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What's The Ideal Age To Come And Live And Work In Korea?
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What is the ideal age to come and live and work in South Korea?
Almost immediately after graduation
26%
 26%  [ 24 ]
25-29
41%
 41%  [ 38 ]
30-34
7%
 7%  [ 7 ]
35-39
3%
 3%  [ 3 ]
40-49
1%
 1%  [ 1 ]
50+
2%
 2%  [ 2 ]
Age is only a number
17%
 17%  [ 16 ]
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twg



Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: Getting some fresh air...

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I said fresh out of university because of the hope that the ESL mines of Korea can smack the "The world owes me" from their mouths.
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maddog



Joined: 08 Dec 2005
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As I get older I become more and more thick-skinned, so I'd say the later the better. I've seen lots of youngters bail because they are so overwhelmed by the place.

More important than age is experience. People who have experience of teaching or living abroad or both seem to do much better than 22-year-old grads fresh out of uni. Of course, anyone used to a topsy-turvy lifestyle should be fine.

MD
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Chris Kwon



Joined: 23 Jan 2008
Location: North Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cognorati wrote:
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I am half black



Therein lies the reason you got the offers: Koreans are anti-black racists, and at that, are racist against the shade of Black.

If you are of a certain complexion, you are going to experience discrimination in Korea.

Please do not speak for all people of African descent living in Korea if you are not in their shoes, and do not give the world a false impression of what Korea is like for Africans and African descendants.

Black posters on this board have posted accounts of being discriminated against, having their tires slashed, and being called the Korean equivalent of a *beep* by coworkers and students. Posters have also submitted news articles where Korean employers stated, frankly, that only white candidates need apply.

At my job, I know FOR A FACT of overt hiring discrimination based on race, ethnicity, and even the shade of the people in question.

The United Nations has issued a statement about Korean racism, and many of us who consider ourselves people of conscience know that Korean racism is a violation of human rights.

No offense, but you are probably the most negative poster on this board. If someone was to read all of your posts what would they see? Can't say I've ever seen you posting anything positive, I think you either attract negative events into your life with your attitude, or interpret everything as racist, sexist or some sort of other discriminatory factor.
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bejarano-korea



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I only speak for myself but if I would have came here at the age of 22, I would have done time because I would have planted some poor Korean sap.

This is not a place for quick impulses or short tempers which is what a lot of younger people are all about. It is not a place where you are allowed to get wound up and 'lose it'

The older you get the more you can laugh things off, the more comfortable you are in your own skin.

None of my kids in the school call me fat or big face or whatever because they know it does not bother me one iota - when I was younger it would have made me angry because I didn't have the self assurdness thats comes with age, I like being me and know what I'm about and when Koreans see it, they don't even try to challenge it.

I like to go to work, do a good job, go home and relax, last thing I want is to be puking my guts out with a load of new Canadian friends outside O'Briens - thank god for being 35!
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Dome Vans
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

maddog wrote:
As I get older I become more and more thick-skinned, so I'd say the later the better. I've seen lots of youngters bail because they are so overwhelmed by the place.

More important than age is experience. People who have experience of teaching or living abroad or both seem to do much better than 22-year-old grads fresh out of uni. Of course, anyone used to a topsy-turvy lifestyle should be fine.

MD


Gotta agree with this. I came here when I was 29, I'd lived in Sweden for 5 years so had a fair bit of experience of a foreign language country and the pressures of living abroad. So coming to Korea entailed no culture shock at all, which kind of surprised me. You learn to let things pass without reacting, which I think is very important. It's not your culture, you can't change it so don't let it affect you. Move on, get on with what you're doing, ignore the rest. This is true for living in most countries. You can never really understand the mindset because you have not been brought up that way. It's the same if people went to England, there's probably plenty that people don't understand but you let it go.

I had a couple of teachers that I've mentored when they arrived first and I noticed that there was a Canadian friend who'd lived abroad before and apart from a difficult first couple of months in Korea and help from me she now loves being in Korea. She has friends in a neighbouring city who are from the same area and they have never worked abroad. They refuse to eat Korean food, make blatant remarks about Koreans to their faces, have no interest in engaging the culture. Problem is one is 28 the other is 37. But the lack of understanding of culture, or just ignorance that this ain't home, has made me not quite understand the mindset.

But as Tzechuk said on the first page, this isn't everybody. Many fresh out of college people come here, land a good job, work hard and enjoy the experience. It think in most cases it seems to be a decision that is taken too likely by people. Moving half way across the globe is a big decision and I think when you are sure about it after research if gives the most benefit and this primarily comes with age. When you get older the next step is always a little better planned, when you're younger nothing can touch you really, which is why there can be a bit of a sting in the tail from Korea. Coming to Korea was one of the best decisions I've made, a few years then off, but will always be one that opened my eyes a lot and given me a lot of confidence as well.
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree. If I hadn't started working in Russia at 22, I'd have no comparison for Korea. I've yet to see a bloody corpse yet, and I don't think it is going to happen here. But I think Gangwon-do gets the crazier, tougher, people. If you need people you go to Seoul.
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articulate_ink



Joined: 23 Mar 2004
Location: Left Korea in 2008. Hong Kong now.

PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are pros and cons no matter how you look at it. I'm 37. I came here when I was 34. I've had a fair amount of life experience, I know myself, and I know how to stand up for myself. These things have served me well here. For people entering hagwon jobs, I think being a recent college grad or still in their 20s can be an asset for reasons that have already been discussed. On the other hand, so many people this age are not able to advocate for themselves in the face of shoddy treatment or outright abuse. Saying no is a valuable skill in Korea. Thick skin takes time to acquire, though. Also, there's a tendency on here to equate hagwon jobs with the entire ESL experience here. I can't speak to public school jobs because I have no experience with them, but in the university world, expectations are different. I know a couple of guys who, despite having MAs and some teaching experience in this country, have been unable to land university jobs because they're in their early or mid 20s. Depending on your career goals here, being older than 30 is helpful. Case in point, I helped a friend get a job at my own university a year ago. He was 30. Despite the MA, the university teaching experience, and his time in the country, his age counted against him. Why? Too young. So I'd say that if you want to do the hagwon thing for a couple of years before moving on, sure, the 20s might be the right time. But for the university gigs, it's better to be in your 30s.
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Don Gately



Joined: 20 Mar 2006
Location: In a basement taking a severe beating

PostPosted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 9:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

22 or 23.
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bgreenster



Joined: 06 Feb 2007
Location: too far from the beach

PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I came here at 22, and while it may not be the best for everyone, I think that there are many positives to coming here soon after graduating. For me, I had basically no ties at home- no car, no apartment lease, no "real" job, and I was single... I think being right out of college can be good because you don't feel as much like you are "missing out" back at home. It's not like I had to quit the career path, or give up a higher-paying position; especially since (as someone posted earlier) it's pretty common for people to start entry-level jobs in their mid/late-twenties these days, so it won't be tough to re-enter life back home. Even if I don't want to be a teacher forever, at least I am getting work experience and a reference for when (if) I go back to get a job or go to grad school.

Another positive is that at my age, I am used to living in cheap housing, I actually think the pay is good, and am not yet set in my ways.

But, I do meet other people my age that do not seem to fare as well here because of inexperience and such. Personally, I have had a job since I was 13, studied abroad in university, and stayed in a Nicaraguan fishing village right before moving to Korea, so the move here was super-easy.
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twavelingteacher



Joined: 26 Jun 2007
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 2:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

the best time for someone to come to korea or anywhere else to teach english is when they want to.

i've learned in my life that being true to my own happiness, and being a good, decent person, is what's important.

who cares what other people think?

the happiest and most pleasant guy i ever met was a guy who worked for me in the states. he was 70 years old and the youngest, funnest at heart person i had ever met. he was like a good buddy/friend with lots of wrinkles. he exuded youth.

life is what you make it. just don't live to please others.
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Night Ranger



Joined: 17 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Christ I could have done this job when I was 11 years old. The dog is brown. what is she wearing...whats your favorite ice cream....get your fingers out of my anal cavity. No problem
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eamo



Joined: 08 Mar 2003
Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Young, good looking, white and naive....that's how Korea likes it's foreigners.
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Natalia



Joined: 10 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think the ages are a little weird.

Twenty-four is straight out of university??

I was twenty when I graduated.

By twenty-five I had lived and worked overseas for three years, and had travelled all around the world on my own.

I certainly think I was 'ready' for Korea before the age of twenty-five, and I certainly wouldn't have considered myself a recent graduate at that age.
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ardis



Joined: 20 Apr 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Feb 01, 2008 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tzechuk wrote:
I don't think fresh out of college is a very good option, to be honest.

First, you don't have the maturity required to come here - yeah, I know folks out of college think they are old and mature blah blah blah, I've been there, I've done that and I know that aint so. Korea is such a different place from the West, that fresh graduates often find it such a shock that they become really depressed about things.


I can't agree with this. I came here fresh out of college and I think I'm better for it. First off, I went to a college that wasn't in my hometown so I dealt with the whole 'fish out of water' experience. A lot of older people here whine about things because they're used to the same routines they've done for ages. I'm used to flying by the seat of my pants. Also, living in a small apartment doesn't bother me because I just finished up four straight years of living in tiny apartments with multiple roommates. Again, I've heard a lot of older people who are used to living in large apartments or houses complain about the small living spaces. Finally, many of us who have just graduated are looking for an adventure that can live up the great times we had during our college years, and Korea fit this perfectly. My friends and I have had a great time meeting new people and we seem to be a lot more accepting of this culture than many of the older folks here.
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