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Where Did You Meet Your Korean Partner?
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Where did you first meet your Korean boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife?
We worked together
15%
 15%  [ 32 ]
I was a teacher and he/she was a student
12%
 12%  [ 26 ]
Pub or nightclub
18%
 18%  [ 40 ]
Coffee shop or similar establishment
2%
 2%  [ 5 ]
Church
1%
 1%  [ 4 ]
Internet
21%
 21%  [ 46 ]
Blind date/introduced
9%
 9%  [ 20 ]
Outside of Korea (Please explain)
9%
 9%  [ 20 ]
Other (Please explain)
9%
 9%  [ 20 ]
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catycat



Joined: 05 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I met my hubby in Hodgepodge.

I miss that place!!!
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shaunew



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Calgary

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was introduced to my wife by some friends. We went out as a group ended up sitting beside each other and hit it off. Exchanged numbers met for coffee and then started dating. Over 3 years all ready.
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Scott in Incheon



Joined: 30 Aug 2004

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Met my wife in Canada. I was head teacher at a school and she a student. School had rules about teacher/student meetings even to the point where teachers had to leave a bar if students came in. So students would take teachers out for drinks when their time at the school was up.

My wife and few others students asked me out for drinks. My wife had a couple to get up the courage to ask me out on a date. Couldn't do it. We left together on the subway. She had to change lines. I thought she was a bit drunk and wouldn't make the change so I got off the train and went back to get her. This meant that I would miss the last bus out to my house and have to take a cab to get home. I don't know why I went back...I wouldn't have done that for most students.

She was still sitting on the platform. I thought drunk but actually she was kicking herself for missing he big chance to ask me out. She did...we went out..married...eight years later we have two kids and are extremely happy...
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bluelake



Joined: 01 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Twenty-five years ago, I was first preparing to come to Korea to teach in a high school. I asked to have a faculty member to write to so that I could learn more about the school, city and country. I was introduced to a young teacher and we were penpals for the year prior to my trip. She met my train from Seoul when it pulled into the Kyongju train station. She was my guide, interpreter and best friend; a few months later, I married my best friend--after a quarter-century, she is still my best friend and in every way the same young lady I fell in love with and married.

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debinoxford



Joined: 10 Jan 2008

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

so i met my ex through a friend. it was unwanted actually. i had no intention of dating, but my friend insisted i come to her housewarming party in order to meet a guy. bleh. well, i was pleasantly surprised and we dated for awhile. we were happy, i was nearly convinced i could marry the man. until he decided that he was ready to settle down and get married- but he didnt want to marry me. HUGE shock to me. oh well. guess i wasn't supposed to marry him after all. lol.
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endo



Joined: 14 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul...my home

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scott in Incheon wrote:
Met my wife in Canada. I was head teacher at a school and she a student. School had rules about teacher/student meetings even to the point where teachers had to leave a bar if students came in. So students would take teachers out for drinks when their time at the school was up.

My wife and few others students asked me out for drinks. My wife had a couple to get up the courage to ask me out on a date. Couldn't do it. We left together on the subway. She had to change lines. I thought she was a bit drunk and wouldn't make the change so I got off the train and went back to get her. This meant that I would miss the last bus out to my house and have to take a cab to get home. I don't know why I went back...I wouldn't have done that for most students.

She was still sitting on the platform. I thought drunk but actually she was kicking herself for missing he big chance to ask me out. She did...we went out..married...eight years later we have two kids and are extremely happy...




bluelake wrote:
Twenty-five years ago, I was first preparing to come to Korea to teach in a high school. I asked to have a faculty member to write to so that I could learn more about the school, city and country. I was introduced to a young teacher and we were penpals for the year prior to my trip. She met my train from Seoul when it pulled into the Kyongju train station. She was my guide, interpreter and best friend; a few months later, I married my best friend--after a quarter-century, she is still my best friend and in every way the same young lady I fell in love with and married.




Very Happy Those two are sweet. And I can't believe I just used that word, but seriously that was nice.
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kiwiduncan



Joined: 18 Jun 2007
Location: New Zealand

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Great stories so far. As for me... well, I live in hope.
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Roch



Joined: 24 Apr 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 3:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bluelake wrote:
Twenty-five years ago, I was first preparing to come to Korea to teach in a high school. I asked to have a faculty member to write to so that I could learn more about the school, city and country. I was introduced to a young teacher and we were penpals for the year prior to my trip. She met my train from Seoul when it pulled into the Kyongju train station. She was my guide, interpreter and best friend; a few months later, I married my best friend--after a quarter-century, she is still my best friend and in every way the same young lady I fell in love with and married.


Were you a Peace Corp volunteer?

Also, what was Korea like back then?

Thanks a bundle for your time.

R
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bluelake



Joined: 01 Dec 2005

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 3:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Roch wrote:
bluelake wrote:
Twenty-five years ago, I was first preparing to come to Korea to teach in a high school. I asked to have a faculty member to write to so that I could learn more about the school, city and country. I was introduced to a young teacher and we were penpals for the year prior to my trip. She met my train from Seoul when it pulled into the Kyongju train station. She was my guide, interpreter and best friend; a few months later, I married my best friend--after a quarter-century, she is still my best friend and in every way the same young lady I fell in love with and married.


Were you a Peace Corp volunteer?

Also, what was Korea like back then?

Thanks a bundle for your time.

R


Nah, I was here independently (I think, IIRC, the Peace Corps in Korea ended before I was here in '84).

Korea was at the very edge between a traditional, agrarian society and one that was rapidly industrializing. Here are a few things different between then and now.

It was common to still see farmers tilling their mom & pop paddies with oxen.

To make an international phone call, you dialed the operator (all rotary phones), gave her the number, and she called you a half-hour later to connect you with your party.

Few middle-class private citizens owned cars. For the most part, the only cars were driven by taxis and rich people.

Electricity was 110v.

Mail was routinely opened up by the government and they wanted you to know it.

Those are just a few things that immediately spring to mind.
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bejarano-korea



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 3:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kiwiduncan wrote:
Great stories so far. As for me... well, I live in hope.


Mate, we are in the wrong place... Seoul is where it is at!

I've seen your photo... you are a good looking bloke... I bet you would have your pick in Seoul!

The year after next... I'm coming to Seoul! Cool
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nicholas_chiasson



Joined: 14 Jun 2007
Location: Samcheok

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 4:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't believe Korean women exist. I don't believe foreigners date them. I am also a very cranky guy in g-do.
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Horangi Munshin



Joined: 06 Apr 2003
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A bunch of locals and foreigners left a bar and went to a dongdongju place. My wife and I got talking there. Met about a week later and started dating.
Almost 7 years ago now.

Been married over 5 years. One kid about to turn 4 and second one will be one this summer! Time flies!!
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samd



Joined: 03 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Met her in the states, followed her here. Hopefully I'll end up like the rest of you long-termers.
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nobbyken



Joined: 07 Jun 2006
Location: Yongin ^^

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

We were both volunteers at the WEC International HQ near London.

I came from Scotland for 2 weeks, just as she was in the last 3 weeks of a 4 month stint.
Her English was very limited, as was that of the Korean guy working with me. The 3 of us used to share breaks together, and we both felt God pushing us together.
Now been married for about 16 months, and we got a beautiful baby daughter, Grace, as a first anniversary gift.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 6:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've met my K-gfs and F-buddies through a variety of different ways, I don't think I've met one the same way twice: work together, student, language exchange partner, internet, blind date, and bar (edit: forgot to add interent cafe, and most recently, my teacher).

The ones that lasted the longest were the language exchange partner and the bar, going on for several years each. The first K-gf I had was a co-worker at my first haggie job. We would have dated longer, but she went off to England for a year and by the time she came back, I had moved to Seoul.


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