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american_inchina
Joined: 26 Apr 2011 Posts: 11
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 5:57 am Post subject: Leaving my School |
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Ok. So I know this is going to get some of the usual mixed responses, but I am very torn so its worth it. I am contemplating leaving my contract early for several reasons. Mainly, it all boils down to the city being very small and there is only one other foreigner here, whom I don't care for because of the way he treats the students. Its awful and the school does nothing. I was told before coming here there would be more foreigners, and there is no one else. My city is not easy to travel to or from, making traveling even within China difficult. I even gave my school notice, but they are saying if I leave early they will cancel my residence permit and I will be illegal if I remain in China. I thought I had read that this is not true; that as long as I have my passport that they can't do anything to me. I also know they will not give me the letter of release. I just want to know if I have any possible way to stay in China and work for another term at least if I breach the contract?? |
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johntpartee
Joined: 02 Mar 2010 Posts: 3258
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 6:29 am Post subject: |
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The only way you can stay is to get a tourist visa and then get a Z visa from another school. They CAN (and will, probably) cancel the residency permit. Actually, (you probably don't want to hear this) you're leaving because you're in Dullsville? As long as the living and working conditions are tolerable, you might consider toughing it out until the end of the contract. Avoid the teacher who bugs you; if he's as bad as you say, he'll probably self-destruct anyway (people like that usually do). |
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JamesD
Joined: 17 Mar 2003 Posts: 934 Location: "As far as I'm concerned bacon comes from a magical happy place."
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 7:00 am Post subject: |
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Don't know where you could have read that but it should read - 'As long as you have your passport and a valid visa or residence permit they can't do anything to you.'
And even that doesn't really mean much if the local boys in blue and the guanxi squad want you out. Once your permit is canceled you're in the country illegally. Same as in our home countries; if a foreigner wants to stay they have to have the right paperwork.
I'd second toughing it out as long as the school is abiding by the contract. |
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rogerwilco
Joined: 10 Jun 2010 Posts: 1549
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 8:21 am Post subject: |
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I survived a year in a very small city in Anhui by making Chinese friends. Every weekend and several times a week I had offers to dinner and other activities.
The best Chinese friends that I ever made in China were in Anhui because I made the effort to get to know them.
I also made the most money that I have made in China in Anhui because there were no other foreigners in that city and I could charge 300RMB an hour for tutoring.
So, my advice is to make more Chinese friends, and also keep busy by making more money.
I survived, and so can you  |
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kev7161
Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Posts: 5880 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 8:32 am Post subject: |
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Assuming your contract runs through the end of June, why quit now and deal with all the hassles? Why not tough it out for about 4.5 more months and then take off? That's my two jiao. |
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sistercream
Joined: 18 Dec 2010 Posts: 497 Location: Pearl River Delta
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:40 am Post subject: |
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I second the advice to tough it out - you've survived most of the school year already and it will look better on your resume to have completed the contract.
And definitely take the effort to make local friends. If you haven't yet started learning Chinese, find someone to help you as your first "in" to the community. |
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Babala

Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 1303 Location: Henan
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:32 am Post subject: |
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I really understand how you are feeling. About five years ago I ended up in a small city with very few foreigners and ones who were there were not people I wanted to spend time with. I will agree with the other posters and say for you to try and make some Chinese friends and tough it out. I know how hard it can be but take advantage of living in a small city in China. After you finish your contact you can move to a bigger city here and meet many foreign friends but know when you do, the foreigners tend to stick together and you miss out on some of the more Chinese culture. I say finish your contract and then move on with a release letter. |
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Guerciotti

Joined: 13 Feb 2009 Posts: 842 Location: In a sleazy bar killing all the bad guys.
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 1:08 pm Post subject: |
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Why not finish? They pay you? Have a place to live? Why not finish?
Ask the locals how to download movies, meet some Chinese people and befriend them. It sounds like the town is too small and you want more foreigners around but what if you go to a different place and all the other foreigners are self destructive jerks? It's all too possible; some might say likely.
I agree they'll find a way to cancel your RP if you leave early, legal or not. Sorry, but if you go I would not blame them.
I say finish and move on. |
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The Great Wall of Whiner

Joined: 29 Jan 2003 Posts: 4946 Location: Blabbing
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:59 pm Post subject: |
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I thought I had read that this is not true; that as long as I have my passport that they can't do anything to me. I also know they will not give me the letter of release. |
It really boils down to what you are comfortable with. For me, I would stick it out because the problem seems to be your own personal problem (can't get along with the other foreigner, need for other foreigners around you) and not that of the school's.
You could simply up and leave; they cannot stop you. But you are tied to that school as you have a contract. There are other options, but it all depends on what you are comfortable with doing. Of course the school wants to keep you as you are their bling bling ticket.
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I just want to know if I have any possible way to stay in China and work for another term at least if I breach the contract?? |
Yes, but it is complicated and not easy. That's why Chinese law favours the bosses instead of the workers. Even Chinese workers more often than not get the bad end of any contract. |
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milkweedma
Joined: 19 Nov 2006 Posts: 151
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:59 am Post subject: |
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If severe isolation was not mentioned in the contract then leaving whenever you see fit is fine by me.
Until the Chinese start being real about living conditions (and I mean staying sane) by providing true accounts of the amount of foreigners in your location then they get what they deserve. |
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Miles Smiles

Joined: 07 Jun 2010 Posts: 1294 Location: Heebee Jeebee
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 1:38 am Post subject: |
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Finish the contract. Do a good job. Throw yourself into your work since there's not enough in the outer world to make you happy. Be the best teacher you can be; finish your contract knowing that you probably left the school a better place than when you arrived.
Then move to a city with a larger expat community and feel the difference. Sometimes it's easier to deal with just one western FT than a couple dozen. |
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7969

Joined: 26 Mar 2003 Posts: 5782 Location: Coastal Guangdong
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 1:52 am Post subject: |
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milkweedma wrote: |
If severe isolation was not mentioned in the contract then leaving whenever you see fit is fine by me.
Until the Chinese start being real about living conditions (and I mean staying sane) by providing true accounts of the amount of foreigners in your location then they get what they deserve. |
Pretty hard to tell if "severe isolation" is the case here, americaninchina never mentioned where he/she is. Can only be reached by air or boat? Nearest trading post is a days hike away? Snowed in three days a week in winter?
Other people have gotten through similar situations like this before by occupying their free time with meaningful activities. If some of the students are locals, and if this place is as remote as indicated then I think it would be an interesting place to visit the homes of students and meet their families, have dinners, learn more about the local culture, and take photos. Places in China that are hard to get to are often a gold mine for someone with a camera. If americaninchina stays at the job after reading some of these posts I think, in the end, he/she might look back on the time spent at this place as a decent experience. |
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choudoufu

Joined: 25 May 2010 Posts: 3325 Location: Mao-berry, PRC
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 2:35 am Post subject: |
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is your wife still living at the school with you? whereabouts are y'all?
there must be something in the area you can do. maybe once a week
head down to the bus station and jump on a bus at random (well....
random-ish, after confirming the return schedule...). visit the
surrounding villages and countryside and see the 'real' china with
no hordes of foreign tourists. ask your students or the teachers
for suggestions of places to visit. rather stay inside? you got internet.
order dvd's or english books online. still bored? you've got twenty
weeks to learn chinese or earn an online certificate. |
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doogsville
Joined: 17 Nov 2011 Posts: 924 Location: China
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2012 2:57 am Post subject: |
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As to the passport thing, I've read posts here before telling people that their work permit/visa can't be cancelled unless they hand over their passport to the school to have it physically stamped as invalid. That's not true. The school can cancel it with a phone call. Your passport will still contain what looks like a valid resident permit, but as soon as you try to leave the country and they scan it or if you give it to another employer and they hand it over to the authorities for a new permit you'll be flagged as being here illegally. Either way they'll probably detain you until you�ve paid the relevant fine, and it will make it harder, if not impossible, to get another job or get back into the country.
I agree with the others. Tough it out. It sounds like your main problem is with isolation and you don't like the only other foreigner. I live in a city that is awash with foreigners but I don't spend much time with them. There are a lot of people out there, and while you can't have a conversation with most of them, there must be a handful that you can spend some time with at least until your contract ends and you can find a new job without all the hassle of leaving early. |
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RonHex
Joined: 10 Nov 2009 Posts: 243
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:32 am Post subject: |
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if you leave be prepared for hard times and make sure you have enough cash for a flight home. |
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