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bafw26



Joined: 01 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 2:28 am    Post subject: Questions for the over 30 crowd Reply with quote

I am curious to know about the experiences of people over 30 here in Korea. What led up to you coming here? What are you future plans? What did you do before this?

I started teaching here awhile back and am in my mid 30's. Basically I was tired of the corporate grind and the ever escalating cost of living in the states. I am not married and pretty much unattached so I figured why not. A lot of people on this board say that teaching abroad is something you do right after college for a year then return to the real world. For the first time in my life I actually have a job I don't dread going to everyday. The only nagging thing is the whole "what next" question.

I am really interested in hearing your stories. Only thoughtful responses only, no trolls please. There seems to be plenty of negativity on here already. Take care.
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mnhnhyouh



Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Location: The Middle Kingdom

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 2:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

44 here, Korean age Wink

I was a bum, a laborer and a marine biologist. I got a teaching degree in 2004 and taught math, science and workshop in an Australian secondary school for the last two years. Now the wanderlust has taken over. My plan is to teach in a different country every year for the next 8 or so years.

This is the first year, and all is going well so far, a bit over 3 months in.

h
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 3:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mnhnhyouh wrote:
My plan is to teach in a different country every year for the next 8 or so years.

*clap* BRAVO! *clap*
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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mnhnhyouh wrote:

I was a bum, a laborer and a marine biologist.

I always thought it would be really cool to be a marine biologist, wasn't a big fan of science at school though. Still, I really love sharks and whales etc.

What was it like being a marine biologist?
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Privateer



Joined: 31 Aug 2005
Location: Easy Street.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gosh I know an unemployed marine biologist back home too! Really brainy chap but not much call for his line of work.
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Pateach



Joined: 11 May 2006

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:41 am    Post subject: Money and Freedom Reply with quote

As a single woman teaching in the States, I didn't have a job that could keep pace with the wild East Coast rents.
What I did have was freedom. So I thought I'd take advantage of it and maybe save some cash...
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vox



Joined: 13 Feb 2005
Location: Jeollabukdo

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:46 am    Post subject: Re: Questions for the over 30 crowd Reply with quote

bafw26 wrote:
A lot of people on this board say that teaching abroad is something you do right after college for a year then return to the real world.


You mean this real world?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=tkSXWm6b9hg
Sorry, saw it on another thread and couldn't resist pointing out the irony. Sometimes we forget parts of the West we left behind.

Yah, man, don't let a bunch of hotdogging 20-somethings lay any impression on you.

I first came here at the age of 35 and that was after 15 years in another career that was sometimes thrilling, but often stressful. I wanted a change. I lucked out and found only good Korean co-workers the whole time (most of the foreigners have been good co-workers) in my first year here I went through all the phases - infatuated tourist, tired tourist, overextended tourist, nostalgic tourist, zen tourist, then the country's charms really started to win me over. I left and came back. This second time around I'm having a blast in our public school. We do ESL immersion, which means I get to teach other subjects using ESL, and because I've made a real investment into the language, I can branch into more social groups and do more interesting stuff you don't find on the Seoul Best 100 list (well, I'm not in the province anyway.) But I also like doing the occasional volunteering and weekend arts stuff.

My plan for the future? Keep doing work that stimulates me and makes me happy, keep sending home 2.5 every month, go back to uni, or develop a property back home. Or learn to invest and do it sooner. Enjoy the occasional delayed payment with something like a piano or used car. Maybe build and develop a property. The main theme being of course, to enjoy the time along the way. It just makes everything else run so much more smoothly. Certainly, loving the work I'm doing and the people I'm doing it with in the meantime, it all helps immensely. You're exactly on the right track if you're feeling better about this job than you've felt about jobs for years. Don't let other peoples' career anxieties influence you. Often those people don't have the first clue how to be happy where they are. If it makes you feel good, relish not fitting into a standard seal of approvable living set by a western college undergrad 20 something who's probably just needing to back off all the Frankenfood anyway.

I've just been watching this mid-aged couple (across the road from a school I pass by) renovate this derelict housefront and yard over the past month. They've now turned it into a really elegant curvy brick wall enclosing a garden with a stone path and a few trees, lemon trees I think. That looks really enjoyable. I'm thinking about something like that here, or in Canada, or in Europe.
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Harpeau



Joined: 01 Feb 2003
Location: Coquitlam, BC

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the secret is to try to enjoy your work and then take some of your free time to begin making a hobby or interest into a money making business that you enjoy doing. That I believe is the key.
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mnhnhyouh



Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Location: The Middle Kingdom

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 4:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
mnhnhyouh wrote:

I was a bum, a laborer and a marine biologist.

I always thought it would be really cool to be a marine biologist, wasn't a big fan of science at school though. Still, I really love sharks and whales etc.

What was it like being a marine biologist?


Much of it was a lot of fun but i never want to climb into another cold wet wetsuit and count stuff again.....

h
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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 5:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry, I don't have anything romantic to say about it: Korea offered me a roof over my head and food on the table.

Pretty basic stuff, really.
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 5:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

43 Korean age.
Second career. I think. I 'retired' in about 2003 after a work thing went bad. I had a new girl in my life and someone to come home to, so I didn't go back to it.
I have done a number of different jobs in my life, but I realized the one constant in all of them, was that part of each job was educating people in some way. Further, I realized that that was the part of my job that I enjoyed the most.

After more than two years of retirement in the Philippines, I was going nuts, and pointing myself to a very early grave. Drinking and shooting pool from 4pm to 3 am 5 nights a week, riding my scoot drunk off my ass, poking every darling who glanced my way (yes, even with a girl at home Embarassed ) and generally bored out of my skull.

Teaching in Korea (I worked here before) was a natural step for me.
Now that I am teaching here, part of me wishes I had chosen the teaching profession from the beginning. I also realize though, that I would not be the teacher I am (not saying good, not saying bad) without my lifes experiences.

I love teaching, I love my students (in a good way), and i can't imagine anything I would rather be doing.
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i_teach_esl



Joined: 07 Sep 2006
Location: baebang, asan/cheonan

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 6:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since you're only as old as you feel, I'm 104.

I needed a chnge of scenery. Korean schools made the best NET money offers.
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BS.Dos.



Joined: 29 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

37 although I'm not actually in Korea yet (Aug 07).

Once I'd decided to take my TESOL, teaching abroad seemed to be the one thing I thought I might actually enjoy. I've no wife, kids or mortgage and so I'm in the rather fortunate position of being able to do as I please. I don't have a trade and have not really used my degree in any capacity since I graduated. With any luck, teaching in Korea will hopefully be the start of a career that will take me through to retirement. My plan is to try and gain a Masters at some point over the next few years and enjoy the fruits that that may come with it.

I've not considered the possibility of not being able to adjust to living abroad and I'm not sure how being away from my family will feel. If things don't work out for me over there then I really don't know what I'll do, although in all likelyhood, I'll probably do a PGCE in the UK. The main thing is that I want to be able to look back and regret something I had done rather than something I hadn't.

Either way, I'm at an age now where I'm really conscious of the fact that the clock is ticking. For the first time in my life I feel genuinely optomistic about my future and I'm confident that I'm wise enough to make something like this become a positive experience.
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Paddycakes



Joined: 05 May 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 10:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
I was a bum, a laborer and a marine biologist.


Hey, George Castanza is now a teacher!
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