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PeterDragon · Joined: 15 Feb 2007

The K-Girl I've been trying to date just told me flat-out that she likes me and that we should go out soon. In Confucian fashion however, she has no suggestions for where to go, and looks at me blankly every time I ask her opinion on the matter.

I'm drawing a blank, and I don't want to add to the massive pile of cultural mistakes I've already made with this girl so far. (And yes, it is my female co-worker, as mentioned in my last pathetic-scramble-for-advice thread...)

So.... Nory-bang? DVD-Bang? The movies? A restaurant? A bar? Back home, I always took girls back out to bowling alleys, does that fly here?

Atavistic · Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 5:10 pm Post subject:

You really are clueless, aren't you? Laughing

R-Seoul · Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Location: your place

Treat her as you would a child, children hate/can't make decisions. Decide what you want to do and then tell (don't ask) her the plan, including all minor details such as time, which subway station exit to meet at etc.
A good place would be a comfortable venue where the alcohol flows, such as Brix in Hongdae. Keep the conversation light and about her, act the clown do not get involved in any serious discussions/ask her opinion on world events - you will only be disappointed.
Pack a johnny...

cbclark4 · Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Location: Masan

Dunkin Donuts.

Or

Baskin Robbins.

Too soon for dinner and movie.

GoldMember · Joined: 24 Oct 2006

Be a Man! You make all the decisions, you tell her what to do.
Stop being pusi whipped.
Take her somewhere you want to go, who cares where she wants to go.

Whatever you do, don't take here somewhere where there are lots of korean guys. There's bound to be a Kok Blocker somewhere in the group.

One thing I do admire about Korean men is that they take charge.

Bibbitybop · Joined: 22 Feb 2006 Location: Seoul

Take her to Hongdae and tell her there's a good chance you'll make her famous on a TV documentary.

Scotticus · Joined: 18 Mar 2007

oldfatfarang · Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.

You won't go far wrong taking her to a love motel.

nateium · Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Location: Seoul

crusher_of_heads

jdog2050 · Joined: 17 Dec 2006

wo buxihuan hanguoren · Joined: 18 Apr 2007 Location: Suyuskis

This has to be one of the most ridiculous questions I've ever had the misfortune of reading on this board.

I think it is safe to assume that this is the OP's first date EVER, so maybe I need to cut him some slack, so I will tone down what I am going to say here:

PATHETIC.

VanIslander · Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:18 pm Post subject:

Take her to second base

Atavistic · Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:34 pm Post subject:

indytrucks · Joined: 09 Apr 2003 Location: The Shelf