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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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 Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 12:21 pm Post subject: |
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| gyopogirlfromtexas wrote: |
| And this one other time, I was watching a movie with a friend. I hear all this loud slapping and typical crazy loud sounds. Then I hear the restroom door open, and someone having machine gun farts and explosive diahhrea or chunks just dropping onto the toilet. Gross! But it sounded so funny. Poor guy though! I wonder if he was at least a little turned off by that. |
oh man! Sounds like somebody was getting a little too much anal action. Cubanlord's gonna lose it when he reads this. 
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| Anyways, most guys can't get excited if the girl is too quiet or in stealth mode.The louder the better. I guess women are expected to do all the moaning, and the guy is just there to talk dirty. |
Well, we are usually there to do a bit more than just talking~~
I'm glad this thread was revived because it's an interesting topic. The ladies' responses indicate that the verbalizing is often done for the benefit of the partner rather than an irresistible expression of pleasure. Personally, I do not care for it at all. I would much rather hear actual words or sentences. (I am in agreement with Guru about Korean women speaking English in bed. Not attractive at all.)
By the way, no one answered my other question. The moaning during s*x is one thing, but what about during kissing? A lot of chicks do that, and it boggles me. I've asked before why they do it, but invariably the answer is, "I don't know." Maybe some of the more thoughtful females here at Dave's can clear that up for me. What's next, cries of passion when a man holds your hand? |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 1:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| The ladies' responses indicate that the verbalizing is often done for the benefit of the partner rather than an irresistible expression of pleasure. Personally, I do not care for it at all. |
You don't? I barely remember what I've said on this thread, so maybe I'm repeating myself (or even contradicting myself  ) but almost everything is good. I like whatever things a woman says or sounds she makes _except for_ pained little whimpers & yelps. Those are unsettling and mood-killing. I prefer to hear a woman's voice, not sounds & squeaks & whimpers like a little girl makes.
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| I would much rather hear actual words or sentences. (I am in agreement with Guru about Korean women speaking English in bed. Not attractive at all.) |
Sentences? You mean like proper syntax & Subject-Verb-Object? Boy, you English teachers really take your work home with you!  Yes, I said that about Korean women speaking English in bed. But that's only if she doesn't normally speak English the rest of the day. If someone is bilingual it shouldn't matter.
I dated a yuhaksaeng who every time we made love would say "I never knew it could be like this". Every time. It was one of her little stock things that she'd say. Now even though her English was reasonably good (not fluent) and even though I knew she was only hoping to make me feel good, that line just hit a tacky, schmaltzy note. I never actually guffawed, but I think deep down inside I was wincing.
Is it just us W-guys, or do Western women who date Korean men also have this same hang-up? Is hearing corny/cheesy lines in English whispered in your ear by someone who's not fluent a turn-off? |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry Guru, but if I heard that once, I'd stifle a giggle. A second time, and I'd laugh so hard we'd both be flying off the bed.  |
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Bibbitybop
Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 4:35 pm Post subject: |
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I breathe heavily into my girls ear and talk to her, and towards the end things get loud.
Just the other day we had a conversation about the implications of John McCain and Barak Obama running for President and Vice-President together. Towards the end I was screaming "WHERE WOULD THEY FIND MIDDLE GROUND ON THE IRAQ WAR??!!" I withdrew from my occupation only to deploy my troops to a mountainous region. |
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rockstarsmooth
Joined: 01 Aug 2006
Location: anyang, baybee!
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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i'm noisy.
i pity my neighbours at times.
i'm noisy cause it feels good to me. and i'm not always capable of making sentences. i do like to talk though, and getting it on with someone who's chatty during sex is awesome. i have been known to make weird jokes and collapse laughing in the middle because of it. i also like talking dirty and hearing it, i like knowing that i'm with someone who has imagination. i don't need to be with a noisy partner to get off, i can usually figure it out if they're enjoying themselves without the verbal cues.
getting noisy during kissing? maybe during some pretty heavy making out, but nothing too drastic, maybe some whimpering or light moaning...
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 right now i'm listening to: think i'm in love - beck |
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mnhnhyouh
Joined: 21 Nov 2006
Location: The Middle Kingdom
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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| So for them orgasms aren't all that special, and if you grow up in a house with thin walls, you learn to be quiet about it. Maybe that's part of it. |
Q.; What is the most sensitive part of your body when you mastvrbate?
A. Your ears.
Well, it was when I was young and lived at home anyway.
I prefer some noise from my partner, especially new ones. It lets me know how they like it. That way I am more likely to explore different stuff and they let me know when I stumble across that thing they like.
I will let out little roadmap noises as well, and keep silent when my nipples are being looked after, you might as well be sucking on my elbows.
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Lizara
Joined: 14 Apr 2004
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Bibbitybop wrote: |
I breathe heavily into my girls ear and talk to her, and towards the end things get loud.
Just the other day we had a conversation about the implications of John McCain and Barak Obama running for President and Vice-President together. Towards the end I was screaming "WHERE WOULD THEY FIND MIDDLE GROUND ON THE IRAQ WAR??!!" I withdrew from my occupation only to deploy my troops to a mountainous region. |
hahahaha... I'm so putting that on the quotables thread... |
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Wrench
Joined: 07 Apr 2005
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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Celibate since I came to Korea. After my x I just don't feel like playing the chase the nookie game anymore.
I prefered silent. I am silent I prefer my partner silent.,. Well maybe for some heavy breathing.. I enjoy eye contact. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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| Bibbitybop wrote: |
I breathe heavily into my girls ear and talk to her, and towards the end things get loud.
Just the other day we had a conversation about the implications of John McCain and Barak Obama running for President and Vice-President together. Towards the end I was screaming "WHERE WOULD THEY FIND MIDDLE GROUND ON THE IRAQ WAR??!!" I withdrew from my occupation only to deploy my troops to a mountainous region. |
hahaaa~ dude that's fucking hilarious. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| The ladies' responses indicate that the verbalizing is often done for the benefit of the partner rather than an irresistible expression of pleasure. Personally, I do not care for it at all. |
You don't? I barely remember what I've said on this thread, so maybe I'm repeating myself (or even contradicting myself ) but almost everything is good. I like whatever things a woman says or sounds she makes _except for_ pained little whimpers & yelps. Those are unsettling and mood-killing. I prefer to hear a woman's voice, not sounds & squeaks & whimpers like a little girl makes.
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| I would much rather hear actual words or sentences. (I am in agreement with Guru about Korean women speaking English in bed. Not attractive at all.) |
Sentences? You mean like proper syntax & Subject-Verb-Object? Boy, you English teachers really take your work home with you! Yes, I said that about Korean women speaking English in bed. But that's only if she doesn't normally speak English the rest of the day. If someone is bilingual it shouldn't matter.
I dated a yuhaksaeng who every time we made love would say "I never knew it could be like this". Every time. It was one of her little stock things that she'd say. Now even though her English was reasonably good (not fluent) and even though I knew she was only hoping to make me feel good, that line just hit a tacky, schmaltzy note. I never actually guffawed, but I think deep down inside I was wincing.
Is it just us W-guys, or do Western women who date Korean men also have this same hang-up? Is hearing corny/cheesy lines in English whispered in your ear by someone who's not fluent a turn-off? |
You know what, 'Ru, I think rockstarsmooth put it best. Chatty sex is more enjoyable. I don't like how people tend to get all serious with it. I like to have fun no matter what I'm doing, and seriousness is almost never fun.
About Korean chicks speaking English in bed, even if they are fluent it's just different. Maybe not everyone agrees with this, but I think Korean language sounds very s_xy, at least when an agassi is speaking it.. |
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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Allow me to take this opportunity to share my favorite dirty joke on this very topic of bed-talk:
Mr. Businessman went to a small South East Asian nation on a business trip. As it usually is in this part of the world, the host company provided him with a hooker for the evening.
Mr. Businessman, so impressed with the young lass' foreplay skills, he couldn't wait anymore. So he flipped her over and began giving her his best effort. He figured he must have been doing a great job because she began to scream "WAIN LE! WAIN LE!" And after she left, he made a note to remember the phrase.
The next morning, while he was playing golf with his hosts, he scored a hole in one. Deciding to impress his hosts with his new vocabulary, he yelled, "WAIN LE!"
They all looked at him confusion on their faces, and said, "What do you mean, 'wrong hole'?" |
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swetepete
Joined: 01 Nov 2006
Location: a limp little burg
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 10:05 pm Post subject: |
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I dated a yuhaksaeng who every time we made love would say "I never knew it could be like this". Every time. It was one of her little stock things that she'd say. Now even though her English was reasonably good (not fluent) and even though I knew she was only hoping to make me feel good, that line just hit a tacky, schmaltzy note. I never actually guffawed, but I think deep down inside I was wincing.
Is it just us W-guys, or do Western women who date Korean men also have this same hang-up? Is hearing corny/cheesy lines in English whispered in your ear by someone who's not fluent a turn-off? |
A woman once said to me, while we were in the act of sweet greasy hot summer love, "you my sex fantasy."
I kinda liked it. It was cheesy and silly but what the hell.
I mostly agree with the guru on this one--pretty much any old vocalization is good, except for the 'apa, apa' whimpering.
I did however break it off with one girl because when she had an orgasm she sounded like a cow moose, or an air raid siren....like, 'aaa-ROOO-gah! Buhwaaaaaaaaaah, aaa-ROOOOOOO-gah!' I didn't tell her that was the reason, but really, that was it. |
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kimchi story
Joined: 23 Nov 2006
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Hmmm. I never thought of taking the ball gag off before bustin' a nut.
Seriously tho, I like a little dialogue in bed - it's like the team talking on the field and keeps everyone in the same play. Even with the dialogue the gf and I have occasionally launched ourselves off the bed. Always makes for memorable facial expressions.
Grunts are okay, too - but the bull moose, Pete, I can see having to strap on a pair of ear goggles before throwing a leg over being a big turn off.
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Wrench
Joined: 07 Apr 2005
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 10:26 pm Post subject: |
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I dated a yuhaksaeng who every time we made love would say "I never knew it could be like this". Every time. It was one of her little stock things that she'd say. Now even though her English was reasonably good (not fluent) and even though I knew she was only hoping to make me feel good, that line just hit a tacky, schmaltzy note. I never actually guffawed, but I think deep down inside I was wincing.
Is it just us W-guys, or do Western women who date Korean men also have this same hang-up? Is hearing corny/cheesy lines in English whispered in your ear by someone who's not fluent a turn-off? |
A woman once said to me, while we were in the act of sweet greasy hot summer love, "you my sex fantasy."
I kinda liked it. It was cheesy and silly but what the hell.
I mostly agree with the guru on this one--pretty much any old vocalization is good, except for the 'apa, apa' whimpering.
I did however break it off with one girl because when she had an orgasm she sounded like a cow moose, or an air raid siren....like, 'aaa-ROOO-gah! Buhwaaaaaaaaaah, aaa-ROOOOOOO-gah!' I didn't tell her that was the reason, but really, that was it. |
LOL |
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supernaut
Joined: 04 Jan 2007
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 11:49 pm Post subject: |
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| People usually usetheir first language during moments of passion....and intense rage (but i gather that's a moment of passion as well) |
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