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lucreziaborgia
Joined: 19 May 2009 Posts: 177
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 1:26 am Post subject: A storm in a teacup |
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Against my better judgement I am posting a reply by way of clarification.
I did not have a bad time in the KSA; I had a tedious time. In fact, the KSA was so lacking in anything uplifting or personally engaging that to have spent more than a mere 2 months would have been impossible to justify.
As I have worked in difficult contexts throughout my career in current affairs, I am not fazed by extreme conditions. I am however, easily bored and my work in KSA - as with its landscape stretching relentlessly into infinity - promised 11 months of time passing at a glacial pace with nothing engaging to experience.
My only ESL experience prior to the KSA was 5 years in Viet Nam and Laos where I worked with senior Government officials and consider that as the standard through which I evaluate ESL work.
If the designers of the PNU project could indulge in honesty and frankness they would recruit trainers rather than ESL teachers as I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic.
If some English language skills were/are picked up along the way then that is a bonus.
It is obvious to anyone with experience who observes the situation (including the Saudis) that it is impossible for teachers to teach and for students to learn under the prevailing conditions at both PNU or Al Faissal Academy.
I have experienced the internal life of the male academy that is part of AETAG's empire and I am thus able to state that it resembles an 'international context'; in fact I was astounded by the liberal atmosphere. I spent several hours over 2 days with the senior management of AETAG and can say that these meetings could have taken place in Melbourne, London, New York or Toronto et al. The male students were likewise liberal; my Abaya was taken at the door by one of them.
Men shook my hand, remembered my name and English was competently spoken by all.
There are obviously plenty of women who are prepared to exist in the KSA for reasons known only to themselves but I am not one of them. Enough said. |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 2:35 am Post subject: |
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I was sorry to see that your last thread was hijacked by that newbie poster who insists on attempting to showcase his/her "intelligence".
Verily, I say, this person showcase verbiage is wasting his/herself in that mortal wasteland...
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sharter
Joined: 25 Jun 2008 Posts: 878 Location: All over the place
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 6:01 am Post subject: It's all the same |
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Teaching in the ME is only about money. I question the sanity of women who choose to work in places like Saudi, more so those who date locals. It's hard enough being a male teacher. The 'them and us' syndrome gets to all though and the pointlessness of trying to instil a work ethic or ethical practices on the ground, is simply mind numbing. Talk, talk, talk;same old ways. And for the record Arabs are the most sexist, racist people I've ever come across, in and out of work. |
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Asda
Joined: 01 Jun 2008 Posts: 231
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 6:52 am Post subject: |
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I believe EVERY race has racism in them. Be they African, Caucasian or Mongoloid and everything in between...
As for sexism, I would say that the Arabs are more chauvinistic, but sexism manifests itself differently in the West, the Orient, the Far East - but can you say they are the MOST?! |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:21 am Post subject: |
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Well, I sleep well at night. I'm an equal opportunity sexist/racist...I HATE 'EM ALL!!! ... ...
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lazycomputerkids
Joined: 22 Sep 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Tabuk
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:56 am Post subject: |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed wrote: |
I was sorry to see that your last thread was hijacked by that newbie poster who insists on attempting to showcase his/her "intelligence".
Verily, I say, this person showcase verbiage is wasting his/herself in that mortal wasteland...
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Listen here, Homer: I'll accept your definition of threadjack when you can distinguish criticism from ad hominem attacks.
I'm pleased the OP has clarified their position. The original post was...lacking in the specifics now offered.
Though I read little support to their criticism other than rhetoric. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:30 pm Post subject: |
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I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic. |
Then you believe wrong. The Saudis want ESL teachers, be they SAudi, Asian or 'WEstern' to be just that - ESL teachers. They do not want you to pose as a 'role model' for the 'Western work ethic' - whatever that is. Employers expect nothing more nor less than that you prepare students for their exams - since that is the Saudi expectation of what good teachers do. The more you try to 'educate' your students about broader issues, the more likely you are to be both disillusioned and to risk run-ins with managmeent and students. That, in any case, has been my experience.
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The male students were likewise liberal; my Abaya was taken at the door by one of them. |
I'll bet it was! I'm sayin' nuttin'  |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 4:40 pm Post subject: |
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Am I alone in feeling that Lucreziaborgia has a rather ..................... patronising tone ?
Does she really believe that we are here to provide role models for our students ? |
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lazycomputerkids
Joined: 22 Sep 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Tabuk
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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I agree the tone is patronizing, but I read the text differently. I read the OP's objection to the use of Western women as models as contrary to the OP's set of beliefs.
Or in other words, the OP is not Western. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 5:41 pm Post subject: |
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scot47 wrote: |
Does she really believe that we are here to provide role models for our students ? |
Why not? It seems no student will ask for an autograph from Uncle Scott!
Well, look at Madam the Secretary, Clinton, she is considered as an �Inspirational role model� for the students of the Dar Al-Hekma in Jeddah. Madam Secretary is so cool!
http://www.saudigazette.com.sa/index.cfm?method=home.regcon&contentID=2010021763684 |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 7:29 pm Post subject: |
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Dear LCK,
It's hard for me to see how you could think this:
I read the OP's objection to the use of Western women as models as contrary to the OP's set of beliefs.
about this:
"If the designers of the PNU project could indulge in honesty and frankness they would recruit trainers rather than ESL teachers as I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic.
Regards,
John |
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desert_traveller
Joined: 28 Nov 2006 Posts: 335
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:06 pm Post subject: Re: A storm in a teacup |
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lucreziaborgia wrote: |
... I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic...
... my Abaya was taken at the door by one of them...
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sorry but all i can say to these points is LOL
the first one is a classic neo-colonial style gross misconception by almost all western people in the ksa who arrogantly think that they are there to represent some sort of higher existence and bring up locals to their celestial standards
the second one is nothing more than seeing in something what you wanted to see in it. it is equally (or rather, a lot more) possible that they 'helped' you out of your abaya to check out your ... |
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lazycomputerkids
Joined: 22 Sep 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Tabuk
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:34 pm Post subject: |
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You guys...you're teachers. Examine the sentence again.
"If the designers of the PNU project could indulge in honesty and frankness they would recruit trainers rather than ESL teachers as I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic."
The OP, conditions a statement of belief. And poorly. The OP accuses the motivation of their employer. The OP speaks to one of many discriminations experienced. The OP is a trainer.
No...no...i'm editing myself. Phew. I missed a gist. The OP accuses the employer of "training" students instead of "teaching" them. But, again, the OP conditions a statement of belief. The OP doesn't believe they're a model, but that the employer is so shallow. |
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lazycomputerkids
Joined: 22 Sep 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Tabuk
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 8:51 pm Post subject: Re: A storm in a teacup |
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desert_traveller wrote: |
almost all western people in the ksa who arrogantly think |
Confirmation Bias, desert traveller has it.
Ceiling Cat iz watchin' yer chauvinisms. Wants colonial noms. |
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lazycomputerkids
Joined: 22 Sep 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Tabuk
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Posted: Tue Mar 02, 2010 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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johnslat wrote: |
Dear LCK,
It's hard for me to see how you could think this:
I read the OP's objection to the use of Western women as models as contrary to the OP's set of beliefs.
about this:
"If the designers of the PNU project could indulge in honesty and frankness they would recruit trainers rather than ESL teachers as I believe Western women are meant to be role models for Saudi girls as examples of the Western work ethic. |
after only a second examination, you contend. But hey, I was still mis-interpreting on a second pass. 3s a charm.
"Meant"...look at meant...see the patronizing conditional..."as I believe" is not a statement of the OPs belief but a supposition of those that don't "indulge" as the OP has phrased it...which begs, and I mean begs, L1,L2 analysis. C'mon John, see it. I have faith. Shop it around if you have to. |
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