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Greet an Expat: Yes or No |
Yes, always |
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Yes, sometimes |
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No, not usually |
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Quack Addict

Joined: 31 Mar 2008 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:40 pm Post subject: What's your take on greeting expats on the street? |
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When you see any expat on the street, store, subway, etc. do you greet them? Or do you pull out your cell phone and check nothing? Or does it depend on the looks of the foreign person? Or is it your mood? What say you? |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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In my little town, I say hello. I know all of them now. If someone makes eye contact somewhere else, a polite nod suffices. |
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Quack Addict

Joined: 31 Mar 2008 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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Head nod is good. Especially in Korea. A quick hello is also appropriate. Only if eye contact is made. I don't go out my way to greet someone. But I never blow someone off if they greet me. That seems to be popular with expats as well. |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:16 pm Post subject: |
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If I knew them I would greet them (if I felt like it) otherwise, NO...why would I? |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:17 pm Post subject: |
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spliff wrote: |
If I knew them I would greet them (if I felt like it) otherwise, NO...why would I? |
I'm glad you asked.
It would help you overcome your poor social skills.
You are welcome. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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if i see a fellow expat it's the same as if I saw someone from my university whom I recognized but did not know
I politely greet if greeted; I might initiate a greeting or not
(depending on how I feel and how they look: many expats in this country walk around as if there is a cloud over their head, either malcontent or self-absorbed or simply looking vacant) |
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PeteJB
Joined: 06 Jul 2007
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:10 pm Post subject: |
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Usually there is a cloud over my head, so I don't notice other expats as a rule. I just get on with my intensive thinking like always and might occasionally make a mental note that I just possibly saw another foreigner. This is how I went about my business back home, and here too. I think too much. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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Why? Do we share some secret bond because we have the same skin colour? |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:19 pm Post subject: |
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poet13 wrote: |
In my little town, I say hello. I know all of them now. If someone makes eye contact somewhere else, a polite nod suffices. |
Ditto for me, though usually not with foreign labourers, unless they look like they want to meet me. There was one FT I'd make a point of avoiding. I was walking down Hicksville's high street one day wearing the pink shirt my students love so much when I passed him. He sort of gave me a 'look at the poof' look as I have him a 'look at the slob' look. Now that he's gone I always stop to greet waegooks - in my small town. In big cities I really don't have the time of day for them. |
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pidgin

Joined: 31 Jul 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:19 pm Post subject: |
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crusher_of_heads wrote: |
spliff wrote: |
If I knew them I would greet them (if I felt like it) otherwise, NO...why would I? |
I'm glad you asked.
It would help you overcome your poor social skills.
You are welcome. |
For me, it's mood. And if they look anything like Spliff....I give em' a miss. |
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nicholas_chiasson

Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Location: Samcheok
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:20 pm Post subject: |
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for the ten million time, this answer is very very dependent on where you are and what you are doing!! In Itaewon-no. In a town of 50,000, I think talking to anybody who isn't Korean is a fair thing to do. And on the off chance they don't speak English, they usually speak Russian. After three words its pretty clear if the person wants to continue talking, or go on his gloomy way down the street. |
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mateomiguel
Joined: 16 May 2005
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:23 pm Post subject: |
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I usually give an eyebrow raise. If that's not enough, screw you buddy. |
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RyanInKorea
Joined: 17 Jan 2008
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:25 pm Post subject: |
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RACETRAITOR wrote: |
Why? Do we share some secret bond because we have the same skin colour? |
No, but our skin color might show our link to the secret bond we all have being in Korea teaching English. The original question question wasn't if white people great other white people, it was do you greet other foreigners. Asshat.
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BS.Dos.

Joined: 29 Mar 2007
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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There was one FT I'd make a point of avoiding. |
Ditto, but I've heard his contract, which wasn't offered for renewal, expired at the end of March. By all accounts he didn't teach for the last couple of months of his contract as the school had already found a replacement. Why they honoured his contract etc is beyond me. |
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Cerriowen
Joined: 03 Jun 2006 Location: Pocheon
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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Eye-contact = nod and smile
Hello = Hello, nod, smile
No eye contact = chasing them down and beating the living hell out of them |
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