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rxk22



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 12:38 pm    Post subject: What happens to the bad kids? Reply with quote

As the title says, but a bit more in depth please. What happens to the kids who are pushed through school, who in other systems would fail? Where do they go to HS? What kinda jobs do they get/not get? Do they join gangs/mafia? Wondering from a social logical perspective.

I am at a JHS. The school has about 5 9th graders, and 3 8th graders who pretty much don't go to tclass, and if they do, they read manga, or play video games in class. The principal will let them graduate, but after JHS, where do they go? Japan is big on being part of some sort of team, esp when it comes to getting hired/school entrances, so references really do help.

I was at a SHS, and 2 senior girls didn't job hunt/apply to college. I asked what they were going to do, 'Delivery Heath' was the answer. I would like some honest answers, as I am genuinely curious, and don't wish these kids wrong, but would like to know what awaits them.
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spidr245



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The kids probably plan on working as soon as they finish JHS. You know, that great life that awaits them as "the guy who warms up your bento at the konbini".

I have kids like that at my school, too. I asked some of them and they seriously want to do things like that. I suppose the others will just mooch off their parents until the parents get tired of it.

(As for your girls, they may already be doing that... The young girls these days care more about money than they do about their bodies/dignity.)
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's rough. Blue collar jobs don't tend to pay well. I have a mechanic friend here, and he works 6 days a week for 15万 a month. That is pretty rough. Same with the construction workers, they don't make that much when you factor in hours worked.

Working at a conbini till your parents die/get tired of you, is a sad sad plan for anyone's future.

Funny too, as when they work they have to be polite, which they never are at school. I understand having to behave for a job, but some of those menial jobs most be degrading for the pay you get.

Saw some yankee HS boys teasing a tissue handing out guy. Told them, that is what they can be, if they are lucky Cool

Bet they already were in HS. One girl on her worksheets, her response to 'What do you like to do?' was 'play sex'.....
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've spoken about having two HSs now in various posts. One is extremely famous in the prefecture whilst the other is rather infamous and I often refer to it as my juvenile deliquent school... it was only a half jest. Have you seen an anime called Beelzebub? That isn't too far off from what my school is like; just add a few more piercings and tattoos and a little less fighting. Wink

I hate telling locals about being an ALT at this school because they are always responding with comments like, "Poor you!" or "That must be tough." I have to force myself to smile and be civil in my defense of the school because I am actually extremely fond of it and I feel that the way people treat or judge my kids is totally unwarranted. Sure they hate to study, they often bunk off, they are pierced and inked, they sound crass and uncouth when they speak Japanese and many of them smoke and don't get me started on their bunny antics, but once you get to know them you quickly realise that they are actually really misunderstood.

Basically in this school, they are quickly split into 3 categories: Kyoyo (kids that will likely go on to some kind of higher ed), Fukushi (kids that will go on to work in social welfare) and Joho (these are the dregs who will probably just work in a relative's shop or end up in some blue collar work in the future). They attend lessons with other students in the same category rather than as a HR class. And there are certain lessons and courses that are category specific. I occassionally attend the welfare class with Fukushi students because they learn about welfare in other countries (I actually get to assist in classes other than English and work with teachers who are not JTEs and often speak little to no English which is always quite interesting - no sarcasm intended). Recently they watched Sicko... some of them have been put off the US for life Laughing

HS is not compulsory in Japan, some kids drop out and no, they will not all graduate. In fact, right now they are counting up attendence and kids that have not attended a number of consecutive lessons (I think its 14) in any particular subject without good reason is asked to leave.
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

spidr245 wrote:
(As for your girls, they may already be doing that... The young girls these days care more about money than they do about their bodies/dignity.)


You probably need to check your judeo-xtian morality at the door: it's not up to you to pass judgement on them.

In reply to the OP, as others have said, they may well be expecting to work labouring jobs or store/factory work or some such. Personally, in most respects I have no problem with the kids doing that. I *like* the fact about Japan that, in the places I lived at least, no one thought anything much less of someone just because they decided that's what they wanted to do. They didn't get looked down on individually or socially as much as in, say, would happen in the US for going off into those sorts of jobs. It wasn't regarded as failure because they'd found a job and were looking after themselves. Obviously not as simple as just that, but I always found the overall attitude more balanced than in many other countries.
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Rooster_2006



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

G Cthulhu wrote:
spidr245 wrote:
(As for your girls, they may already be doing that... The young girls these days care more about money than they do about their bodies/dignity.)


You probably need to check your judeo-xtian morality at the door: it's not up to you to pass judgement on them.
Many girls prostitute themselves in high school for Prada handbags and designer clothes. It's called "enjo kousai." Were you seriously not aware of that? Have you read any book or newspaper related to Japan published in the last 10 years?

And why can't spidr245 pass judgment on it? Who appointed you to judge who can and cannot pass judgment?

Enjo kousai is a social problem. Many people (including Japanese, for whom you are trying to be an apologist) acknowledge that, not just Jews and Christians as you imply. Strong arguments could be made against enjo kousai using secular, Buddhist, and even Shinto arguments.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rooster_2006 wrote:
G Cthulhu wrote:
You probably need to check your judeo-xtian morality at the door: it's not up to you to pass judgement on them.
Many girls prostitute themselves in high school for Prada handbags and designer clothes. It's called "enjo kousai." Were you seriously not aware of that? Have you read any book or newspaper related to Japan published in the last 10 years?


Read what I wrote very carefully. Now, tell me why you picked out enjokosai? Why assume I wouldn't know what it is? What indications either way would you have for asking whether I was aware of it or not? Why pick that out when it was not mentioned by the OP or myself? Moreover, explain to me why your baseline assumptions of "high school" and "prostitution" are *inherently* bad? (Warning, there's a logical trap in there.)



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And why can't spidr245 pass judgment on it? Who appointed you to judge who can and cannot pass judgment?


This is an interesting point for you to argue then: you're saying *I* can't pass judgement of any sort (I didn't, by the way) but spidr245 *can*? Yet you offer no actual argument for why I can't. Just an accusation in the form of a question.

But for that question: why can't I say he/she/it should check their morality at the door? They looked at it from, as I said, a judeo-xtian perspective. Japan isn't a judeo-xtian country. I would have thought that was obvious. Weren't *you* paying any attention?! Wink Why should they check their sense of morality? For the same reason that you can't argue halal killing of cattle is "wrong" because of judeo-xtian sensibilities about "suffering".


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Enjo kousai is a social problem.


No, I disagree: it's a legal problem. It's illegal. You did know that, didn't you? Wink


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Many people (including Japanese, for whom you are trying to be an apologist)


Show me where I did that. Nowhere did I defend delivery health. I simply voiced the opinion (I assume you subscribe to the idea of freedom of choice to do that?) that the perspective was ill-expressed by the person I was replying to. But hey, thanks for engaging in a bit of ad hominem attack *and* constructing a basic strawman argument. Appreciated. Rolling Eyes


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acknowledge that, not just Jews and Christians as you imply. Strong arguments could be made against enjo kousai using secular, Buddhist, and even Shinto arguments.


Feel free to actually provide one of these strong arguments then. Very Happy
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Glenski



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:39 am    Post subject: Re: What happens to the bad kids? Reply with quote

rxk22 wrote:
As the title says, but a bit more in depth please. What happens to the kids who are pushed through school, who in other systems would fail?
As you probably know, Japan doesn't usually fail students, no matter how poorly they do.

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Where do they go to HS?
Probably poor quality ones, unless someone is willing to write them a recommendation, or they are eligible for something like a sports position in a good school. I used to work in a fairly prestigious private HS, and we got a couple of baseball players that way, despite complaints from all subject teachers that such students had poor grades coming in and would be problems. The coach won out, and the teachers lost. The ball players were among the worst academically, and you don't want to know what it took to pass them!

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What kinda jobs do they get/not get? Do they join gangs/mafia?
If they don't do well in HS, they probably won't go to college, but again there is the recommendation system. If they don't have recommendations, then they will probably do what most kids do in society everywhere -- accept low-paying work and a low social status.

Here's a 2006 blurb on freeters and NEETs in Japan.
http://www.japanfocus.org/-Kosugi-Reiko/2022

NEETs on the rise, 2009
http://www.japantimes.co.jp/text/ed20090719a2.html

Youth unemployment rate (ages 15-24) up to 2009.
http://www.indexmundi.com/japan/youth-unemployment-rate.html

The hodo-hodo zoku ("so-so" office work force). 2008
http://www.aseonline.org/epeopleweek/2008/December/HodoHodoZokuTheSoSoworkforce.aspx

Scholarly report on school-to-work transition
http://www.jil.go.jp/english/JLR/documents/2010/JLR27_hori.pdf

general information on Japan's youth
http://factsanddetails.com/japan.php?itemid=622&catid=18&subcatid=118

Gotta like these quotes: One mother told the Daily Yomiuri, �In Japan, adults used to teach children, even other people�s about social rules by scolding them when they were doing things that were wrong.� A salaryman said that these days working parents also hesitate to scold their children because they feel guilty for leaving them home alone while they are out at work.�
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 3:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

G Cthulhu wrote:
Moreover, explain to me why your baseline assumptions of "high school" and "prostitution" are *inherently* bad?
Preserved for posterity.

So you're saying that there's nothing inherently wrong with minors prostituting themselves, is that basically it?

I don't have time to reply to you this afternoon because I have to go to work, and even after work, I have better things to do with my time. But I'm sure that if you continue to make wild, controversial statements like the one above, someone else will reply to you and save me the trouble.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 4:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rooster_2006 wrote:
G Cthulhu wrote:
Moreover, explain to me why your baseline assumptions of "high school" and "prostitution" are *inherently* bad?
Preserved for posterity.

So you're saying that there's nothing inherently wrong with minors prostituting themselves, is that basically it?



No. Read it again. I said nothing of the sort. But nice try. I can feel your glee from here. "High school student" does not always mean under age, btw. I had two students aged 19 at my school. Most night school students (for the prefectures that run those, which is most) will be 18-21.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

To seklarwia

My current bad JHS is more fun than my ok but boring one. Seems like things actually happen here. but it is rough to teach the kids. It is hard to compete with Yu-Gi-Oh, PSP and what not. Which is rough on the teachers.

Never seen it split into those kinds of groups. I at HS, have had factory workers, fishermen, farmers veg vs animal, but never those.

G Cthulhu, I thought getting hired in japan, was pretty hard, esp if it were FT. For instance a job at a factory, that isn't a temp position, is fairly hard to get, esp without good references.

But yeah the US has a weird ideal about office work. Most would rather work in an office for $30k, than be a plumber for $100k. But in Japan plumbers and most blue collar workers don't get paid well. I guess it balances out.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Guys don't get this thread locked debating enjoukousia, please.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 8:40 am    Post subject: Re: What happens to the bad kids? Reply with quote

rxk22 wrote:
As the title says, but a bit more in depth please. What happens to the kids who are pushed through school, who in other systems would fail? Where do they go to HS?


There are private high schools that accept anybody (if the parents can pay)- and the students who go there are not expected to go on to tertiary education. I knew a foreign guy who worked at one- he was told to just do exactly what he'd done at elementary school.

If their parents have a lot of money, then they tend to go to private junior/senior highs that are attached to a university- that way, they can just get passed up regardless until they actually have a university degree.

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What kinda jobs do they get/not get?


Combini, driver, restaurant, construction, NEET is pretty common.

The parents of some of these kids will help them start up their own restaurant.

Often, it depends on what their parents do.
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Do they join gangs/mafia?
Sometimes.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 9:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for you post Glenski, read your articles. Also, please tell me how you had to pass those scholarship athletes.

I think alot of it may do with a lot of the kids know that the social contract in Japan between workers and companies is pretty much gone. Why spend your whole life studying/working when the company doesn't hold up their end of the contract?

I feel that the system that is in place, education wise is catering to a bygone era. In fact most the teachers now prolly never experienced it, as it was prolly rationally over by the 80's. Which for kids, is a good reason to be detached and not care about a system that is almost quixotic in nature.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 12:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

G Cthulhu wrote:
spidr245 wrote:
(As for your girls, they may already be doing that... The young girls these days care more about money than they do about their bodies/dignity.)


You probably need to check your judeo-xtian morality at the door: it's not up to you to pass judgement on them.
G Cthulhu wrote:
Moreover, explain to me why your baseline assumptions of "high school" and "prostitution" are *inherently* bad?
G Cthulhu wrote:
"High school student" does not always mean under age, btw. I had two students aged 19 at my school.
Keep digging that hole, G Cthulhu. Keep digging that hole...
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