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Masta_Don
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Hyehwa-dong, Seoul
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I wonder:
If a man goes in to get a massage and a girl is giving him one, and starts "touching" him in various private places, typically said guy not only doesn't complain, he is glad at the "extra" service.
Perhaps, the guy thought he was just providing you with the same thing? |
In a haze of naivety and exhaustion, I ended up in such a situation in Hong Kong. She tried to get me hot and bothered but the following thoughts were going thru my head: she's ugly, I'm beat, she's not turning me on, and I won't pay for sex. I guess 'A handjob isn't worth the time it takes to get one' should have been there too, but it wasn't on my mind. Once she dimmed the lights and made the international jerk off motion, I shook my head no, and we continued on with the best massage I've ever received.
My female friend, who ended up in a similar situation, simply said, "That's far enough. Here's my money," and left.
...and that's how I found out that they finger your ass at massage parlors in Thailand. |
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RJjr
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 10:45 am Post subject: |
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Why did you let him carry on? Why did you scream the first time he did it and demanded a change of masseuse?
I feel for you - but I can't help but think that if you did take it so seriously, you would've stopped him half way during the massage and not until the end. |
I don't see where she said she waited until the end. When I read it, I was imagining her getting pissed and abruptly leaving during the massage. The bottom line is that he shouldn't have done it the first time unless she had given him her phone number and he was already at her apartment. And doing it the second time is WAY over the top.
The masseuse was 100% in the wrong. The OP was even cool enough to give him the benefit of the doubt until the masseuse made the extra effort to remove all doubt and further abuse her. |
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cubanlord
Joined: 08 Jul 2005
Location: In Japan!
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:25 pm Post subject: |
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| tzechuk wrote: |
| I feel for you |
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaauuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.....and thus, she continues to shine with her entrances.... |
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Mr. Pink
Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Hyeon Een wrote: |
| Mr. Pink wrote: |
I wonder:
If a man goes in to get a massage and a girl is giving him one, and starts "touching" him in various private places, typically said guy not only doesn't complain, he is glad at the "extra" service.
Perhaps, the guy thought he was just providing you with the same thing? |
Dude seriously. That's pretty insenstive.
Didn't you ever read the book "Men Like to be touched up by chicks they don't know; Women feel violated when random guys do it though" ? It's a classic in the field.
Partly because of its rhyming title but mostly because its true. Men really are from I-Like-Chicks-To-Jerk-Me-Off-Even -When-I-Don't-know-them and women ARE from if-a-dude-i-don't-know-and-don't-like-touches-me-I'm-gonna-
wanta-cut-his-balls-off.
These experiences are subjective based on gender and orientation. Most of the guys I know who like to be j*cked off by random chick masseuses get uncomfortable when it's a dude masseur grabbing their half-a-chopstick.
If that dude wants to touch up chicks he should go work at TinPan or some dodgy bar in Itaewan. |
Are you a comedian? Calling me insensitive for asking an honest question, while you go into details? Thanks for the chuckle.
| Masta_Don wrote: |
| Mr. Pink wrote: |
I wonder:
If a man goes in to get a massage and a girl is giving him one, and starts "touching" him in various private places, typically said guy not only doesn't complain, he is glad at the "extra" service.
Perhaps, the guy thought he was just providing you with the same thing? |
In a haze of naivety and exhaustion, I ended up in such a situation in Hong Kong. She tried to get me hot and bothered but the following thoughts were going thru my head: she's ugly, I'm beat, she's not turning me on, and I won't pay for sex. I guess 'A handjob isn't worth the time it takes to get one' should have been there too, but it wasn't on my mind. Once she dimmed the lights and made the international jerk off motion, I shook my head no, and we continued on with the best massage I've ever received.
My female friend, who ended up in a similar situation, simply said, "That's far enough. Here's my money," and left.
...and that's how I found out that they finger your ass at massage parlors in Thailand. |
Bolded part had me laughing pretty hard. Shocking Asia anyone?
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:39 pm Post subject: |
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| I can't understand why anyone would want a massage in Korea. Its much cheaper in Thailand and much better. They also communicate to the customer better there is much more of a distinction between the traditional and naughty massage. |
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thebomb
Joined: 13 Nov 2006
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I can't understand why anyone would want a massage in Korea. Its much cheaper in Thailand and much better. They also communicate to the customer better there is much more of a distinction between the traditional and naughty massage. |
What a dumbass comment! So you are saying that if somebody wants a massage and they live in Korea, because it's cheaper and better communicated one should go to Thailand. Therefore, upon your advice, the next time I want a massage on a Saturday afternoon, I will just simply pop over to Thailand for an hour or so.  |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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| Report the place to the police. |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 3:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Masta_Don wrote: |
| Mr. Pink wrote: |
I wonder:
If a man goes in to get a massage and a girl is giving him one, and starts "touching" him in various private places, typically said guy not only doesn't complain, he is glad at the "extra" service.
Perhaps, the guy thought he was just providing you with the same thing? |
In a haze of naivety and exhaustion, I ended up in such a situation in Hong Kong. She tried to get me hot and bothered but the following thoughts were going thru my head: she's ugly, I'm beat, she's not turning me on, and I won't pay for sex. I guess 'A handjob isn't worth the time it takes to get one' should have been there too, but it wasn't on my mind. Once she dimmed the lights and made the international jerk off motion, I shook my head no, and we continued on with the best massage I've ever received.
My female friend, who ended up in a similar situation, simply said, "That's far enough. Here's my money," and left.
...and that's how I found out that they finger your ass at massage parlors in Thailand. |
Lol, um no they don't usually.... |
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Scotticus
Joined: 18 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 3:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Report the place to the police. |
Hahahaha. You do realize we're in Korea, right? |
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venus
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Near Seoul
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:13 pm Post subject: |
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| Report the place to the police. |
Hahahaha. You do realize we're in Korea, right? |
I know, I know... BUT if the police got a few visits from teary eyed angry Western women saying they were ready to report it to the papers or the foriegn workers group or whatever, I reckon the cops would be hard and fast on that guys arse telling him to clean his act up... |
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genezorm
Joined: 01 Jul 2007
Location: Mokpo
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
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| Report the place to the police. |
Hahahaha. You do realize we're in Korea, right? |
I know, I know... BUT if the police got a few visits from teary eyed angry Western women saying they were ready to report it to the papers or the foriegn workers group or whatever, I reckon the cops would be hard and fast on that guys arse telling him to clean his act up... |
Maybe she would get arrested a la the metropolitician. |
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nomad-ish
Joined: 08 Oct 2007
Location: On the bottom of the food chain
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
| Scotticus wrote: |
| venus wrote: |
| Report the place to the police. |
Hahahaha. You do realize we're in Korea, right? |
I know, I know... BUT if the police got a few visits from teary eyed angry Western women saying they were ready to report it to the papers or the foriegn workers group or whatever, I reckon the cops would be hard and fast on that guys arse telling him to clean his act up... |
i don't believe they hold western women in high esteem over here.... she could try though, it could make a difference |
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RJjr
Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Turning on a Lamp
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Report the place to the police. |
No, I hope that she nor any other foreigner would be as stupid as me and report a crime to the Seoul police. I learned my lesson, as have many others. Don't be stupid like us.
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twg
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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| venus wrote: |
| Report the place to the police. |
There are no police in Korea |
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loose_ends
Joined: 23 Jul 2007
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 6:35 pm Post subject: Re: Warning for women who get massages @ turtle in itaewon |
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i've gone to the green turtle massage place in itaewon for massages for a long time, but this was a first tonight:
there's no need to go into too much detail...basically, i was molested by a new male masseuse there. i went in for a massage and was groped,grabbed, and massaged unprofessionally and inappropriately twice. put together with a few comments on beauty and race, i felt completely disgusted. i walked out and told the guy at the front desk...i wish i could've told a woman, but he runs the place pretty much. what pissed me off the most: he kept his eyes down while i told him quite loudly and tearfully what happened. he didnt do anything about it. he apologized and said it wouldnt happen again, but i wish he'd fired him right there or punched him or something. *beep* i wish i'd punched the *beep* *beep*.
my friends and i were all good customers... |
i don't even know you but i am willing to knock the guy out for you.
total bullshit.
and i'm serious about my offer. |
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