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redeyes



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:14 pm    Post subject: Is Saudi REALLY like the article says, or is the guy exagerr Reply with quote

Is Saudi REALLY like the article says, or is the guy exagerrating to get into print?

Or does it depend if you are going out of your way and looking for trouble?

"There is no doubt that living in the kingdom is dangerous. There have been dozens of isolated, targeted killings of westerners in recent years - not including the 2003 Riyadh compound bombings that resulted in 35 casualties and more than 160 wounded (including Americans, Australians and Britons) in a single, co-ordinated attack on three residential compounds. Of the isolated murders, some people were killed in supermarket car parks, using cashpoints, shopping, sitting in their cars at traffic lights. Despite these events, thousands of western expatriates continue to live and work in the kingdom.

To leave, foreign nationals must obtain exit visas. The application process is weighed down by layers of bureaucratic officialdom. Many of the teachers at the college where I work are desperate to leave by the time annual holidays are due. They have endured stifling temperatures, which the government reportedly misrepresents to avoid declaring public holidays, and restrictions on a western lifestyle. The lucky few who know people of influence obtain their visas early and leave. The others, like the dispossessed European �migr�s in the film Casablanca, wait and wait and wait."

http://www.newstatesman.com/travel/2007/07/saudi-arabia-black-english
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007



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:41 pm    Post subject: Re: Is Saudi REALLY like the article says, or is the guy exa Reply with quote

redeyes wrote:
Is Saudi REALLY like the article says, or is the guy exagerrating to get into print?

Well, if he was serious and accurate in his accounts regarding the Magic Kingdom or Thailand, he would not have been locked in the black box in Thailand! Thailand is not the magic Kingdom, but he got what he got because of his long poisonous tongue!

As one reader wrote in reply to Harry's article:
"I'd suggest Mr Nicolaides make an application to the British tabloid press as that is where this nonsense belongs."

His behaviour is like drinking from a well and then spitting in it.
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 12:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say that the writer doesn't wander far, at all, from the truth, except the part of the liquor runner from Bahrain. THAT sounds fanciful to me, althought I did have a diplomat friend/student smuggle my liquor from Bahrain in his trunk..but he DID have a diplomatic passport, so was not subject to search. So, if before, he had a diplomat friend do the same thing, then it's believable. I recognized MANY of his representations.

The thing that surprised me the most was that the writer published his name. My hope was that it was a pen-name.

Not, at all, far from the truth.

NCTBA
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trapezius



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 1:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Well, if he was serious and accurate in his accounts regarding the Magic Kingdom or Thailand, he would not have been locked in the black box in Thailand!


So if you expose a dictator's crimes to the world, and then he kills you, it must mean that you were lying!!! Otherwise, he wouldn't have killed you, rather, welcomed you with open arms! Rolling Eyes

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I read the article, and it is spot on. Of course, a lot of the things he talks about, take place under the surface, so you will not come to know these things unless people (expats and locals) tell them to you.

In the past 2 years in my current job, I have heard so many stories from my students, that I could easily fill half a book. My students are all from rich, big, usually influential families. You would think the country was all about drugs, alcohol, and sex (all types of sex) once you hear the stories. And I have heard many stories from other friends, both Western, and non-Western, working as teachers, doctors, bankers, etc. Utterly shocking and horrifying stories.

The latest one I heard, from multiple unconnected sources who happened to be at the event was about a New Year's party hosted at someone's house who will of course go unnamed, as will the two prominent guests who were also at the party. According to my sources, there were rooms set aside for sex, all sorts of substances were plentiful, as well as, for lack of a better word, 'escorts', both male and female.

And that's actually a tame story, compared to some others I have heard. How about a plane full of Ukrainian female escorts that was brought into the country from Lebanon by another person for his New Year's party at his humble home? (definitely one of several, I would believe)

I will say no more about what I have heard. Here is my analysis of the article:

Paragraph 1: That's probably an urban myth or a legend that is apparently well-known.

Paragraph 2: Facts that everybody knows. Look them up on BBC/CNN.

Paragraph 3: True of Riyadh. My students from Riyadh tell me of the abundance and ease of getting weapons there, and how abundant they are in homes. One of my students in Jeddah owns several guns, rocket launchers, grenades, AK-47s, etc. I have seen them myself.

Paragraphs 4 + 5: His experiences. But, it IS true that a huge chunk of the population either believe it didn't happen, or that the US did it.

Paragraph 6: True. Pornography is freely available on satellite channels.

Paragraph 7: Very true. If you are gay, this is heaven for you. My gay friends have told me unbelievable and innumerous stories.

Paragraph 8: True, as already discussed.

Paragraphs 9, 10, 11: True, as already discussed before.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 2:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't think the article is wildly inaccurate, rather that it seeks to present a very partial, sleazy view of KSA and its people. As others have said, it belongs in the tabloid press - or perhaps a Daniel Pipes style website - rather than in a supposedly serious journal like the New Statesman. It would be as though I spent a few months in Britain and wrote an 'expose' of the entire country based on a few stories I'd heard at some sleazy nightclub. Such stories wouldn't neccessarily be false (although they might be) but they certainly would not provide an accurate insight into the country as a whole.

In other words, this is sensationalist c*** disguised as serious journalism. That there is a market for such garbage is not in doubt. The only real question is why the New Statesman accepted it.
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 21, 2009 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This article reminds me a lot of the equally unbalanced view many of my Saudi students had about the USA. I recall one student who was going to leave for New York a few days later. He came to me full of apprehension about what he was going to encounter there, and his imaginings had been fueled by - what else - movies and TV shows.
The kid was absolutely terrified, certain that once he deplaned and got into the airport, he was going to be robbed, assaulted or even killed.
Well, New York CAN be a dangerous place, but it's not the horror show that
was playing in that student's fevered anticipations. I told him to calm down, that he'd be quite safe if he acted with common sense and didn't, for example, pull out his wallet and start counting bills of large denominations in the middle of the concourse. I told him not to go wandering out alone at night, especially in sections of the city that housed a lot of bars and nightclubs. And I told him that as long as he acted with good sense and proper caution, the chances of anything bad happening to him were extremely slim.
He contacted me about a month after he'd gotten there and joked about how exaggerated all his apprehensions had been.
Now, just reverse the situation to one in which a teacher, preparing to go to the Kingdom, reads an article like the one in the New Statesman.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 5:23 pm    Post subject: Saudi is a skating rink on a pool of sharks Reply with quote

I won't quibble or mince words with the article's writer. I lived and worked in Saudi from 1996-2000 in the Eastern Province.

Here's Saudi in a nutshell: It is like a skating rink on a pool of sharks. If you behave yourself, thoughtfully consider the advice (good and bad) you will get from your western coworkers and keep your mouth shut, it is quite possible that you can spend a number of years there to little ill effect. However, if you are silly enough to judge people by their outward behavior, then you're in the same boat with Hannibal Lecter's last meal. Arabs are commonly duplicitous, and you needn't spend your life reading the works of Robert Spencer to find out why.

My experiences in Saudi were overwhelmingly positive, and I have a lot of respect for Saudis and Arab culture. That doesn't mean I'm silly enough to take them at face value. If you've ever seen the movie "The Kingdom" then you are aware of just how quickly things can change in Saudi.

For me, there isn't enough money to get me back there, ever, for the rest of my life. Not after 9/11 and what my former coworkers told me since I left.

If you're desperate for money, that's one thing. If you'd like to experience Arab society, go anywhere BUT Saudi. It is the worst place in the Middle East.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear RestiveBob,

"Arabs are commonly duplicitous, . . ."

And Jews are miserly and the Irish are all drunks, and Brits . . . well, why go on.

Generalize much?

Regards,
John
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Mia Xanthi



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 6:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Arabs are commonly duplicitous


It's a poor choice of words, but if we say it another way it doesn't sound so bad. Arabs have a "face" culture, like the Chinese and the Japanese. In these cultures, putting on a positive face is a social priority, even though it seems to us that they are not being honest about what they really feel.

It is certainly true that you have to be able to read between the lines here, and that if you take things at face value you will encounter serious problems. There are some Arab women where I work who will smile sweetly while sticking a knife in your back, and I'll admit I find that kind of behavior more common than I would in my own culture. However, I would certainly not say that all Arabs are this way.

It is wise to be aware of general cultural trends, but one should never assume that they apply to all members of that culture.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 8:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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If you've ever seen the movie "The Kingdom" then you are aware of just how quickly things can change in Saudi.


Sure. And if you've seen Reservoir Dogs you are aware just how violent and double-dealing Americans are.


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In these cultures, putting on a positive face is a social priority, even though it seems to us that they are not being honest about what they really feel.


I agree with that. However distasteful it may seen to us, 'honesty' and 'sincerity' - at least as we may understand them - are simply not the highest priorities for many people here. Just as Saudis will seek to shield others (most of the time) from embarrassment or public shame, so too they will go to all lengths to do the same for themselves. If this involves lying or not telling the 'whole truth' so be it. I'm not defending this mindset, simply saying that it is a reality which anyone living in the Middle East has to learn to work with. As Mia says, you have to learn to read between the lines, be perceptive at picking up 'hints' and not neccessarily take everything at face value. Once you accept this, working with Saudis becomes a lot easier for everyone involved.
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 9:24 am    Post subject: Re: Robert Spence is a shark with an agenda! Reply with quote

RestiveBob wrote:
Arabs are commonly duplicitous, and you needn't spend your life reading the works of Robert Spencer to find out why.

Well, Robert Spencer is a miss-informed, ignorant of Arab and Islam culture. He is secretly a Catholic and has a religious agenda.
Most of his writing about Islam is a mixture of lies and miss-presentation of truth.
He is a shark with an agenda!
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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 11:34 am    Post subject: Hysterical Reply with quote

Johnslat & 007:

Your avatars say it all!
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 5:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear RestiveBob,

"Your avatars say it all!"

Wow - impressively deep analysis. Judge books by their covers much?

"Arabs are commonly duplicitous . . ."

Sorry, silly question.

Regards,
John
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2009 10:45 am    Post subject: Dear Bob Reply with quote

Bob...come on man!

Saudi arabs are the most honest people you'll ever meet. They never lie or mistreat women. None of them drink Whisky or go whoring in Bahrain. Other religions and cultures are particularly respected in KSA, especially those that come from Asia.

As for the teaching? Well it's a pleasure to educate such motivated, intelligent learners. They must be great because they always pass all their tests. That means that the people who teach them are unusually brilliant. Rumours of weirdness, alcoholism and the like are started by deviant teaching forces.

All the car crashes are caused by foreigners you know.

No. The great Arab hospitality you read about in books can be found in North Africa, where cash hasn't spoiled them and traditional values haven't been betrayed by delusion and adherence to more radical religious ideas.

I thought Saudi was a terrible experience.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2009 3:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear sharter,

"I thought Saudi was a terrible experience."

Wow - I never would have guessed, especially after all the wonderful things you wrote before that.
Aha, I get it - you were being ironic.
Seriously, I'm sorry you had such a bad time In Saudi Arabia. But for you to extend your reaction to that bad time to all Arabs (as in "Arabs are commonly duplicitous") would be just as erroneous as for someone who had a "good time" there to write something like "Arabs are the best people in the world."
While I was there. I met "good Saudis" and "bad Saudis", kind of just like every other country I've lived and worked in.
Generalizations such as "Arabs are commonly duplicitous" are the origin of most of the prejudice, bias and racism in the world.
Regards,
John
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