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Alyallen



Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Location: The 4th Greatest Place on Earth = Jeonju!!!

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 6:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When did I get the hang of it? To be honest, I'm not sure. My first job was ok I thought I had the hang of it but ended up getting fired after 4 months. My next job was great. I stayed the year and I can honestly say that I felt comfortable teaching there. My current school has been quite alright. There have been some highs and lows but overall I have felt fairly comfortable in all my jobs except the first. And all the jobs were the same age range: elementary school age.

Here's a question for you, OP. When you wake up and prepare to go to work, how do you feel? Do you have a pit in your stomach or feel a sense of impending doom? That's how I felt with my first job from day 1 up until I was fired. I never had that feeling after I left. So perhaps if you feel that way, maybe it's a sign to switch schools? Especially since this is your first time teaching, you don't want this experience to color your perception of teaching that age group.
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Snowkr



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To Tomato

The hogwan is in Wonju.
The kids are mostly rich kids and probably very spoiled but they never got away with much at the school. The parents were behind the policy 100%. The director was all about teaching and English immersion. He taught as well.

When he interviewed me and told me the kids spoke English in the school all day, I didn't believe it either. Then I saw it with my own eyes. At first I thought it as a bit cruel... especially for the really little ones.
Still Korean was only used in real emergencies. I always had mixed feelings about it as it is THEIR country.

I remember going to Outback Steakhouse to celebrate one child's bday during a school day and the kids went balistic when the waitresses started speaking Korean. They shouted "No Korean... only English!!"

Good school. A bit strict. The program was full on. The children were bilingual after 24 months. I've not seen anything like it anywhere else.
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alyallen wrote:

Here's a question for you, OP. When you wake up and prepare to go to work, how do you feel? Do you have a pit in your stomach or feel a sense of impending doom? That's how I felt with my first job from day 1 up until I was fired. I never had that feeling after I left. So perhaps if you feel that way, maybe it's a sign to switch schools? Especially since this is your first time teaching, you don't want this experience to color your perception of teaching that age group.


I usually feel a bit miserable when I'm at school prepping before hand. I'm often worried about how the day will go, and my anxiety tripples if its a Monday, Wednesday or Friday (the days when there are five young classes and only two older classes). Tuesdays and Thursdays are fine and usually bring me little dread, as I only have two wee classes and the rest are older one on ones, or one on twos.

There was a point where a lot of our bad kids left the school and I started to feel better about things, but recently the classes that were originally bad and then became good, became bad again because new students were added. Some kids who weren't ringleaders before now are to the new students, who seem to be really impressionable.

I think I'm going to stay with it for the full year. Quitting really isn't an option for a number of reasons (namely, my hagwon would go under if I did and I genuinely like my staff and wouldn't do that to them--also, if I were to quit I'd lose a valuable network of friends and acquaintances). You know, if I was at a bigger hagwon and I had this many problems I probably would have been fired already, however if I were at a bigger hagwon the kids might've been better behaved and I probably would've been fine.

I believe the problem is partly with me, being a new teacher and all, and partly a problem inherent in the hagwon for not having a discipline system implemented. I should give them credit as they really are trying to implement one, but it feels as if the system is too little too late.

I'm at school now and I think I'm going to overprep today and really work on controlling my students. I have one class today that a SuperTeacher couldn't control, as they're the equivalent of five ADHD kids given crystal meth and PCP, but I think if I at least make a couple of good classes out of bad classes I will be content with myself. Thats what I intend to do.

A lot of people here are mentionning fun activities and games I should play with them. I try inventing my own games/learning activities around the social studies textbook, but they rarely work. Some of them are initially met with a "NOOOOOOOO TEACHAAAAAA!!!" response, others get old after five minutes. Anyone have any ideas for games I could play that help kids remember vocabulary and concepts from a social textbook? Something that could be instituted on the fly?

That'd be helpful. I'd like to write them down somewhere.
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When they do NOOOOOOOOOOOOO TEEEAAAAACCHHHHHHHAAAAA you switch to having them WRITE to learn vocab.

A day of that and they want to play games again.

The Bomb Game and Connect Four are both great and you need very little material. Have THEM make Go Fish cards and play Go Fish. A pair of matching cards is great for memory or Go Fish or any other number of card games.

And yeah, classes can shift when new kids get added--sit on the new kids until they know what YOU expect.

I have had hellish students, students I had no idea how to work with, students who called my a white wh*re or brought knives to school. But most bad students just need a heavy hand WITH a big heart.
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Alyallen



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first job only had 2 foreign teachers: myself and the other who happened to be one of my 2 bosses. Give your one month's notice and you can leave without leaving anyone in the lurch. I remained friends with Korean teacher at my school despite my firing and am good friends who the woman who replaced me.

I respect your decision but in this situation, I think it's best to look out for yourself first before worrying about other who obviously don't respect you (the students) or are too what timid, indifferent, noplussed to tell you something was wrong sooner...

Good luck!
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Jizzo T. Clown



Joined: 27 Mar 2006
Location: at my wit's end

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 7:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Something I used for teaching vocab to little ones was this:

Draw some funny picture on the board next to each word you're teaching--try to make it represent the word you're teaching (scales for justice or whatever). Then go through the list and have the class repeat after you the first time through. Then have them read the word without any help from you. Erase the last letter from each word and go through them again. Then erase another letter, then another. You can then start to mix up the order in which you point to the words. Finally all that's left is the pictures. Then erase the pictures and point to the places on the board where they were.
for example (and this is only for one word--I would do at least 6):

Smile Happy

Smile Happ

Smile Hap

Smile Ha

Smile H

Smile

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This seems to grab their attention and they don't really know that they're playing a memory game.
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 1:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Atavistic wrote:
When they do NOOOOOOOOOOOOO TEEEAAAAACCHHHHHHHAAAAA you switch to having them WRITE to learn vocab.

A day of that and they want to play games again.


Atavistic is right.
If they don't act right when I use a fun activity, I go back to the textbook.
Usually I have to do that only once.

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The Bomb Game and Connect Four are both great and you need very little material.


You got me here.
What are the Bomb Game and Connect Four?

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Have THEM make Go Fish cards and play Go Fish.

A pair of matching cards is great for memory or Go Fish or any other number of card games.


I'm not as stern as Atavistic. I make Go Fish cards myself.
For each match, I put the word and picture on one card and the word only on the other card.
Including the two games which Atavistic mentioned, I know of four games you can play with a Go Fish deck:

Go Fish

Naturally. Go Fish doesn't seem to have disseminated into Korea. You will have to teach them how to play the game.

Old Maid

Old Maid doesn't seem to have disseminated into Korea either, so you will have to teach them how to play this game too.

You don't have to make an old maid card. Instead, discard one card at the beginning of the game, but don't look at the card and don't let anyone else look. At the end of the game, it will become apparent which card you discarded.

Concentration

Or "the Memory Game" or "the Matching Game," whichever name you want to call it. I have never had to explain this game, so I think it has disseminated into Korea--unless, of course, it started in Korea and dissiminated into our culture.

Bango

This is, in essence, Bingo without the boards and markers. Deal out the cards, keeping one of each match for yourself. Shuffle the ones you keep for yourself. Show each card and take the matching card from whichever player has that card. The first player who runs out of cards wins.

The first time I play the game, I show the cards so that they can match the words by sight. After a few sessions of this, it's no more Mister Nice Guy.

And yeah, classes can shift when new kids get added--sit on the new kids until they know what YOU expect.

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But most bad students just need a heavy hand WITH a big heart.


True. It's hard enough to find a teacher with one or the other, to say nothing of finding a teacher with one AND the other.

I hope nobody thinks I have it all down pat just because I'm dispensing advice.
One of my MWF classes was a real terror last time.
But I confiscated all the items which were distracting the students--almost enough to open up a store--and punished the class with no games.
One child refused to go to the time-out chair, so I escorted her while she screamed and kicked.
The director was in the next room and he didn't say boo.
But that proved that I wasn't such a pushover after all.
This time, they were easier to handle.
I say easiER.
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Holy crap guys... I don't know what it is, but this morning as I was on Dave's I decided that I was really going to up the ante in my classes. I didn't have a concrete idea of how, but I knew it would involve a lot more intensity from me and a lot more disciplinary actions as well (realistic, concrete ones that were easy for the kids to understand). I felt like I simply had to get this control problem dealt with, once and for all.

I did three things: I made homework sheets, so if they don't do their homework then they get and X. If they get three Xs, then there is a call home. If they get five checks, then there is a reward (ice cream, et cetera).

I also made a "BAD STUDENTS" sheet. It has the picture of the monkey from Family Guy on it (pointing monkey), and below the picture it says: "If your name is on the sheet, we will call your parents".

At the beginning of each class I explained these sheets. It only took a few minutes to explain, even to the youngest classes, and it helped. Majorly.

The third thing that helped a lot was completely dominating them for the first part of class. I thought this would take way too much energy on my part (I thought I would have to be that intense/loud all class), but once I did it for the first ten minutes or so, the class became easier, they behaved better and I found I could sail through the rest of the class.

I also prepared really well. I put up the facade of being really prepared, and made sure I didn't mope or meander in class. The act seemed to make an impression.

Normally Fridays are terrible and nothing gets accomplished because I have five bad classes that day. However, today, my worst classes were acting better than my best classes were every other day! I know what I did today was the right thing to do. After a lot of stress, I finally have a concrete way to control my classes.

I have to think of more game ideas and things like that, but the fact that I actually taught stuff all day long (in every class) without being majorly interrupted (as I said, I completely dominated them to the point where they wouldn't talk to each other, just to me), is amazing. The only time I had to take real disciplinary action was when a kid took his homework to the window and opened it five minutes after I told him never to touch the window. I wrote his name on the "BAD STUDENT" page and he became very upset.

I told him I would erase it at the end of class, only if he was good for the duration. What'ya know, he was.

Oh man, I'm so happy. I feel like I just took a major step closer towards my goal here. Today was the best series of classes I've had in about two months, and back then they were only good because many parents were called. They were good this time for me and me alone.
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
Location: How totally stupid that Korean doesn't show in this area.

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 2:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tomato wrote:
Atavistic wrote:

The Bomb Game and Connect Four are both great and you need very little material.


You got me here.
What are the Bomb Game and Connect Four?


I got both of these from the GEPIK orientation.

BOMB GAME

Bomb game...make pieces of paper with points of them. How many points you want, doesn't really matter. Also make one or two cards with one bomb on them, and make one card with two bombs on it. Put those cards on the wall in a grid so you can't see the points.

We'll imagine our grid is 4 by 4. Across the top write four things. I'm doing this next week with fourth grade. So... hat, pencil, jacket, puppy. Down the side write four more things. We'll say purple, small, cute, big.

Divide the class into teams. They have to make a sentence with one thing across the top and one across the side. Say they say "Is this your purple hat?" Go to purple, go to hat, where they meet, flip that card over. They get whatever points are on that card.

IF a team gets ONE bomb, they lose all of their points. If a team gets two bombs, BOTH teams lose their points.

You can also make some of the points a second color (like red) and the opposing team gets the points. Team A makes a sentence with a red point card--team B gets the points! Team with the most points wins.

CONNECT FOUR
This is like the game you played as a kid. Make a grid on the board, write words across the top (or put pictures up, whatever). Divide the class into two teams. Each team has to make a sentence (or use the target grammar pattern) with the word. When they do that, they drop all the way to the bottom, to the next empty square.

First team to get four in a row wins.

My kids LOVE this game, but saying the same words can get boring, so after the first link of four is made, I'll change the vocabulary across the top. After the second, I'll switch it again. It keeps it from being too easy or getting too boring.

A game that I "thought up" on my own, based on those two, was tic-tac-toe. Make a grid and put words across the top and down the side like the bomb game. When the student makes a sentence, put an X or O where the two words/phrases used meet. First team with four (or three for a small grid) in a row wins.

Let me know if I need to explain any of these more fully.


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I'm not as stern as Atavistic. I make Go Fish cards myself.
For each match, I put the word and picture on one card and the word only on the other card.


I think I might teach older kids than you, Tomato. In any case, I don't always make them make them, but when they do make them, they tend to take more ownership.

BTW, a website I use a lot is ESL-Kids.com. http://www.esl-kids.com/ I think it's probably best for elementary and kindy, but others might find some ideas, too.

They have printable flash cards on a range of topics (hellllllo, Go Fish cards!), a lot of the "worksheets" are really games.

You know how Korean kids love rock, scissors, paper? You can make a game of that. I often mix two or three topics together, then print, cut, glue, etc to get a really big game board. I don't know why the kids love it, but they do.
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 2:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IncognitoHFX wrote:

I did three things: I made homework sheets, so if they don't do their homework then they get and X. If they get three Xs, then there is a call home. If they get five checks, then there is a reward (ice cream, et cetera).


I have another homework idea. You'll have to decide how to make this work for you, I'll tell you how it worked for me in the States.

I taught elementary, so I had the same kids alllll day long. At the start of the week, the board was empty. If the whole class acted wild, I wrote H on the board. The next time, O. At the end of the week, if they had HOMEWORK on the board, that's what they got. If they were especially horrible, I added checks, each check was another piece of homework.

You would have to make a chart for each class. Maybe at the end of a month if it doesn't spell HOMEWORK, you erase it and start over? I know that my kids could act crazy once a day without getting homework, which some teachers would freak out about, but I also had them ALL DAY. I'm guessing you only have your kids for one or two hours at a time, so maybe one month would be a good start.

Also, if they DO NOT spell homework at the end of whatever period you choose DO NOT GIVE THEM ANY! Give them a break.

I personally thought weekends should be for families and fun, not homework, and my kids and parents never complained. This being Korea, however... If you normally give homework, maybe you could do it backwards. Give them a letter if they are ALL STELLAR (this is a whole class thing) and when they spell the word (however long they takes), give them a day off.
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Atavistic



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 3:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One more thing.

I know this will sound funny, but I think a lot of times teachers try to let the good kids do special things. Sometimes, get the bad kid to do it.

Minsu is pinching his neighbor. Instead of scolding Minsu, say, "Minsu!" to get his attention. Then redirect him, "Can you open the blinds for me?" (Sharpen these pencils, hold this book, dance with me, hand out these worksheets, whatever.)

He will be so shocked that you aren't screaming at him that he'll stare at you. Just pretend that you didn't see him pinching and nicely ask him, again, to do whatever you want.

If he refuses to do it, choose another student and then reward them with a sticker, candy, letting them leave early, whatever. MAKE sure Minsu KNOWS that that student is rewarded but DON'T rub it in. (DO not reward Minsu if he does it in the first place. Your goal is just to redirect him. You are rewarding the second student, in essence, for not letting Minsu rub off on them.)

You would think this rewards them, but you don't always do this. Just enough to redirect them sometimes.

Teaching is odd...kids NEED a routine, but YOU should not be a routine teacher.

If you sometimes randomly wipe out all of the bad points every student has earned ("because you've all been so good lately") or if you randomly reward students when they don't expect it, it tends to keep them all a little more aware.

Hope that makes sense.
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Mr Freeze



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 10:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let's face it Incognito, if you can't teach these little brats, you never will be able to to. I had the same problem. It doesn't make you a bad teacher... a bad babysitter maybe, but not a bad teacher. These dumb games and disciplinary tactics don't work.

The best thing you can do is suck it up and finish your contract. Then, next time, avoid any job where you have to teach those little brats.

I think the best response was given by Ya Bum Suk. Go with that one.
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