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moosehead



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:13 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

tob55 wrote:
I see my share of violent act towards students in my school. Most of it comes from the students themselves, but a share of it comes from the teachers. I don't condone the use of corporal punishment when disciplining students, but I also recognize that some of my students are soon to be candidates for the Korean Penal System, so I can understand the position of some of the teachers.

Much of what goes on leading to the behavior of teachers has much to do with the fact that the students we are getting from other schools these days simply have no respect for authority. Surely, there are a portion of the teachers who could use anger management classes, but on the occasions when the teacher loses their cool, I don't intervene in any way.

You need to remember that if the teacher goes over the top, which many do, they will be dealt with by the school based on the system in place. Korea is not "western" in terms of law suits and having people arrested for violent acts against adults or minors. In most situations they are using the intimidation and control to establish who the boss is.

However, if a foreigner becomes involved, the situation immediately takes on a more serious turn. Foreigners can be charged with crimes that would not be applied equally to the Koreans simply because they are "Koreans." Your best option if you don't like what you see, is to leave the room or get someone Korean to come and intervene. I understand everyone's feelings on this, but you are risking much more than your own sense of right when interfering in these types of situations. Honestly, it just isn't worth landing in jail, just because you thought you were helping.



what a cowardly display of arrogance and misinformation!!

first of all, everyone needs to take a breath and think about what the word discipline means in comparison to acts of violence.

children who act out violently are responding to what they've been taught - either by their parents or school or both.

these children do grow up and sometimes become the teachers, or principals, etc. violence DOES beget violence, it's a proven fact.

saying such idiotic remarks as "turnabout is fair play" oh my god - so if a 7 year old strikes me in a fit I'm supposed to land a good one on him/her?

we are TEACHERS for goodness sake!! it is perfectly acceptable for you to state your disapproval of violent acts by Korean teachers and/or staff towards the students!!

I have stood up in regards to violence a number of times - I've yet to ever be arrested for doing so. I've not witnessed violence in such a situation as the one described in this post but perhaps that's because I always state my position against beating students in the intial interview with whatever school I am talking to at the time.

There are a number of schools in K where students are NOT beaten or struck in any form whatsoever. There are plenty of parents, citizens, who do NOT approve of violence towards children - tho it is indeed, widespread and a very serious problem.

If you witness something and you want to speak out, by all means, be an ADULT and DO SO. Take a deep breath, and say what you want - it doesn't matter if you aren't completely understood - PEOPLE WILL UNDERSTAND YOUR TONE OF VOICE AND BODY LANGUAGE IF YOU TRY AND INTERRUPT SUCH VIOLENCE.

Defending a CHILD is ALWAYS a good idea. Does it really make a difference WHERE you are? Are some of you so bereft of humanity you would honestly stand by and let this happen? If so, you should be ASHAMED! you are PART of the problem NOT the solution!

Yes, I realize not everyone has courage, or fortitude, or integrity, but with time, one can definitely learn how to develop these very positive traits. I only hope more of you will and posts like the one above will lessen over time as well as the OP which demonstrated such an incredible lack of sensitivity towards children.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 5:48 pm    Post subject: Opinion Reply with quote

moosehead, you are certainly entitled to your opinion. Perhaps when you have been teaching for 28+ years as a trained educator, and seen the things I have seen, and been in the situations I have personally been involved in, then and only then will you understand why I said what I did. It isn't being cowardly or arrogant to stay out of situations that are none of my concern. As I mentioned, if you would have taken time to look, I don't condone the use of corporal punishment for any reason, especially when it commonly crosses over to violence, in which cases I have intervened by getting a Korean teacher to come in and handle the situation.

There are much better ways to discipline than picking up the first thing you can find and flinging it at a student, or choosing to break their arm, as I saw one teacher do. There are many instances in which I was observer to the methods of discipline taking place in the Korean classroom, and honestly, I disapproved of them all, because I am a decent and professional person who places high value on dignity and doing the right thing. You falsely assume that I am arrogant and a coward, just because I choose to take a different route than you. What works for you may be fine in your world, but in the vast majority of classrooms across Korea it doesn't, and that has been proven as well.

You say yelling disapproval at the actions of a teacher will work, but commonly it doesn't work. I said don't intervene, i.e. put your hands on a Korean teacher to try and stop them. Go ahead, put your hands on one of the Korean teachers doing their thing, and find out who lands in jail. I promise you, it won't be the Korean teacher you are trying to stop. Secondly, the Korean teachers don't generally give you a passing thought. You don't exist in their world, so to stand about and yell your disapproval while they continue to injure or maim a student because you think that will work is foolishness. If you want to get something done then go get another Korean teacher or administrator who can and will do something about the situation.

You don't walk in my shoes, so don't ever put yourself in a superior position to me just because you think you have the answers to all the worlds problems. You don't live in my situation, so don't begin to assume you know what it is like to work and teach in my school. You don't know me, so don't go around placing character judgments on people just because you are veiled in anonymity through this forum. It speaks much more about you as a person than your attempt to berate someone's character by making the remarks you have.


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 9:41 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

moosehead wrote:
tob55 wrote:
I see my share of violent act towards students in my school. Most of it comes from the students themselves, but a share of it comes from the teachers. I don't condone the use of corporal punishment when disciplining students, but I also recognize that some of my students are soon to be candidates for the Korean Penal System, so I can understand the position of some of the teachers.

Much of what goes on leading to the behavior of teachers has much to do with the fact that the students we are getting from other schools these days simply have no respect for authority. Surely, there are a portion of the teachers who could use anger management classes, but on the occasions when the teacher loses their cool, I don't intervene in any way.

You need to remember that if the teacher goes over the top, which many do, they will be dealt with by the school based on the system in place. Korea is not "western" in terms of law suits and having people arrested for violent acts against adults or minors. In most situations they are using the intimidation and control to establish who the boss is.

However, if a foreigner becomes involved, the situation immediately takes on a more serious turn. Foreigners can be charged with crimes that would not be applied equally to the Koreans simply because they are "Koreans." Your best option if you don't like what you see, is to leave the room or get someone Korean to come and intervene. I understand everyone's feelings on this, but you are risking much more than your own sense of right when interfering in these types of situations. Honestly, it just isn't worth landing in jail, just because you thought you were helping.



what a cowardly display of arrogance and misinformation!!

first of all, everyone needs to take a breath and think about what the word discipline means in comparison to acts of violence.

children who act out violently are responding to what they've been taught - either by their parents or school or both.

these children do grow up and sometimes become the teachers, or principals, etc. violence DOES beget violence, it's a proven fact.

saying such idiotic remarks as "turnabout is fair play" oh my god - so if a 7 year old strikes me in a fit I'm supposed to land a good one on him/her?

we are TEACHERS for goodness sake!! it is perfectly acceptable for you to state your disapproval of violent acts by Korean teachers and/or staff towards the students!!

I have stood up in regards to violence a number of times - I've yet to ever be arrested for doing so. I've not witnessed violence in such a situation as the one described in this post but perhaps that's because I always state my position against beating students in the intial interview with whatever school I am talking to at the time.

There are a number of schools in K where students are NOT beaten or struck in any form whatsoever. There are plenty of parents, citizens, who do NOT approve of violence towards children - tho it is indeed, widespread and a very serious problem.

If you witness something and you want to speak out, by all means, be an ADULT and DO SO. Take a deep breath, and say what you want - it doesn't matter if you aren't completely understood - PEOPLE WILL UNDERSTAND YOUR TONE OF VOICE AND BODY LANGUAGE IF YOU TRY AND INTERRUPT SUCH VIOLENCE.

Defending a CHILD is ALWAYS a good idea. Does it really make a difference WHERE you are? Are some of you so bereft of humanity you would honestly stand by and let this happen? If so, you should be ASHAMED! you are PART of the problem NOT the solution!

Yes, I realize not everyone has courage, or fortitude, or integrity, but with time, one can definitely learn how to develop these very positive traits. I only hope more of you will and posts like the one above will lessen over time as well as the OP which demonstrated such an incredible lack of sensitivity towards children.


Wah, wah, wah..... There's always somebody that has to come in and try to be the "mature" one using words, like insensitve, childish and understanding. Maybe if you had some understanding of the country and situation you would get of your high horse and realize that corporal punishment is needed at times. And if you don't agree, shut up, grin and bear it. Because it's certainly not your place to be the world police within the school system. I'm not saying that violence is the answer. But a good slap to the head isn't going to hurt a 14 year old kid. It might make them think twice before pummelling another student or stealing from the staff.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 9:49 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

FUBAR wrote:
moosehead wrote:
tob55 wrote:
I see my share of violent act towards students in my school. Most of it comes from the students themselves, but a share of it comes from the teachers. I don't condone the use of corporal punishment when disciplining students, but I also recognize that some of my students are soon to be candidates for the Korean Penal System, so I can understand the position of some of the teachers.

Much of what goes on leading to the behavior of teachers has much to do with the fact that the students we are getting from other schools these days simply have no respect for authority. Surely, there are a portion of the teachers who could use anger management classes, but on the occasions when the teacher loses their cool, I don't intervene in any way.

You need to remember that if the teacher goes over the top, which many do, they will be dealt with by the school based on the system in place. Korea is not "western" in terms of law suits and having people arrested for violent acts against adults or minors. In most situations they are using the intimidation and control to establish who the boss is.

However, if a foreigner becomes involved, the situation immediately takes on a more serious turn. Foreigners can be charged with crimes that would not be applied equally to the Koreans simply because they are "Koreans." Your best option if you don't like what you see, is to leave the room or get someone Korean to come and intervene. I understand everyone's feelings on this, but you are risking much more than your own sense of right when interfering in these types of situations. Honestly, it just isn't worth landing in jail, just because you thought you were helping.



what a cowardly display of arrogance and misinformation!!

first of all, everyone needs to take a breath and think about what the word discipline means in comparison to acts of violence.

children who act out violently are responding to what they've been taught - either by their parents or school or both.

these children do grow up and sometimes become the teachers, or principals, etc. violence DOES beget violence, it's a proven fact.

saying such idiotic remarks as "turnabout is fair play" oh my god - so if a 7 year old strikes me in a fit I'm supposed to land a good one on him/her?

we are TEACHERS for goodness sake!! it is perfectly acceptable for you to state your disapproval of violent acts by Korean teachers and/or staff towards the students!!

I have stood up in regards to violence a number of times - I've yet to ever be arrested for doing so. I've not witnessed violence in such a situation as the one described in this post but perhaps that's because I always state my position against beating students in the intial interview with whatever school I am talking to at the time.

There are a number of schools in K where students are NOT beaten or struck in any form whatsoever. There are plenty of parents, citizens, who do NOT approve of violence towards children - tho it is indeed, widespread and a very serious problem.

If you witness something and you want to speak out, by all means, be an ADULT and DO SO. Take a deep breath, and say what you want - it doesn't matter if you aren't completely understood - PEOPLE WILL UNDERSTAND YOUR TONE OF VOICE AND BODY LANGUAGE IF YOU TRY AND INTERRUPT SUCH VIOLENCE.

Defending a CHILD is ALWAYS a good idea. Does it really make a difference WHERE you are? Are some of you so bereft of humanity you would honestly stand by and let this happen? If so, you should be ASHAMED! you are PART of the problem NOT the solution!

Yes, I realize not everyone has courage, or fortitude, or integrity, but with time, one can definitely learn how to develop these very positive traits. I only hope more of you will and posts like the one above will lessen over time as well as the OP which demonstrated such an incredible lack of sensitivity towards children.


Wah, wah, wah..... There's always somebody that has to come in and try to be the "mature" one using words, like insensitve, childish and understanding. Maybe if you had some understanding of the country and situation you would get of your high horse and realize that corporal punishment is needed at times. And if you don't agree, shut up, grin and bear it. Because it's certainly not your place to be the world police within the school system. I'm not saying that violence is the answer. But a good slap to the head isn't going to hurt a 14 year old kid. It might make them think twice before pummelling another student or stealing from the staff.


another product of the screwed up North American school system.

I remember when I came to America as a kid, my parents would flat out encourage the teachers to whack me if I was ever out of line in class.

The teachers of course looked at them like they were crazy, thinking I need to get fired or a lawsuit like I need a hole in my head, but my parents meant it.

yes, little Johnny or Jane was STEALING because they are "misunderstood", so instead of whacking them upside the head, we should strive to UNDERSTAND them.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:12 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

bogey666 wrote:


another product of the screwed up North American school system.

I remember when I came to America as a kid, my parents would flat out encourage the teachers to whack me if I was ever out of line in class.

The teachers of course looked at them like they were crazy, thinking I need to get fired or a lawsuit like I need a hole in my head, but my parents meant it.

yes, little Johnny or Jane was STEALING because they are "misunderstood", so instead of whacking them upside the head, we should strive to UNDERSTAND them.


Why is KNOWLEDGE or UNDERSTANDING so often presented as an EITHER/OR sort of thing, I've always wondered.

Perhaps the answer is, "Simplification is comforting." Very Happy Laughing Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 10:39 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

FUBAR wrote:

But a good slap to the head isn't going to hurt a 14 year old kid.


Here's the refutation to your line of reasoning (on the off chance it hasn't occurred to you yet).

People are emotional beings. When you decide to indulge the violence urge, there aren't very reliable parameters that restrain that urge and the possibility of inflicting grevious bodily damage increases as a result.

Saying, "Oops" later just doesn't cut it.

On a more pedantic note, it's "14-year-old kid,' not "14 year old kid." (Your English students might just want to know how to do it right.) Very Happy Laughing Very Happy
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:57 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

R. S. Refugee wrote:
FUBAR wrote:

But a good slap to the head isn't going to hurt a 14 year old kid.


Here's the refutation to your line of reasoning (on the off chance it hasn't occurred to you yet).

People are emotional beings. When you decide to indulge the violence urge, there aren't very reliable parameters that restrain that urge and the possibility of inflicting grevious bodily damage increases as a result.

Saying, "Oops" later just doesn't cut it.

On a more pedantic note, it's "14-year-old kid,' not "14 year old kid." (Your English students might just want to know how to do it right.) Very Happy Laughing Very Happy


yeah whatever.

whacking people upside the head when violating a BASIC rule of society (such a stealing) is a tried and true societal and childrearing method that has successfully worked since the inception of mankind.

only in the last several decades has the institutionalized form of quackery (e.g. psychatrists) decided we should try to "understand" Little Johnny. (because this they're trying to cultivate clientele)

I actually DO want to understand why little Johny was stealing... but only AFTER I slap him upside his head.

the ongoing pussification and lawyerization of American society where the concept of INDIVIDUAL RESPONSIBILITY no longer exists. - it's never your fault.. it's the school's., the environment's, your parents', etc etc etc

that's one of the highlights of being abroad. Nobody has bought into any of this complete bullshit.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jay-shi wrote:
I was trained in restraint methods by the RCMP.


I think you give sound advice but when I read this I laughed out loud.

Maybe not the best time in the "Force's" history to be stating that! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I went to elementary school during the "corporal punishment" era and also remember reciting the Lord's prayer in the morning!

Anyhoooo.... Fck little Johnny! kick the little fuggers' asses if they deserve it. In the end they'll thank you for it. It might not be now or even a few years from now, but one day they will think to themselves or tell people, "Yeah, I was a real azzhole when I was younger and needed a good tuning."

Otherwise, they turn out to be sheit rats. Rats that behave poorly in society. You wonder about that guy that blows smoke in your face and doesn't care or the guy riding down the sidewalk on his motorcyle and aims right for pedestrians - they are the type I'm talking about. They were spoiled by mommy and daddy and were never taken out back behind the woodshed when they acted like azzholes, like they should have been.

there are too many pricks in these schools that are just begging for a shit kicking. I say if you got a teacher that's willing to put his/her ass on the line and dish it out, then hell yeah! give it to them.

The problem is, they aren't getting put in their place at home by mom and dad. Mom and dad are failing them and it's a tough call whether a teacher should step in. I wouldn't be comfortable with that role but like seeing other teachers who are willing to pick up the slack.

And sometimes we need to kill a chicken to scare the monkeys.

Get my drift?
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 5:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are better methods of discipline then hitting. Studies show it and all well trained teachers know this too. Teachers who are proactive should be able to avoid most behaviour problems. However, every now and then there are kids that are just down right bad. In those cases teachers should use the mechanisms that society has in place to deal with deviant behaviour. If kids are stealing $100s of dollars then call the cops and charge them with theft. If a kid hits a teacher kick them out of the school and let their parents figure out how to deal with the little arseholes. Using violence as a punishment teaches children to deal with their problems using violence which in turn causes a more violent society. It also fails to teach children the true consequences of their actions. I don't know about you, but I would rather live in a world where people are intelligent enought to talk through there problems instead of using fists to solve them. Teachers that hit students are part of the problem not part of the solution.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:11 am    Post subject: Re: Opinion Reply with quote

tob55 wrote:
moosehead, you are certainly entitled to your opinion. Perhaps when you have been teaching for 28+ years as a trained educator, and seen the things I have seen, and been in the situations I have personally been involved in, then and only then will you understand why I said what I did. It isn't being cowardly or arrogant to stay out of situations that are none of my concern. As I mentioned, if you would have taken time to look, I don't condone the use of corporal punishment for any reason, especially when it commonly crosses over to violence, in which cases I have intervened by getting a Korean teacher to come in and handle the situation.

There are much better ways to discipline than picking up the first thing you can find and flinging it at a student, or choosing to break their arm, as I saw one teacher do. There are many instances in which I was observer to the methods of discipline taking place in the Korean classroom, and honestly, I disapproved of them all, because I am a decent and professional person who places high value on dignity and doing the right thing. You falsely assume that I am arrogant and a coward, just because I choose to take a different route than you. What works for you may be fine in your world, but in the vast majority of classrooms across Korea it doesn't, and that has been proven as well.

You say yelling disapproval at the actions of a teacher will work, but commonly it doesn't work. I said don't intervene, i.e. put your hands on a Korean teacher to try and stop them. Go ahead, put your hands on one of the Korean teachers doing their thing, and find out who lands in jail. I promise you, it won't be the Korean teacher you are trying to stop. Secondly, the Korean teachers don't generally give you a passing thought. You don't exist in their world, so to stand about and yell your disapproval while they continue to injure or maim a student because you think that will work is foolishness. If you want to get something done then go get another Korean teacher or administrator who can and will do something about the situation.

You don't walk in my shoes, so don't ever put yourself in a superior position to me just because you think you have the answers to all the worlds problems. You don't live in my situation, so don't begin to assume you know what it is like to work and teach in my school. You don't know me, so don't go around placing character judgments on people just because you are veiled in anonymity through this forum. It speaks much more about you as a person than your attempt to berate someone's character by making the remarks you have.


one must wonder what you've been trained in to assume YOU know ME and what I'VE been trained in??? huh???

yes, you are a COWARD as is anybody who stands by with the slimy excuse of "it's none of my business" or "someone might call the cops and I'd be in trouble because I'm the foreigner here."

As stated, I happen to know firsthand of K parents who AGREE with me 100% and do NOT hit their children and will not abide by the schools doing so either.

I also DID NOT SAY yelling was the answer but spoke of how one's tone will be understandable if one voices disapproval upon witnessing acts of violence.

To Wit - I came out of my hagwon one night a few years back and happened upon a mother berating her son furiously, it looked like she was about to slap him, he was maybe 10 years old and she was already shaking him and screaming in his face. I walked over since I was only a few feet away and yes, I entered the fray full blast. She KNEW I was a teacher since it was an area where the only foreigners were teachers. I scolded her for being so hard on the boy and she immediately backed off. The boy looked shocked, no doubt feeling he deserved the abuse as victims often do.

Your "stay out of it it's not our business" is nothing short of turning a blind eye to injustice and social inequity - something that seems to be the norm for many folks since antiquity.

Sorry, but there are some of us who happen to disagree - and we are from ALL countries, ALL nationalities ALL cultures and we believe violence is NOT the answer to problems, be it in the classroom, the home, or the street.

It only takes one person to make a difference, you know.

One more time, if you aren't part of the solution, you're part of the problem. You can't sit on the sidelines on this one, it simply doesn't work that way.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pyongshin Sangja wrote:
I will definately smack you upside the head if you say definately again.


Yes.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:50 am    Post subject: Re: Smackdown in the Teacher's Room Reply with quote

yeremy wrote:
I was sitting at my desk today when a kid came into the teachers room, which isn't unusual during the breaks. Then he promptly snarled,and made made an obscene gesture towards a female teacher which I saw out of the corner of my eye, and the senior English teacher jumped over and smacked him upside the head with an open hand. Senior stood nose to nose with the student yelling at him for a few minutes until the student abruptly left. Afterwards, Senior heard a commotion in his homeroom, which is next door, and he quickly dumped his books, grabbed his wooden stick and furiously tore out of the teachers room. I was wondering what those of you, who are also in the public schools, have seen and heard first-hand.

In case you wondering, I was pissed that one of my co-teachers stooped so low. I don't condone it at all. If it happens in one of the classes we co-teach, I will definately say something and try to stop it.



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 3:02 pm    Post subject: Re: Violence and reaction Reply with quote

moosehead wrote:
what a cowardly display of arrogance and misinformation!!


Spare the rod and spoil the child. That is the truth and to deny it, worse to rage against it, is overweaning arrogance.

moosehead wrote:
first of all, everyone needs to take a breath and think about what the word discipline means in comparison to acts of violence.

children who act out violently are responding to what they've been taught - either by their parents or school or both.


Man is sinful from the womb. It is restraint that one learns. Look at nature red in tooth and claw.
Discipline comes from obedience and deference and self-control. But also from fear. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. That is why we say, Children must have the fear of God put into them sometimes.

moosehead wrote:
these children do grow up and sometimes become the teachers, or principals, etc. violence DOES beget violence, it's a proven fact.


There is unlawful violence and there is lawful violence.

"For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to the evil. Wilt thou then not be afraid of the power? do that which is good,a nd thou shalt have praise of the same.
For he is a minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath upon him that doeth evil."

moosehead wrote:
saying such idiotic remarks as "turnabout is fair play" oh my god - so if a 7 year old strikes me in a fit I'm supposed to land a good one on him/her?


You are inventing a fantastic situation to create a straw man for an argument.

moosehead wrote:
we are TEACHERS for goodness sake!!


And that is why is imperative that we uphold the God-given hierarchy and order of life. Youth must be trained and restrained from their evil desires.


moosehead wrote:
There are a number of schools in K where students are NOT beaten or struck in any form whatsoever. There are plenty of parents, citizens, who do NOT approve of violence towards children - tho it is indeed, widespread and a very serious problem.


Actually, this increasing trend towards hedonism, rebellion, feminism and socialism is the root of all new kinds of evil in Korea. I foresee a North American future for this place. They are fortunate in having a peninsula geographically isolated from the drug producers, but synthetic drugs will become their substitute.

moosehead wrote:
Defending a child is always a good idea. Does it really make a difference where you are? Are some of you so bereft of humanity you would honestly stand by and let this happen? If so, you should be ashamed! you are part of the problem not the solution!


Defend a child against arbitrary injustice and abuse, yes. Hinder his punishment and training, never. And if we are discussing middle school and high school, they are not little chidlren: a couple generations ago, most of them would have been married and working on the farm. They are ready to be responsible and take the consequences of their behaviour.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The teachers don't have sticks at my school. The students regularly beat the crap out of each other though. Mostly everyone ignores it unless they are blocking the hall.
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