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Alyallen

Joined: 29 Mar 2004 Location: The 4th Greatest Place on Earth = Jeonju!!!
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 5:53 am Post subject: Foreign students in Britain to be schooled in queuing |
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Foreign students in Britain to be schooled in queuing
Mon Sep 24, 7:05 AM ET
LONDON (AFP) - Foreign students visiting Britain are to be educated in the etiquette of queuing for buses, after local users complained about them not observing the conventions of standing in line.
Southern Vectis, which operates buses on the Isle of Wight, off England's south coast, said it was to contact local language schools following several complaints about the behaviour of young students over the summer months.
"On the Isle of Wight we get lots of foreign language students staying with families," said operations manager March Morgan Huws.
"In their cultures, they do not queue for buses where they live and there is a scrum every time a bus turns up, while in British culture there is a nice orderly queue.
"We have had quite a few complaints from residents who queue up in an orderly fashion then all those foreign students push past them.
"What we have said is that we will work with the language schools to provide some instructions on the etiquette of queuing. We won't be marching the students up and down showing them how to queue, we will just leave it up to the group leaders to pass on the information."
Orderly queuing -- as seen during the recent Northern Rock banking crisis -- is seen as a quintessentially British convention. One social anthropologist believes Britons are even capable of forming one-person queues at bus stops.
But while queue-barging normally leads to tutting, muttered complaints and shuffling to close the gap on anyone looking to barge ahead, most people are too polite to directly confront a transgressor.
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Big_Bird

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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 8:57 am Post subject: |
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I remember my Chinese friend telling me about how when he first went to England, he had no idea about queuing. One day, the bus came and jumped on (he was first) paid his fare and sat down. All the English walked past him and gave him really foul looks. He was a little upset and couldn't figure out why everyone was so angry with him! It wasn't a pleasant experience. It took another similar situation, and an English girl to point out to him what he'd done wrong.
So, it's not self evident, and teaching it is a very good idea. The idea of queuing is quite novel to many visitors to the UK, despite the fact the British are famed throughout the world for it! I'm sure very few students would want to give offense, and would appreciate the heads up. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:11 am Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember my Chinese friend telling me about how when he first went to England, he had no idea about queuing. One day, the bus came and jumped on (he was first) paid his fare and sat down. All the English walked past him and gave him really foul looks. He was a little upset and couldn't figure out why everyone was so angry with him! It wasn't a pleasant experience. It took another similar situation, and an English girl to point out to him what he'd done wrong.
So, it's not self evident, and teaching it is a very good idea. The idea of queuing is quite novel to many visitors to the UK, despite the fact the British are famed throughout the world for it! I'm sure very few students would want to give offense, and would appreciate the heads up. |
As a Canadian, I was amazed to learn from a Brit friend that "standing in line" is not done in some Western countries, such as Germany. The only difference from Brits to Canadians is, if someone "buts in line" in Canada, someone is sure to yell at them "Back of the line bud!" |
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Big_Bird

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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:15 am Post subject: |
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I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
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Njord

Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Location: South Korea
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:20 am Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
Cultural differences really are amazing. I'm an American, so I'm also from a "queuing culture." My first real encounter with this was in Bulgaria where I waited for a bus, watched everyone rush past me and push to get on. I waited again and had this happen to me twice more before I finally just took a taxi. I'd be very curious to hear an explanation of why this develops in some cultures but not in others. It certainly does take some getting used to, going in either direction. |
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Big_Bird

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:23 am Post subject: |
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blaseblasphemener wrote: |
The only difference from Brits to Canadians is, if someone "buts in line" in Canada, someone is sure to yell at them "Back of the line bud!" |
And you could bet the queue jumper would more than likely be one of those nasty Americans from over the border. Probably Gopher or Ya-ta Boy behaving badly and speaking very loudly and nasally (and complaining about the uppity locals, no doubt) while stuffing their face with burgers and freeeeeeeeeeedom fries! 
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Pluto
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:24 am Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
I remember when I spent some time in Spain and France. Nobody ever said "Por favor, perdaneme usted" while getting on Trains or buses. I found it rather odd. Then I went to Brazil, and was even more surprised, its almost as if they had no manners. Then I came to Korea and well, I'll just say I thought South America was bad. It's all relative I suppose.
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And you could bet the queue jumper would more than likely be one of those nasty Americans from over the border. Probably Gopher or Ya-ta Boy behaving badly and speaking very loudly and nasally (and complaining about the uppity locals, no doubt) while stuffing their face with burgers and freeeeeeeeeeedom fries! |
I doubt it, I'm thinking it was Michael Moore 
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:28 am Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
blaseblasphemener wrote: |
The only difference from Brits to Canadians is, if someone "buts in line" in Canada, someone is sure to yell at them "Back of the line bud!" |
And you could bet the queue jumper would more than likely be one of those nasty Americans from over the border. Probably Gopher or Ya-ta Boy behaving badly and speaking very loudly and nasally (and complaining about the uppity locals, no doubt) while stuffing their face with burgers and freeeeeeeeeeedom fries!  |
You're either in the line, or out of line. |
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Big_Bird

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:30 am Post subject: |
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Njord wrote: |
Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
Cultural differences really are amazing. I'm an American, so I'm also from a "queuing culture." My first real encounter with this was in Bulgaria where I waited for a bus, watched everyone rush past me and push to get on. I waited again and had this happen to me twice more before I finally just took a taxi. I'd be very curious to hear an explanation of why this develops in some cultures but not in others. It certainly does take some getting used to, going in either direction. |
It is an interesting question: why does this develop in some cultures, but not in others.
The first time I saw it in full swing was in China. A woman got knocked to the ground and no-one took any notice. I started laughing in amazement and an old man saw me. He looked ashamed and said stuff in Chinese, and everyone quietened down! So it was obvious to him that it wasn't the most impressive behaviour. And if it was obvious to him, then perhaps there is some innate concept that not queuing is somewhat uncouth?  |
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jg
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:56 am Post subject: |
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Yes, all cultures have the queing system, but the problem is getting people to follow it. In China during National Holiday, when more than a quarter billion people are all on vacation at once, there were policeman in the train station controlling the que. I have often seen Chinese yelling at each other about standing in line, and when foreigners are around a lot of Chinese will tend to toe the line (pardon the pun). There have been at least a dozen times that I can recall Chinese people apologizing to me for the rude behavior of others when lines form.
People get away with what they can until the cultural norms catch up to them. Whistling at women and making lewd comments isn't acceptable anywhere in America, is it? Yet I constantly see it. |
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Treefarmer

Joined: 29 May 2007
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 10:00 am Post subject: |
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apparently in iraq fighting to get to the front is a fun social thing like going to the pub
does anyone know if that's true? |
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Kuros
Joined: 27 Apr 2004
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
blaseblasphemener wrote: |
The only difference from Brits to Canadians is, if someone "buts in line" in Canada, someone is sure to yell at them "Back of the line bud!" |
And you could bet the queue jumper would more than likely be one of those nasty Americans from over the border. Probably Gopher or Ya-ta Boy behaving badly and speaking very loudly and nasally (and complaining about the uppity locals, no doubt) while stuffing their face with burgers and freeeeeeeeeeedom fries!  |
Not your best effort, BB.
It would be more accurate to say that if you cut in line in America, you're likely to get shot. There's a perfectly old stereotype from back in the day about Americans on buses that you missed. You're slipping. |
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Juregen
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 7:07 pm Post subject: |
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Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
Yeah
The Dutch and Germans tend to ignore Queuing rules. But Europe is a trite bit bigger then that. |
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Big_Bird

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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Kuros wrote: |
Big_Bird wrote: |
blaseblasphemener wrote: |
The only difference from Brits to Canadians is, if someone "buts in line" in Canada, someone is sure to yell at them "Back of the line bud!" |
And you could bet the queue jumper would more than likely be one of those nasty Americans from over the border. Probably Gopher or Ya-ta Boy behaving badly and speaking very loudly and nasally (and complaining about the uppity locals, no doubt) while stuffing their face with burgers and freeeeeeeeeeedom fries!  |
Not your best effort, BB.
It would be more accurate to say that if you cut in line in America, you're likely to get shot. There's a perfectly old stereotype from back in the day about Americans on buses that you missed. You're slipping. |
Sorry Kuros. I was being way too charitable and gentle, it seems.
I should explain the context of that post, too. A few minutes before I posted that, Ya-ta and Gopher had rebuked blaseblasphemener on another thread, for what they felt were his generalisations of Americans. I couldn't pass up an oppurtunity to tease them all.  |
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Big_Bird

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Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 9:42 pm Post subject: |
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Juregen wrote: |
Big_Bird wrote: |
I remember when I first went ski-ing in Europe, and I couldn't believe all the pushing and shoving getting on the ski lift. I was still a girl, and I couldn't believe that educated adults were pushing me out the way! It took some getting used to. You would think that orderly queuing would be quite logical in any society, but apparently it is not. |
Yeah
The Dutch and Germans tend to ignore Queuing rules. But Europe is a trite bit bigger then that. |
There were Europeans from various corners of Western Europe at the resort. But I remember Germans and French in particular, though they weren't the only culprits. |
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