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buzzing
Joined: 25 Nov 2010 Posts: 42
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 9:56 am Post subject: Dealing with Saudi students- how do they think? |
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I have a number of Saudi students in then Uk. I teach them privately and would know how to handle them. I charge 12 pounds hr and for that I drive to where they live (it's close) and teach at their place. I taught in Japan for years so have no experience of how to handle Saudis. I have found that they don't return my sms emails from my phone and when I tried to cancel an appointment- I left a message on his mobile- I got no reply. Should I just pester him by calling not bothering with SMSs or is their lack of response a subtle sign (it would be for a Japanese) that they are not interested in more lessons. My students are young 20 somethings. |
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babur
Joined: 10 Aug 2010 Posts: 178 Location: Dammam, Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 3:24 pm Post subject: Saudi students |
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Dealing with Saudi students - How do they think? |
They don't. |
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freesoul
Joined: 09 Mar 2009 Posts: 240 Location: Waiting for my next destination
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 5:09 pm Post subject: Re: Saudi students |
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babur wrote: |
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Dealing with Saudi students - How do they think? |
They don't. |
COME ON!!!!
They DO think, but differently, SMS etiquette and Netiquette are very different in SA. In the UK, there exists a texting culture- obvious from the offers and plans you get form the telecom companies there- whereas in SA, it is a 'calling' culture.
Two typical Saudis would spend the first 1-2 minutes exchanging greetings before getting into the main point of discussion. For example:
'How are you? Fine? ( 'kefek? tamam?' if you ever wondered why your students do this. I mean they ask and answer sequently; it's typically an Arabic greeting discourse)
What is your news? ( literal translation of wus up!)
How's family?
How's life?good?
How's work?ok!
SO!! about the ............' |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 6:58 pm Post subject: |
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The most important thing to remember is that there really is no "typical" Saudi behavior. It is much easier to lump Japanese into a group and describe their typical behavior than it is to do the same for Saudis. There is so much variety among them regarding age, socio-ecomonic status, religious persuasion (Sunni or Shia), tribe or area of origin...I could go on and on.
I am not jumping on you for stereotyping. I am just saying that in my experience the Saudis, more than any other group I have taught, need to be regarded as individuals with only a few group characteristics uniting them. Until I understood this, I had a hard time with my Saudi students. Once I understood it at a very deep level, dealing with them became much easier. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Mon May 23, 2011 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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Saudis are in fact very diverse. they fool us into thinking they are all the same by wearing the thobe and ghutra , but the reality is that there are ENORMOUS differences between them ! |
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