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OBXman7



Joined: 05 Jan 2008
Location: on baboshirts.com

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:24 pm    Post subject: Newbie rant Reply with quote

I'm very new to this forum, but I am not new to living and working in Korea. What's with all the animosity on this board? I initially used this board to search for very useful information before I decided to take the plunge and join. I will continue posting and hopefully entertaining or helping someone in the future, but I am a little put off by the urges of particular people to open every post and write something patronizing or unjustifiably critical in an attempt to bash the author. What's up with that?

With people like that, I'm afraid the atmosphere will resemble that of the typical foreigner bar in Korea; a place where people who have been here too long go to talk bad about Korea or TESL. My suggestion to those people is if it's so bad, then leave! So, that being said, if you are someone who just comes here to excessively criticize posts or bash the country in which you live, everyone would probably be better of without you and your .02.

Don't interpret my message wrong, I know it is a bit audacious for a newbie to tell anyone on this board anything, especially to leave, but I just feel the overall demeanor of some remarks can be changed for the better.
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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree, and it's a big reason why many ppl leave this board or don't bother to post (or even read this board). There are friendlier boards out there.... BTW, facebook has some gropus for expats in Korea, as well.

ha ha ha- edit- I meant "groups".......
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caniff



Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Location: All over the map

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some people are justifiably patronized/criticized. Stick around for a while, you'll see what I mean.
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OBXman7



Joined: 05 Jan 2008
Location: on baboshirts.com

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

caniff wrote:
Some people are justifiably patronized/criticized. Stick around for a while, you'll see what I mean.


Fair enough. That's why I was sure to include "excessively."
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Aurora_Redwinters



Joined: 27 Oct 2007
Location: Florida

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Besides Facebook, what other places to Korean expats hang out?

While some of the negativity is justified sometimes, a lot of it is over the top and sounds more like whiney white boys who only came to Korea to get laid by Korean chicks. I wonder how many did the research before deciding to come, since Korea =/= USA, Canada, etc.
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safeblad



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

daves sucks ass

I rarely post anymore because I rarely have anything nice to say and just get sucked into flame wars. I stick around for some info and to give some advice now and then though, i'd like to think ive helped a few people outa little over time.

I do post a little on another nicer less retarted site. I guess i end up back here though because daves is the busiest. Its good to keep a finger on the pulse.
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maddog



Joined: 08 Dec 2005
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know what you mean. There are a few who seem to do nothing but flame others on eslcafe. It's like their lives are so sad and pathetic that all they can do is come on here and try to make others feel just as bad. I'm sure they know who they are. They're probably chuckling at this thread as it makes them feel important.
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Paul_Zerzan



Joined: 26 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 5:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I tried out another board, http://eslcafe.com/. So far, it's been fun.
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Vancouver



Joined: 12 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 5:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

dave's is a bad place for research. You can get good opinions, but a lot of it is Korea bashing. Dave's might be the reason why I'm not too fond of ESl teachers here...generally speaking of course
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endo



Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 6:22 pm    Post subject: Re: Newbie rant Reply with quote

OBXman7 wrote:
I'm very new to this forum, but I am not new to living and working in Korea. What's with all the animosity on this board?


Bite me!


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I initially used this board to search for very useful information before I decided to take the plunge and join. I will continue posting and hopefully entertaining or helping someone in the future, but I am a little put off by the urges of particular people to open every post and write something patronizing or unjustifiably critical in an attempt to bash the author.



Moron!


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What's up with that?


Rolling Eyes


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With people like that, I'm afraid the atmosphere will resemble that of the typical foreigner bar in Korea; a place where people who have been here too long go to talk bad about Korea or TESL.


Idiot!


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My suggestion to those people is if it's so bad, then leave!


Right after you jerk-off!


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So, that being said, if you are someone who just comes here to excessively criticize posts or bash the country in which you live, everyone would probably be better of without you and your .02.


huh? douchebag!



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Don't interpret my message wrong, I know it is a bit audacious for a newbie to tell anyone on this board anything, especially to leave, but I just feel the overall demeanor of some remarks can be changed for the better.








Actually normally I would partially agree with you, but after this incident

http://forums.eslcafe.com/korea/viewtopic.php?t=109891

you showed your true colors a-hole! Anything comming to you is quite deserved.





You also have to realize that some of the negative comments on this forum are in fact cynical and quite humorous.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 6:22 pm    Post subject: