the class and asking them if they realise that they're talking and being disruptive.



Wow!

I can't think of a quicker way to alienate an entire class.

Utilizing such an approach will only make your job that much harder.

Thanks, but no thanks. Rolling Eyes


But in the real world, making an example of students DOES work.
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Justin Trullinger



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 2:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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But in the real world, making an example of students DOES work.



Depends. Sometimes it does, sometimes it really doesn't. So before you do anything try to answer this question: What are the other trainees, who are having less trouble, doing differently than you? Being young, blonde, and pretty may be a part of it. My experience as a teacher trainer is that it's rarely just that, though. THere WILL be other factors- try to isolate specific differences between your class and others' which might contribute, and then try to change those.

Because teaching isn't a one-size-fits-all kind of arrangement. I could tell you what I've done in the past, or what I might do in the future. But I'm not you, nor are your students the same as mine. Sometimes singling someone out for embarrassment can work. Sometimes a softer approach is called for. (Have you asked these students for their cooperation? Tried to wait them out? Changed the classroom set up so that they CAN'T continue their conversations? Done something more interesting to get their attention?)

There are too many variables that I don't know here for me to have much of an opinion as to what may work- I really would talk to your trainers and peers. But if they're not as bad for others, then they aren't just a bunch of overtalkative jerks. THere's something happening in your class that makes it happen. Find out what.


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justin
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Thu May 29, 2008 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm not going to shout at the students. Simply call them in front of the class and ask them to look around them and see that they're in class and should respect the teacher.
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Girl Scout



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 12:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Calling someone out is only something I use after classroom rules have been established and it is obvious students are purposefully disobeying them. I would never call out a student early in the semester.

You do need to take control. I like the quiz idea. I sometimes get the students to move, move the desks into groups or a new classroom configuration, ask one or two students to help you put up a poster or a map. Movement normally gets students attention.

You can also move. I have never had a lot of success just standing in front of the class and waiting for them to be quiet. That has only worked after a hierarchy has been established with me on the top. Walk over to a desk, put your hand on it, then ask a student a few feet away a simple personal (not too personal) question. What are you talking about? What did you do this morning? a "you" question, a question about them.

You have the attention of the student you are standing over and the attention of the surrounding students. The should all quiet down. (should)
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Kootvela



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get a whistle and blow it when you need their attention. Works well with adults as well as with kids. Seriously! At first it might be a good laugh but then they'll get used to it. It's not very communicative but effective.
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spiral78



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Almost all posters here are ignoring the fact that the OP is have trouble with practice teaching on her CELTA course. Blowing whistles, shaming students, etc. are all courses of action that may cause her to FAIL unless her trainers have previously approved them.

Her only real course of action is to formulate strategies along with the trainers on her course. Shocked
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Kootvela



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

spiral78 wrote:
Almost all posters here are ignoring the fact that the OP is have trouble with practice teaching on her CELTA course. Blowing whistles, shaming students, etc. are all courses of action that may cause her to FAIL unless her trainers have previously approved them.

Her only real course of action is to formulate strategies along with the trainers on her course. Shocked


I disagree. The point is, that the OP must find own way out of this problem, in this case, classroom management. Let's not forget that it's a training course to prepare for real-life, and in real-life we do blow whistles if we have to. Tutors can consult if they like or not, just to see if the trainees will manage the situation on their own. And if you want to fail a course you paid for, you have to do something criminal.
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spiral78



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PostPosted: Fri May 30, 2008 3:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No - it's quite possible to fail a CELTA or a good generic TEFL course. Reputable course providers have a responsibility to potential employers to ensure that the newbie teachers they've 'stamped' as 'ready to start' fit into a range of acceptable behaviors in the classroom.

I've unfortunately known quite a few TEFL trainees over the years who really couldn't reach the basic goals and who were NOT passed.

It's unlikely that the OP will find herself in this situation - she shows initiative in trying to find ways to solve the problem. But her solutions need to also fit into her trainer's expectations for appropriate classroom behavior. Her trainers may agree with you that whistles can be blown in some situations - or not.
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