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cwm
Joined: 29 Apr 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 3:43 pm Post subject: Quitting at 6 months at a public school |
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I'm coming up to my 4-month mark for a standard contract at a public middle school.
Problem is that I really dislike my main co-worker. She's a bully that micro-manages and looks to start fights or put me down. (Another reason for leaving is that I have other things back in the US that I'd like to get back to.) She's bad-mouthed me to the main school supervisor (3rd most powerful) and I'm worried about how they're going to respond when I give notice. At the end of the first semester, she threatened to fire me and made me sign a paper. When she's just around me, she plays power-games where she behaves quite viciously.
Contract says that employee must give 60 day notice while employer must give only 15 days notice. After 6 month mark, employee doesn't have to pay back the airfare. Also, there was a small starter-amount they gave (300,000 won) they would have to be refunded to them.
I'm not planning on working in Korea again (anytime soon anyway) so I'm not concerned about getting the letter of release.
I just want to make the best of the situation and leave in the best possible way. So, I want to give resignation shortly after the 4-month mark (so that my last day is shortly after the 6-month mark).
Questions: 1) Should I be honest when I resign or should I say a family-emergency excuse? 2) Can they deduct airfare or anything else from paycheck after I give notice? 3) How long would my visa be valid for after they fire me? (My wife is giving 60-day notice at her job but should definitely stay to the end - so I'd like to stay 45 days later if they decide to fire me.) 4) Do I have any leverage if they up the job-requirements to try to get loads of extra lesson plans/materials out of me?
Any help would be appreciated as I'm quite worried about what they could try to do me after I give notice. Thanks... |
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tob55
Joined: 29 Apr 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 4:10 pm Post subject: Worried... |
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You might want to consider waiting a little longer before giving notice...If you submit your resignation now, they will stiff you for the flight and other money you have coming to you I have been here long enough to know that some people will take advantage of everything they can. You telling them you resign after 4 months in their mind means you have not worked there for 6 months. I know it sounds strange, but do it and you will find out the hard way.
You might try to see if there is some way to work around the main KT who is giving you fits. Are you working well with the other KTs? If so, then you must try to find some way to get them to do your fighting for you. Your main KT is on a power trip and thinks she can do no harm, but trust me she has something she is hiding that she doesn't want to get out. It may be she sees how well students respond to you and not her...I don't know, but there is something that can be done to silence her and make the rest of your stay in Korea somewhat more pleasurable...Hope this helps a little... |
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dogshed

Joined: 28 Apr 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 4:13 pm Post subject: |
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If they addressed the problem with your coworker would you stay? If not then I wouldn't say that was the reason you were leaving. |
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bosintang

Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Location: In the pot with the rest of the mutts
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 4:52 pm Post subject: Re: Quitting at 6 months at a public school |
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cwm wrote: |
Questions: 1) Should I be honest when I resign or should I say a family-emergency excuse? 2) Can they deduct airfare or anything else from paycheck after I give notice? 3) How long would my visa be valid for after they fire me? (My wife is giving 60-day notice at her job but should definitely stay to the end - so I'd like to stay 45 days later if they decide to fire me.) 4) Do I have any leverage if they up the job-requirements to try to get loads of extra lesson plans/materials out of me?
Any help would be appreciated as I'm quite worried about what they could try to do me after I give notice. Thanks... |
I disagree with tob55. If you're part of a program like EPIK, GEPIK, whatever, give the proper notice that required of you in your contract, but make sure you state in your letter of resignation that you will fullfill your six months. You have two levels to go through (your program and the labour office), or at least threaten them with, if they try to pull anything. As for reasons why you are quitting, save face and don't tell them anything. "Personal reasons" is good enough.
As far as them giving you only 15days notice, by law they have to give you 30days. Hold them to it if they decide to fire you.
I don't think they'll try to get anything extra out of you work-wise like extra lesson plans, once you give notice. If anything, you'll probably get the opposite treatment, they'll start treating you like you don't exist. However, whatever they do, they can only make you work your contracted hours. |
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expat2001

Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 7:57 pm Post subject: |
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Im currently working at a public school.less then 6 months into the contract , I decide to quit.
I could hav ran or given two months notice and pay back a total of 900 000 won.I chose to be honest and since then I ve had nothing but problems.
Late after school pay
They took away my vacation
Why would you be honest w/ them anyways?
Because they are a public school? Do you feel you owe them something?
Keep this in mind , when an expat leaves before the one year mark , it makes the school look bad , therefore I think they ; the school ,would be out for blood even if you gave notice.
GEPIK is a hogwon |
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expat2001

Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 8:04 pm Post subject: |
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I think some people hav too much faith in the laor office. Experience has shown me that , for the most part , the labor office means well.However , I d say that when it comes down to it , the labor office doesnt hav that much pull.At times it can be a long and slow process.
Sooner or later , GEPIK will find away around the labor office .
At times people make GEPIK sound like its the new thing and it will only makes ESL in korea better for expats.
Cmon , GEPIK is nothing more then a wolf in sheeps clothing |
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cwm
Joined: 29 Apr 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 8:51 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks for the great replies. Yes, it's a GEPIK school that I work at.
The co-worker is the self-appointed English Director at the school. She's not my direct supervisor but she is always telling a temporary-teacher (1 year Korean teacher) what to tell me. I don't know if all schools are as political as mine, but power is everything at my school. I don't think I have any way of getting out from under her...
I don't know if she has the actual title or not, but I can see that she plays the power-politics well - she gets along well with the vice-vice principal who seems to have the most day-to-day power. She intimidates the 1-year Korean teacher. Most of the other English teachers dislike her but they can avoid her because she doesn't have any real power over them. I sit next to her when not in class and she's a relentless micro-manager. It sucks being stuck with someone like that.
I don't have too much faith in the GEPIK program or intermediary-agency as far as helping. They never even told me who I could talk to in case of a problem. At the time that they called the agency that works with the school, the person just came out and said you have to make them happier. When I talked to her in private, she said that it was a well-known difficult school but I didn't have many options. It seems like the in-between agency just works for the school.
From my experience at this school, it seems like face-saving and appearances are all that matter. The better teachers seem to always be put down. So, I think it wouldn't be wise to tell them my honest viewpoint.
A lot of power probably rests with the principal. In my dealings with him, he's been cordial so maybe he'll be willing to do the right thing from their side. |
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Betty Rubble

Joined: 29 Apr 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:33 pm Post subject: |
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Does his school still have to give him thirty days notice if they fire him? Even if his contract says they only have to give him 15? |
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cdninkorea

Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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Betty Rubble wrote: |
Does his school still have to give him thirty days notice if they fire him? Even if his contract says they only have to give him 15? |
Fortunately (for the OP), the answer is yes. It's Korean Labor Law. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 10:32 pm Post subject: Re: Quitting at 6 months at a public school |
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cwm wrote: |
I'm coming up to my 4-month mark for a standard contract at a public middle school. |
Your description of the contract doesn't sound like a standard contract. My EPIK contract is much better than what you're describing.
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Problem is that I really dislike my main co-worker. She's a bully that micro-manages and looks to start fights or put me down. (Another reason for leaving is that I have other things back in the US that I'd like to get back to.) She's bad-mouthed me to the main school supervisor (3rd most powerful) and I'm worried about how they're going to respond when I give notice. At the end of the first semester, she threatened to fire me and made me sign a paper. When she's just around me, she plays power-games where she behaves quite viciously. |
Perhaps this is too late in the game to try, but maybe you should take your complaints up the chain of supervision. A public school is not an independent entity. The principal is responsible to someone with no vested interest in whatever games your coteacher has on deck.
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Contract says that employee must give 60 day notice while employer must give only 15 days notice. After 6 month mark, employee doesn't have to pay back the airfare. Also, there was a small starter-amount they gave (300,000 won) they would have to be refunded to them. |
The bit about the airfare and the reimbursement of the relocation fee is standard in the EPIK contract. The different time period for notification of termination is certainly a red flag. The time period should be the same for both the employer and the employee. At any rate, the law requires 30 day notification by the employer or 30 days pay in lieu.
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I'm not planning on working in Korea again (anytime soon anyway) so I'm not concerned about getting the letter of release. |
Why not give it a go anyway? If you're on the EPIK, then it's not the school that's giving the letter, it's the Office of Education.
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I just want to make the best of the situation and leave in the best possible way. So, I want to give resignation shortly after the 4-month mark (so that my last day is shortly after the 6-month mark). |
Take a calendar and count back exactly 60 days. Mark both the notification date and the final day of work on the calendar. Attach that calendar to your letter of resignation. Ensure you have a place on the letter clearly identified for the acceptor to sign and date. Include in the letter of resignation a statement that the final day of work is the day so indicated on the calendar and identify it by date. Make sure you keep a copy of the signed letter.
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Questions: 1) Should I be honest when I resign or should I say a family-emergency excuse? |
Always be honest. If you lie and it's discovered, you're not only hurting yourself but you're also hurting the rest of us foreign teachers.
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2) Can they deduct airfare or anything else from paycheck after I give notice? |
They can only deduct things authorized by law and the contract (provided those contractual deductions are not themselves illegal).
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3) How long would my visa be valid for after they fire me? |
I believe your visa is void on the date of firing. You get ten days, IIRC, to vacate the country.
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(My wife is giving 60-day notice at her job but should definitely stay to the end - so I'd like to stay 45 days later if they decide to fire me.) |
Check with Immigration to see if you can stay in country with your wife as your sponsor. Of course, you can't work but at least you'll be with her.
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4) Do I have any leverage if they up the job-requirements to try to get loads of extra lesson plans/materials out of me?
Any help would be appreciated as I'm quite worried about what they could try to do me after I give notice. Thanks... |
Whatever's permitted by the contract but not in violation of law is what your supervisor can do.
Have you considered having a talk with the coworker? Tell her that if she's so all-fired interested in making your life miserable, you're not all that interested in making her life any easier. In other words, let her know that you're not helping her out with anything whatsoever that's not a contracted requirement. Tell her the reason you're doing that is because you're not interested in fighting with her and you will not fight with her. If she badmouths you in your hearing, walk up to her and demand she write down what she just said. If she refuses, put on a hurt puppy look and pretend that you're near tears. Say, "I can't believe you're saying such things about me when you know they're not true. If they're true, you'll write them down and then the Principal and I can investigate your charges." Whatever you do, don't badmouth her yourself. Don't fight with her. Don't get into a shouting match with her.
Have you talked with the Vice-Principal or Principal yourself, but with someone else besides the cranky coworker as a translator? Have you talked with the school inspector at the local education office responsible for foreign teachers? |
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expat2001

Joined: 28 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:08 pm Post subject: Re: Quitting at 6 months at a public school |
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CentralCali wrote: |
cwm wrote: |
I'm coming up to my 4-month mark for a standard contract at a public middle school. |
Your description of the contract doesn't sound like a standard contract. My EPIK contract is much better than what you're describing.
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Problem is that I really dislike my main co-worker. She's a bully that micro-manages and looks to start fights or put me down. (Another reason for leaving is that I have other things back in the US that I'd like to get back to.) She's bad-mouthed me to the main school supervisor (3rd most powerful) and I'm worried about how they're going to respond when I give notice. At the end of the first semester, she threatened to fire me and made me sign a paper. When she's just around me, she plays power-games where she behaves quite viciously. |
Perhaps this is too late in the game to try, but maybe you should take your complaints up the chain of supervision. A public school is not an independent entity. The principal is responsible to someone with no vested interest in whatever games your coteacher has on deck.
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Contract says that employee must give 60 day notice while employer must give only 15 days notice. After 6 month mark, employee doesn't have to pay back the airfare. Also, there was a small starter-amount they gave (300,000 won) they would have to be refunded to them. |
The bit about the airfare and the reimbursement of the relocation fee is standard in the EPIK contract. The different time period for notification of termination is certainly a red flag. The time period should be the same for both the employer and the employee. At any rate, the law requires 30 day notification by the employer or 30 days pay in lieu.
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I'm not planning on working in Korea again (anytime soon anyway) so I'm not concerned about getting the letter of release. |
Why not give it a go anyway? If you're on the EPIK, then it's not the school that's giving the letter, it's the Office of Education.
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I just want to make the best of the situation and leave in the best possible way. So, I want to give resignation shortly after the 4-month mark (so that my last day is shortly after the 6-month mark). |
Take a calendar and count back exactly 60 days. Mark both the notification date and the final day of work on the calendar. Attach that calendar to your letter of resignation. Ensure you have a place on the letter clearly identified for the acceptor to sign and date. Include in the letter of resignation a statement that the final day of work is the day so indicated on the calendar and identify it by date. Make sure you keep a copy of the signed letter.
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Questions: 1) Should I be honest when I resign or should I say a family-emergency excuse? |
Always be honest. If you lie and it's discovered, you're not only hurting yourself but you're also hurting the rest of us foreign teachers.
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2) Can they deduct airfare or anything else from paycheck after I give notice? |
They can only deduct things authorized by law and the contract (provided those contractual deductions are not themselves illegal).
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3) How long would my visa be valid for after they fire me? |
I believe your visa is void on the date of firing. You get ten days, IIRC, to vacate the country.
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(My wife is giving 60-day notice at her job but should definitely stay to the end - so I'd like to stay 45 days later if they decide to fire me.) |
Check with Immigration to see if you can stay in country with your wife as your sponsor. Of course, you can't work but at least you'll be with her.
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4) Do I have any leverage if they up the job-requirements to try to get loads of extra lesson plans/materials out of me?
Any help would be appreciated as I'm quite worried about what they could try to do me after I give notice. Thanks... |
Whatever's permitted by the contract but not in violation of law is what your supervisor can do.
Have you considered having a talk with the coworker? Tell her that if she's so all-fired interested in making your life miserable, you're not all that interested in making her life any easier. In other words, let her know that you're not helping her out with anything whatsoever that's not a contracted requirement. Tell her the reason you're doing that is because you're not interested in fighting with her and you will not fight with her. If she badmouths you in your hearing, walk up to her and demand she write down what she just said. If she refuses, put on a hurt puppy look and pretend that you're near tears. Say, "I can't believe you're saying such things about me when you know they're not true. If they're true, you'll write them down and then the Principal and I can investigate your charges." Whatever you do, don't badmouth her yourself. Don't fight with her. Don't get into a shouting match with her.
Have you talked with the Vice-Principal or Principal yourself, but with someone else besides the cranky coworker as a translator? Have you talked with the school inspector at the local education office responsible for foreign teachers? |
Lieing to them ; the school, wont make the expat community look any worse then it already does.
ESL in korea has always looked down on the native english teachers. I ve been here since before world cup 2002 ( off and on) and not much has changed.
I believe that when it comes down to it , u really hav to look out for yourself.
Sure in a perfect korea , that whole puppy dog eyes , lets try and be civilised may work.But in the real korea , I think it pays to be a bit of an asshole.
My second year , I got into it with a former director ,in front of all the teachers , and they never bothered me again.They wont even look me in the eye.
U hav to show that u hav nothing to lose. Even though u do |
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gujer
Joined: 31 Jul 2007
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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I am with expat on this one.... you get more problems after your decision to tell them and things just get worse ...normally.
Secondly Central cali talk about doing up the chain..What chain exactly? when no one up the chain speaks your language?
Well this is a tough call however, do what is best for you and which you are able to live with. At the end honesty is the best policy. As was said before , there are other teachers here who might have suffer due to what was done by other teachers.
But this is KOREA after all .  |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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gujer wrote: |
Secondly Central cali talk about doing up the chain..What chain exactly? when no one up the chain speaks your language? |
The person at the provincial office of education who is in charge of the native English teachers does speak English usually. And some of the other Korean teachers may speak English, sometimes they're better at it than the Korean teacher assigned to teach English. If the OP's abusive coworker gets in a snit about having another teacher doing the translation, the OP just has to be honest and tell her straight up he doesn't trust her.
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Well this is a tough call however, do what is best for you and which you are able to live with. At the end honesty is the best policy. As was said before , there are other teachers here who might have suffer due to what was done by other teachers. |
Thanks.
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But this is KOREA after all .  |
Right. But that doesn't mean the OP has to be dishonest in response to dishonesty. As you say, honesty is the best policy. |
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CentralCali
Joined: 17 May 2007
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:13 pm Post subject: Re: Quitting at 6 months at a public school |
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expat2001 wrote: |
Lieing to them ; the school, wont make the expat community look any worse then it already does. |
Yes, it will. It will give more ammunition to those who despise it.
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ESL in korea has always looked down on the native english teachers. |
So your response is to wallow in the mud?
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I ve been here since before world cup 2002 ( off and on) and not much has changed. |
And your suggestion is to make it worse?
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I believe that when it comes down to it , u really hav to look out for yourself.
Sure in a perfect korea , that whole puppy dog eyes , lets try and be civilised may work.But in the real korea , I think it pays to be a bit of an *beep*.
My second year , I got into it with a former director ,in front of all the teachers , and they never bothered me again.They wont even look me in the eye.
U hav to show that u hav nothing to lose. Even though u do |
I think it always pays to be civilized. One can even stand up for oneself in front of other teachers without being a jerk or a stereotypical lout. |
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ESL2007
Joined: 04 May 2007
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 9:16 am Post subject: |
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GEPIK is worse than many of the bad hagwons. Avoid them. They are the Wonderland of the Public Schools. |
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