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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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C'mon, c'mon -- why should ithis even be a dilemma? This is Korea, FFS. We can have both!! We can have our cake (intelligent, dutiful, well-mannered, good-family, top-university, possibly chubby wife) and eat it (crazy sexy party-girl bimbo), too. And in this age of gender equality, women can do the same if they want.
Yeah, I know that doesn't really scan. I just wanted to work "eat it" into the discussion somehow. |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 10:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Alias wrote: |
| I don't expect them to give up sexy either. Just stop complaining about all the aholes that you are dating. |
We all like to complain. |
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Adventurer
Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2007 11:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Plenty of men complain of the eye candy they married who turned out to be major bia*ches. They were hot, wild girls, and then the girls sizzled and burned their marriages. You hear that, too. Of course, if a woman sees a pattern with getting bad buys who then act like pigs, it doesn't make sense to label men en masse in that fashion since we aren't responsible for the choices women make anymore than the women are responsible for marrying the high flying gorgeous women who sometimes abandon the dad and the kids. |
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 1:22 am Post subject: |
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| just because wrote: |
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| Why do women go for bad boys? |
Women are fools for confidence. Confidence and being an ass often look like the same thing from a distance. |
that s a bit of an overstatement...
I am a pretty confident person but wouldn't considered an ass.... |
I didn't say they were the same thing. They just look the same until you get up close to the subject. |
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ChopChaeJoe
Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 1:52 am Post subject: |
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| There's men you date, and men you marry. Jerks fall firmly into the date category for most of us. |
Conversely, there are girls you party with, and then there are girls you marry. |
How many girls do you marry?
It's definitely true that i get way more action when I'm being a bit of a jerk than when I'm doing the Mr. Nice Guy bit. |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 2:06 am Post subject: |
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| Women are sexually attracted to the powerful dominant aggressive decisive alpha male, they want him to impregnate her so she can have strong babies, but then they want him to go away, so she can get the sensible, stable, mature, sensitive beta male to help her raise them ... |
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ChopChaeJoe
Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 3:08 am Post subject: |
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| Satori wrote: |
| Women are sexually attracted to the powerful dominant aggressive decisive alpha male, they want him to impregnate her so she can have strong babies, but then they want him to go away, so she can get the sensible, stable, mature, sensitive beta male to help her raise them ... |
Yeah, then why are they on birth control? Insist on condoms?
Jerks can screw better. It's all about the beast with two backs. |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 3:54 am Post subject: |
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| ChopChaeJoe wrote: |
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| Women are sexually attracted to the powerful dominant aggressive decisive alpha male, they want him to impregnate her so she can have strong babies, but then they want him to go away, so she can get the sensible, stable, mature, sensitive beta male to help her raise them ... |
Yeah, then why are they on birth control? Insist on condoms?
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That's the logical mind speaking, the drive that makes them want the alpha male is instinctive, not governed by logic... |
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Fresh Prince
Joined: 05 Dec 2006
Location: The glorious nation of Korea
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 4:58 am Post subject: |
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| Satori wrote: |
| Women are sexually attracted to the powerful dominant aggressive decisive alpha male, they want him to impregnate her so she can have strong babies, but then they want him to go away, so she can get the sensible, stable, mature, sensitive beta male to help her raise them ... |
Good point,
For example... Brittany and Kevin.  |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2007 5:23 am Post subject: |
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| I would never have considered K-Flow to be an alpha male, though. A jerk, maybe, but not even a bad boy. Just oafish. |
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Lostone7
Joined: 08 Jun 2006
Location: SE Asia
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| Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 9:05 pm Post subject: funny stuff |
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 OK...............As a REFORMED bad boy I will add mt two cents hehe
I am still friends with most of the exc-hicies lol SO one ex who is super nice, smart etc and maybe I gave the run around to a long time ago is now one of my best friends! even went to her wedding lol anyway I asked her this question once............why? Her answer I think was logical
and ended that question for me.
So here goes
Me:
so we,ve been friends for ages and I have never really been nice or what anyone would call BF material etc. Yet, dating has never been a issue............. if i want a girl I chase her.........mom, sister, best friend etc..........and well it always works they always fall.........SO whats the deal!
Her: the truth is this..........part bad 80 TV and movies .........but its like this guy... buy stuff...tell me over and over and over how great, wonderful sexy I am etc. the good guy sits with you when your sick, lets you pick the movies all the nice stuff.............OK we (Females) like that yes but it is easy....not alot of meaning behind it........we think well how many poeple over there life have the done the same things for....
Me: yeah so what? you cant say that I am going to do any of that or even stay stable.............
Her: you mean.........your other girlfriends, drunkin 3am calls, fighting, passing out in my parents bed, breaking things, driving you around, buying you stuff, giving you money for the bar, having to always watch my friends (girls) when your around etc.
me: lol yeah something like that...  (READ REFORMED) lol
Her: simple we (females) want sexy just like you............and yes it pissed me off but when we are YOUNG...........knowing that all the girls want what i have........is sexy. AND here is the big one.............When you do something rare!............ kind, loving, caring....it's big It mean something....you carrying me to the doc when i broke my leg or that one flower....or well i know i seemed mad...But, that guy who grabbed my butt and you well.........you remeber So .........one flower from you was better than 100 from the nice guy......well cuz he gave me 100 lol
BUT as we mature well the stable guy we marry............you we just look at as a wild ride
OK this was our IM lol..............edited a bit lol well ya just dont need to know
but what i think is for girls............it's Vanity
and for us cats it's looks
But as I said reformed.............so not as much fun anymore  |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 9:34 pm Post subject: Re: funny stuff |
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| Lostone7 wrote: |
OK...............As a REFORMED bad boy I will add mt two cents hehe
I am still friends with most of the exc-hicies lol SO one ex who is super nice, smart etc and maybe I gave the run around to a long time ago is now one of my best friends! even went to her wedding lol anyway I asked her this question once............why? Her answer I think was logical
and ended that question for me.
So here goes
Me:
so we,ve been friends for ages and I have never really been nice or what anyone would call BF material etc. Yet, dating has never been a issue............. if i want a girl I chase her.........mom, sister, best friend etc..........and well it always works they always fall.........SO whats the deal!
Her: the truth is this..........part bad 80 TV and movies .........but its like this guy... buy stuff...tell me over and over and over how great, wonderful sexy I am etc. the good guy sits with you when your sick, lets you pick the movies all the nice stuff.............OK we (Females) like that yes but it is easy....not alot of meaning behind it........we think well how many poeple over there life have the done the same things for....
Me: yeah so what? you cant say that I am going to do any of that or even stay stable.............
Her: you mean.........your other girlfriends, drunkin 3am calls, fighting, passing out in my parents bed, breaking things, driving you around, buying you stuff, giving you money for the bar, having to always watch my friends (girls) when your around etc.
me: lol yeah something like that... (READ REFORMED) lol
Her: simple we (females) want sexy just like you............and yes it pissed me off but when we are YOUNG...........knowing that all the girls want what i have........is sexy. AND here is the big one.............When you do something rare!............ kind, loving, caring....it's big It mean something....you carrying me to the doc when i broke my leg or that one flower....or well i know i seemed mad...But, that guy who grabbed my butt and you well.........you remeber So .........one flower from you was better than 100 from the nice guy......well cuz he gave me 100 lol
BUT as we mature well the stable guy we marry............you we just look at as a wild ride
OK this was our IM lol..............edited a bit lol well ya just dont need to know
but what i think is for girls............it's Vanity
and for us cats it's looks
But as I said reformed.............so not as much fun anymore |
Off topic, but are you a native speaker of English? |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 9:40 pm Post subject: |
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| women are free to be attracted to whoever they want, just dont expect me to feel sorry for your black eyes because you love an abuser |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2007 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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| jinju wrote: |
| women are free to be attracted to whoever they want, just dont expect me to feel sorry for your black eyes because you love an abuser |
Conversely many women don't really want to hear about yet another guy who was a walking carpet for a woman. |
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Lizara
Joined: 14 Apr 2004
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 2:05 am Post subject: |
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| mindmetoo wrote: |
Conversely many women don't really want to hear about yet another guy who was a walking carpet for a woman. |
No joke... especially if it's a guy I like who's being whipped by some total bitch. Then they complain about not finding any nice girls, and I'm like, well, you're talking to one... but it's not what they really want.
anyway, bad boys are attractive. I don't even know why... but I'm all about tattooed bikers and so forth. Being an ass, however, is not attractive and, for me, destroys any interest I might have felt in the boy. By that I mean a real, genuine, deep-down ass, and not just someone who likes to tease me from time to time or whatever.
We look for guys we can trust for long-term relationships. I dated the sexiest musician I've ever met for a while, a few years ago, and we broke up after about a month because he had no sense of responsibility whatsoever and I knew it would drive me insane to be with a guy like that. The guy I was with longer than anyone else was totally not the kind of guy I would have considered to be my "type", but he was consistently kind and caring and I didn't have to worry when he hung out with female friends.
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