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Darkness
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 Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:12 am Post subject: K-Girl Rules |
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So I have noticed it is very different approaching K-girls then it is approaching Western girls. K-girls are always worried about 'face' and I was told to never say "no".
Anyone got some tips/hints/suggestions...... |
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New Balance
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:18 am Post subject: |
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| Can I be the first to say it? Oh God!!! |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:23 am Post subject: |
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wtf, this is a legit question.....you just cant approach them like you can with Western girls....
take your crappy comment elsewhere... |
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gang ah jee
Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:24 am Post subject: Re: K-Girl Rules |
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| Darkness wrote: |
So I have noticed it is very different approaching K-girls then it is approaching Western girls. K-girls are always worried about 'face' and I was told to never say "no".
Anyone got some tips/hints/suggestions...... |
Bang on. Saying 'no' will cause them to lose face and you to lose any chance you may have had. Avoid at all costs!
The second most important piece of advice I can think of off the top of my head is this: K-girls love to be complimented on their ears. Don't ask me why, but this is what my K-friend told me and it's true! Sounds crazy, I know, but trust me on this one.
Good luck! |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:25 am Post subject: |
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Thank you for some REAL advice.
Ok, so compliment them on their ears, check.
I dont really understand this whole face thing just yet. Also I was told dont ask direct questions, cause that can cause them to lose face too. Like asking for her number, cause even if she wants to give it, if she does then she looks like a *beep*...it seems this whole culture does everything in a round-about way.... |
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europe2seoul
Joined: 12 Sep 2005
Location: Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:26 am Post subject: Re: K-Girl Rules |
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| Darkness wrote: |
| K-girls are always worried about 'face' and I was told to never say "no". |
Are this tips from Lonely Planet ? 
And never say "no" - what are you talking about? |
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butlerian
Joined: 04 Sep 2006
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:28 am Post subject: |
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| Darkness wrote: |
Thank you for some REAL advice.
Ok, so compliment them on their ears, check.
I dont really understand this whole face thing just yet. Also I was told dont ask direct questions, cause that can cause them to lose face too. Like asking for her number, cause even if she wants to give it, if she does then she looks like a *beep*...it seems this whole culture does everything in a round-about way.... |
Generally, almost all K-girls will give you their number almost as easily as they'll give you their name or the time of day. However, it doesn't mean the same as it could do in Western societies. |
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butlerian
Joined: 04 Sep 2006
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: Re: K-Girl Rules |
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| europe2seoul wrote: |
| Darkness wrote: |
| K-girls are always worried about 'face' and I was told to never say "no". |
Are this tips from Lonely Planet ?
And never say "no" - what are you talking about? |
Yeah, just be yourself. Why be false?  |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: |
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Ya I was told phone numbers are not a bid deal either....
I was told I lose face to them if i say no. I dont know, I'm just going by what people I've run into who have been here longer then me say. |
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europe2seoul
Joined: 12 Sep 2005
Location: Seoul, Korea
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:31 am Post subject: |
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| Generally, almost all K-girls will give you their number almost as easily as they'll give you their name or the time of day. However, it doesn't mean the same as it could do in Western societies. |
Yes. Giving number is normal and has no meaning whatsoever. White girls in Korea are so strange - since I am used to interacting with K-girls asking for number is normal and white girls always create a face like "oh he is asking me for my digits". God, please..... 
But, yeah as butlerian said, number has no meaning like it does in the west.
Sometimes it will work to make a second date and sometimes you will just exchange a few texts and be ignored later on. Depends. Soju is better than asking for #s. |
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Darkness
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 5:56 am Post subject: |
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So soju is a good way to a K-girls heart, lol....check!
What are some other good things to know.... |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:01 am Post subject: |
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| New Balance wrote: |
| Can I be the first to say it? Oh God!!! |
Can I be the next to say it? Oh God!!! And do most of us on here actually give a damn??? Go find a K-gal and find out. There must have been 1000 threads already concedrning this nonsene drivel...AND people say I post dumb crap...HA!!!!!!!!!! |
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Darkness
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:02 am Post subject: |
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| up yours |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:03 am Post subject: Re: K-Girl Rules |
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| gang ah jee wrote: |
| Darkness wrote: |
So I have noticed it is very different approaching K-girls then it is approaching Western girls. K-girls are always worried about 'face' and I was told to never say "no".
Anyone got some tips/hints/suggestions...... |
Bang on. Saying 'no' will cause them to lose face and you to lose any chance you may have had. Avoid at all costs!
The second most important piece of advice I can think of off the top of my head is this: K-girls love to be complimented on their ears. Don't ask me why, but this is what my K-friend told me and it's true! Sounds crazy, I know, but trust me on this one.
Good luck! |
Ears?????????? hahaha...I think maybe your "friend" was yanking your chain....  |
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gang ah jee
Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper
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| Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:05 am Post subject: |
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| princess wrote: |
| New Balance wrote: |
| Can I be the first to say it? Oh God!!! |
Can I be the next to say it? Oh God!!! And do most of us on here actually give a damn??? Go find a K-gal and find out. There must have been 1000 threads already concedrning this nonsene drivel...AND people say I post dumb crap...HA!!!!!!!!!! |
Wow, the claws are really out, aren't they princess.
You've probably heard of this before, Darkness. Western ladies can get so jealous. For the true K-girlholic it's best not to worry about it though. |
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